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30 minutes may work for some people I find it easier to just pick two of the most important things I have to do long-term, and work on them first thing in the morning And everything else is noise
/r/TheRedPill17/11/23 05:47 PM
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Furthermore, being well-adjusted is a very difficult metric to measure. Do you mean having friends? Showing empathy to a certain class of people? Volunteering? Being happy? A lot of billionaires are relatively well-adjusted, and a lot of middle class folk are not. Being in the majority doesn't automatically make you well-adjusted. I believe you are referring to a subjective state of well-being, of belonging, which can happen in any strata. Sure, it may be more difficult if you have so much money…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/23 05:45 PM
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You are correct in that you have to be extreme in order to massively succeed or massively fail, but I'm not sure equating the two extremes is valid. Drug addicts do not equate with drug dealers. My friend is a super charismatic drug dealer who succeeded in his field. He doesn't do drugs. He gets laid a ton. And homeless people DO have problems getting laid. Especially with hot women. Homeless CHARISMATIC people who are Handsome may get laid, sure. Mass murderers? I don't know about you but a maj…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/23 05:40 PM
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I think you'll realize that humans are mostly acting in their perceived best interest. It's a long but rewarding road to become so awesome such that you are by default a woman's best interest/option. Else, they will never respect you enough to be faithful.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 11:37 PM
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The options in the USA are tepid and overpriced.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 08:01 PM
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You maybe have to recognize that she is no longer the best you can do, because the version of her that is sexually available, fun to be with, financially well off etc is now closing or closed off to you. I've had some kickass experiences with women but I don't delude myself into thinking that those feelings will last forever, they will settle into the abyss like everything else. Your best bet is to get yourself to the point where you can find plenty of those types of women.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 07:42 PM
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I got a motorcycle last year, but had such a hard time learning to ride -- the neighborhood hates noise. This spring I'll bring it out again... Guitar/music, books -- all great It's a challenge to find meaningful pursuits once you realize deep inside that women are just icing and not the cake. I've been struggling to figure it all out as I became more and more disenchanted with modern social constructs. I'm going on a road trip to see more of this continent before it gets even more worn out by p…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 05:24 PM
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This is more a comment on the "facts" backing your theory: not that your theory is inaccurate, but the supporting evidence you provide is from "sciences" remarkably prone to bias and uncertainty. GABA is an inhibitory NT but its role is complex. If GABA inhibits another inhibitory pathway, the net result is excitatory. The excitatory NTs are similar. The brain as a whole way too fucking complex to simplify into binary. Brain studies are bad at translating to real world outcomes because of this l…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/23 07:56 PM
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Let's say 99% of people are playing some MMORPG and you were gifted a near-max-level account. Of course, it won't feel meaningful to you to play the same game as others. You have to find a harder game. Thankfully, life and the universe are vast -- there will be something out there (or inside you) that makes you Feel something again Your goal for now, is to explore and find whatever that ends up being.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 04:18 AM
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We are all born into some kind of challenge. Whether mainstream society validates the challenge or not, each of us has to overcome some specific set of obstacles to pave our way to our own happiness'. For you, the challenge isn't money, actually. The challenge is broader than that -- it's to stop blaming your Surroundings for your failings and start taking 120% responsibility for your Own Self. People who grow up in food deserts, with parents who saddle them with debt, with toxic friends who get…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 04:11 AM
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once the pain from loneliness/horniness outweighs the fear and imagined pain of rejection, then thou shalt approach ze ladies. or you could be out of your mind high (you just won a race, won the lottery, ran a marathon, smoked too much weed) or you could focus on the other shit and watch how easy it is when women flock to you instead of you approaching as you yourself know, your odds are highest when women are already interested in you, and approach you first. So maybe you can be in some visible…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 01:42 AM
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I think, ironically, focusing on micro-expressions and cringey things about yourself can come across as too self-absorbed and cringe. But I have not ever seen what goes into an actor's training, or a salesperson's training, so maybe there really are systematic ways of improving those subconscious tics, besides steadily improving your self-esteem and sociability by doing cool things with cool people.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/23 06:08 PM
