| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queen | FDS SUCCESS! | subprincessthrway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:47 AM |
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| 19 | LVM uses Covid support group to whine about not getting laid while self isolating despite not wanting a relationshipSmh monks are organizing delivery of vital supplies and sewing masks right now. Not getting your dick wet for a month is the least you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:39 AM |
| 7 | I know we need a little positivity. Can you post examples of how a man is behaving in an HV way during this global crisis?I was sick last week, and quarantined at home for going on two weeks now. My boyfriend has done absolutely everything without complaining. He immediately liaisoned with my doctor when I got sick, sets up my nebulizer treatments, and makes sure I take my medications on time. He’s cooked healthy nutritious meals for us every day, made sure the house is clean, and takes care of all of our dog’s needs. He also calls his parents, and my parents every day and organized grocery delivery for them. I hon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:24 AM |
| 15 | Tech/nerd guys are not harmless to women. In fact, they can be the most harmful.My boyfriend is just like yours, but I think we have to acknowledge they aren’t the norm. My boyfriend is disgusted by most of his colleagues, and always tells me to make sure my girl friends are extremely cautious dating anyone in his field. They’re often extremely coddled, with over inflated egos, and a massive victim complex. Not to mention rampant hygiene issues. Yuck! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 6 | The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?I know he is going to because he has purchased a ring and is planning to propose before our two year anniversary in June. Also, his family loves me, and expects him to marry me. However, even if they didn’t he’s an adult man, and has shown that he will stand up to his family and put me first. I know my worth, and I would never, ever stay with a man who treated me like anything less than a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 9 | Having kids with HVM’sI don’t have kids yet (I had to have my tubes tied for medical reasons,) but in thinking about whether or not my current partner is marriage material, his fitness as a potential father was very important to me. He has two younger brothers, one of whom is autistic, and he is incredibly nurturing with them. He lovingly talks about brushing his moms hair when she was pregnant. When the boys were babies, he was frequently the one to change their diapers, and the one they went to when they were scare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 12 | Having kids with HVM’sI strongly agree with your last point about the old school elders. There’s a sense of safety in knowing that if your partner god forbid decided to stop showing up for your children, his family members would shame him hardcore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 5 | The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?Absolutely no fucking way, this is insane! He doesn’t really love her if he won’t stick up to his parents. My boyfriend is Muslim (I’m Christian,) and right away his parents started with the “you can’t stay over at her apartment until you’re engaged” nonsense, and he shut it right down. They are both adults, they can move away, make a new life together. Also, kind of disgusting that they don’t seem to be considering this poor girl that’s being forced to marry a man who doesn’t want to be with he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 6 | Are most LVM in America?? Thinking about leaving this country for good.I don’t think it’s exclusively an American thing, but I do think American men are especially awful. They cherry pick the parts of feminism they like, while keeping the worst parts of traditional gender roles. My boyfriend of 2 years is Syrian, and there’s huge social pressure to treat women well. If he ever cheated on me or abused me, he would be in HUGE trouble with his family. Also, if he passed away his brothers would be expected to take care of me. They can be a little “old fashioned” someti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Make 👏🏼your👏🏼own👏🏼food!My mom is in her 60s now and she’s one of the few people her age I know who is incredibly vocal about what a bullshit deal “women’s empowerment” was for women, and she’s absolutely right. Oh great we can work now, but we also have to do all the stuff we always did at home. She’s always told me to NEVER do housework for a man who isn’t completely providing for you. My boyfriend is still in school, and I work part time, so he does the vast majority of the housework, and cooking. He also pays for a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:20 PM |
| -16 | Keeping our standards high.I didn’t realize this was a sub to just sit around and complain about how terrible men are, I thought we were trying to help each other find better men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:25 PM |
| -4 | Keeping our standards high.We have so many examples of gross LVM, but so few examples of genuine HVM. Why shouldn’t girls post on here about their relationship with a HVM? It normalizes those behaviors, and shows how high our expectations should be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 5 | [KickHimOut2020] My brother's night of men not paying for dates.That’s absolutely awful! My best friend is still in school, and my boyfriend graciously paid for both of us when we all went out last weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 15 | Dick is an infinite resource - and LVM don't seem to grasp that.I’m relatively pretty, but not thin by any measure, and I still get unwanted male attention frequently. Their garbage excuses just don’t hold water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 7 | [serious] any way to filter for well endowed men?Honestly if he doesn’t talk about it or make a big deal about it at all it’s a good sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:50 AM |
| 16 | Watching porn is NOT normal. Dont allow a man to subject you like that.My mom is 64, and she’s the complete opposite she’s always told me not to trust a man to watch porn. I used to think she just didn’t understand how it was with young people, but I’ve realized she’s completely right. My HVM has never watched porn, nor does he masturbate very often. He always says that it’s something he’d rather share between us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenPositive vibes sis stay strong, and don’t let LVM cross your boundaries 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenIt is thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenIt’s funny he actually doesn’t use any other social media or OLD, and his cell phone is probably 6 years old. Which I think are all good signs, because it shows he’s focused on the people around him, and isn’t looking at other girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenYes they do!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:40 PM |
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