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Yes. I'm simply put a more desirable man now, save for a few gray hairs and a couple wrinkles. Not sure how that's just some mano-swamp thing. If you're not a more confident, stable, secure man in your late 20s/early 30s than you were before, I'm not exactly sure what you're doing. But then again I own a home that's properly furnished, my only roommate is my four-legged wingman, and I can still go all night as easily as ever before. And I never feel the need to brag about that with women I'm cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:56 PM
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I think we stand with most rational people that it's not that every interaction has to be signed by both parties, notarized, and laminated and that it needs to be pending the results of a breathalyzer and a blood test. If one person is passed tf out or damn near it, or if they're like "I gotta get going" or the million other ways that consent isn't given, then there you go. You only have to explain this shit bit by bit to someone who has never had sex or has severe mental issues. I don't fw wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:58 AM
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Who the hell cares what "liberal females" think? I get your point but you're missing the point. If you're gonna do it, then do it. Don't bitch about not getting the validation from people you disagree with in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:34 AM
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Boy this thread took a turn for the weird. Besides the point, you ever consider how your response might be the result of current social conditioning? Any discussion regarding a man's preferences seem to draw a link to some nefarious agenda. Like "owning" someone. I mean, you don't have to look far to find the numerous studies out there linking high n count to future relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:28 AM
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We know for a fact one of them had some on the side. It's as easily plausible that they keep side action going because they're genuinely powerful.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/22 02:01 AM
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Had to call things off with my gf the other day. Ever since I hit a rut with a suicide of someone close to me, I opened up and was no longer the winner she picked at the finish line. Started becoming more disagreeable, less feminine and affectionate. Seemed less interested in being around me, I became little more than a cardboard cutout in her life. I'm just glad I took the initiative to make the move rather than let her do it. Maybe that's enough for her to resurface later as a plate, either wa…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 12:00 AM
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It isn't about fear. Social backlash has costs you have to be ready to pay. With social currency, actual currency, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:25 AM
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Yes, but there's a caveat. I wouldn't go around parading the pump and dump exploits. Women can create problems for a man she feels wronged her, even if it's all fair game. It's the unintentional patriarchy of feminism, similar to the unintentional white supremacy of so-called anti-racism politics. We create a social order of protected classes, where those outside the group must act like protective stewards of a perceived infantilized demographic with supposed limitations in autonomy. Know your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:30 AM
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This is absolutely the case. It's male nature, he will have a point of insecurity. In fact that's why men are driven to make more money, and get more fit. As those two increase, the buffer between him and his insecurities increases. Plus it allows him to be a virtuous. A man cannot be virtuous if only in a passive manner. Failed men lash out, it's our nature. That's why every functioning society has prisons jam packed with mostly failed men. Women have their burdens too, but the man's burden is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:12 PM
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You're using "force" in a rather strange context. Also, what really is "authentic female sexuality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:33 PM
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"It says here you once bought a house 10 years ago paying well over asking price and not even looking at the inside of it. Now why should I show you around the place, or give you any other reason to buy other than curb appeal? Frankly if you really wanted it, you'd prove it by making a serious offer right this second."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:09 AM
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I'm legit asking, are you alright? Because nothing I said was about anything you brought up. This is about rumor and hearsay. Whatever experiences you may have had, I sympathize and suggest you do what's best to recover from it. But you trying to weaponize that against my argument in a manner of which it's not even applicable isn't a discussion. It's verbal diarrhea, not some moral authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:30 AM
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The point is they care about male preservation as whole instead of female safety, they act like they are the victims when it is women who have to be entirely wary. I care about my preservation tbh. And at least I'm consistent about it. Women and men face dangers and need to shield themselves. You can preach about "rape is bad" but I'll just teach my daughter how to shoot a gun. Or use mace when she's in college. And DUH teacher should not be sexually engaging with students period my god, serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:39 AM