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Oh also, I'd like to add that very few people think they sound great when they hear a recording of themselves, or look great when they are filmed. I think even many actors think they are cringe as fuck. You have to recognize that you are projecting your own personal insecurities onto you on screen, but not that many people are even paying attention to your small quirks (cuz they are insecure themselves and worrying about their own flaws)
/r/TheRedPill14/01/23 06:55 PM
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Not sure about you but for me, doing all that to impress random subconsciously at random hours of the day might feel like a very inefficient use of my energy. Like, instead of trying to focus on something like that, I'd have more fun doing hobbies that you enjoy with people you find fun and engaging. Especially when you already have a baseline of fitness, career, and social life. You remind myself that there's no such thing as perfection. Sometimes, good enough is good enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/23 06:54 PM
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When you had life and fate throw you into premade meaningful goals ("escape poverty", "find success with women", "escape low-status") it was relatively easy to feel alive bc you just had to make meaningful progress along a predefined set of goals. Now, you have to cone up with your own, unless life throws you backwards (which is undesirable)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 12:07 PM
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Also, life isn't such an easy thing to master. We all backslide, or simply become irrelevant due to the competition. When you slide back to square one you realize if you don't continually make an effort, you can't maintain whatever good you got in life.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 12:03 PM
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If you attained your previous definition of "whole package" but found it did not live up to the hype, it may mean your initial definition was flawed in some way. You make it sound like All Goals Lead To Disappointment, Emptiness and A Vague Sense Of "Is That All?" Which may be true, but I won't know until I have lived a hundred lifetimes accomplishing increasingly meaningful and iterated goals. Also, missing some element of chaos, instability, and the rude unexpected awakenings is natural. Ever …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 11:56 AM
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Our subjective experiences of joy are triggered by how well we are doing at this moment compared to how we were doing a minute/hour/day/week ago. Without short term contrast, we feel little.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 11:53 AM
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Just means you have to realign, reassess, and come up with additional direction/goals that are meaningful to you Now. Forget Past You; he died as soon as he got to the next level. Now you are faced with the real challenge of having to define what means success to you Now. Clearly you aren't in flow state and clearly you aren't 100% satisfied with your life now. Lucky for you, there is more out there, it depends on your willingness and ingenuity to unlock it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 11:51 AM
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I agree up to a point, but being driven by outcomes is incredibly useful and powerful. Just, you have to really dig deep and analyze the outcomes available to you and your situation, and recognize that some combination of your effort, will, ingenuity and luck can cause better outcomes for you. Not everyone has the capacity to attain the highest objective outcomes at any given time, however. But failures are failures. Some failures lead to success because the person behind them is innovating, bei…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 11:47 AM
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I believe as long as you feel you want women/wealth/status, and you are actively and creatively working towards your goals, and you can feel progress towards those ends, you feel happy and purposeful. Once you have a surplus of external validation, achieved in ways that were meaningful and challenging, perhaps then you look towards something more esoteric and spiritual. But until then, frame and validation/external success play off each other. You build frame by doing and succeeding in small mea…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 11:39 AM
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Why should the universe conspire to provide each individual with a perfect companion who has all the 'right' tastes, 'right' looks, and 'right' personality? If such a perfect companion did exist, why would he or she be hanging around you? Blue pill ideology, to me, can seem lazy and entitled. Red pill ironically can help you find more candidates for love, because a man who is constantly improving himself is sexy and women tailor their lives to sexy men. Women and men conform to sexy men. So if y…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 08:12 PM
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If you care, then you can't show it to the extent other people use it against you
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 08:01 PM
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This also applies to men. Most men are basic, and some are extraordinary. If you find and replace "women/girls/hoes" on TRP with "human beings" you get the same result. Most men and women don't want to work hard, be held up to standards of competence, and own 100% of their outcomes. They want to blame others, not think, and cruise along. All Humans Are Like That.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 02:40 PM
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The irony here is the writer herself is a woman, and imho she is definitely capable of abstract thought, intelligent discourse, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 10:45 PM
