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Unisex toilets in schools is probably one of the worst places to have unisex toilets, up there with bars and mental institutions. Kids can be really, really cruel, and usually over stupid things. Girls can be incredibly cruel to other girls over things like periods, breasts, bras, tomboy behavior, etc., and I can only see that being worse with boys in a private space like the bathroom. Boys also can be harassed by girls, and I can't even imagine how bad and stupid the behavior could get in middl…
/r/MensRights06/10/19 04:44 PM
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Femme is actually just French for woman, but in this context, it means 'queer' people, male, female, or nonbinary, who act feminine, dress feminine, or fulfill the 'female' role in the relationship(s). In essence, it's very specifically a subculture blanket term to include all gender identities that identify in some way as 'female', even if only part of the time or in a superficial way.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 11:29 PM
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I think it is important not to get into a mindset of 'owing' sex or being owed sex, or keeping count or treating it as some unfortunate obligation, but the best way to not get into a mindset where both of you are counting and not liking the numbers is to just. Have It. And have it fairly frequently. As a mother, it's a lot harder than it used to be to find space, time, and energy, and that can be a definite factor in any marriage where there are children. However, I think a lot of women forget t…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 10:54 PM
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It's very possible that, being 20, she hasn't experienced enough tragedy in her life to really understand the depth of horror and sorrow he's facing. In other words: she's shallow. Might she be a different person at 30? Maybe. In any case, she's obviously nowhere near ready for a relationship with another adult, because it's not okay to have little empathy for your partner. She's acting like a child, though children have the excuse of not being fully developed. However, there are women who are m…
/r/MensRights14/07/19 07:41 PM
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Probably the attitude doesn't help. A lot of men with a mission get married and have a life with a woman, as opposed to only 'getting laid.' If you can look at life as bigger than having sex, then you are going to have a better life. If you can look at a relationship with a woman as bigger than having sex, then you will have a much better time and have support to weather the storms in life. Sex is great, but it's a backwards approach to a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:04 PM
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Dude, you can see men's nipples through their shirts all the time. Sometimes, men don't even wear shirts. Just cause they're tinier and somewhat less prominent doesn't mean they're not there.
/r/MensRights19/04/19 02:31 AM
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*Pankhurst
/r/MensRights16/04/19 08:19 PM
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I saw one in a movie once.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 08:16 PM
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I got 'Why MRA is bad' AND Alt-Right rallies. :I
/r/MensRights15/04/19 02:17 AM
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That's just generally a problem due to how the words are constructed, in my experience. Trying to find a Men's Rights charity is literally impossible in a list of charities, for instance, because the search feature finds you everything that contains 'men's rights'...and women's rights contains those letters in that order. While I do think there are definite instances of bias, there's also that technical problem.
/r/MensRights15/04/19 02:16 AM
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Check out Theodore Dalrymple for examples of moral decay in relation to loss of religion (and other standard morality). I recommend Spoilt Rotten and Our Culture...or what's left of it. Note that he doesn't necessarily believe in a god, but he can see the destruction wrought by a lack of a solid morality in a society.
/r/MensRights06/04/19 02:44 AM
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If you believe I'm naive for believing in God, all I can say is, good luck with graduating high school, and I hope life doesn't knock you around the way it has me.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 03:12 AM
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Interesting. Have you considered that faith is the same thing as trust, and that having faith in something or someone is not, in fact, 'objectively' stupid. You can't prove you'll still be alive tomorrow, but you're still planning to do things the next day. You can't trust that the road you're on was well-designed and will hold the weight of your car, but I would bet you're willing to drive (or ride in a vehicle). You can't trust that an eagle won't drop a turtle on your head (or some other regi…
/r/MensRights22/03/19 12:28 AM
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'Objectively' Not sure you know what that word means, friendo.
/r/MensRights21/03/19 01:13 PM
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Most people who attempt suicide who have lived to tell about it say they realized at the last moment they didn't actually want to die. Since women tend towards less instant methods, they are more likely to have that chance to realize it isn't what they want. However, finding a bloated corpse or your mother dead with her head in an oven is still very traumatizing, and I would expect that these women have no experience with actual suicide, since they feel so free to blithely compare just how traum…
/r/MensRights18/03/19 01:09 PM
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Different kinds of muscles, in my opinion. Not to say she's being fair, but have you see the muscles on top of muscles that are in comic books? How about a 28 pack and two extra deltoids? Like, sometimes it's almost grotesque in comic books. Women often aren't attracted to seriously overmuscled men. Much like how most men actually aren't attracted to the skinniest possible woman, extremely muscular men aren't the ideal for most women either. I think the problem is with her entire premise that it…
/r/MensRights15/03/19 05:00 PM
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Maybe he's British or something and they do things differently? Or maybe it's a poorly run hospital?