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ultimately it's still their own preservation they care about. Uhh, yeah? Because here's the thing you're overlooking. Most men don't sexually harass in the workplace. An overwhelming majority. So for most of us who have bills to pay and and an entire life that depends on us keeping our job, we're going to be cognizant of the potential outgrowths of this. Leave nothing to chance, no room for misunderstanding, even by a third party. Teachers were trained to do this too in the aftermath of all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:03 PM
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I said like. Not prefer. Everyone technically prefers the top tier. Though people often pair up on the basis of physical attractiveness level, unless one or both is fixated on promiscuity accessible to them. Sure you see instances of a guy with abs and his wife is overweight. Chances are she had several of his children and was a total babe beforehand. There is a such thing as unrealistic expectations. If women reach too far up, they often become promiscuous and lonely. If men reach too far up, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:09 PM
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You can take my word for it, or you can look up survey data, which ever you'd prefer. The hypergamy thing is overplayed. Yeah, a portion of women are. The real red pill isn't assuming all are, it's understanding some are and knowing even if you manage to get with one for a little while, she will bounce on you no matter how good things seem to be. That said, don't automatically expect a model looking chick to give you the time of day. It happens, but there are still attractive women out there wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:44 PM
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A significant portion of the female population likes dad bods. Truth is people have some fairly normal insecurities. I say that word with a grain of salt, mind you. Put it in a man's perspective. If you're average looking, you won't likely even catch the attention of a woman who looks like an IG model. Though imagine if you did. Imagine if one goes on a few dates with you and your slightly chubby, not very tall self. It'd feel great in some ways, high level validation. Except something would fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:16 AM
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No. And believe me I'm a firm right winger. Through that lens I think the modern world, for all it's comforts, has also produced a lot of unhappiness and lack of fulfillment. And modern feminism is a byproduct of this, largely for women. Men aren't really as expressive of their discontent, more likely to internalize. And then they self destruct. People need some "cause" to "fight for". Even if they have to make one up. 100 years ago it was pretty simple for women. They wanted to vote, among othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:30 PM
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There it is, the overused "male insecurity" tactic. A sense of sexual exclusivity matters, and that goes both ways. A man doesn't want to be thinking "wow, Brad, Nick, John, Jeff, etc etc basically did nothing for access to her sexually. So why do I have to bear the responsibilities of being a partner when all these dudes got to have a taste of it for nothing?" It matters, and it has nothing to do with insecurity of himself, but of the situation. If a woman's previous behavior consisted of fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:24 PM
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I feel like these comments are all a showcase of personal preferences. Really it all boils down to body count. Because a lot else is subjective. Or at the very least weighed differently. But body count? Lower is always better, but it's also relative. Maybe 70 years ago virgin was a reasonable expectation. A bit outlandish these days unless you met your wife in HS or she's one of those truly rare women that no man would touch (they exist, I genuinely feel bad for them).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:40 AM
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Realistically that's obvious. Also, the standards you set are only as valid as they are realistic. Man or woman. And hey by all means reach outside your league. But if you can't reach it with a 39 foot pole, then I think there's a lack of validity. For your own sake, don't delude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:05 AM
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It's overblown. If you're single and failing to find LTR for an extended period of time despite wanting it the whole time, then you're going after what's unavailable to you. Or you're not actually putting yourself out there at all. Man or woman. The only difference is that a man can level up easier even as he gets past his 20s and find someone younger. Of course he'd have to actually level up, not just have the things going for him that he already should have. A 33 year old woman willingly going…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:39 PM
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Monogamy is traditional (at least of the last few hundred years or so), so there absolutely must be some element of old school built in or it cannot work. The easiest way is a man out earning the woman. That's not where the trend is headed though. But there's other elements built in, so maybe you don't necessarily have to out earn your woman, keep in mind that's still low hanging fruit. Bare minimum stuff. She needs to feel your masculine presence somehow. Or all of a sudden you're never having …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:47 AM
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I'm not sure I get the give in and settle part. If someone is choosing this, then why would they be giving in?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:44 PM