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Most protagonists have some saving grace that you can root for; this one does seem like a bottom-of-the-barrel pondscum.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 09:24 PM
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Right! Though it's considered "lazy" because it's maladaptive in modern times. I'm sure our great ancestors were considered "wise" for not wasting any more energy than necessary to survive in harsh conditions
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 01:01 PM
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Competent men are the prize.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 01:39 PM
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No one is forcing you. It is your own biology and psychology that makes you crave orgasms through real women. Women take advantage of the fact that men bend over backwards for them. Classic supply and demand... men crave that dopamine high more than women do from sex
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 01:39 PM
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I agree with this to some extent, but do not underestimate how low men's standards become as they age. Even women post-wall can get dick whenever they want, and simp men to pay for their shit. Did Bezos have an affair with a hot 20 year old?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 12:31 PM
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Insect masturbation studies could segway into a highly niche porn production... may be tons of $$ to be had there
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 12:29 PM
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There is an edge somewhere, on the border of "women who'd suck me without me even trying" and "women who are a bit harder to get". That is your growth zone. ​ Aiming at the 10s right off the bat will just land you in rejection-city. Unless you have incredible guts/resilience/self-assurance you aren't coming out of multiple rejections pumped to increase your efforts. ​ Increase your value. As much as possible. Not for one single woman, but for woman and mankind and for yourself. Your increased pe…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 09:10 PM
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AWALT is a broad generalization useful for characterizing and framing a large portion of pain men face as they seek validation from the female sex. As with most generalizations, individual characteristics of each person can add to the statistical likelihood of her behaving in certain ways. But that does not detract from the value of the general rule of thumb. ​ By the way, AMALT (all men are like that) also applies. It appears most men (not truly all) get butthurt over their sexlessness, and tak…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 09:08 PM
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I find both men and women deflect responsibility more than they ask for it. Perhaps the distribution among men has a slightly higher % willing to take on more responsibility, idk the stats. When you are angry with yourself and resentful of women it is easy to paint a broad brush with the few anecdotal pieces of shit that come to mind: women who seemed lazy, entitled, and unable to take responsibility to improve. But if you've been around some solid folks, both men and women, you realize it's jus…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 10:47 AM
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The type of mindset that looks for an easy pill-based fix for your conditioned weakness is exactly what needs to go in the first place It may bite you in the ass later. Nothing can replace hard-earned status and competence gained through blood n tears Not to say drugs don't have their place but I wouldn't pin my hopes on it
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 11:29 PM
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Once you internalize self-improvement to be habitual, and for the purpose of enhancing your own well-being instead of getting girls, you are on your way This post is analogous to saying "weightlifting alone did not get me shred af" Yes because you have diet, genes, rest, and some even add steroids into the mix Does not detract from the importance of looks, which are necessary but not sufficient to get you laid like a warlord.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 11:27 PM
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Cringe af. Unfortunately for the majority of friend relationships you may not have the ability to influence your friend enough for him to see the light You could be supportive without acting like you know better (even though you definitely know better) Get him excited about moving to a new place, basically intervene in subtle ways to get him the hell away from this girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 09:34 PM
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If you have the resilience to take 1,795 rejections without losing momentum, you have a mindset capable of building anything -- your muscles, career, and harem So yes, if you can follow this blueprint hats off to you
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 10:03 PM
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I am not lecturing you. I have simply dealt with this issue for a while and have broadened my viewpoints by discussing with mentors, peers, and books. I don't mean to downplay the massive effect nofap has for some individuals. As usual, ymmv. My post is a counterpoint, speaking to those people who don't find nofap as compelling as the youtube pundits may believe. When it works, it works!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:31 PM
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Your words are conjecture and theory, unfortunately. Masturbation and sex itself are actively shamed in many circles. You may not be a part or those circles -- but I have seen it across religious groups, frats, and friendships. Nofap doesn't carry as much weight without the shame. It draws power from you perceiving you are behaving more pro-socially by pursuing real sex instead of masturbating. I am not against nor for nofap but I do find the heavy-handed promoters of nofap quite cringe and misl…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 01:42 PM
