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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -3 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I understand flirting with a stranger isn't a good idea. But u/TheyTrollinTheyHatin says that being direct from the beginning is better so you don't get friendzoned. And women at bars are not willing to be friends first. And usually, another guy starts dating the girl I talk to if I wait too long | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:44 AM |
| – | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.What if you're NOT White? | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:40 AM |
| 0 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I just wanted that experience of dorm sex / college dating | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:39 AM |
| -2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.It's just that college is the easiest time to meet people. Never again will I be surrounded by others near my age And I just wanted that experience of dorm sex / college dating | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:38 AM |
| 3 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I am beta and needy, but my fear is that if I don't make a move, she'll lose interest or start dating someone else, and that has happened many times before | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I usually walk up with a "Hi, how're you doing?" With a smile, and we talk basic stuff like name, major, year, hometown, classes, sports, organizations we are in, etc. I do maintain eye contact. I usually make some jokes to try to make her laugh or tease her Todd V does have some good advice! I | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I admit I am creepy. How do I cut that out? I just made a deadline to get laid at least once or have at last one gf by graduation and that isn't too far | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:43 AM |
| 2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.You're right. I hit the gym. But, I know that looks don't mean shit if I don't have conversation skills or the ability to get her interested. I am not afraid of approaching, but don't know what I'd say to a random girl in starbucks or a bar or cafeteria. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:42 AM |
| 2 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.What does that mean? How do I avoid being forceful, but not too nice when I approach? The longer I wait, another dude will take her out if I don't | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:40 AM |
| – | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.I admit I'm a bitch and that I have a victim mentality. How do I get rid of it? I receive good advice but don't know how to apply it. I get rejected or find out the girl is taken. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.i've gone out and approached. I cut down on my gaming. I hit the gym. Yet I get ignored, friendzoned or the girls are already in relationships. i just don't know what other guys got that I don't. I know poor, fat guys dating hot and smart girls. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:37 AM |
| 0 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.How do I stop being desperate? | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop missing and texting my ex girlfriend, especially if she is married and has kids?Dude, don’t meet up with her. Don’t go to her house . Don’t sleep with her. She’s a mom and a wife. Not your girlfriend. Talk to u/RecyclableBanthas. He has advice. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I run into in college is taken or uninterested in me, and I have no idea how to change it.I do have friends and have tried new activities and clubs. However, the same thing happens. The girls are taken or uninterested or there are other dudes hitting on her | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Every girl I run into in college is taken or uninterested in me, and I have no idea how to change it.Not EVERY girl does, but a majority do. If not, they're talking to another man or are in a complicated/long distance relationship. I do have a negative voice, but that's because I keep pressuring myself to have sex at lest ONCE or have ONE gf in college. I do want memories together. I opened myself to other activiites and meet girls there, but the same situation occurs (taken, married or uninterested) | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 02:40 AM |
| 2 | What questions do you have about attracting women?Problem is, I was socially awkward in high school and the very few friends I had drifted away and we rarely see each other, and I don’t know who her friends are. What about for girls I met earlier on in college? They had relationships in freshman year and I rarely see them around now in junior year | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 03:23 AM |
| 2 | What questions do you have about attracting women?How do I reconnect with girls I went to high school or college with? In high school and the first few years of college (I’m a junior), I liked some girls but they were in relationships or I was too awkward to ask them out. I am not as shy as I used to be and a lot of these girls broke up with their partners. However, I lost contact with them and I don’t know how could I reconnect with them. I left them alone so I wouldn’t disturb their relationship. How can I do this? | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What questions do you have about attracting women?When I approach a girl, how do I be more sexual and not be thrown into the friendzone? And how do I stop being desperate? I am 20 and I know that college is the easiest time to meet people. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Seducing sorority girls..I see. So if I meet some girls in class, how do I seduce them and ask them out on a date? How would I build rapport and chemistry? | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | My lack of dating/sexual success is depressing me and is lowering my grades. What am I doing wrong in approaching women and dating in college?Do you think you're coming across fun? I hope. Or maybe projecting nervousness which makes them nervous as well? That too, to an extent. Are you smiling when you meet them? Yes How about your fashion? I dress up in jeans and a leather jacket/my coed fraternity shirts/a long collared shirt (it is cold here) Perhaps there is a bit of neediness going on and they can detect it. I don't really get any myself but I don't get hung up on girls at all any more. I know the difference between how I act. To… | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | My lack of dating/sexual success is depressing me and is lowering my grades. What am I doing wrong in approaching women and dating in college?She doesn't tell me about the bf when I ask him out. She injects him in a conversation (I went to ... with bf) How WOULD I approach that many women? There aren't many events on campus (especially since it is week before finals) | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Where did I mess up while talking to this girl in my class?I understand. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Where did I mess up while talking to this girl in my class?In class, there was a lecture going on, so I couldn't talk then. And I was talking to another classmate, and didn't see her until I came back. And I would've approached her early on, just that I didn't notice her until now. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Where did I mess up while talking to this girl in my class?In class, there was a lecture going on, so I couldn't talk then. And I was talking to another classmate, and didn't see her until I left. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Being rejected lowers my drive to socialize and I have no idea how to get it up.____1____ I was determined to have all the fun in college that I never got the chance to have in high school. This mindset has fucked you. Do you realize how much pressure this sort of thinking puts on you? You were all but guaranteeing that you wouldn't have so much fun, by doing this. Yes it has. I just felt that I should’ve got that social and dating life in high school, which I didn’t. ____2____ Being rejected lowers my drive to socialize and I have no idea how to get it up. PUA also advocat… | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Being rejected lowers my drive to socialize and I have no idea how to get it up.But the problem is that if I just Go fun first, I won’t flirt at all, which isn’t any different. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Being rejected lowers my drive to socialize and I have no idea how to get it up.In my spare time, I occasionally hit them gym but do play video games and watch Netflix. I tried to join soccer but it conflicted with my class time. And yeah, I’ve been lazy and procrastinating the events. I do have friends but they’re busy with their own things. How can I snap out of this? For gaming, I don’t want to stop but how can I play less? | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm approaching, but not succeeding. What am I doing wrong?How can I stop "trying hard"? What can I say that;ll interest the girls and get them to come home with me? | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm approaching, but not succeeding. What am I doing wrong?I would approach with a hi or make a comment at the class/whatever around me. Or at a yoga class, I would comment that it was a physically intense experience. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?Should I grab the number and suggest the hangout in the same day? Will that be coming on too strong? | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy? That is excellent advice. Thanks. How would you participate in hash runs and beer if you're not 21 (I am 20)? I have tried out for a dance team (mix of jazz and hip hop) but didn't get in. And my college is in a small city, not exactly a tourist destination like SF or LA or NYC. And also, how can I improve my approaches and game? I don't know what to say to attract her or to get her to come over | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?How would I meet that many women? I don't get to go to parties (as they are Greek only), and most people go home after classes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?I understand. I am not looking for the right girl (to wife her up), but rather a casual girlfriend or even a hookup, which even that isn't happening. I want to learn how to improve my approach, and what is something I can say | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | I have been approaching more and I want to know What am I doing wrong in approaching? My failures are affecting my confidence and my academics. How can I help myself?I understand. Just curious, but how does quitting masturbating and/or porn help? I need to masturbate to fall asleep. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:29 PM |
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