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I wasn't happy when I was last single. But the truth is I got into my current relationship to override my genuine unhappiness. And this is nothing against her personally, she's great and I enjoy her on a level beyond the sex. Though I see it coming to an end due to diverging plans of what our futures will look like. I'm prepared for it, and I'm prepared to do the single life right. Already implementing the life changes that will support my happiness with or without her. My diet has turned a 180,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:20 PM
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It happens. Hard next though. You must set a standard no matter how initially interested you were in her. Forget about totally not showing up. No advance notice whatsoever coupled with an honest attempt to reschedule to a day/time soon after? It's never gonna happen. She changed her mind, or was never that interested to begin with.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:11 PM
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I mean, single moms aren't for me since I've had (and could have) options and don't need to take that "extra chance" on one. I'm not telling you don't do it under absolutely any circumstance, but I'd suggest you understand the questions that need to be answered honestly. Is she fully ready and willing to both give and receive another man's affection? Or is she conflicted by bitterness over the past? is the biological father in the picture at all? There really should be a setup where if things go…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:35 PM
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Here's a thought, because it seems you're implying that you've been banging this woman on multiple occasions. Assuming that, maybe there's a reason she keeps coming back despite you not lasting very long. Don't get me wrong, there are ways to improve this not involving the tactical nut. But consider that she might be enjoying your savage desire for her. Because women love that. Their get off isn't solely on the basis of continued genital friction over a long period. I'm not pounding my gf for 20…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:25 PM
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The bad: You kind of force that whole "look at me and my well-traveled self" thing. Don't shoot your whole load too early. The meh: Sometimes going straight to the ask out is a dodgy move, even if she is initially interested. Women are a volume knob more than an on switch. Not objectively a bad move, but just like sex most women don't care for directly going to the heavy hammering. Unless that occasional vibe is there. The good: Her early level of conversational engagement seems solid.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:58 AM
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Demanding it gets you nowhere unless done in an obviously humorous way. If she genuinely feels like you're making serious demands, she's going to string you along. And you'd probably deserve it for giving off an air of entitlement. Pursuit and expression of desire are different things entirely. I don't know how you exactly "demanded" it or what the actual context was. But the way you're putting it makes you sound a bit creepy and desperate.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:38 PM
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It'll pass yo, quicker than you think if you don't dwell on it and continue to hunt for someone else. Came across one myself not long ago. Cute face, thicc in all the right ways, expressed her desire to be a wife and mother at some point. She flaked last minute. So I took a day to myself. Worked out, put on some loud music and got shit done. I wasn't pissed that I lost out on her, the idealized version of her in my head turned out to not exist. At least not for me. I was pissed she flaked and wa…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:13 PM
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No, your response was good. A little sarcastic/humorous because that's honestly just something women say. A lot. One of the more common shit tests. "Sex? Good golly I would never!" In an exaggerated comical tone. "Now what gave you the idea that ever crossed my mind?" Works especially when prior conversations with her were very sexual in nature. Truth is attempting to answer it sincerely can sink your boat in a number of ways. Notice how I said sincerely, not honestly. I'm not telling anyone to …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:09 PM
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Unless you can verify a mechanical problem (I mean that's not hard to test out) then it's something with the motherboard. Could have been performance anxiety. In which case the best way to lose that is to treat yourself to her. Sex is a buffet, not some Michelin star place where you eat what they bring you in a specific order and you're worried about using the wrong fork. If you wanna put Tsos chicken in your lo mein, go right ahead. You're in control, and most women like that. They wanna see yo…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:54 PM
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Hey I've been there. But the world doesn't care that you've got a boatload of testosterone and no idea what to do with it. Not as forgiving that sometimes horny young men push boundaries a little by mistake. When I was a teenager if I came on a little strong with a woman it was as simple as back off when she says no. Now you kinda have to be a little more careful. In a way though that's a good thing in terms of how to keep a woman wanting to come back for more. Learned about subtlety, self contr…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:01 PM
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It may not necessarily be, but if you told me it was I wouldn't be surprised. I lived close to it for 7 years (in San Antonio), kept up with area politics a little, known my fair share of folks from there. Consider this: hipster reputation, major university, tech industry, and obv the big govt presence being the state capital. Then you have the "Keep Austin Weird" thing to boot. The town prides itself on being a big "fuck you" to the rest of TX.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:47 PM