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Nofap works well for some people. I generally find the people who swear by it have deep-rooted shame regarding sexual expression and pornography. If that is you, and you personally believe nofap is a way to take back control, you feel like you are making meaningful progress as you stay away from lorn for consecutive days. Some other side benefits may be that if you are going outside to meet your stimulation needs you are getting additional sun, socialization, and perhaps able to sleep at a bette…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 12:06 PM
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Otherwise OP has some fun analogies
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 12:43 PM
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No... I see it happening daily around me. My lead medical staff are the hardest working. The technicians that work hardest get the most benefits, social or otherwise. And my family/friends are divided along the lines of hardwork -- those who work harder seem to succeed more often, or are given more opportunities. I am lazy af and I would love it if there was no compunction for me to work hard. I would love it if everything were predetermined and no additional effort would make any difference wha…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 08:23 PM
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One last thing. Bezos Gates and Musk had to produce significant results (not yet certain for Musk but he's produced tangible goods). A lot of those results came from their hardwork (and the hardwork of those under their employ). Even in the case of monarchs who had their kingdoms handed to them... SOMEWHERE along their ancestral tree some mofo worked his ass off to become king.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 08:04 PM
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Again, let's use your examples. A monarch that is lazy and inherits his throne only to waste away in dissipation, vs a monarch that disciplines himself and his armies, and fights -- which one would you say has a better shot at devouring the other, all else equal? Besides. You want to extrapolate what applies to monarchs to the entire human population? You are so jealous of a few people who had mountains of wealth and power handed to them -- never mind how many of them wasted away under their own…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 08:02 PM
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Again, it's an indispensable component to lasting success. I understand what you're saying, but you are kidding yourself if you think a regular lucky, manipulative mofo will outcompete a hardworking lucky, manipulative mofo (if what you say is true about the abovementioned people) Ok let's ignore Musk's 100 hour workweeks, Bezos' decades-long dedication to his company, and Gates' 100000x productivity of an average joe schmoe. Can you imagine what they'd be like if they actually "worked hard" in …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 07:41 PM
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If you don't think Bezos, Gates or Musk worked hard you are kidding yourself. I agree they had disproportionate results and rewards. Society loves to amply reward the best, and the pareto principle applies: the top 20% get 80% of the rewards. Thinking like you do is a disservice to yourself; sure others will be (sometimes) unjustly rewarded, but where does that get you? Will you become stronger/healthier/happier for thinking so?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 07:27 PM
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And you are absolutely mistaken about wealthy people. The vast majority got there through hard work. If you are surrounded by wealthy leeches who don't have any integrity, I am sorry for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 06:38 PM
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"Results matter" Absolutely. This statement does not deny that hard work matters as well. In case you haven't lived long enough: good luck achieving results without hard work. One enables a higher probability of the other. Obviously hard work compounded by luck and intelligence can produce superior results.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 06:37 PM
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But I care. I care about my struggles, and what I had to do / have to do to maintain my body and my lifestyle. I care about my journey. Without the challenge my life feels more hollow and meaningless than it needs to be. And because I care, I treat myself well when I work hard and I shine brighter when I feel I deserve what I have. That translates to increased confidence and smoother social skills. That translates to more opportunities with women and men. ​ Hard work absolutely does matter. Not …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 03:42 PM
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If I may ask, have you dealt with addiction yourself? In what capacity have you dealt with the theories you espouse? I am genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 09:12 AM
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Or, focus on other shyt. Pornfree/nofap anecdotal stories may or may not turn out to be true/longlasting. I believe this is an area of research that poses many logistical issues for modern scientists and so anecdotes may be all we have In which case, we are left with a highly incomplete knowledge base. In other words, ymmv. If you yourself see porn and games as what is holding you back, taking steps to reign that in will help boost your self confidence If you don't see it as a problem, it may no…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 09:09 AM
