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Inner Game stuff_of_legend/r/seduction26/01/21 10:18 AM
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Next time a girl says you’re handsome in that setting say: “then what’s your excuse for not kissing me?” 90% of the time she’ll be flushed and blushing and she either won’t know what to say or say something incoherent while blushing. don’t break eye contact and don’t say anything, just give her a half smile and either gently pull her towards you or move towards her for the kiss. You’ll get the kiss 60% of the time, 30% of the time she won’t kiss you in that moment but she will later and the rema…
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:59 PM
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Lear to be playful. Learn to flirt playfully
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:49 PM
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If you really want to get results you need to aim higher. Stop trying to just entertain her, stop trying to just get her number, your goal is to get her in that moment. When she’s on her way home she needs to think of your interaction like it’s the meet cute moment in a romantic comedy so you need to carpe diem. Aim for this kiss and your whole approach to game will change more radically from that than anything you’ll read on this sub, doesn’t mean that you’ll get the kiss but it means that you’…
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:45 PM
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Next time you see a girl that you want to approach, pretend that you’re going to approach her. Tell yourself “I’m not going to approach her but if I did approach her this is what I would do” or ask the question “how would I approach her if I was going to approach he?r” this line of thinking moves your mind away from excuses and taps into the creative side of your brain so you’re switching from left to right hemisphere. Then walk up to her as if you’re going to approach her, pretend that you’re a…
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:27 PM
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Best place to practice is where you live
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:19 PM
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Girls behave like that when they don’t like you or they like you but don’t know it. You need to pull the trigger and stop being in the guessing games zone
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:16 PM
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And STAY AWAY FROM WOMEN THAT WORK THERE because win or lose you’re pretty much ensuring that you can’t go to the store to approach women again, you need to be as inconspicuous as possible to the people that work there because that ensures that you can always come to the store and approach more girls.
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:09 PM
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Solo approaching is brutal because you’re in your own head the entire time and if you don’t find good strategies to put yourself in the moment it can result in issues that are detrimental to your seduction journey. I did it solo for many years because I didn’t have a wingman, I had many great successes doing solo but honestly the toll it takes on your mental wellbeing isn’t worth the effort if you plan on doing it long term. The most fun I had with the most effortless results was when I had a wi…
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:36 PM
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I usually tell her something along the lines of "covid will be around for years, we still have to live our lives" usually it gets her thinking.
/r/seduction17/03/21 01:21 PM
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You don't have to worry about being beta when you're already fucking her
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:53 PM
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Do daygame
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:50 PM
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A direct opener is hit or miss. It requires a lot of energy or a self amused frame to deliver it congruently and in most cases it requires the girl to be receptive to that kind of opener in that moment in order for it to be effective. So 0/4 is to be expected with the direct opener because the average is about 2/10, with it increasing to about 4/10 if your vibe delivers it well.
/r/seduction03/02/21 10:21 AM
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A lot of guys confuse weak behaviour for being nice. Not escalating is weak, not trying to kiss her at the first opportunity is weak, not leading the relationship is weak, hiding your attraction and sexual energy is weak, being afraid to touch her is weak, letting her get away with shitty behaviour is weak, hiding your true thoughts and feelings is weak, being afraid to walk away is weak. You can be a nice guy and get girls because it's not about nice guys vs bad boys, it's weak vs strong.
/r/seduction02/02/21 10:55 AM
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It's the Maxwell Maltz course to incorporate psycho-cybernetics principles into your life
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:34 AM
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Yeah. But the zero resistance 12 week course is the one that really showed results
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:53 PM
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Psycho cybernetics
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:22 PM
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If you're towering over her it's better to have gentle, relaxed body language. A big guy with dominant body language would scare the cat.
/r/seduction30/01/21 06:47 AM
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Was walking behind her, caught up and asked "is kissing cheating?"
/r/seduction28/01/21 06:21 PM
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She probably found someone new before y'all even broke up. Y'all probably broke up because of the someone new.
/r/seduction28/01/21 04:18 PM
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If she likes you it doesn't matter how quickly you reply. If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter how cool you play it.
/r/seduction28/01/21 04:16 PM
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She was walking down the street, I used an opinion opener, we had an instant date. Two days later we had sex, two weeks later she's my "girlfriend".
/r/seduction28/01/21 11:16 AM
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Nice one
/r/seduction28/01/21 11:13 AM
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It's all about the self image. You can develop a confident self image.
/r/seduction28/01/21 05:52 AM
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It would work, it can work very well because you go straight to flirt mode and if you know how to escalate you can close very effectively. The problem is that it work 10-20% of the time, largely based on whether she's in the mood for a flirty conversation and also based on your game to a degree. The remaining 80%+ of the time you'll get quickly rejected because she's not in the mood to flirt or because you're forcing her to judge your attractiveness based on a few seconds of information and it's…
/r/seduction27/01/21 11:18 AM
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Go indirect. Ask for directions then transition to a conversation
/r/seduction27/01/21 08:48 AM
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Evidence of his tools working for him in the real world.