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Really doesn't matter what you put there as long as it's not bitchy or creepy. You gotta be good looking to get matches. And I'm not even saying perfect either. I'm in need of some weight loss myself but my face is a solid 7 minimum when my beard is trimmed up nice. Get a solid back and forth in with her and ask her out. Maybe pick up on clues of what she'll like to do. For example, one I'm trying to plate (maybe more?) doesn't drink. So, obviously no bars. Another one talks about her love of wa…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:37 PM
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Keep the hands off the ass, thighs, boobs, and crotch until she's all over you and removing her clothes. Otherwise it's potentially sexual harassment. You really wanna risk that over some random chick be my guest. But I wouldn't. Plenty of other ways to escalate, but it sounds like you're sitting around "E" jumping straight to "T". One step at a time there, horny guy.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:23 PM
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You obviously are looking at cities in the US, and it's quite difficult to find larger cities that aren't rife with wokeness. Jacksonville, FL is probably your best bet. If you can get past the heat of course. FL is run by arguably America's best governor currently, there's no state income tax there, and it's one of very few cities over 500K people that lean conservative. Aside from that you could check out cities of around 80k-200k people. You're more likely to find less wokeness among those pl…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:50 PM
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Not so much Texas. Yes the state itself is pretty red but the cities (where the IT jobs are often located) are extremely leftist.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:41 PM
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Language of bitterness. The result is often shaming tactics. Just like women who think on the other side of their massive flaws is some great thing about them which makes it worth it. "If you can't handle my worst, you don't deserve my best", "not man enough", "are intimidated by" bullshit. Man or woman, if you're not getting the partner you desire, you need to become more worthy of it. It's just easier for men to figure it out (or should be) because they'll never even get their foot in the door…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:40 PM
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I'm 29 and I don't seem to have issues with that. In fact I generally prefer women between 22 and 25. For potential partners I mean. Most likely if she's past 27 and single she's only good for sex. Of course by then she's probably bitter and trying to exert alpha traits out of said bitterness. There's a subset of women who want an older man because he will bring a lot to the table. Financial stability, ready to settle down, decisive, protective. A man past his wild phase is sought after by worth…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:43 PM
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No such thing as an unattractive man who has resources and in good shape. Plenty of guys start balding at that age. Chase money and lift weights, that's all you gotta do.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:56 AM
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Why would you care enough to be scoping out her shit? She don't gotta live by your rules, hoes will be hoes and that's that.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:52 AM
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Ewww. I know I'd hard pass on the possibility of sloshing around in another guy's nut. I've hard nexted just for raunchy pussy. Clean yo nasty ass up girl.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:40 PM
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I wouldn't overthink it. I've had plenty of first dates where barely anything happened. And then by the second date, everything happened. But the mentality that you came off all wrong is probably not a good thing long run, unless you actually did something dumb.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:35 PM
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The decision of whether she's yours or it's just your turn is not one you make solely. Absolute best thing you can do is entertain another prospect. Be prepared just in case you're left with no choice but to walk away. Goes without saying be discreet.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:14 AM
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If she stalls out, leave her there and do not under any circumstances double text. Matter of fact, don't even respond if she leaves it off on a dry message. One word, emoji, or anything bland. At this point you have about a 5% chance of a restart, but responding to nothing worth responding to or double texting will completely eliminate this. Do not under any circumstances lose frame. You can afford to slip out of it maybe after the third time you have sex with her. But you better get back in qui…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:10 AM
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What's done is done, take it as it comes. But in the meantime, you've built something up in your own mind and now you feel enslaved to this. Take a weekend. Go do something out of the blue. Something to remind you of your freedom, to remind you that there's a big crazy world out there and your petty BS is just that. Frivolous and nonsensical. Going forward don't build shit up too much. Take life as it comes, these are all little pit stops on the greater journey.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:15 PM
