sublimearound Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is it ever okay to not practice pickup and just work on yourself for a bit? Yes. You can do whatever you like.	/r/seduction	15/01/16 10:45 AM
4	Infautation - An addiction? You described the experience of smoking crack... Women aren't much different than drugs. It's a bunch of chemical reactions in your head.	/r/seduction	15/01/16 10:43 AM
1	Why do girls on tinder flirt, give me their number, set a time and place to meet, only to cancel a little while later? I have closed with multiple women on Tinder. It actually is really easy... but you can't put very much faith in it as it is a flaky app to begin with. 1. Don't set up dates more than 1 day in advance. If you are talking today - set up the date for this evening or tomorrow evening. 2. You pick the time and place. Not her, don't even ask what she wants to do. 3. You should not be offering your Friday and Saturday night to a chick FROM TINDER! You should be actually saying that you have plans with …	/r/seduction	26/10/15 06:58 AM
3	Going to the movies, never been on a date in my life and need advice. The guy said this is his 1st date in his life. Cut him some slack guys, I don't think he is going to lose his virginity on the 1st date in his life. Go to the movies, go to ice cream, play mini golf, it doesn't matter man. Just get to know the girl. Try to have fun. When things go to shit, then come back here. I don't think anyone hits a home run on their first time playing baseball. If you do though, post about it!	/r/seduction	22/10/15 07:00 AM
3	Why is it that so many people on here feel opposed to someone wanting to build a lifestyle that gets them sex with lots of hot girls? Haters gonna hate. Ignore them. This is the internet. There is tons of good material here.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 08:14 PM
4	Openers "Hi" with the biggest most genuine smile you can muster is my favorite. Then I just immediately launch into a story as if I have already been talking to her for 10 minutes. Keep the story under 1 minute. If she likes you, she starts talking when you finish your story. As far as some of your questions - Ukraine, Trump, Taxes, Jihadi girls... those are all in the political realm and can be toxic if you can't exit that line of conversation within a minute or so. Yes it engages people, but you never…	/r/seduction	20/10/15 07:50 PM
3	How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of Girls You have to set this up with women from the beginning. I tell EVERY woman that I'm probably a lot more of a freak than she is sexually up front (great thing to mention on the 1st date). This then puts them in a mindset of trying to "prove" you wrong the rest of the relationship... and if you are in a monogamous relationship but end up screwing around and get caught you can always go back to that and say "I warned you I was a freak" or "I'm not getting what I need here. So I did that." Strangely,…	/r/seduction	20/10/15 06:49 PM
1	[FR] she started talking about a guy she liked on a date. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming If you read "The Game" he goes back and forth touching on NLP. I think ultimately, without incorporating NLP into your personality, you are doing yourself a disservice. I've had it used on me by a car salesman before and I absolutely ate that shit up. It was great.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 05:59 PM
2	[FR] she started talking about a guy she liked on a date. It's Ross Jeffries entire book "How To Get The Woman You Want Into Bed" and only like 75 pages. It's been 5 years or so since I read it last so I can't remember exactly how it goes. I'm not really trying to sell a book for the guy and could care less about him, but he gives a step by step story in that book that you can tell to a woman that takes her from a zero to a 10 on the horny scale. I've just repeated it word for word to women and probably gotten laid just off of that story 15+ times alon…	/r/seduction	20/10/15 09:28 AM
3	[FR] she started talking about a guy she liked on a date. I'm confused why anyone downvoted the post above. This is dead on. Read some of Ross Jeffries stuff, he actually says to put a woman in the frame of mind she was in "during her best sexual experience" or along those lines. She then starts feeling those feelings around you. I could go on, but the bottom line is this girl was trying to instigate clearly as she changed the subject to a conversation closer to being sexual. Sorry it was about some other random dude from a long time ago, don't be so s…	/r/seduction	20/10/15 07:00 AM
3	How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of Girls You have 2 women you aren't exclusive with but sleeping with both. Ask each if "it just happens" would they roll with it. Go to a bar with both, buy drinks, shut the fuck up. After 2 drinks and 20 minutes of having fun together, invite both back to your place. They aren't stupid... Half the time they initiate from there. Otherwise, massages get you there. No verbal communication required...	/r/seduction	19/10/15 09:36 AM
1	What to do for the Third Date? Ask her if she is a good cook and if she will invite you over and make you something. Or, tell her you want to cook her dinner and invite her to your place. If you don't pull the trigger now, you are headed for the friend zone.	/r/seduction	19/10/15 06:10 AM