/r/MensRights14/03/19 03:36 PM
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I hate to say it, but the absolute stupidest young women I know go into social work. And a lot of them, I wouldn't be surprised if they pulled something like this. I'm saying this as a woman, btw--the stupidest woman I know is going into social work and is always agitating for LGBT+ rights by having meetings and groups on Facebook and repeating all the latest hot takes some idiot on Tumblr made up. She also felt the need to tell my twin about her explicit fantasies of having sex with both of us …
/r/MensRights12/03/19 01:26 PM
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People have reconciled with their parents over worse things. It's not easy and it doesn't always happen, but I would say, especially given it wasn't done out of malice, there's a good chance that over time, they will work it out.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 12:36 PM
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Regularly sounds like a stretch. It might be something a small group of people are doing, as opposed to isolated individuals, but I think the vast, vast majority of the world and the US are not doing this.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 12:29 PM
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I think the brainwashing could be a thing. I thought, as a small child, that telling my Protestant friends they were very nice but needed to be Catholic to save their souls was something I had to do. Fortunately, I chickened out, and it also turned out that's not Catholic teaching or practice at all, but the way I was raised made me believe that it was the brave thing to do. I would suspect you could raise a child in a similar way with feminism, whether the child is male or female.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 12:27 PM
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Or she somehow convinced him that it'd be cool to do in some way. Setting your child up for false expectations of the world is neglectfully cruel at best.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:22 PM
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I really hope this is a troll, and it does sound like one. If not, though, that's some seriously fucked up sense of boundaries. Some mothers never learn that their children are not their appendages and are independent beings. Some mothers think of their children like tools or objects. I would expect, if this mother really did this, that's how she thinks of her son. There are sometimes things you have to make your children do or you have to drag them along to even though they don't like it, and t…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:21 PM
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Not really relevant, given that A) pregnancy is an actual thing that exists, not an imaginary or abstract quality of a person, and B) it would have to be advisory parking. You'd be perfectly free to park there, you'd just be a major asshole to do it.
/r/MensRights10/02/19 02:03 PM
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I mean, that's why I said people with small babies, meaning that both fathers out alone and both parents in the car would be able to use such a space. That's also why I think women-only parking spaces can get a bit silly, because what if it's a mixed group of people in the car? Is it the driver who determines whether or not someone ought to park in the women's only space? But it is advisory parking only, in most cases. And in the case I'm talking about, as an idea, it would probably be pretty ev…
/r/MensRights10/02/19 01:59 PM
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Hm. I would wonder what the full context of this is, but I have to agree it seems silly to have one for women as a whole, as opposed to a specific subset of women. Like, having been pregnant and having a small baby, I could see parking spots for pregnant women or people with young babies for multiple reasons, mobility and the well-being of the baby being a couple. I actually really appreciated, when I was far along in the pregnancy, having somewhere closer to sometimes sort of stagger in from, e…
/r/MensRights10/02/19 12:22 PM
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Bettina Arndt recently released a book called '#MenToo'. I don't know what it's like, but it might be worth checking out.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 01:20 PM
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Um, I would care. I'm not a fan of paying for something just because it's 'routine', and neither my husband nor I were interested in forking out some extra money for something neither were concerned with getting; our concern would have been more with someone else having DNA from our child. For the record, I'm not a 'lying whore'. Look, I'm just going to say, in a healthy relationship, you shouldn't have to worry about whether or not your partner is cheating on the side. Just like your wife/GF sh…
/r/MensRights14/01/19 12:27 PM
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You probably shouldn't marry someone you don't feel you can trust not to sleep around behind your back. Some women would refuse because the implication is that they are liars who would cheat and never tell you. It's a pretty sensitive topic, much like parenting, sex, and body image can be. While I do think it's a good idea to have paternity testing be legal and available, I don't think it will ever be something that women would feel nonchalant about.
/r/MensRights13/01/19 05:49 PM
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That's nice but it's not just her child.
/r/MensRights17/12/18 07:58 PM
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I think it should generally be the opposite. I don't think abortion or paternal termination of parental rights is what is good for the child, much like insisting on the woman getting whatever she wants in divorce isn't good for the kids. The only way to counterbalance parental rights and obligations without destroying society is to eliminate abortion on demand or at least abortion that's only the woman's choice. In other words, an equal amount of obligation, not an equal amount of abandonment an…
/r/MensRights17/12/18 07:54 PM
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Foreskin should never be forced back. The age at which it loosens from being fused to the glans of the penis is highly variable among boys, and could be as old as late teens. Not all American doctors know how to care for patients who aren't circumcised, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 11:04 PM
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Hormones as well, it's true, in order to bond with the baby. However, both microchimerism and neurological changes have been observed in women who give birth, and they seem to be helping rather than harming.
/r/MensRights28/10/18 02:17 PM
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Actually, a woman's brain literally changes, though much more research would need to be done to get a full picture of what it looks like.
/r/MensRights28/10/18 02:13 PM
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While there is something to childbirth making women smarter, or rather wiser, it's compared to prechildbirth women. It's playing to the potential audience of very insecure women, and it works, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights27/10/18 11:26 PM
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That is a weird thing to leave out, that's for sure.
/r/MensRights18/10/18 08:51 PM
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I think you'd run into a problem locking all the cheating people in one Bulgarian convent...
/r/MensRights14/10/18 01:12 PM
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Being accused, not making an accusation.
/r/MensRights11/10/18 01:12 PM
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As someone working through this kind of thing, truer words have never been spoken. However, it's also a very tall order.
/r/MensRights09/10/18 11:36 AM
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So many historical cases in the US in the early 20th century alone to point this human to.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 12:11 PM
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You don't understand, women would kill all men nonviolently. /s
/r/MensRights27/09/18 12:07 PM
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It might still be on Amazon prime.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 04:23 PM
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Whenever I see this sort of thing on my facebook, I just want to scream. It's always the young women who are constantly in shitty relationships (in which both parties are shitty, mind you) and the older ladies who're emotionally abusive and call their husbands 'hubby'. Ugh.
/r/MensRights24/06/18 07:53 PM
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To be fair, one of the reasons that the US has a higher maternal mortality rate is that much of the country has a much longer period in which they 'count' death from birth complications than the rest of the world--and that was a switch in the 80s. But you're not wrong; child birth is one of those genuine places in which women's rights groups actually have a point, not that they often focus on it.
/r/MensRights24/06/18 07:45 PM
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Very few women die in childbirth in the first world anymore.
/r/MensRights24/06/18 03:45 PM
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