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Don't tip your hand. You don't need to. If your intentions of exclusivity have been made clear, then you need to walk away now. Say it with me: "I just don't see this going anywhere" Plenty of fish in the sea, but right now you're swimming with a shark in the water. Get back on the boat before you get hurt. Count yourself lucky you saw the shark beforehand.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:35 PM
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Is the attention from lower-value women typical for most of the rest of you guys in the out there? Of course it is. I have a little pudge on me despite being fairly tall and having a decent face. So I'm like an achievable Ryan Gosling to a 4 or 5. Truth is I'll still go out with one because there's rare instances where she's actually better looking in person, and may have serious LTR potential. This one I went out with I was amazed to find that her ass was godly though her profile didn't really …
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:54 PM
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Put a bunch of drugs and alcohol in your system and go to the cops saying a woman raped you while you were half conscious. You get laid consequence free AND you get fucked up too! Might even take her to civil court if her parents are loaded. Eeezy Peezy. Only issue is she may not ever have sex with you again. Ok that was a joke, but there are ways to cover your ass with each sexual encounter. Text messages before and after. Witnesses, obv not in the bedroom (unless you're into that) but maybe pe…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:29 PM
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Idk man. Penicillin used to work, not so much anymore from what I hear.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:06 AM
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One of many reasons porn doesn't do men any favors. Those 8"+ dicks represent like 2% of the population.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:58 AM
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Try yelling "CULO!!!" a bunch like that one Pitbull song. That guy seems to be doing alright for himself.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:32 PM
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Hey if that's what you're meant to be doing, other things have to wait. Or your social life works on narrow windows. Whatever it is, purpose comes first.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:42 PM
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Being unapologetically you is masculine. But here's the thing, don't be frivolous in lieu of eye on the ball flirting. Don't be anything in lieu of that, you're on a date. Sometimes we get nervous around someone new, and in fact we're not truly being ourselves. I ask myself, who am I? Well I certainly don't gotta be the guy my Dad, brothers, and friends see. But I make jokes, that's my nature. So I turn down the brutally dirty jokes and replace it with suggestive humor in a flirting way. You can…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:00 AM
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Usually it's easier in your early 20s. Everyone's got time for some dates. Unless you have kids or work 80 a week.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:43 AM
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What's crazy is I've never been stood up, in that way anyhow. I mean no text or call I guess 15? Truth is most times I get there second, not an intentional thing I just don't rush to leave. Kills the mood.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:26 AM
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I'm about a 7. I'd sooner marry/LTR a 5 with a great personality/character than an 8 with none of that. Knowing and willingly accepting never having sex with anyone but that 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:54 AM
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I have given it thought that I can be projecting my own behavior, but the logic follows.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 08:09 PM
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1) keep working. You only lose in every way by not doing so. There is no such thing as a trophy stay at home husband. It's an oxymoron. 2) understand that if she's a keeper, you're gonna be on the clock. Accept this. Her desirable trait of understanding will eventually conflict with her naturally occurring need to be with a provider. See needs to see you getting up early, and coming home tired and beat and still going. But she may hit the buzzer at any moment and you may have fallen short of her…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:02 AM
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Where in RP does it ever say go around and preach the philosophy? The guy clearly doesn't get it. Stoic people don't go telling the world how stoic they are. Hell, good people don't go telling people all about how good they are. The ideas we discuss here are like football practice. You don't stop in the middle of the third quarter for film study and walk throughs. And you certainly don't show the other team the playbook. Most women I go out with would probably never guess that I'm RP. Likely due…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:58 PM
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It isn't so cut and dry, but most forms of female simping are highly preferable to playing hard to get. The latter only works under specific circumstances, the former is preferable in most circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:16 PM
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Don't get emotional. That was probably my earliest piece of RP advice back when I was 15. From my mother, if you'd believe it. Never give her that power over you.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 07:30 PM
