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| 1 | Asking if you can kiss a girlDude mystery method was 12 years ago. 12 years. 12. This "beta" "negging" "PUA" shit was over when the VH1 special aired. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Asking if you can kiss a girlSometimes I ask. I know it's going to happen anyways but its gives them a "choice". It greatly depends on the situation and personality. Its takes practice to know when but if you are just starting out just for for it man. Guys underestimate themselves soo much, women want to be kissed. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Where do i start...I wish I could tell you but I forgot specifically which one it was. Here are some that I have read through in the past. Language pattern won't help much at a club but physical self-image can. When OP asked the girls to dance, what was his body position, how wide were his feet, which way were they pointed, did he look them in the eye, where were his hands, how was his tone, what was he wearing? These are small details but they add up and there is an endless amount of them. Many seduction oriented… | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Where do i start...Start it by reading books not geared for seduction, but social interaction in general. The first I read was for used car salesmen and was about how to direct conversation with language patterns. You have to understand human social dynamics before you can manipulate it. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 02:28 PM |
| 6 | FR4: My approaches in TargetNice. Analyzing yourself and realizing what you need to improve is a big step. You'll be a supermarket casanova in no time. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Texting months before a first date?Dont worry about the date for now. Just ask how her break is going. She's likely bored with family. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | what is a 'normal' level on confidence/courage? Might I need meds?Stay away from meds homie. It's normal to have some apprehension about coworkers. Dont shit where you eat. If you wont see her again add her to social media but keep it professional and non sexual. Ask her to meet for coffee to catch up and go from there. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Asked her out/hangout, gives out confusing reply?We gonna need the long story to help you with this one. Maybe tease her back "fine, I guess you'll miss out on what I have planned" Honestly sounds like something I wouldn't pursue. Tell her to go play her immature games with someone else and find someone who doesn't do that shit. You got her number, you can get others. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Can you smile too much?No not at all! It means you are having fun and everyone wants to hang out with the fun guy. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Ask me short questions about meeting women I’ll be happy to answer as much as I can #pickupcoachDepending on your definition of "hitting the gym hard" there seems to be a point were a lot of girls will assume you are a steroid raging asshole or out of their league. Some will be in disbelief if you talk to them and think you are fucking with them or on a dare. But this is like competition ready body composition. And some guys underestimate "reasonably attractive". | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a milfI agree with frasier. Dont even bring "FWB" up. Just be cool and leave relationship out of it unless she brings it up. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Can you smile too much?Smiling is good. Smiling a lot is good. Smiling while holding an unflinching stare at someone across the room for 5 minutes is weird. But if you are talking, it's good. I sometimes smile when there is no reason to project good vibes. Dont overthink it. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How to compliment a girl when you meet her in person from online?If you meet her online chances are you have already chosen each other from looks. It's usually unnecessary, unless like the other person said, you truly just want to say it. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I need ideas/help with story tellingAs a fellow introvert, I tend to speak faster when meeting new people. I guess subconsciously I can leave faster if I finish the story faster. See if you do the same and maybe try slowing it down. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I be going to nightclubs if I absolutely hate them?I fuckin hate clubs, but I go occasionally because its something out of my element. There are usually girls with friends that dont want to be there which usually enjoy some conversation on the balcony/patio/etc. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women?I've had wingmen take the negging thing a little too far. So I can see where this guy is coming from. Nice to see that point of view. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | A question about averages and new partners20 per year is reasonable if you genuinely practice and make it your mission to have sex even if you are relatively new to the community. It's also probably a good way to get the clap. I go about 5 per year, but I'm not after numbers. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A Little Question - For my fellow seducersIt's just a hug dude. If you think she like you ask her out on a date or go in for a kiss or some shit. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Has cold approach become redundant ?This guy fucks | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:13 PM |
| 6 | What age did you move out?I moved out at 18 but back in at 21, then out at 25. It didn't really slow my game down. Be open about living with parents. Just mention you are finishing up school and you want to stay debt free blah blah blah. Chicks will realize you have your shit together. It may be harder to bring girls home if you are trying to one night stand kind of thing, but just meeting girls.. most dont care. If they give you shit they ain't worth it anyways. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Inviting Two Women I'm Gaming to the Same Party: Good or Bad Idea?If this is a party where neither one of them know the crowd and come by themselves to hang out with you then yes it will probably blow up. If its more casual and they bring friends they will have other people to talk to while you bounce around. You won't get better at handling two at the same time unless you practice. There are plenty of other girls if it doesn't work out. Go for it. It can be amusing watching them compete for attention. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I finally manned up and made a move.Same, let me know what yall find. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 11:59 PM |
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