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You seem like you’re putting her on a pedestal. Don’t overthink it too much man or you’ll psych yourself out. She seems plenty interested to me especially if she’s agreeing to go places alone with you and initiating “date” ideas. If you wanted to wait to make your intentions known you’ve definitely waited long enough imo and may start risking getting friend zoned if you wait much longer. Don’t have to make it too serious just straight up tell her you’re interested her, if she reciprocated great,…
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 04:41 AM
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Yeah you’re right. I don’t mean to put her on a pedestal, I mostly meant wife material in that she’s a genuine girl that I wouldn’t want to just fuck then dump her to the side. By yeah I should just go into it with no expectations like you said and see what happens
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:26 AM
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Yeah you’re right, I didn’t look at it like that. The white night thing I might fall into being and I don’t want that but now I’m aware
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:25 AM
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If you quit doing something you enjoy just because of what people might think, you’re gonna look back and regret it man. I played baseball in high school and also played tennis to keep me in shape in the off season. Trust me no one is thinking “what a beta, he plays tennis”. And if you’re good at it you’re gonna regret quitting even more. If anything it makes you look a lot better than being someone that isn’t involved in anything
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:29 AM
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True, good point about holding frame
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:27 AM
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Thanks for the reply and advice man! Glad to know there's others with similar experiences out there
/r/seduction06/04/18 01:21 AM
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Appreciate the tough love haha but you have a good point, thanks for sharing man
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:40 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience man appreciate it
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:39 AM
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Great post. I agree that it's most important to build the relationships that are currently around you and that will help bring you success with women eventually. For awhile I got into that mindset of only engaging with women I thought I'd want to try to date, and went away from just trying to build relationships with people. Yes it's good to approach women you think are attractive, but if you obsess over just trying to get numbers/dates like I did for a bit it can be unhealthy. I think you just …
/r/seduction22/01/18 04:18 AM
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Yeah that's a good way to look at it
/r/seduction17/01/18 05:31 PM
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Stop having a beta mindset, take control and have the mindset that you're better than all these other guys even if you have to fake it at first. Be selfish and continue to work on yourself and have an abundance mindset and women will be drawn towards you. But if you're worried about this one girl then go and get her instead of sitting back and worrying about what she's doing and other guys
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:39 AM
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I tend to let this happen to myself a lot and I've noticed it messes with how I present myself to a woman. I've learned you have to go into it with the mentality of "abundance" and that there are plenty of other just as great women out there too. Plus if you're infatuated you probably have her on a pedestal and you don't even know her yet, so if she isn't a match with you personally it could be overlooked because of the infatuation. And if she isn't interested then it can effect you more if you'…
/r/seduction12/09/17 08:30 PM
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