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| 1 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Doing MDMA isn't something biologically ingrained in all organisms. I don't see doing MDMA in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Over 95% of humans have a biologically rooted desire for procreation. Being unable to attract someone to fulfill that fundamental biological goal indicates genetic inferiority and makes one a 'defective individual, like a defective TV set that performs every electronic function except display images' (Korzeniewski, 2005). Till and Niederkrotenthaler (2022) explain that roman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...It's pretty self-explanatory! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Clicking on it would help! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Facts https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vl7rtd/sex\_isnt\_all\_that\_important/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vl7rtd/sex\_isnt\_all\_that\_important/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vl7rtd/sex\_isnt\_all\_that\_important/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceI don't want random one-night stands. I want a committed relationship with sex after marriage. cAnyway, I did my part friend. Best of luck. Thank you for your time and effort! | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceThat is a very low number my friend. You haven't tried hard enough. Should went at least a 1000 cold hard rejections before giving up. And that 1000 ain't all that much. It's like 6 girls per day for 6 months. Or 3 girls per day over a year. And I said cold, hard rejections. That means the girl even refuses to acknowledge you or straight up says a hard no (tells you to fuck off). And you have to make sure you're applying game and working on sticking points and not just doing the same shit over a… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are nice guys missingThat why it should be from multiple people and not just one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceHow much is plenty of times? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What are nice guys missingsI believe that confidence comes from environment. If you have clean clothing, a hairstyle that works (or go completely bald, if you're thinning), if you have an apartment or home that you're proud of, a cologne that reflects your masculinity, hobbies, and friends that make you proud and aspirations that you're working towards that fill you with joy... it's hard, not to be confident when you have all that. No. Confidence comes from positive affirmation from the opposite sex that one is attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceOver 70% of people have had sex by 20 and I haven't even held hands. NOT fun. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceI've cold-approached plenty of times and I've been working out for over two years. Don't make assumptions. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceThere's a difference between 'serious girlfriend' and never even being considered attractive by the opposite sex | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 0 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceIsn't that the whole basis of 'focus on yourself'? | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 08:00 AM |
| -3 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceWell working hasn't helped so, preparing for a life of solitude :) | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 8 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceYou've had a gf since teen years. You don't have to deal with feelings of being unlovable and unattractive. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I have extremely poor vision (2/20) and have to wear thick glasses (around -7). I also have astigmatism and one eye is weaker than the other. I have extremely curly hair (nobody else in my family does, no idea where that came from). I’ve been called a tooth brush and a toilet brush, and some guys used to force my head into toilets and flush so that I’d finally “be of some use to society”. I have epicanthic folds and a large flat nose. I developed hyperhidrosis, dermatographia and solar urticaria… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I'm not assuming that I'm genetically inferior to others, I know it. People have been extremely willing to point that fact out to me :) sAnother reason for this gender imbalance is women receive a shocking amount of sexual harassment from online dating, and risk sexual assault from meeting an online stranger. This drives many women off online dating. Well I'd personally be willing to risk sexual harassment or sexual assault if it meant someone would find me attractive enough to have sex with. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Yeah I see loads of white people old enough to not have had to deal with online dating and the extremely large amount of option it gives women. sThe vast majority of people get into relationships and half the population is below average by definition. Exactly. It means that I am genetically inferior to the vast majority of the population. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Again, over 70% of people have had sex by 20. You mean to say they possessed all these traits? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?It's not that long fam | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?The issue is that I'm not attracted to men :( | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 07:19 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?So? Do you think it was good sex? Speaking from experience, probably not. At least for the women involved. Good sex > Bad sex > Nothing. At least someone wanting to have sex with you (regardless of its quality) is proof that they were considered attractive and worthy of procreation by the opposite sex. sAre you a person or are you a seagull? Do you have any self control? Is it possible for you to see women as something other than an object to possess? Well we do share a common ancestor so... Wan… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I'm not attractive enough to have feminine men want to help me with my sexual issues sadly. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?zSure, validation can be good for us as social creatures. But you need those social connections to get that validation. And you won't get those social connections if you are centred around validation. So if you're starting from the bottom, you have to find confidence in yourself before you can get that validation from others. You don't need confidence to have social connections or make friends. Just things in common and time spent together. Besides, just having social connections won't get you a… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?There's no point if you have those traits yet you still haven't received positive attention from the opposite sex. Besides, Over 70% of people have had sex by 20. You mean to say they possessed all these traits? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?To each their own XD | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Oh yeah I agree that getting such comments from people way older than you isn't fun. But if it came from someone my age I personally wouldn't consider it to be rude. cBecause it's reducing you to your beauty, something women struggle with a lot. I'd give a decade of my life to be positively reduced to my looks. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Very few statements are 100% false. Doesn't mean they are correct though. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?How am I supposed to know if I'd make a good potential partner if I've never been in a relationship? There's no validation about that. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I've tried faking it but it obviously didn't work lol | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 04:01 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Half the population have not also been rejected over 50 times and been constantly insulted, made fun of and ostracised because of their looks and race. sThat's the thing, assuming you're already over that age, that boat has sailed. The question before you is whether you will choose to fixate on that or make an effort to live your best life from today forward. That's the only real choice any of us have. Not so. Euthanasia exists. There is no point in living if you've missed out on teen love (or a… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?It's not narrow or arbitrary. It is the average experience of a human. It is the only thing that will make me happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I haven't been any happier either. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I can't argue with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Then there's no point | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I can't remember a time when I was happy. None of my hobbies or interests bring me solace anymore. I am constantly reminded that they are all merely a distraction while other people are achieving what they want to. I never wanted to be wealthy or famous. All I've ever wanted was a normal life (losing virginity at 17-18, ~5 sexual partners over my lifetime). I can't find enjoyment in anything knowing that I'm inferior to the average person in the most fundamental of life goals. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Nothing that is true. Having friends won't help you if you can't get dates. You're still not attractive enough to be considered a viable romantic partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Humans are biologically social creatures. Desire for approval and acceptance from other members of society is ingrained in us. It's not just an 'idea' than can be 'shaken'. It is impossible for someone to be confident that they are attractive or worthy when there is no proof that they are (but there is proof that they are unattractive. I have friends and people have told me I'm a great conversationalist and fun to hang out with, but I have never received proof that I'm attractive. A criminal con… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?You're the one who doesn't understand what kind of responses an ugly dude will get to sexually direct advances. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I've been in therapy for two years but it hasn't shut off my libido unfortunately. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Why would I feel fear and disgust at being considered worthy of procreation? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Exactly. Your 'advice' is LOL | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I completely agree with you. If you're brown you're starting out with a massive disadvantage. Everything else about you needs to be noticeably above average (body, height, face features and symmetry, income, social status, etc) if you even want to have a hope at challenging the average white male. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I am confident in my ability to make al dente spaghetti and soft-boiled eggs because I have done so many times and there is proof that I can do so. There is no proof that I am attractive to the opposite sex so I can't become confident about it. Confidence without attractiveness is perceived as cockiness or arrogance (just like how shyness without attractiveness is seen as creepy or weird although shyness with attractiveness is considered charming and mysterious). The only way I can have real con… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?That's essentially what he's saying. Just be okay knowing you'll constantly be rejected. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?There are a ton of people who don't have children (or even sex) for various reasons and still manage to live fulfilling lives and make some sort of lasting contribution to society. The choice is entirely up to you. They aren't involuntarily sexless and happy. I wish I could choose to shut off my biological drive for procreation and desire for the opposite sex but I can't without also facing significant health issues. Chemical castration isn't worth it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I mean I'm straight but I like having my G-spot stimulated so I KNOW that it's pleasurable to be penetrated (with lube of course). How would I go about finding a conditional-attracted asexual woman? I'm not gay so I don't think a guy would really help tbh. