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I wish you the best of luck.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:35 AM
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I am saying this with compassion and good will in my heart, not trying to attack you: try checking if you are overcompensating. If you actually dealt with your anger. Because I get the impression that might not be the case. I strongly recommend meditation for that. The book "the mind illuminated" is a good start, there is also a nice subreddit in the same name. Not to marginalize your successes so far! But replacing a big source of toxicity with a slightly lesser one is, after all, still not a g…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:38 AM
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This comment is horrid. No empathy, and insensible to most of the matter at its core. You only focused on the porn fantasy, not the real life implications of such a fucked up situation. Someone wanted to frame someone else for her own murder. You think a half sentence is enough to deal with the "getting better" part? And that is just one thing, i don't have time to deconstruct the whole thing. Im getting serious psychopath vibes. Plus, the language. "Man up" and do something you're supposed to d…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:27 AM
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Phew, good thing you didn't buy into this thread. Please read my comment. I think if someone cannot relate to this situation at all, it's easy to be very judgemental. That is totally out of place tho. Glad you saw that.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:18 AM
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Sounds a lot like my borderline ex gf. First of all, this is NOT as special as you think. Actually quite common with how crazy chicks are these days. You are like an addict right now, and sound like one too. The reason is that this type of behavior,may it be hot/cold, crazy/same, whatever you want to call it... it IS fucking addictive. You need to get a grasp on reality first. For example, you talk about her reasons for going mad. I would wager you live in her construct, her narrative of reality…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:15 AM
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I like this advice. I think as for meditation, the high amount of explanations and specific advice in the book "The Mind Illuminated" (Yates) may be a good way to go here. There is also a nice sub themindilluminated where you find a nice community. Pain/suffering, bodily sensations and discomfort, and the way to deal with those are addressed really nicely. Thay being said, I never dealt with chronic pain. You have my empathy. I believe you can do it! It might take time and taking time sounds lik…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:48 AM
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Currently writing my dissertation, so I don't really feel like typing out pages of stuff you dont want to know. So please let me ask you to specify a bit more, what do you wanna know about the big entity of "my story"?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:49 PM
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Oh brother, been there done that. Such a hope made me take her back once. It got MUCH worse after that. The amount of psychological abuse once she knows you're on the hook... damn. And all of it was fueled by my desire to "help her get well". Sound familiar? I can tell you, I don't even think it is fake. They are not mean, bad, evil machines that are out to fuck your life up. They are fully and totally out of control of even scraps of their psyche. Those behaviors are learned, they adapted to ma…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 09:01 AM
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If you're asking like this, I don't think you should consider it. You don't know what you're getting into. Some of them will literally kill you with their behaviors, and its sometimes out of your control even if you realize what is happening in real time. They are much more emotionally intelligent than you are. They will quickly identify what gets to you, and play nice for a time until you feel safe. Then boom, full crazy mode. A BPD chick is what finally got me to drop my blue pills. She looked…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:43 AM
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Good. I would suggest that you try to stop planning your life like a drug user as well. The way you described keeping your eyes around until you get more opportunities... sounds like a meth head securing his constant fixes. Embrace being alone. Maybe even do a nofap challenge. Come to terms with the fact that you will have some time without any women. That empowers you. It's even more empowering to say no to a woman in such a time, because you dont like her enough. Give this a try. Take your pic…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:59 AM
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Wow. Read that back to yourself. This mindset is pure poison. Low self esteem, desperate for pussy crumbs given by women who have proven in the past that they are not worth your time. You're better than that. I suggest going monk mode until you think straight and understand sex as what it is. You value it way too much, and yourself too little. If you're a porn user, cutting the porn will most definitely help a ton. The desperation is not attractive to women, and not good for your decisionmaking …
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:45 AM
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Narcissism is a form of neediness, but twisted backwards. Mark Manson described this well in Models. Your behavior is not needy at all. Dont worry. People's feedback to your efforts will generally be bad, because people like stability. If they know you in bad shape, they want to see you stay in bad shape, generally speaking. Ofcourse not everyone, but enough so that it highly likely to lose friends in the process. My point is... do what you think is best, not what others say it's best, dont act …
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:57 AM
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Very true, very clearly explained. Gives fresh motivation to really mindfully take on the challenges we face with a healthy frame. Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 08:48 AM
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A lot of hormones and neurotransmitters, afaik testosterone and serotonin for example, are lipid based and omega3 really helps their synthesis. So i dont know where the limits are, but what i can tell you is this: if you eat too little of the right fats, it makes you an unhappy (low serotonin) bitch (low testosterone).