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I think this applies to all men who understand the game. I'm not ugly, but I wouldn't consider myself a Chad right now either. But even a Chad understands this. So if you're a 2 thinking you'll get an 8 or 9 just because she doesn't sleep around based on looks alone, good luck pal. You need to hit the gym and get yourself up to a 6 or 7 and then you have a chance. Because the Chad with no personality is still gonna have a 100x better chance than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:10 PM
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You broke frame on the woman. Good job handling William Wallace, but Shamu? Idk, you really poked the bear.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:24 PM
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It's a plate. Don't overthink it. If she wants to do stuff she'll reach out and be available. Otherwise, who cares? Point of origin, stop worrying about what she's doing. Worry about what you're doing.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:35 AM
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Are you attracted to her sexually? If no, leave it. If yes, let it happen. If she wants more than that, she should demonstrate value beyond it. And this should take time, past the point where she's comfortable enough to be herself and not just what she thinks you want her to be.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:31 AM
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Learn to shrug it off and maintain frame and focus. Life is full of disappointments, even unexpected ones. Women or otherwise. I've been house hunting lately in a very hot market (Nashville area). Trust me, you buy a cardboard box there on .2 acres and you'll sell it in 5 years with fat returns. I put an offer on one I really liked, after several falling through because I was outbid. Did my homework, made sure mine was the highest offer without going overboard. The house was as good as mine. Unt…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 10:17 PM
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Yeah this is my life currently over the past month and a half. Even my tinder matches are probably picking up electromagnetic signals from my fried brain. Saying "don't screw around with this guy, he's a mess right now". I'd chalk some of this up to me buying a house right now and about to move 700 miles away. But even still, one little added stress and I go off the rails.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 06:55 AM
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The habitual clubbing type. Serial barhopper. As opposed to the type who's more into hobbies, outdoor activities, working out, etc. Actually hobbies are ideal things for LTR-qualified women (and men). Hobbies tend to kill the opposite extremes of narcissism and neediness.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:05 PM
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I had this same question awhile back. Truth is there's no fool proof way. But there are things to help you vet them. party girl or nah? If she has a history, don't buy the whole she's ready to settle down. Bad boy phase is dog whistle for hypergamy. It's in her nature. Hard next. genetics. This goes a little past attraction though encompasses it. Family history of diseases, illnesses, whatever. friends with really bad relationship history. Not a hard next but keep an eye on that. social media pr…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:05 PM
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Don't tell her. I'd wear a rubber though, I mean aside from the obvious reason you also may not have a very strong pull out game at this point. You wanna impress her or at least not make her think you have no experience? Do the following: don't overthink the bra mechanics. Just pull the damn thing off of her. Like you're excited to go to town on them. the hole you're looking for ain't right up near the clitoris. If she's got major camel toe action going this may not be readily apparent to the un…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:43 PM
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If RP sows resentment in you, then you're missing the point. 30+ years of feminist society has conditioned women to tap into their worst nature. And worse yet, has conditioned many of us men to accept it while rejecting our basic, normal masculinity. That's where RP comes in to help some of us that have that resentment. And not to be angry or try to control that which we can't. But rather to navigate the society that has rejects goodness of men. Not passive, fake goodness. Real male goodness. No…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:38 AM
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For me it was a personal journey of getting back to who I was, but a better and more sustainable version of that. Because from puberty to age 20 I was pretty RP without even realizing it. Maybe not always holding frame but that's part of growing up. But at around 21 things changed. The party hard, unproductive lifestyle of my teen years caught up. Depression brought upon by lack of purpose. Shitbox car, living at home, getting fat, no career path whatsoever. Even my friends were sick of me. Goin…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:30 AM
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I have an itch every now and there. Something about being younger than her and get to pound her brains out. Plus if she had her tubes tied? Say no more.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:47 AM
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Uhh, no. My mother is one of my most trusted confidants, really for everything outside of shit one shouldn't discuss with their mother. In fact she's one of my earliest RP influences if you'd believe it. So naturally a good source of wisdom. I don't need to hold some frame.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:28 PM
