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Not really, France, Germany, the US, etc. have similar birthrates. I think birthrates fall once children stop being an economic boost and start being an economic cost for families, which happens once a society is no longer rural.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:27 AM
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I think that material factors and the like are far more determinant of birthrate than ideology. Qatar for example is an extremely strict Islamic theocracy. Their birthrate? 1.84 per woman, below replacement. So it's not as simple as "conservative society = fecund society."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:34 PM
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I think society as a whole, including both men and women, were happier when it comes to relationships and the like in the pre-industrial past than today. (Obviously it’s a different story when it comes to say medicine, but we’re talking about relationships here). I once read about a radicalized Saudi Arabian in the 1970s. He described how before industrialization, men and women existed in a rural society in which both genders had carefully defined roles and duties. He explained how fulfilling th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:22 PM
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No, this fellow is a moron. Just give the password, why blow up a relationship over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:32 PM
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I don’t understand this. Is your partner not knowing your phone password really that common? In literally every relationship I know (within my family) the man and woman know each other’s phone, email, etc. passwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:31 PM
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That’s not what “sex work” means. People who sell the commodity of sex (prostitutes, pornstars, etc.) are sex workers. That does not make all women sex workers or all sex, sex work. (Heck, even sex workers engage in actual sex outside of sex work. These are two different things). The idea of sex work has little to imply when it comes to the way women see sex. I’m sure there are women out there ago who genuinely enjoy sex as much as men. And before you ask I’m also sure they’re a minority but my …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:54 PM
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I read this post and my initial question was "What if you don't like his opinions and wants?" I suppose your response would be "Perhaps we're not meant for a relationship then" but like that's why he's trying to be what you want him to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:57 PM
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I would prefer the term "Be strong! Be competent!". That's what you are saying when you say "man up!" I think "man up", if anything, is sexist in that it devalues femininity by casting strength as a purely masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:41 PM
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I appreciate the prayer, but if you want to pray for me, pray that I stop being so anxious/stressed all the time😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:35 PM
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Yeah, that's the thing. Objectively, it's not worth kicking off that firestorm solely in order to assuage my own anxiety. It would just be one of those dark little thoughts chilling in the crevices of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:15 PM
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I wouldn’t ask my partner for a paternity test; while I would like one I understand asking for one would be hurtful. As for accidental pregnancies I don’t plan on having sex with someone who’s not okay with pregnancy happening. (Perhaps TMI but I plan on not having PIV sex until such time as we are okay with having a child).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:06 PM
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It’s the norm in my religion and culture. I am open to it, but I’ve seen it both work out well and end disastrously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:51 PM
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I suppose so, although I would want some sort of thing to open it in the case of a medical emergency, pain, or whatnot. Maybe a box with a key that alerts her when opened. Perhaps it sounds absurd but if it would make her feel better such things can be arranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:49 PM
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I want children, yes. I would like to have said children with a partner whom I love and who loves me. I neither expect to be trusted nor do I offer trust. Or rather, I can trust but with verification, and I would be happy to offer my partner any verification she wishes, on any matter. Perhaps that is not a relationship many would like, which is okay. I feel to trust implicitly is to be foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:38 PM
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Some of us want those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:25 PM
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I think that this is an insecurity I would have, even if I was in a healthy, happy relationship. It is a mental flaw within me, part of a pattern of such “catastrophic thinking” that had been a part of my life for years now. That said, my hangups are my own, and I can understand why a woman would be hurt if I asked for a paternity test. Many women make it clear such a request, even if for the sake of my peace of mind, would be a relationship ending thing. So if I have a child I don’t plan on ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:23 PM
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It’s not the turtles you should worry for, it’s your endocrine system
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:09 PM
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It’s worth it if it means decreasing microplastic pollution
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:05 PM
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Climate change is only getting worse, and it will likely lead to the collapse of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:46 PM
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This is a NTR fetishist’s plot isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:13 PM
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Women with French accents are very attractive, and such women can only be found in Canada, France, and Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:12 PM
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Sounds like a lot of fun but how will you pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:06 PM
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That too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:13 PM
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I just can’t comprehend having a child and not wanting to be a part of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:08 PM
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It’s better to be alone than in an abusive relationship. Anyone who actually feels sad over not being able to attract abusers needs to develop their sense of self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:58 PM
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Daddy’s. And that man makes it very clear it is he and not me who runs the show that is my life. (If I sound resentful it’s because I am).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:00 PM