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:49 AM
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I want to expand on the previous answer, since "just adopt an abundance mentality " is easier said then done, and mostly done wrong. OP is a good example of that... it is not about drowning yourself in pussy. Because if you take pussy away, you're still the same needy guy. Rather go monk mode for a bit. Transform your life in a way that makes you feel good being just by yourself. You can't really judge that when you're always validating yourself with random women. Get some hobbies. Lift and medi…
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:14 PM
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Thats what I'm saying. You might not have dealt with the neediness as completely as you think. But that is okay, it takes time. Another guy explained it well in this thread... I agree that it might be very much related to self worth.
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:04 PM
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I disagree. The antidote to oneitis is non-neediness. That can be achieved a)internally by just being content on your own, and b) externally, by stacking plates basically. What complicates it more is that when you do a) right, b) will happen as a byproduct, but that does not work the other way around. I am simply advocating that you first fix yourself go way a), and then reap the spoils, I.e. have multiple plates. OP and you seem to want to go right into multiple plates without first being cool …
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:42 PM
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If you need to have 3 plates just not to go full retard on one, you are covering up a personal issue that you need to take care of.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:21 AM
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That's love bombing. And I'm not necessarily talking about emotional investment only. These are potentially the girls that will accuse you of rape, get "accidentally " pregnant or threaten to kill herself. Not all of them do this, obviously, but this is a red flag identifying this type. Thread with care.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:11 AM
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If a woman expresses feelings like that especially suggesting your the man of her dreams, she wants to do this a billion more times etcetc... BEFORE SHE EVEN KNOWS YOU, then this is a major red flag. It works, especially on needy men (and dont kid yourself, after just getting redpilled you will still be needy). But those are the women who will fuck you up emotionally eventually. Also, inform yourself about borderline personality disorder. If she does not have that, she sure has some of the trait…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:47 AM
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This conversation is only two messages away from her taunting him to be a “real man“, in an attempt to shame/guilt trip him to pay for her. Fuck dat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 09:54 PM
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What he doesnt realize is that he ranks pussy too highly in general. Exactly, he could have both. Some options may be less available due to abs. Some may be added due to authentic “doing what you want“. But this being-afraid-of-losing-pussy mindset just doesnt sound healthy. I would recommend to think long and hard about why that concerns you that much. Pretty sure your mindset does not contain any sort of abundance mentality at the moment
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:44 PM
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You are young. Take all this advice, but don't take it unfiltered. Don't let yourself become bitter, resentful, even nihilistic. Temper the knowledge of TRP with a good heart and compassion (both of which dont mean that you let people fuck you over... only if you do it wrong). I recommend exploring your own mind and purifying your issues with meditation. One of the best books i ever read was The Mind Illumimated. Check it out. Edit: a word.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:28 AM
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Good dog!