1	About finally committing to one person Dude, go for it. Get in the relationship, be the nice guy. One day you will wake up and realize that you are bored with it and don't care about her and will realize it's just over. It's a ton of fun until you didn't get her something for valentines day and she makes you feel like shit for it. As long as you know when to leave then there is nothing wrong with committing. My problem is staying in relationships longer than I should.	/r/seduction	19/10/15 06:08 AM
2	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) And I'm the same. ;-) Now give some of these guys some advice rather than rag on them.	/r/seduction	18/10/15 07:32 AM
3	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) /u/misslollipops I'm not attempting to train you on anything. I was providing information. You didn't address the main question I asked: Am I wrong in what I said? Would you give the majority of the posters on here (introverts, nerdy guys, guys without much confidence, yet probably excellent boyfriend/husband material) a second look (assuming they aren't even on this forum)? How's fucking guys like me working out for you? You know what I am, a guy with options - why would I offer anything more t…	/r/seduction	18/10/15 07:07 AM
3	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) Sigh It appears you're right u/TheOneWithout_A_Name That sucks. u/misslollipops I will provide a nice easy explanation for you. Imagine that all of the men on this forum are the "nice guys" you women bitch about never getting to meet. Go ahead, read some of the threads about "How do I get this girl to like me" or whatever and tell me I'm wrong. Keep going out to meet the alpha males in a bar that hit on you, treat you like shit (sometimes), use you, make you feel like a whore (me), etc... You th…	/r/seduction	18/10/15 05:33 AM
3	Why do older women not shit-test you as much? I didn't put Amy Schumer on a pedestal! I said the video was was solid and that men don't deal with this! I agree Schumer isn't a sex symbol.	/r/seduction	18/10/15 04:23 AM
2	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) Upvote	/r/seduction	18/10/15 03:08 AM
1	How can I make sex and all that leads up to sex about her? (Hope this belongs here) This is so general and vague that it's really hard to answer. The only time I've ever slept with a woman and it's been about her was when she wanted it way more than me and I did it to just shut her up. If you try to make any aspect of a pickup about her satisfaction and happiness then it moves towards supplicating, which is actually a turn off to women... I doubt you get many replies to this thread. If you are asking how to properly bang a woman, well, you just asked such a broad questions that…	/r/seduction	18/10/15 01:25 AM
4	Why do older women not shit-test you as much? This is an easy one, best explained by this awesome video by Amy Schumer. It's sad but true. Women have to deal with this, men don't. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPpsI8mWKmg	/r/seduction	18/10/15 01:11 AM
1	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) I wouldn't put her in the back of the line, I would give her an opportunity to impress me and show that she is worth my time. She might be fucking awesome, you never know unless you give them/her a shot.	/r/seduction	18/10/15 01:05 AM
5	First lay field report (finally did it, feel like a God) You fucking love alpha males, don't lie. Watch out for us all you want, you always end up on your back when you meet us. I gave you an upvote anyway. ;-)	/r/seduction	17/10/15 11:48 PM
1	How to seduce your female friends The fact is that you can get out of the friend zone rather easily by putting in the time to learn solid game. The problem is, if you are asking this question here it's an uphill battle that you likely have a year+ that it would take and it's just not really worth the time and energy that you would put into it for this one girl. The stuff you need to do to yourself will leave you not caring about sleeping with her by the time you were able to do this, so it really just becomes an act of futility.…	/r/seduction	17/10/15 11:27 PM
2	Something happened - Should I ask what ? Do not ask. It puts you in a position of becoming her emotional tampon, which devalues you.	/r/seduction	09/10/15 08:30 AM
5	Brother in high school needs your guys advice. You are wrong about why he is being shut down. The basic concept of how women work is that they are attracted to Alpha males... being a whore is actually an attractive trait to women. Female logic: "If she could have him, why can't I?" I was sleeping with 4 women for a time and they all knew about the others. Net result, each tried harder to make me "choose her." There was one woman I had tried to land for months. It wasn't until I nailed her friend that she literally threw herself at me THE NEX…	/r/seduction	22/09/15 06:56 AM
1	Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejected "I want to get to know you better. Are you free tomorrow night at 7? Let's meet at xxxx." Just assume the answers are yes and jump straight into planning the date. Make every decision on day/time/place so she just needs to say "Ok."	/r/seduction	10/09/15 10:48 AM
2	Is overdressing when going out good or bad? Best response! Upvote for you!!! For a nice chunk of my life, I was the guy that just went everywhere in a suit. I will say that almost every woman is receptive to talking to a guy in a suit. It projects confidence, says you care about yourself, gives off the image that you are comfortable. As far as the guy in a suit at a backyard bbq... I wouldn't have a problem being that guy. It would be fun and I could joke about it with my friends, and yes, I have been in that situation. Bottom line, take …	/r/seduction	03/09/15 10:08 PM