/r/seduction27/01/21 08:47 AM
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I generally don't listen to people who don't have infields
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:09 AM
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Online dating is a scam if you're a guy. I saw some documentary that showed that even a a fat old lady gets exponentially more date with young good looking guys than a decent looking guy gets with below attractive girls. For every 50 swipes an average girl gets the average guy gets 1. Unless you look like a model you probably won't get beautiful women on an app. The reason we're able to get pretty women in the real world is because our personality and charm gets a chance to shine, and since girl…
/r/seduction27/01/21 05:47 AM
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True, when you're learning you don't have enough reference experiences. Once you've got the experience and you know how to handle any objection, hot to escalate, how to close the deal, then you need to relax with the constant approaching.
/r/seduction26/01/21 01:31 PM
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You can get 5 numbers in a day. Have you noticed how good your game gets after you've taken a break?
/r/seduction26/01/21 01:24 PM
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Do you know where_is? Where's a good place to? Which is better between product a and product b? Where's a good place for a guy to_? Is a Banana a a fruit of a vegetable? Do you think this would look good on me? Really just about anything really.
/r/seduction25/01/21 04:53 PM
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Indirect openers
/r/seduction25/01/21 11:09 AM
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Just the same as it's always been for me.
/r/seduction24/01/21 07:01 AM
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Funny thing is that most of the girls I've approached since covid behave just the same. Still able to kino escalate, do instant dates, make out and have sex
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:59 AM
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More like 2% of the population
/r/seduction24/01/21 06:57 AM
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You objective on the date should be to take her home, not a hug or getting a second date. Try taking the next girl home and try kissing her, you'll see how easy you get the second date when you push the first date to the absolute limit, even if it doesn't work, it gets her invested.
/r/seduction22/01/21 10:18 AM
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You have a long road ahead of you my friend.
/r/seduction22/01/21 10:14 AM
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This sounds likes something very unnecessary to even tell her
/r/seduction08/01/20 06:45 PM
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Use a condom. You'll only start fucking raw once you get a girlfriend and even then make sure your pull out game is on point otherwise you'll get trapped.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:04 PM
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Not worth it. Remember that girls don't waste your time, you're the one that wastes your time.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:59 PM
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You need prostitutes and a lot of them, you have a lot of sexual experience to make up for. It's not as hard as you might think to have sex with a hooker, just focus on being comfortable with the physical. No matter how you slice it, the "wife" you will end up with will statistically have been with over 20 guys. You need some experience under your belt because at this point you don't even know if your dick will work in a real life sexual encounter. Swallow your pride and fuck hookers consistentl…
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:46 PM
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Coffee dates, ice cream dates, juice dates are the best. Just make sure that you're physically escalating and make sure that the date spot is close you your house so that you can 'quickly show you something at my place' should the date go well.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:33 PM
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The way of the superior man
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:14 AM
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You need to be mindful of those thoughts as they arise and deal with them in the moment. The first chapter on 'Feel the fear and do it anyway' has a very powerful strategy for noticing fear thoughts (this includes doubt, envy, etc.) and dealing with the fear in the moment.
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:49 AM
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Persuasion Skills Black Book by Rintu Basu
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:46 AM
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I'm glad I could help you out my brother.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:25 AM
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Cybernetics means steersman, psycho relates to your mind. Psycho cybernetics is the art of choosing your goal, getting your self image in line with the goal so that it is not resisted and letting your subconscious get you to that goal. Sports people rely heavily on these tools. In 'the inner game of golf' it is stated that 85% of golf is mental, 10℅ mechanical and only 5℅ is physical. The same ratio applies to everything else, including meeting and attracting women, I.e. the how is only 5% or le…
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:23 PM
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Your situation is not hard to get out of if you understand it and take the right steps, if you follow the wrong steps you'll go around in circles, same circles I was running around in for a long time. The objective of everything we do is to feel good, every desire we have, whether it's to impress out parents or show our friends how cool we are or do well in school is to feel good. Every desire can be stripped down to good feelings once you dissolve all the symbols. Right now you want a girl or g…
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:15 PM
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What if you start changing your thoughts today? How much better would you feel about yourself by the time you get a full-time job? What if you start being happy? What if you start planting seeds of happiness and relaxation?
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:56 AM
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I feel your pain, I was a 20 year old virgin at some point and it felt humiliating mostly because my closest friends were getting laid like it's going out of fashion. There is hope though. Sounds to me that your self image has been so distorted that you'll even consider ending your life. You mentioned that your friend is the happiest guy you know and he gets a lot of women, it's easy to conclude that he gets a lot of women that's why he's so happy when in fact it's the exact opposite, he's happy…
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:45 AM
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Great books, will probably help you more to get the life you want than any book on seduction techniques will.