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Those theories are just not easily applied to real addicts. There is a reason why remission rates for alcoholics and drug addicts are low. It's like a doctor saying "omg why doesn't everyone just eat better n exercise moar" A theory is only as good as how well it can be executed. If only .1% of the population can execute it, it is not very useful.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 09:00 AM
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For all practical purposes you cannot get over any addiction. Your neurons are already wired to fire that way (if you are an adult n your brain is fully developed). There are stories of people rewiring and remolding their brains in adulthood but that is inconsistent and rare. Imho you should find a substitute addiction: making money, dating girls or martial arts / dance / skiing / snorkling or whatever it is that is just as fun but more beneficial to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 12:17 AM
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Easier said then done. If you really want to make a change, replace it with a high dopamine productive activity. My previous examples all work.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 11:42 PM
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This is good. I'd like to add however that you cannot simply "cut these things out", they have to be simultaneously replaced by high-dopamine activities like having real sex. I am slowly tinkering with my life and find that certain activities actually feel more instantaneously rewarding than porn. One is real sex, another is great food, and a third is a manly/dangerous sport like jiu jutsu or boxing. You were born to chase highs; you can't just cut out the 'fake' ones you have to chase others im…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 10:29 PM
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Superficially, modern civil society despises raw unfiltered experiences. Not saying everything on redpill is the truth; far from it. But it should be a discussion point for every man and woman on earth. Instead it's treated as misogynistic shit from loser incels... too bad. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 06:03 PM
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I think your pool of women needs an upgrade. Several in my orbits are extremely attractive, well-educated, cultured and feminine.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 06:00 PM
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Trust. Men do most of the same shit women do, if given the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 01:30 PM
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Redpilled on human nature. Both men and women can and do act in the ways trp usually ascribes to the female race.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 01:16 PM
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What the hell did I just read...
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:39 PM
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I think most men agree with the conclusion, but I wonder where you got the data to support the claim that no species has low paternal confidence with high paternal investment?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 06:52 PM
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I did not say it was exclusively religious, but that religion happened to bring with it a systematized code that proved somewhat useful. Again, I never stated these benefits were exclusively from a religious background. You are absolutely correct, all of these things without religion would be preferable. But in my life these things came pre-packaged in a pretty box called Christianity.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 12:21 PM
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While I would love to agree with you as I had a fairly repressed upbringing, I would be lying if I said there were absolutely no benefits. Strong moral code (however based on faulty logic) Kept away from drugs, alcohol, gambling, and women at a young age, forced to do well academically Strong social structure with clear expectations, however unrealizable those expectations were
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 12:02 PM
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........... I was unaware of anyone fetishizing muslim women specifically, but this is just another example of "the grass is always greener" Religious, conservative upbringings have pros and cons. Many teach followers to be monogamous, and shame promiscuity. This can backfire -- some repressed people become hoes later in life.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 04:20 PM
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Why would you want to hook up with someone you are not attracted to?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:32 AM
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True Guess that was more recent in said conservative countries thanks to shit like the one child policy in china and societal-level cucking by religion
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 04:18 AM
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Applies to modernized Western societies. In more traditional societies, the father is the gatekeeper to the daughter's puss. And women have no freedom to sleep around. If you had to choose between: women being the gatekeepers with some sloots as a result, or angry daddies with shotguns you have to pay off to gain the daughter's hand. I know I'd choose the former. 'Muricans don't know how good they got it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 08:29 PM
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I believe this is the best thing I've read that is for marriage I'm gonna steal these words, thanks
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 01:27 AM
