stylista2019 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	Online Dating Apps are a cesspool full of LVM	#JustLVMThings	stylista2019	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 09:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Mature/Older FDS Sister's I’m 50...fairly new to FDS and it has changed my life. I spent 6 years with a LVM and subsequently dated a few others after that. This sub has helped me level up immensely, in the short amount of time I’ve been following it. I’m a reformed pickmeisha and wish I had had the handbook when I was younger. This subreddit is doing the Lord’s work. Thank you queens🙌🏾👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 12:15 PM
21	Men are to Women what Police are to Black People Black woman here-you can’t equate these. Are there similarities? Yes. But they are not the same.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 11:48 AM
1	Guys who ask you out but then refuse to suggest a plan for what you’ll be doing together... I love this and am going to implement this ASAP.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 02:55 PM
18	Guys who ask you out but then refuse to suggest a plan for what you’ll be doing together... Seriously! I had two canceled dates within a week’s time because of the unwillingness of two different men to literally choose a restaurant. Pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 09:28 PM
82	Guys who ask you out but then refuse to suggest a plan for what you’ll be doing together... This happens all the time. Men hide their sheer laziness behind a guise of being “easy going”. This really means: I’m lazy AF and want you to do all the heavy lifting and planning. No thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 03:44 PM
10	Update from guy who asked me why a walk wasn’t a date. Who’s gonna tell him? 🤣 That or he’s cheap AF. Probably both. He used the excuse “I don’t go into restaurants”. Yeah son, none of us do because indoor dining hasn’t started in NYC-outdoor dining has. So, no excuse. 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 03:40 PM
13	Update from guy who asked me why a walk wasn’t a date. Who’s gonna tell him? 🤣 I feel your pain. I just had a guy say: let’s meet at the park and go from there. I’m a walk and talk kind of person. My response? Block and delete ✌🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 02:25 PM
136	Remember ladies, we’re no Barbara the Builder. We’re not here to build these men up from the ground. Love it! I get SO sick of hearing men say they want someone to build with. Build what? I’ve spent 19 years building a lucrative, amazing career and am super independent. So then I’m expected to turn around and help some LVM “build”? No thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/08/20 01:19 PM
17	Online Dating Apps are a cesspool full of LVM You are spot on. It lowers one’s vibration. I couldn’t figure out why I always feel low and murky when plodding through the moronic profiles in the apps. It’s an energy suck. I’m better on my own and if I meet someone organically-that’s for the best.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 04:03 PM
16	Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it is It’s like the concept of giving a kid an award for just showing up. As a former Pickmeisha, I’m not giving any man kudos for doing the bare minimum anymore. Fuck that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 06:42 PM
14	Surely, no high-value couple is 100% compatible. So then what is considered "compromise" vs "Settling"? This right here. They literally never budge. They do not compromise ever. And in the end, they end up alone🤷🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 09:57 PM
2	The use of "females" instead of women is so bad I found this in a literal LinkedIn job posting (sorry for poor quality) There are SO SO SO many guys on OLD apps who refer to women as girls. Like “I’m looking for a nice girl to spend time with”. A woman or a girl? Which is it, sir? What’s up with this?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 10:04 PM