5	How would you reply if a girl sent you deep clevage pics on Snapchat? Who are these people saying to send a dick picture? Seriously, why are they on this forum? That is NOT seduction at all. That's internet porn. Don't send a dick picture, ever. Have some self respect instead.	/r/seduction	02/09/15 03:05 AM
21	How exactly do women sense insecurity/a lack of confidence? Try this (field tested and recommended by every guru out there): Say hello and smile at the next 100 people you see, walk by, stand in line behind or in front of at any store or restaurant in addition to just smiling. I went to London one time and said hello to EVERYONE that got near me in the tube station and on the tube (THAT GETS YOU AWKWARD LOOKS!!!!) Same in NYC on the subway - people don't talk to people there. Why not? Strangely, some of the women I said hi to looked up, gave me a big smi…	/r/seduction	02/09/15 02:51 AM
3	When to call it a day and just move on Your title says it all. A 3rd message would make you seem incredibly needy and there is no way she would respond positively to that, so why bother to send it at all? Call it a day on this one.	/r/seduction	01/09/15 08:29 AM
1	Maybe someone in Canada can help? I'm on a serious downward spiral emotionally right now with toxic thoughts and experiences, and have no idea where to begin. This makes me sad. I feel for you man, I really do. I'm kind of fat and a bit on the short side. Read Tinder and all those "Anyone under 6'0" swipe left," can certainly start getting to you from the opposite end. A lot of people find the game when they are at low points in their lives. I certainly was myself. You see the problem, you KNOW the problem, yet you are asking the same question so many of us did and will continue to in the future: How do I build up my confidence? The answer is literall…	/r/seduction	01/09/15 07:02 AM
3	K-closed a girl but not sure if I should persist because of reasons I liked it! That was a great story and you handled the meeting really well. As far as the "Why did she unfriend me?" question... man there are so many possible answers. She may have a boyfriend, she may have gone back home, figuring out women's reasoning = act of futility. Next time try to plan your next date before she leaves if the phone isn't working! I'm sure somebody may be willing to analyze the unfriending more than me, but it's easier to just next her. You can't salvage this one. That su…	/r/seduction	31/08/15 11:24 PM
3	Failed Miserably I'm going to be honest with you. You've already blown this one. You need to move on to the next one. Yes, it's a horrible idea to go for Facebook. Only go for the # close. Trying is 9/10ths of the battle, so good on you for that at least. Bummer this one didn't work out. There are more though!	/r/seduction	31/08/15 10:09 PM
1	Did NOT know 'oneitis' would hit me this hard Go exercise too. I always found I could exercise my way out of that feeling of depression that kicks in.	/r/seduction	31/08/15 08:14 PM
1	Do what you love and they will follow Amen brother.	/r/seduction	31/08/15 07:58 PM
1	Got any practical advice for this oldie ?? Thank god for those 2-3 guys that she is with at the bar! You go talk to them, make friends, tell them they are cool guys while ignoring the target. How many times in your life has a guy pissed you off by randomly starting up a conversation with you? Never, right? It's no different in a bar. Run game (be interesting and tell stories) ON THE GUYS TOO! After you are cool with them, they will gladly tell you who the chick is, if she is one of their girlfriends/wives/etc. Then you pop in some type o…	/r/seduction	31/08/15 07:36 PM
1	Why are you in the game? What's your goals for the future? This is a great post. It sounds like my story a bit! I got into this in 2005 and it changed my life. I turned into the person I always wanted to be out of necessity. I got off my ass and made a cool life for myself that I really liked. The women stopped really being a priority, they just came. Then I met a super hot chick and made the absolute worst decision to give up on game and get married with the idea of a family and all that nonsense. I'm now divorced. That was my only mistake. Anyway, I f…	/r/seduction	31/08/15 07:24 AM
1	[FR] New in the field sharing the experience(Thoughts/tips/advice are welcome) You know the whole neg thing used to be used once to level the playing field. If you want advice, I'll throw in my 2 cents. Be nicer to them. After the 1st neg got thrown out, she was into you and you could have started escalating kino. I've been out of the game for a while, maybe things have changed. I always felt like the negs were/should be reserved for the chicks that act like they are better than you.	/r/seduction	31/08/15 07:06 AM
1	Least Sentimental "First Kiss" Story Ever Why even have a conversation about a relationship? I put that off and just ignore it as long as possible. I just assume it's casual until she brings it up. I managed to make it a year with one chick before she brought up the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.	/r/seduction	31/08/15 06:46 AM
1	Got any practical advice for this oldie ?? Wow, I was on here because I've been out of the loop for a few years and wanted to brush up on stuff for myself, and ran across this. I'm older than you, but I can give you some easy advice, although I don't claim to be a guru (anymore). I'm getting kind of chunky, haven't read anything on pickup in damn near a decade now. I'm at least still getting tail (or I was until I realized today that I'm now out of women as the last one went and got a real boyfriend sigh and the other one is just so bori…	/r/seduction	31/08/15 06:27 AM