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Kahn is a perfect example of why lesser men are less valuable. A man instinctively acts to protect a woman because he is thirsty and has a scarcity mindset beat into him by his own sex drive and society. This was not always the case. In many patriarchal societies across asia men were and often still are protected more than women Also, in a biological context producing more offspring seems desirable, until it isn't. Look at our overcrowrding now. We are straining the world's resources. Ironically…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 11:36 AM
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Glad it worked for you. Unfortunately your comment can be easily (and validly) construed as as advertising and may be ignored
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 04:00 AM
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They also had no antibiotics, no good hygiene systems to rid cities of bodily waste, no toothpaste, and not much soap or clean water, nevermind no solid snd enduring societal structures. Oh and no centralized heatin/ac. I wouldn't trade places with them, ever. Please leave me the first world modern homo sapiens sapiens' problems
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:57 AM
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Micro dosing what? Lsd? Mdma? Psilocybin?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:56 AM
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And women. If women followed and sought truths some might even become goddesses
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:54 AM
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I agree in general but if you are wrong ~20% of the time and you decided the serial killer next door is a nice friendly dude, congrats you now dead
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:53 AM
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Sounds plausible but ultimately unusable in a reliable, predictable manner. Is the subconscious easy to reprogram? Nah... earn to adapt. take your self sabotage and self hatred and own them. If you died tonight you'd have died worrying about your suboptimal subconscious programming instead of enjoying your last breaths.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:49 AM
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Complex, longstanding issues do not have simple solutions most of the time Yes, shower and set a morning routine. But you probably also simultaneously need to juggle: Good sleep regimen Good nutrition Socialization (some need more than others) Meaning/purpose/drive Never mind all the other shit one must do to thrive and not simply exist. It actually takes massive persistent action, if there is no external relief, to beat depression. It is not easy nor can it be reduced to a few stels
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:45 AM
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I agree. Though I'd trade quantity for quantity any day Also, a guy could be gay or asexual
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:40 AM
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Depends on what you value, I guess. If crusading on reddit is a gratifying and satisfying, edifying endeavor then a winner might come cruising round these parts every so often
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:37 AM
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You mean, you can't be your lazy, basic, entitled and delusional self. Your Women don't eant to be treated like that. Maybe some do, but it gets tiring. Imagine you are a hot guy and all these thots are sending you nudes all the time, cooking for you, knitting you clothes, sending you allowance money Would you keep being grateful? Wouldn't you want something more?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:31 AM
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Lol. I love it when people start with a foregone conclusion then look for "facts" to back it up Not saying I disagree, but in my mind the jury is out on this one. One valuable male = millions of women. See Ghengis Kahn for example. Like 20% of humankind is his progeny
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:27 AM
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Most women and men are fucking headaches. Many are clouded in short-term thinking, substance/addiction-induced emotion, and most are irrational. Women choose "bad boys" and men often choose hot thots without character or personality. Then they complain to anyone who'd listen that the problem isn't with their own decision-making. Women gather in groups and cause annoyances, while men can be sketchy, creepy and dangerous all by themselves. Women dress like hos, men dress like slobs. Both claim the…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:20 AM
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That's great! You do you. Imagine not caring at all what people think about you! Most people care too much, I agree
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 08:27 PM
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... Idk. Maybe if you knew them personally your judgment of them might hold some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:45 PM
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Or, games are inherently more stimulating than reality for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:44 PM
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Too much is whatever amount that interferes with your core goals and values. It's different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:43 PM
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Would you like to respond to the query on hand though? It's not a dichotomy. There are objective, societal factors at play and individual factors. Nature and nurture. If you don't like that, you can leave. ​ I'm actually not at all justifying anyone but I do see a lot of people get increasingly frustrated at their lack of success. And instead of saying "oh well c'est la vie" these individuals may blame the entirety of their failure on themselves. Well part of it is them, part of it is the timing…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 04:05 PM