/r/seduction07/12/19 09:27 PM
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You're not alone. Pick up has sucked the happiness out of a lot of guy's lives.
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:02 PM
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"to seek on the outside that which you feel you are not is to seek in vain, for you do not find that which you want, you only find that which you are" - Neville Goddard
/r/seduction07/12/19 06:01 AM
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Girls
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:01 AM
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I know a guy like that. It could be because they get to think about it more. What I've noticed with myself is that when I don't go out to game for a while, like two weeks or a month, when I do go out to approach women my game is through the roof, then it slowly declines till I'm frustrated again and decide to take another break, then the process repeats. I honestly think we were put into a trap with action focused, always be approaching mentality. The seduction community has treated thoughts and…
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:55 PM
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Make your move, assuming that you've had a decent convo with her and connect on a basic level. If she says yes, great. If she says no it's also great because it will save you a lot of mental energy. The more you think about her and keep contemplating your next move is the more you become invested in her without her being invested in you, also known as being needy.
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:21 PM
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Always confirm. Rather she cancels now than last minute
/r/seduction02/12/19 04:04 PM
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So don't you think he's beliefs have to be consistent with what you're saying in order for him to behave in that way?
/r/seduction28/11/19 05:22 AM
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My point exactly! He notices things that reinforce his beliefs. The cues you look for depend on what you believe regarding the situation, he might believe that a women's emotional intensity is more important than the content of her reply hence his behavior and he's reaction.
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:56 AM
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In that case, good luck brother.
/r/seduction27/11/19 08:03 PM
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The guys in prank videos do the best approaches, it could be because their ego's are not really on the line, if something goes wrong they can just point at the camera and the girl will laugh. On top of that they don't really have the same goals as a guy who is trying to create a romantic/sexual relationship because they just get the numbers for show, they won't follow up with those numbers therefore they won't have to deal with the same dynamics you would. They don't have to worry about flakes, …
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:31 PM
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"you are already that which you want to be and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you don't see it" - Neville Goddard One guy believes he's unattractive, he's brain will always interpret his experiences in a way that reinforces those beliefs. If a girl comes up to him and starts flirting with him he's more likely to interpret it as her making fun of him or only flirting because she's trying to use him in some way. Another guy believes that he's attractive and women are drawn to him, a…
/r/seduction27/11/19 04:58 PM
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And these guys usually have simple, even rather crude beliefs when it comes to women. They believe women are easy, women love fucking, all girls need is an excuse to fuck, etc. and they have very convenient beliefs about themselves in relation to women. It all makes sense when you think about it. A guy that believes that women are easy is more likely to have sexual experiences than a guy who believes that women are hard. A guy that believes that you have to take her to your place as soon as poss…
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:03 PM
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We all know guys that get tons of women yet they have never read a single book on seduction, never bought or illegally downloaded a course, never joined an online community discussing women and have never went out to practice their seduction/social skills. At the same time the seduction community is littered with coaches and 'Gurus' who talk a lot but have never shown a single impressive result. The most they show is getting a flaky phone number or hooking up with a drunk girl, they never show y…
/r/seduction27/11/19 12:33 PM
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You didn't give her the D bro that's problem
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:51 AM
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It's how I learned game, Neil Strauss's 'the rules of the game' was my official introduction. I learned the methods and did tons of approaches. My personal experience of it is that it's great for being 'interesting' and getting a lot of phone numbers that go nowhere. When the flakes finally take their toll on you, you become even more frustrated than before. I got laid Zero times from it, got flaked on more times than I can count, probably 98% of the time (Not an exaggeration), it got to the poi…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:38 AM
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The only way to make it more fun in real life is to make it more fun in your imagination. If everytime you think of going out to meet people you imagine yourself having a dull, miserable and strenuous experience then your central nervous system, reticular activating system and basically your subconscious mind sees those images and feelings as a request and it diligently creates them in your experience, hence the term 'self-fulfilling prophecy'. If you really want to have fun, have fun in your mi…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:32 AM
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Firstly work out what you're going to say and work out the contingencies for the general responses you will get, namely: good, bad or neutral responses. Run the movies in your head about 10min a day, seeing yourself reacting to each situation the best way you can, this will also help incorporate these types of behaviors into your self image. Make sure you also focus of feeling the resistance in your body when you're imagining uncomfortable situations, you'll notice that this resistance or 'anxie…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:19 AM
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It's a flake
/r/seduction25/02/19 08:02 AM
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Susan Jeffers - Feel the fear and do it anyway
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:29 AM
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Keep up the good work
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:09 PM
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Go for the kiss, not the number
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:01 PM
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