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?They've been chosen as someone worthy of procreation. They've been able to fulfill their biological goal. Our very existence is optimised solely for reproductive success and to pass on our genes. Failure to find a mate means I have failed to carry out the main reason I exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?One was a top and he said he used a condom. He said it was really fun (self-confessed man-whore) and he gets tested every couple of months. The other is vers and he still hasn't bottomed yet. He said the first time wasn't amazing but he has grown to like it. Both are on PrEP. How would have an asexual friend help? By definition he wouldn't be attracted to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I have two gay friends and they both lost their virginities within a week of installing Grindr. Both were chatting with multiple people in the app. I honestly wish I could make myself be attracted to men sometimes. Plenty of people had sex but far less actually have enjoyable sex trust me on that. Nothing < Sex < Enjoyable sex | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:32 PM |
| -1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Rejection is part of the cycle. Yet over 70% of people have had sex by 20. sYou need to first stop falling in love every time a woman shows you a shred of friendly interest. If a starving person sees food, it is biologically impossible for them not to want it (whether they have the mental restraint to not steal it is another matter). Have you ever seen a seagull or pigeon leave after you give them just one piece of food? You need to practice making friends with women you aren't attracted to. The… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:30 PM |
| -4 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Yeah you keep seeing women as equals and peers and you end up getting friendzoned each time you develop feelings for one of your friends and ask them out. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Not if you're brown and below 6 ft. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Recognizing that dating is essentially a numbers game. Where you cast anet with big hole knowing most of them will slip through but that’s okaybecause you only need to catch one or two ect. The things that helps afisherman is patience and consistency and time. So kick back enjoy adrink with a friend and just enjoy the experience. Over 70% if people have had sex by 20. We haven't even held a woman's hand and you're rambling on about patience and time?! "Enjoy the experience" Ah yes it's so enjoya… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 01:03 PM |
| 3 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?You need positive validation from the opposite sex to develop confidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:58 PM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?sWomen respond well to direct sexual advances, and feel complimented and happy to know "you would fuck them". I never met a woman that didn't like knowing I would want to fuck her or found her attractive. Ah yes, a glimpse into what it's like being an attractive guy. If an ugly dude made direct sexual advances they'd be in prison before you could say "ew no" | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:56 PM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I'd give up a decade of my life to have someone tell me they "wanted to fuck me" | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?You need positive validation from the opposite sex to become confident. If you make yourself good company, at best you'll be friendzoned if you don't meet a woman's looks threshold. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I'm sure Jeremy Meeks, Cameron Herrin, and the plethora of murderers, child molesters, and other criminals with partners had to "work on their humanity" lmfao | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:32 PM |
| -6 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?You have to treat women like equals and peers and socially engage with them. Yeah and keep getting friendzoned. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | While I can sympathize with men and how they feel about the lack of sex/intimacy, a lot of men are simping extremely hard and don’t even realize it, and men’s intense desire for women is only pushing women awayI mean the study literally did prove that having a partner improves mental health so.... great! Not really sure what a psychiatrist / psychologist can do to get their patients a partner tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | While I can sympathize with men and how they feel about the lack of sex/intimacy, a lot of men are simping extremely hard and don’t even realize it, and men’s intense desire for women is only pushing women awayromantic relationships were noted to be a predictor of psychological well-being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | While I can sympathize with men and how they feel about the lack of sex/intimacy, a lot of men are simping extremely hard and don’t even realize it, and men’s intense desire for women is only pushing women awayA meta-analysis in 2019 by Gómez-López et al. of over 100 research articles published over the last three decades proved that romantic relationships are significantly associated with well-being in adolescents. The same paper also showed that young adults who have romantic relationships are happier,feel more satisfied with their lives, have fewer problems with mental and physical illness, show greater positive affect, and have better levels of self-esteem than single people. Romantic relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Im not a big fan of being a manAgain, why is this the peak human experience that you decide to make this post about? Why does it matter so much? Maybe because birth, procreation, and death are the three main stages of most organisms' lives, and you've failed at what all your ancestors dating back millennia have been able to achieve? Ultimately it's on you to be either comfortable and confident with your body now, or to change it, If you've only experienced bullying and never once received positive reinforcement regarding your… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 01:37 PM |
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