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Idk. I notice in my own life and in others', people who give advice sound good but are too removed from your life to care or understand. I'm not saying his article is bad. But he's selling you a product. Some of his livelihood depends on you thinking his advice and coaching is worth paying for. In other words, it's a lot like other RedPill posts, sounds good but may be full of air.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 01:25 PM
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Ehh... if you want to. If you still want to keep her around, do that instead. I guess I'm hoping people focus on other shit that is more within their control and more helpful to their evolution than whether their partners cheat. They will cheat if you lose focus. Edit: I typed in "jealousy" on google to see what's up, 'cuz I don't usually feel it. "Jealousy generally refers to the thoughts or feelings of insecurity, fear, and concern over a relative lack of possessions or safety" Insert "women" …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 01:03 PM
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Dunno how old you are. Look back 20 years from now, see if you've achieved what you say here. Note I never equated faith and hope in life with how women (and men for that matter) behave around me. I acknowledge that they will make mistakes, do things I don't want etc. I work on myself with the expectation, not faith or hope that the things I do will put me in a better place so I am better equipped to deal with others' shit. But also, other guys' cum or fucking is not that interesting to me and i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:48 PM
1

You think it gets easier in Asia or Europe?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:23 PM
5

Most men and women are. A few men and perhaps fewer women become.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:22 PM
3

Andy is heavily incentivized to make people feel like his messages are worth their weight in gold. I love his writing but hey. It is also full of crap, just like everything else out there. It's just a matter of degree.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:22 PM
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Agreed brother. The road is infinite.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:20 PM
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Except for one thing: you won't suddenly feel less awkward or less stigmatized for having slept with an escort. Escorts are paid to do so, they aren't attracted to you. What a lot of virgins lack is the attention of the opposite sex. It is both a psychological and physical validation for many. Escorts can fill one side of that longong -- the d in the p. Nothing more; and I'd hazard most people want more than that.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:19 PM
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Deep down, all men realize too that the playing field is incredibly uneven and can change on a moment's whim. What is attractive in one city may not be in another; it also varies country by country, girl by girl. General fitness is a good idea but style, game, socially acceptable success, are all adaptations to your surroundings, not absolutes Even attractive body types shift overseas; though within a narrower band of outcomes (as our species has fairly conservative indicators of physical health…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:17 PM
1

I don't think too much about it. If I were confronted with it head on I might have a different opinion. The way I see it, this has already happened in the past or future. I wasn't the first man for her and won't be the last, most likely. Even if we married. Life is just too fucking long. So even if I don't like it (and I am not sure I don't) it is not under my mind's control. The best I can do is make myself more desirable so that she wants to stick around (if I want her to) I mean, it's either …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:06 PM
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Nah. I rather think the word would be better if we weren't so possessive.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 03:36 AM
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I believe she wouldn't unless she had better options. And if she does I have a perogative to improve myself. So no, I would not and do not mind Then again I also had a vasectomy cuz I don't want any kids.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 07:12 PM
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I hear you, but I wonder why people feel so strongly about it. As I've alluded to, I perceive cheating to be far less damaging and less harmful than muder, and far more common as well. If it happens often why get so bothered by it? Unless you want kids and want to make sure they are yours. Trying to understand the possesiveness of people. I don't understand mate guarding either.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 06:13 PM
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I understand what you are saying as well. Of course we are aware some claims and ideals hold more water than others. But the final judgment of those claims depends on your own lens. Since I cannot relate at all to mgtow (I do not believe it is at all desirable or feasible to completely ignore women) I am wary of mgtow arguments to say the least
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 04:36 PM
1

Are you suggesting murder and cheating are on the same level? Damn, well I guess some people feel that way.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 02:03 PM
2

The inner and outer go harmoniously together and complement each other. Examples: Rest/meditate/sleep after a hard workout to build muscle. Perhaps a better way might be to start with outer work, then do inner work during rest periods. Planning, organizing your thoughts, and feeling your emotions can all be done in relatively passive states and can amplify gains from external outer activity.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:21 PM
3

Or learn how to pick locks, work metal, do roundhouse kicks, scale walls...