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:49 PM
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What did she answer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 06:26 PM
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Whoa, i didn't even think of that last point
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 11:07 PM
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Thanks for the heads up, I'm still quite new to reddit. Will do better next time!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 03:19 PM
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I feel like this is a way to force a false sense of being redpilled upon yourself. How about collecting facts about the choices and then firmly choose a path and following it? Thats way more redpilled to me that gambling with your life. TRP to me is about knowing what you want, and following your goals accordingly. Outcome independence is only then coming in. If you did everything in a conscious best effort, then you see what comes from it and are not mad if it didnt work out. Same with women. Y…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:54 AM
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"I feel sorry for the dude it's shitty behaviour on your part to keep playing with these dudes." Dont know about everyrhing, but feel like this was a really strong line. You usually give not shit, and you dont get jealous in this new case. But you have a strong opinion and if she asks, are not afraid to tell her - without hard feelings, just letting her know shes a shitty person. To me, that is manly as fuck.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:14 PM
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Nah dude fuck it. Shes gonna lie and feel justified doing it, and in the end she cucked you nonetheless. There are no doubt honest women out there. But they are not the ones who conveniently break up for a quick fuck fest. Its over. Fuck some girls, ghost her.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:13 PM
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Interesting. Not only is ghosting really punishing, but also, it may create a situation in which the crazy chick exposes herself before she can make false accusations. Well played, husband. Could've gone much worse.
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 11:57 AM
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I know there are some controversies about Jordan Peterson sometimes, but i think that, just concentrating on his expertise and not political opinion, we can agree that he is seriously educated and knows his shit. I think that his videos and especially the book “12 rules for life“ may be the right thing for you to start with. Amongst other things, he explains how we have an innate sense of meaning, and meaning is achieved mainly by taking on responsibilities in life. He also explains how to not c…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:20 AM
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Still the hamster talking. Believe me. What you say is even worse! What do you gain by knowing that? Why is her opinion still significant for you?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:43 PM
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Your hamstering this idea of getting back with your ex to be sth good. Its not. Its a terrible idea and you WILL regret it. Oneitis textbook style.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:27 PM
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Reminds me of Lahee in trailer park boys... the shit winds. Classic
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 02:00 PM
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Overthinking again. Girls are not stupid you know. Oh, she might later claim she misunderstood, if you fucked up somehow, but she knows what youre up to. That being said, your questions point to a much larger issue. Work on yourself before working on game. You need it. Just my 2ct
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:22 PM
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You're overthinking this. You made a stand with a change that you didn't like. Thats enough, if the other changes are fine with you. We're talking about a single situation... A) you being a yes man or not is not determined in a single event and B)thats life. Plans may change sometimes, and if she kept respect with telling you and trying to accommodate you, isnt it totally fine? I think youre fine, relax
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:35 PM
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Feelsgoodman
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 10:31 AM
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Most of us have been there im sure. You're on a good path just by acknowledging your weaknesses.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:55 PM
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Thats why she is basic af
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 10:37 PM
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The last part... THIS
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:35 PM
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Well just next. Keep it civil when she happens to be around, but no attention. No personal contact whatsoever. You can even explain once why (“protect her from her feelings“ maybe, blahblah) and then do it. And cut out the crap with cuddling and white knighting. Also, if she just does stuff like coming to sleep in your bed, make a stance and dont falter. Openly announce that you do not want that, no need to explain yourself. Also, cut out the alcohol until you learned handling it in less critica…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:26 AM
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Meditation fixes anxiety issues as a side effect. The other benefits are huge, and everyone can learn to do it. I recommend “the mind illuminated“, that book has the potential to be life changing. It was for me. Also, to follow JPs advice (who i trust to be very competent on this): eat. Have a decently large and wholesome breakfast. And eat when youre anxious. Another thing: sugar is basically poison. Changed my life going sugar free.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:54 AM
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I love how you turned that comment into a nonchalant swing at the gender bullshit in the end!
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 12:17 PM
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https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/npc-wojak Here you go brother
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 12:01 PM
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Perfectly true. Just saying, a down to earth statement would've done a much better job. Its always a little tricky to believe stuff people say on the internet, but if they choose their words like a bragging 16yo, it takes away all credibility.
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:51 AM
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And I've got laid each of those times. You think I'd write field reports where I don't get it in? Why do you feel the need for this?
/r/seduction10/10/18 01:34 PM
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Meditate. Helps being less reactive. You can't win in this situation if you don't keep it cool. Whether you ignore her or plot something against her (which i wouldn't recommend, she doesnt deserve so much energy) you have to do it calmly. The way you are clearly worked up right now... understandable, but you can quit right away if you dont plan to keep it cool. If you give her emotions to work with, she's gonna FUCK... YOU... UP. Thats what they do, my man.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:20 PM
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Ah wow okay thought it is pretty much a basic gym hoe... but the married to an inmate part is REALLY red-flaggy. Bitch gonna get you stabbed in the end. Steer clear mate.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:57 PM
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Mother of red flags? How so? More info man, i love me some fucked up gym thot stories!
