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You're not "calling me out on bs", by calling me a liar; it's just being unnecessarily disrespectful. I was behind sincere, but I suggested your assertion was wrong, and you just couldn't cope, so instead attack me personally. We can disagree on whether single parents should be celebrated regardless what someone named the day, without one of us being part of some grand conspiracy. How exactly did I "discredit" a parent other than my own? Are you defending my mother now? I don't really get what y…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 06:53 PM
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Why exactly? Do you expect hostility? Are you afraid? Report back.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 06:10 PM
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lol. Ok. I just shared a very personal thing about my life with you and your response is I'm a liar. Happy Father's Day to you, as well.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 05:57 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that we share similarly loveless past, but I guess you kinda got egg on your face with that assertion. I was also raised by a single mother, and in my case, was also not given effort from her as alternative to a father, but TBH, there wasn't a lot of effort there for a mother. But there are single father's and mother's that are amazing and loving and go beyond, and we shouldn't dismiss them just because our own single parent didn't fill our perception of what they should have b…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 04:31 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights21/06/26 04:19 PM
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Who's "they"? Do you let others make your decisions for you? If you're a single dad, I would celebrate you on mother's day. Unless you told me you weren't comfortable with it, and I completely respect that stance, as well. But single dads are no less impressive to me.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 03:44 PM
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I disagree. If a parent does both jobs, why not celebrate them twice? That's a tough gig.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 02:27 PM
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I agree. I've never heard anyone use the term manchild to describe a man crying. Only to describe a man that is entitled, expecting everything done for him, without any understanding or appreciation of what this is asking for in practice and who needs to do the work of making that happen for them.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:16 PM
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I think that there may be some employers where that is the case (especially if a male is taking the report), and may even be the gut reaction to others, but I doubt anyone with an hr worth anything doesn't know better. However, "taken seriously" and "treated differently" are are probably not equal here.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 08:16 PM
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Also, we each just have our own goals. Many contend with pressure to find their ideal mate while they are still able. Not that I've been anywhere near the dating scene lately.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 06:26 AM
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Don't we choose them? Previous to becoming a professional programmer I have historically chosen (when possible) jobs that most women wouldn't do or be capable of, because of the physical requirements, and I've gotten paid more for it. And even now, as a programmer, there are very few women in my field, and I make a decent amount, and much more than my wife. Maybe I'm off base, but I don't think men are getting stuck with the harder or more dangerous jobs; for the most part I think we choose them…
/r/MensRights07/02/26 03:55 PM
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Completely agree, that is likely the word I would reach for if a woman got too touchy-feely (hopefully that word isn't triggering, as well).
/r/MensRights05/02/26 04:02 PM
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So have people actually been using the word quite a bit, or only you? I didn't see the original post, but I would agree that bordering on the edge of rape, seems to be described by the word rapey. Doesn't sound like you were trying to get the benefit of calling someone a rapist without flat out saying it, or whatever dumb shit that means, it just sounds like you were slightly hedging your bets while explicitly stating that it sounds like rape. It sounds like rape to me. Someone "acts" like they'…
/r/MensRights05/02/26 02:32 PM
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Right? Why would you be so confident when you can't even give a vague answer why your assertion is correct? That said, I do think American culture has shifted to more patience and understanding, than the previous hard knocks philosophy. Men tend to be the ones to encourage such paradigms, so it could seem like this has taken this piss out of "manliness". Personally, I think for the most part, this has been a good movement, and I've always valued the calculated and patient and understanding over …
/r/MensRights30/01/26 02:13 PM
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Can you tell us why this is controversial to you? I get that men have some lack of "rights" with regards to abortion, but do we as men have some other issue with abortion in general? Personally, my first instinct would be to agree with the meme/claim. Assuming by "murder" they are trying to imply that a fetus would be considered "a living thing" or whatever is most important to opponents (moving the goal post), then in the same way as many of us see capital punishment as different than "murder",…
/r/MensRights04/01/26 12:18 AM
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I appreciate the write up, but it seems a little superfluous. The meme is pretty obviously inaccurate and offensive and anyone that literally believes it, you should probably just avoid.