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I'm not following the logic. You don't have balls if you tell your own blood to fuck off, but let your wife step all over you. It's only balls if your family is toxic and your wife is a better person than they are. When divisions are this deep, there's a right side and a wrong side. Balls is taking a stand for what's right.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:07 PM
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I'd step back and analyze this logically. this behavior is certainly not sustainable. women have an emotional nature. The perfect woman doesn't exist so it balances out to give some leeway to emotional bullshit while zero tolerance for hypergamous nature. For LTR, obviously. if she lacks hypergamous personality traits, an act of jealousy is an act of submission. If she wasn't loyal, she's trying to assert dominance. Otherwise a slap is likely a non habitual display of submission. Like a child oc…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:40 PM
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That's very broad, no pun intended. But I'll do my best. If you're questioning whether to chase or replace, the answer is almost always replace. Don't confuse who you'd fuck with who you'd relationship. Set clear criteria for both. Rejection isn't personal. Don't get angry or emotional. Don't argue with women. Hell even if they're right, admit it. But either way say your piece and full stop. Don't tolerate abuse. I always say if a woman is being beaten by her bf/husband, she should grab a gun an…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:48 AM
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Gotta set the hard boundaries. Be there when he absolutely needs you, but otherwise no go. Fact is he's brought a certifiably toxic element into the inner sanctum. And he's gotta be accountable for that. Ultimatum time, "I love you and always will, but we want nothing to do with Jen".
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:28 AM
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If you're really that concerned, and she's really down the rabbit hole, she'll reveal it one way or another. Weird hair colors are typically the first dead giveaway anyhow. Sometimes also accompanied by excessive tattoos and/or piercings. The latter especially. All else fails believe me she'll tell you all about it. But I don't think you should be concerned too much. I would consider having some form of proof for consent just in case though, but this probably applies to all women. Texts, hell ma…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:02 PM
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Well, the whole car sex thing is risque especially in broad daylight. But maybe the better word is spontaneity. One example was I live in East Texas. Woman I was plating a couple months was recently moved here and I invited her to go see alligators in the wild. Doesn't bother me, I know the do's and don'ts with these prehistoric monsters. Another one I was seeing spotted the piece I keep in my night stand. She'd never so much as touched a gun in her life (TX is really going downhill lol), so I w…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:11 AM
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Don't snag yourself up too much on oneitis. But slowly wean her off the benefits of your broken frame. She is grieving currently, so there is that. Gotta play by ear there. All in all though, it sounds like car sex is in order. What I mean is doing something with her a little "forbidden". Easiest way to boost things back up a little.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:02 AM
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Proceed with due caution for now. We tend to associate with the people we are like or want to become. My friends are all middle class and come from middle class. All raised in two-parent households. Same as me. There's hardly a coincidence there. Birds of a feather flock together for the most part. Mismatches don't really last. Either they drift apart or the negative behaviors often win out. The drug addict usually gets the sober friend high, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:38 PM
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Cliche as fuck, but you're only 22. I'm 29 and say that to myself as well. We all make mistakes, we all find ourselves at the butt of God's sick sense of humor here and there. And we will continue to do so until we die. So just continue to grow and learn, and accept that despite all that you'll continue to fuck up and learn some more. Be hard on yourself for the present and future, laugh at your past. You know why combat veterans often have a really sick sense of humor? It's how they cope with t…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:26 PM
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The goal is being a good man, and alpha characteristics are part of this. But one can espouse those traits and not be a good man. It's just you can't be a beta and be a good man. At least not by what I consider to be that. The capability to actively do wrong, yet choosing to do right. A beta who never gets laid can't truly call himself a good man on the basis of that he would never walk out on his own child. Pump and dump is on it's own the result of mutual incompatibility. I don't owe anyone fo…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:21 PM
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I agree with the frame of mind. To understand that whatever you got going on, it may just be your turn. A man of value has too much going on in his life to dwell on something so unpredictable and beyond his control. Especially when the viable alternative exists to simply let go and enjoy the moment. In fact, it's kind of nice when you do. Enjoy the sharing of your bed with someone and all the intimacy and pleasure associated. But know that in a month, a week, or even the next day it could be gon…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:34 AM