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:44 AM
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Please
/r/seduction28/09/18 06:50 AM
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Hard to quantify without any information. But i am sure that you do pretty good if you just follow one rule: do not validate or condone bad behavior. I think thats the most important part.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:49 PM
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Hard to quantify without any information. But i am sure that you do pretty good if you just follow one rule: do not validate or condone bad behavior. I think thats the most important part.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:49 PM
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I've considered, but feel like I've got a lesson learn. If i medicate my way through it, i will never understand this part of myself. Does tbst make sense?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:11 AM
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As i understood it, OP never said not to be kind... its more a statement against passively sitting around, having a boring life, and waiting for an external source to resolve that. That being said, I think you are right when you say balance is key. One can be a gentle and kind soul, but still get a realistic world view. Thats TRP goals right there.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 06:45 AM
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Good point, however perseverance sometimes pays off, and its good practice anyway.
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:17 PM
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Do you have goals? Even if you think you do, write them down and distill them. Start doing stuff that ups your dopamine in a good way (sports, meditation) and let go of things keeping you down (bad diet, especially sugar). Lift to get stronger and more confident (it works!) Educate yourself. All of this is not about not being fat, it's not even about looking good (even tho that is a huge side benefit). It will change your mindset by itself. Your perspective on the world. Your willingness to take…
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:15 PM
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You need to start building yourself up first. Get your life together, go lift, start meditation. As for hobbies, i entertain the thought of getting into photography for example. Sports are fun as well. But seriously, invest in yourself, girls will follow. They should not be your main objective. That in itself would repulse them, plus someone who is not happy with himself will also not be able to pull and hold a woman worth going for. You're just nineteen, time is in your favor if you start NOW
/r/seduction18/09/18 05:36 PM
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For sure, the best thing to do would be NOT mentioning you follow her. What good does that? You show her you started investing (following her, finding her irl) before she even laid eyes on you. If you just go there and introduce yourself, she will think you got balls. Thats a better starting point. Next thing is the shittest: do you realize that she shittested you twice? Ugh, do i know you... and then the boyfriend line. If you had just made up a funny story on the first, and ignored the second,…
/r/seduction18/09/18 05:29 PM
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I don't know about the best way to do it, but i can give you this piece of advice. DO SOMETHING. As opposed to doing nothing. If you try and fail, it will be uncomfortable, but you will know... and grow. If you don't even try, the “what if“ will pinch you in the dick for the next 5 months. Regrets like that hurt more than rejection. Take action and ask her out. In whatever way you want.
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:14 PM
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The preselecting bad women by even using tinder thing is EXACTLY what ive come to realize, and what made me delete all dating apps. Women worth going for don't need tinder at all. Thanks for putting this thought into words and adding such a nice example (gym). Much appreche
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:13 PM
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From personal experience: if you cave easily now, maybe there will be 2 or 3 nice weeks. But she won't forget (unconsciously) that she has the upper hand. You will feel that, and everything is gonna go downhill really quick. Ask yourself: do you REALLY want her? Is you're life impossible without her? If the answer is no, just keep your distance and move on with your life. However, if the answer is yes, there are a few things to consider. 1. You might have a problem with yourself, check that out.…
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:35 PM
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I have just recently unplugged from any fb/tinder/instagram/snapchat and whatnot. All of it is cancer. That event coincided with be being willing to date again after a long and shitty time in my life. I noticed some things: 1. I feel much better now. Go offline, trust me. You're fucking up your brain. 2. Every single success i get feels so much better if i get it in person. Just imagine. Got a number on tinder? I dont even smile. Got a number in person? I feel hyped! 3. That being said, i just r…
/r/seduction29/08/18 01:59 PM
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