/r/MensRights28/09/25 01:43 PM
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I think that many people do genuinely care and want to help, but don't actually expend the required energy to be sensitive and meaningful in their help. It doesn't encourage speaking out when our words and feelings are used against us and ridiculed immediately after sharing.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 03:57 AM
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Sorry, I didn't mean that bias is good, I only meant that we now live in a time when women feel free enough (without fear of being silenced violently) to speak, which is ultimately not bad, despite biases being inevitable. I agree that the pendulum has swung the other way a bit, and men do suffer, but again, I liken it to the struggle between white and black in America: nobody likes being called a cracker or the assumption that we're gonna ruin everyone's fun, but your have to at least appreciat…
/r/MensRights07/06/25 04:12 AM
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Jesus Christ, I didn't say I don't see discrimination against men. What are you even arguing against? I agree that today's culture has become toxic toward men, that's not what I'm arguing. Get a grip.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 09:18 PM
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My comment is merely my opinion. I don't wish to divide anyone. I see your point about a "double standard", I just disagree that men are suffering or something as a result. Companies do what they think will make them popular and money, and I will speak with my dollar, but I'm curious about examples of toxic femininity you speak of.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 07:40 PM
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I don't disagree that it's a little sad, but I also don't think it's a feminist lie. I like to think of myself as "feminist", and nobody has to tell me that men are celebrated as the first doers of nearly everything. If there's an invention, we are not often wrong just assuming it was by a man. If there's a great leader, it was likely a man. This isn't focusing on bad men; the focus has just been on men in general on history. This isn't to say that it couldn't have been the other way around, it'…
/r/MensRights06/06/25 07:33 PM
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The idea is that men are already celebrated at any time. I don't entirely disagree with the premise. A celebration of "men" is likely to be overshadowed by the toxic aspects of masculinity, which would only be used by opponents to bash it, and it would get worse in response, and just spiral and not help men in the end. Maybe this will all end one day when we no longer need or have clear-cut gender roles, but that doesn't help celebrating a particular gender.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 02:13 PM
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Presumably they don't for the same reason companies aren't going gay this month; it would come with backlash. Men are the "oppressors"; it would be like celebrating a white history month.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 01:37 PM
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I agree that some people won't be satisfied without "equal representation" everywhere, but they won't say anything about a movie without men.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 01:45 PM
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Yeah I'm American, and I was forced to sign up for selective service when I turned 18. I just checked and it's still totally a thing. From what I've heard stories of, most people had a very negative view of draft dodgers, and I can only imagine them getting targeted violently, whether or not it was to actually conscript them. This is just a fact of life, like mandatory vaccinations for deadly outbreaks: when the alternative is complete annihilation, you will be forced.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 04:53 AM
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I completely agree, but I'm curious if ever a draft is needed to be enacted in America, would it be identical? Was it ever like this for "draft dodgers"?
/r/MensRights01/03/25 11:45 PM
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I guess you could say it has the word sex in it, but I still thought/think incel is more about the behavior that makes them unattractive; and less directly about sex, and nothing about their ability at sex. Small dick energy has the express implication that anyone with a small dick cannot please a woman, which isn't fair to those with small dicks, who may or may not be able to please or find partners, aside from any negative attitude they may possess.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:09 PM
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I could be wrong, but how I interpret "incel" doesn't compare with "small dick energy". They both attack negative attitudes, but incel is more directly defined by the attitude, affecting no others (I thought incels were by definition self made by their shitty attitudes, but maybe I'm wrong about the usage), whereas SDE is defined as the assumed attitude of someone with a particular unchangeable physical attribute, which of course is offensive to those with the physical "affliction" that don't sh…
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:10 AM
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Huh? /s
/r/MensRights13/12/24 06:35 PM
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In what sense? Like a fragile male ego or something? Seems like the same picture.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:06 PM
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I think OP could answer most of their questions in the comfort of their own home. Hopefully, OP is safe in their own home. There are a lot of things that might upset "some" man, I don't think that's reason to not do it.... maybe if you live in Iraq or something. I'm not discounting the fear, but I disagree with the notion that it's just generally unsafe or that "unsafe" things should always be avoided, just because some bully threatened you.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 06:25 PM
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The only thing stopping you from wearing a dress is your own insecurity. Try one and report your findings.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 02:45 PM
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Didn't we take this whole month?
/r/MensRights24/11/24 12:38 AM
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I can only hope that you're leaving out some crucial detail that makes her less of an asshole here, but I can't think of a context where this would be appropriate from your therapist. Did you tell her that you didn't appreciate the comment? If you do and she doesn't immediately apologize, then I'd ditch her, personally. IDK if you had already talked about it or were not specific, but she could have suggested surrogate or adoption or big brother, or anything except a derisive comment that can onl…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 02:04 AM
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a specific source, but that sounds more like a lie the Democratic party would be telling. Lol. I'm not sure if you are hearing claims of Trump executing a nationwide ban from a specific source Lol, lol.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 04:19 AM
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Lol lol. Lol. Lol. Where does it say "ban"?
/r/MensRights19/11/24 04:07 AM
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You know most men served their women. They literally worked their entire lives to make a good life for their ladies. They had it good. You know, around about the time The Civil War happened, most men didn't support the slavery of blacks in America. We actually had a war about it. Does that mean blacks don't get to have a gripe with the white man?