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It really depends on the circumstances. I am an American but I come from a fairly religious/conservative family, whose reaction to me being in a casual relationship would likely be a disaster. So for me marriage is basically the barrier to any sort of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:03 PM
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Yes. Getting or giving a BJ carries the risk of passing STDs or even increasing the risk for developing oral cancers. Only a foolish person would risk that in an anonymous setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:32 PM
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If you made me guess, I'd say less than 1% of bi married men. If you use such a thing you are begging for a STD to come wreck your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:16 PM
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What if the man had never done anything with another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:06 PM
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His mistake was not taking his wife with him to Vegas, his mistake was not taking her to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:52 PM
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Full sleeves. I like them, plus it's sun protection for the arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:36 PM
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Overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:19 PM
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Girl has a rape fantasy: no one bats an eye Guy has a cuck fantasy: everyone loses their mind This is the true double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:14 PM
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In my opinion physical/visual attraction is the most visceral and thus objectively the most desirable form of attraction. I wouldn’t say it’s enough to build a successful relationship on but without it there’s zero chance of anything happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:25 PM
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Thinking about hookups and dating reminds me of back when I tried dating apps in college. I didn’t get many matches but when I did get a match it gave me a massive “high” feeling. Like a heady, pleasant warmth in the chest that radiated outward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:16 PM
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I do not understand how it isn’t that serious. You aren’t hooking up with someone because they just happened to be there, it’s because you are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:13 PM
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Well, clearly we have wildly different views on the value of sex and what a person is saying when they engage in it with someone. I must confess I find your viewpoint incomplete, in that it reduces the act of sex down to the physical collision of bodies, stripping it of the deep emotional side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:29 PM
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They just looked like they wouldn’t totally suck in bed. And there is the validation: “he looks like he can make me feel good.” It seems you and your friends give that gift without thinking much of it, but maybe it means a lot more to the person on the receiving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:08 PM
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What else can hooking up mean? "He's physically attractive, he's funny/charismatic, I like him. I feel he'll make me feel good." Certainly those thoughts are going through a woman's brain (even if it's her subconscious) when she decides to hook up with someone. I want people to think that way about me. Perhaps one can argue that I shouldn't crave that sort of validation of my appearance and personality from an external source. But I do, and while hookups are not the only way to receive such vali…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:52 PM
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The way I see it, when a woman wants to hook up with you, she is stating: "I find you physically attractive and charismatic to the utmost degree, where my raw attraction to you drives me to want to sleep with you even though we just met." Why is it wrong to want someone to see me in that light?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:27 PM
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I don’t believe you, not because what you’re saying is unrealistic, but because anyone actually milking the system this way is smart enough to not post about it online while giving family details.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:32 PM
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I would do three things: Be a bit stricter with boys. I turned out somewhat successful with academics but I think that if my teachers had been stricter with me as a child when it came to things like handwriting, neatness, time management, etc. I would have benefitted from it for the rest of my life. More hands-on learning. I know the “kinetic/visual/auditory” pedagogy thing is discredited but I do feel there’s something to it. In my high school days I did literally hundreds of trigonometry probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:52 PM
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I’ve never done anything related to butt stuff and I don’t really like the idea of it, so I’m the wrong person to ask. But if my hypothetical gf/wife wanted me to perform oral sex on her butt, I’m insisting on a full clean out beforehand. I’d probably want her to put on a dental dam beforehand too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:33 PM
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I think it’s fine to have fetishes and desires. I think it’s good to talk to your partner about these things. But if your partner says “no” I don’t think that’s an excuse to use porn to “get your fix”. Nor is it their fault if you do. If fulfilling a fetish means that much to you (and I’m not saying it’s wrong if it is) then you need to find someone who will want to share that experience with you. Moreover seeing something in porn and then wanting to do it IRL is a recipe for disaster. Porn is l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:30 PM
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I think you raise interesting points. I would love to know about how “kinky” sex was back in pre-Internet time. I do suspect certain acts (oral sex, frankly) may have been somewhat common back in the day, while other things like BDSM are new, or at least were very rare before. Modern hygiene also factors into this; sex acts involving butt stuff have historically been a no-go for a reason. As for the modern world I think young men need to be given a reality check. If I have a son I plan on sittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:06 PM
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Well, I’m a guy who at various points in his life has had a very unhealthy relationship with porn. I don’t think it’s fair to blame men for getting addicted to porn. It’s a free, ubiquitous source of pleasure that can easily be kept a secret and which has minimal health side effects (no one’s ever died of a porn overdose). I think that it’s entirely understandable, even to women, why this thing gets so addictive for so many guys. I don’t think there’s an easy solution either. At the same time, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:44 PM
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Tell her the truth. The human heart is a delicate thing and trampling on someone's because I want pleasure is wrong. I think men who'd lie to get laid are being selfish and are putting their urges above their morals. I understand why but I think it's wrong. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:20 PM
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