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:10 PM
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If they can go without girls, without becoming sad/emo and venting their frustrations in destructive ways, good on them! They will likely be far more successful economicaly as they can spend nothing on appearance, sex appeal, dates etc Usually it's unrealistic and delusional to think you can go without pussy/feminine touch
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:08 PM
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Which logics/rationales? What data? I can find reasons and statistics for any position I wish to take... logic and data alone don't mean much it simply validates what you already value and think.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:06 PM
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Or maybe cheating is normal human behavior, somewhat compatible with our basic nature/instinct, and both men and women will take the opportunity to do so. Though women often have more suitors than men when they are young.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:05 PM
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Or maybe cheating is normal human behavior, somewhat compatible with our basic nature/instinct, and both men and women will take the opportunity to do so. Though women often have more suitors than men when they are young.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:04 PM
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I think we will adjust expectations when we are 65, crosseyed, diabetic and on prosthetic legs.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:02 PM
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Is that a problem? Human nature has been consistent throughout history. Societal and technological advancements now allow for women to have sex relatively safely just for fun. The cat's never going back into the box. Also, a surprising number of women do the hoe thing, swap to monogamy, and do the hoe thing again... it comes and goes in waves. We live a longass time so ride a good wave or two when you get the chance.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:00 PM
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I become a far better person and more rational and driven if I have sex
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 09:47 AM
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Whenever you select an answer on a multiple choice exam, scrutinize heavily any words such as ALWAYS, NEVER, etc... there are few absolutes.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:21 AM
1

simply the limitations of our brain. There is far more than up and down, in and out. Yes or no. But our brains process pairs efficiently, and love simple contrasts.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:20 AM
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Fix short term one at a time and maybe you will make it to long term Haven't yet met a millionaire that didn't make 1000s of short term goals to finally reach the long
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:18 AM
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Pretty sure this is just the limitations of our perception and not reality itself. Reality does indeed have more than duality. We have way more than two dimensions. Our color spectrum is comprised of hundreds of combinations of red yellow and blue. There are spectrums of light beyond human perception (most of it). Life is much much more nuanced and complicated that we can describe. It is just human nature to want to dichotomize and simplify.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:17 AM
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Absolutely. On a grand scale the beings and matter that is organized and orderly are constantly fighting an uphill battle against chaos which seeks to revert everything to the lowest energy state possible.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:14 AM
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Idk the fuck I just read but imma grab some tequila cuz I think it will enhance my attempts at comprehension
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:13 AM
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The fuck? Life is not one coordinated conspiracy against you getting laid. No one gives a flying fuck if you become a True Alpha Chad and get puss 24/7. Society does not condemn shit. The people bothered by your alpha behaviors are simply jealous. Or insecure. They don't want you to fuck their women. They want to gatekeep. Idk but no one gives a fuck about redpill or bluepill it is not one large conspiracy think of how much energy and coordination it would take to organize that kind of social co…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:10 AM
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As a fellow dude I am also attracted to badass guys that know how to have fun. Mynown smv increases the more I spend time with fun guys. Not sure it has anything to do really with generics or quality semen. My semen analysis tests show I am incredibly viable but my dating history shows I am a nerd who has trouble getting laid. And genetics? Plz like 25% of us carry Ghengis Kahn's genes, that dude was redpill af. Don't blame your shitty genes, find a way to activate the king genes you posess. Sem…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 03:01 AM
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There is no absolute truth, but an open mind and a willingness to risk failure and keep learning may get you a better approximation Not sure why you are contemplating suicide but I hope you find your own personal reason to get up in the morning. Independence from your parents does not automatically translate to masculinity and a strong character... some great men have amazingly close relations with their parents and have worked out the boundaries of their relationship... though in western cultur…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 09:54 AM
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May I just say sir, thank you for your articulations. My mind is extra stimulated this morning due to your eloquent explanations. Please be blessed with a fucking good day.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 12:40 PM
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At that point does anyone keep counting?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 08:57 PM
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I think once you beat corporate game And you have a solid basis of fitness/hygiene/personality.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 08:52 PM
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This is refining your technique... but the larger issue here is what this signifies about your life. If you are high value and have constant demands for your time and presence, would you be checking your phone multiple times a day? You can finick with the downstram presentation of this fact -- make sure your text game is on point. More importantly, address the root cause -- regardless of text game make your non digital life busy, fun and full of meaning. As op said, this Could be something as de…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 08:51 PM
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