/r/MensRights18/11/24 06:00 PM
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Trump getting re-elected will take away women's abortion rights Your pointing out that states have ratified abortion access is missing the point, with an emphasis on the "whoosh". You literally said it is a "myth that Trump getting re-elected will take away women's abortion rights", and when I said that in fact women will have their abortion access taken away from them by their state, your response is "but not ALL women". Checkmate, women with rights fighting for the rights of women without! Car…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:53 PM
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the right to work in coal mines is drafted in the military Are you imagining a world in which women did this to men? Ask most of the men around here what they would say if a woman suggested they should be able to work in the coal mines or beside them at war... There are very good reasons why they should require her to prove her worth, not least of which: they are putting their lives in the hands of someone that is traditionally not capable of holding up to the pressures and strength requirements…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 05:43 PM
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That's not a myth. Trump has been vocal about his stance to put it to the states. Some states have been vocal in their stance against abortion rights. Women in those states will lose access to safe abortions. And it's not unreasonable to assume that women that are afforded those rights in states that have voted to protect them are still angry and protective of those that are being subject to this injustice. I'm a man, and even I think it's totally uncool, bro.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 04:48 PM
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There are a ton of them. I can't list them all, obviously. But you can only list one? You said "most", so I figure you should have spouted out at least three egregious examples. "Rule of Thumb," women weren't allowed to work, were considered property, and so on. Ok, I'll take your word for it, but TBH I may have only heard this mentioned once before, decades ago. I should think that if "most" examples of why women take issue with men are "myths", as you say, then your first example should be mod…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 04:09 PM
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I don't disagree with you, but your response is not a valid answer to OP's question. I answered by providing what I think to be one of the obvious sources of women's ire.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:32 PM
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Can you describe what specifically you find to be myths and one-sided truths? Also, what are one-sided truths? I completely agree that extensive female privilege isn't often discussed, and when it is, it can be hard to do without immediate defensiveness and victim mentality. That said, there are certainly conservative women that do acknowledge this privilege and go so far as to be a proponent of a paternalistic society.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:30 PM
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women are okay in their sexism because of a small percentage of men and it's not fair for men to do the same Is that what you heard from what I said? I'm sorry to have been incapable of articulating my intent, if that is truly how I came off. Discrimination can be an effective tool to protect one's livelihood. That is a fact; it is a natural part of human behavior. That doesn't make it just or less hurtful to others or even accurate at performing this function. Like I said, I personally hold fee…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 04:02 AM
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I was just sharing my fallible opinion, not trying to preach, but what specific message are you referring to?
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:47 AM
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I don't use Tik Tok, but that sounds toxic and indefensible. Of course, clearly, this doesn't represent all women.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:45 AM
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Yeah history had an imbalance, but now in the present, everyone has the same amount of freedom to do whatever they want. I can't say I completely agree with you here. There is still a wide variety of cultural norms in at least this "melting pot" that I'm from. Also, despite the apparent public advertisement of such equality in general in society, in practice women still suffer from abuse at the hands of men in their lives. And again, it isn't right for them to discriminate against other men as a…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:32 AM
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Who's justifying? Just being realistic. If the men around me were largely using their power of intimidation and privilege to unjustly discriminate against me and cause me fear, I would develop defense and coping mechanisms. It may be wrong for them to lash out at random men, but your implication seems to be that they aren't allowed to develop any thoughts or defenses about those from a real group that have harmed them. I agreed that there is a growing epidemic of indiscriminate hated towards men…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:14 AM
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What specific hate? A lot of arguments for male privilege and the general history of gender imbalance of power and respect have merit and aren't myths. I'm not saying it's right for feminism to have gone as far as some take it, but the history of oppression of women hasn't been imagined. Like, I'm not saying it's right for a black person to indiscriminately call me a cracker, but we can't imagine history didn't happen. Also, always remember that in the same way that I can't speak for you, not al…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 02:50 AM
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I am aware of the successes of posturing men selling promises of validation and inspiration to other posturing men, but I can't say that I consume any or enough of it to care or discuss. However, I don't think that those men represent the attitude of the bulk of us; though they may be a loud and easy to pay attention to bunch. Again, if the ability for a man to literally cry is not what is truly in question here, then the mention of crying is simply an insult. But, no, we cannot ignore that men …
/r/MensRights17/11/24 08:48 PM
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As opposed to the people that are suggesting men need to cry; which are presumably women, yes. Do I believe men and women process feelings differently and not necessarily one or the other being deficient in that ability? Yes. I honestly don't see the message "real men don't cry" often. Seems like more of a joke to me: I'm not crying, you're crying. No man literally sees a man crying over the things that typically make men cry and calls them out for it. That has literally never happened to me, ev…
/r/MensRights17/11/24 03:32 PM