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Major costs associated, plus I do want my kids to have a mother. It's just as far as a wife goes, that's a no go.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:49 PM
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I set app timers on my phone. Just a little assist from the constant scrolling, swiping, etc. It's all an addictive life waster. Hardly better than video games, except this one might get you laid. And it really only works if you live in a highly populated area, so that you're more likely to land one that will quickly go out with you and possibly have sex with you. If you can't get a date quickly, it isn't gonna happen at all so don't waste your time. And even if it does maybe happen eventually, …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 07:08 PM
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As far as things sexual, I'm not gonna touch that one. But as a general piece of advice in the future, don't be telling a woman about your sexual conquests. Yes, she should see you in that light of "yeah he's a guy who certainly has options out there". But she has to arrive at that speculation independently.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:19 PM
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She wasn't yours, it was just your turn. That said, think about it like this. Say you're given the option of 80 different vehicles to choose from, totally free, you have to pick one and once you do you could never own any of the other 79 models. Like, that's your vehicle for the foreseeable future until it's 100% undrivable. Theoretically that could be like 40 years assuming regular maintenance and repairs. But... you can also test out each one for a day. No catch. You can do this as long as you…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:59 AM
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Should be doing anyway is what I should have said. Let's say you're not getting laid. Maybe you're unattractive. Why are you unattractive? You probably need to lose weight and/or build muscle. Things you should be doing anyway. Maybe got fucked up teeth because you're a smoker. You shouldn't be smoking anyway. Maybe it's your lack of social skills. The same social ineptitude is probably why you aren't getting that promotion at work. Or maybe why you have no friends. I don't think I'm missing the…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 11:43 PM
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It's the things you should be doing that's gonna get you more ass. Losing flab, building muscle, making money. Shit that gets you in the right mindset. Sure you can probably bag some low quality ass on social skills and nothing else, I've been there.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 06:58 PM
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Ok I'll admit I inserted my own anecdotes because the older generation of men in my family have mostly found something feasible by way of LTR/marriage. But like you said we're living in a different time now, which warrants exploration into legal alternatives to marriage. But LTR still holds value in my mind, it's just not the central focus of my existence. Either way it's a major risk to the prospect of having children. But that is a worthwhile cause and it's usually best to raise children in a …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 06:27 PM
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When it comes to this stuff I use TRP as a set of standards, not hardline rules. It's normal for both genders to want LTR as one of the many building blocks of a happy life. But we live in a society that increasingly validates life choices that go against those standards. So we have to navigate accordingly. Don't bitch about it, don't swear off the things that served our fathers and grandfathers well. The standards help men who are way too plugged in to make decisions on real LTR potential. To m…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 05:28 PM
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The brothers out there tried to warn us about thotfulness but we were all too plugged in for that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 08:27 PM
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White men? My earliest exposure to RP viewpoints were rap lyrics in the 2000s. Mainly black artists.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 06:02 PM
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Huh, my experience they never really go "up" from their dating profile. Even looks wise I usually assume an extra 10-15 lbs and decide if I can live with it. Although sometimes that rule gets broken as a pleasant surprise. But personality seems to be across or down. I never assume they suck at bios, I usually assume they want a different type of guy. If she says something like "let's smoke and chill", or inject their radical ass politics (TX is doomed if OLD is anything like irl in that sense), …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 01:08 PM
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I think the problem is men dont know how to use em. And I'm just speaking of personal experience as a guy who's been using them with moderate success. Keep in mind that I'm 6'0, 250 lbs. So I've got the height thing going but that 250 ain't all muscle and it's something I'm working on. Not for the women, really more for myself and my health. Although if I didn't have a sex life I'd probably be a little more motivated. You just gotta know the rules. make the messages count. It's not like real lif…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 03:33 PM
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I think it's an instinct we have that we ignore when we don't hold frame. That gut feeling when you think a situation is gaining or about to gain the upper hand on you. In recent years I've trained myself a lot better in trusting that instinct, rather than the impulse.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 01:51 AM
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