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Right, but you, and they, are assuming that "bottling up emotions" (not addressing your feelings) is the same as what they perceive: someone not crying. They are not equivalent. Men usually don't have to cry to resolve their feelings.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 03:07 PM
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I assume it's "what's good for the goose is good for the gander." Those that say men should cry, probably cry themselves and find that it somehow helps them work through their feelings. Ergo, they think if men don't cry they must not be "dealing" with their feelings, leading to some imagined build up of unresolved feelings.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 01:38 AM
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Are you here to defend a man's right to be pegged? Or is this just a place of unapologetic bigotry and misogyny like the other subs claim? Literally having a conversation about people being uncomfortably approached sexually in a safe space, and this is your response in defense of men. Classy.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:14 PM
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I agree with most of what you say here, but my point was--and still is, despite your points--that I don't really see a "double standard". Just because some specific scumbag ladies invaded the wrong space, doesn't implicate all women as perpetrating a mass conspiratorial double standard. I'll admit that those specific scumbags described are likely to in fact be hypocrites, but that doesn't automatically point to some systematic problem, in the same way my neck beard doesn't peg me as non feminist…
/r/MensRights08/11/24 08:45 PM
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If I'm about to shit myself and the men's is closed, I'm using the ladies toilet; you can go right ahead and call the police. But the people that would use the other bathroom aren't necessarily the same people saying people should stay in their own bathroom. I know this is gonna sound harsh but not all men are the same, not all women are the same. Surely women just want to be able to go into a private area and be safe, and aren't as concerned with the sex of the people pooping in there.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 03:15 PM
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I'm just saying... Preparing for the down votes... I'm just saying... I don't personally own one, but I'm... just... saying: imagine going into a place of business, seeing a guy wearing a fedora, and going "that's inappropriate". Come on. Give me a break, employers.
/r/MensRights07/09/24 03:09 AM
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This is why I dislike the term "patriarchy", over the more honest and distributed "male" and "female privilege". As a man, I admit that some things are definitely better, but women gotta admit some other things are way better and lax for them, too. The real problem for me is that while there are some terrible things women suffer, it's largely taboo/cringe (despite being told otherwise) to discuss what men suffer, or at best, it is openly diminished.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 12:59 AM
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6'4" here. I'm not fighting off any attackers. Here's my money. Furthermore, yes I do feel safe as a man walking around alone... the same way a woman feels safe and oblivious for a while... until I actually fucking think about it and realize I'm not safe at all. The only thing I'm safe from is probably being attacked by a woman.
/r/MensRights25/08/24 02:53 PM
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I wouldn't, but the implications and possibilities do seem interesting. For example, remember that movie where two firemen acted like they were gay lovers to get health benefits or something; I imagine a movie where a man calls himself trans to get benefits, wouldn't go over as well, whether or not he was a fireman. I noticed comments saying they wouldn't want to because of dating implications or not wanting to change their style, but is that really an issue? Biological women wear men's clothing…
/r/MensRights22/08/24 03:22 AM
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I've seen it twice now, and I thought it was funny and enjoyed it. If it's any indication, the bear vs man debate infuriates me, and yet I didn't think the movie went too far at all.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 12:33 AM
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How many women seeing this story immediately imagine some man they've known who they'd sacrifice five years of their lives to dismember.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:33 PM
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Her mug shot is not the first photo, but it is in the collection of the article.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:15 PM
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Cool that there's an ad for boner pills that pops up over the story.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 02:20 PM
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Not sure why this is down voted, but I was going to say it is a combination of the many suggestions that have already been made, and something along these lines. If men are actively looking for a mate, they may not even notice themselves performing some obvious behaviors that indicate that intent. Some of which, can be quite off-putting, because women aren't looking for men in "dating mode", but rather men that are just normally decent. Also, men tend to be better at casual flirting, without bei…
/r/MensRights19/03/24 02:53 AM
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We must put a stop to specifically that 25% of homelessness. Seems more doable. /s
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:08 PM
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Thanks. That's disturbing, but my guess is they mostly dunk on actual cringe posted here. I'll monitor to see what it's like.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 05:32 PM
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Can you link? I don't see any such sub.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 04:30 PM
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Imagine how ok with the rape everyone would be if a young girl victim stated that her dream was fulfilled. /s
/r/MensRights07/04/22 05:08 PM
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First response suggests females can get away with such rapes easier than males. Reply states that male is close to legal age there, suggesting it a more acceptable situation. The response is of course to ask if there is a flip side situation, and does everyone still think it's hunky dory then? I don't think the premise is to force males to be more upset about being raped, I think the premise is to force society to recognize that acts on either sex are just as heinous, regardless of how the child…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:34 PM
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Let's not ignore the societal pressure for a female to be disgusted and damaged by such a "rape", and the pressures for a male to appreciate and be honored by their "opportunity at early sex". Whether the boy feels damaged and willing to press charges, is at least in part a function of those pressures.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 11:57 PM
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