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This isn’t true. In my state, you don’t even need a prenup to protect assets acquired before marriage, provided that you never make those assets joint. Same with inheritance. Also, prenups can be written where assets acquired during the marriage are separate unless they are made joint. I don’t see anything wrong with a married couple who is both gainfully employed deciding together which assets they want to keep separate and which ones they want to make joint. If the married couple never gets di…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:00 PM
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We just finished having our prenup drafted and in it we both waived our right to temporary maintenance, spousal support and alimony as we are both gainfully employed. After some back and forth between our lawyers, we agreed to add that we are required to revisit this section within two years after a child is born to make any changes if we choose to. If we decide to make any changes then we will most likely add an additional clause to review again when children are of school-age. This is the smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:28 PM
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My fiancé owns his own house and has zero debt too. With my savings, his net worth is going to be 10x higher than it was pre-marriage. I usually fund the majority of our trips and even bought us a camper as a wedding gift. Our next home will be mostly paid with the savings that I earned. He says he hit the “jackpot” with me so idk he seems pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:24 PM
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I'm 30 but growing up, there was still pressure (from society and family) to find a "nice" husband who I would be able to financially depend on. I learned that my financial independence and (sexual) attraction to my future SO was of very little importance. Fortunately, I quickly unlearned this when my first boyfriend was a "nice" guy who I never wanted to have sex with, and barely even enjoyed making out with. I remember actually thinking "maybe I'm asexual?" even though I'd had loads of crushes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:06 PM
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It actually isn't considering how bad the average person is with money. I don't think it occurs to a lot of people that others might have "things" that they can't actually afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:11 PM
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Sorry, I prefer 5’8 over 6’ because 6’ men often make me feel too small, like a child. 5’8-5’10 is the sweet range for me. But I’ve been attracted to men who are 5’4 to over 6’, it’s really only men who are my height or shorter that I don’t feel attracted to. I guess I just don’t really think about men’s height that much though because like 99% of men are taller than me. This is basically like asking if men would prefer a woman who is flat chested, has small breasts or has large breasts. Lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:12 PM
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I really don't care that much about someone's height, provided that he's not shorter than me. I actually find that some very tall men have strange proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:12 AM
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Many men reject women who are flat chested or have short hair. I’ve literally had boyfriends ask me to not cut my hair short. And short hair is dictated by culture, it’s not even a biological difference between sexes. Lots of women who have very small breasts wear push up bras or get boob jobs because men find it more attractive. The women that demand 6’ men are just a vocal minority. Most women want a man who is a few inches taller than them. I’m 5’1 and my fiancé is 5’8, I don’t find him any l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:03 AM
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Why is preferring a man who is taller and stronger than you considered hypergamy? These are key physical traits that differ between the sexes. I’m not attracted to someone who is “better” than me, I’m attracted to someone who has masculine physical traits and thus looks like a man. The majority of men also do not want to date a woman who is taller, stronger and weighs more than them because those are not feminine physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:20 PM
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The context was in a joking way, but there’s still some truth to jokes I think. I notice that he seeks validation a lot more than I do and he’s brought up a few times how he has “imposter syndrome” with his work. So I think it might just be a self esteem issue. I already compliment him a lot and encourage him to pursue the things he likes so I’m not sure what else I can do to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:34 PM
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I compliment my SO a lot because I like to, it makes me feel good. One time he hit me with how “my compliments don’t matter as much as those from other people.” His reasoning being that I “have” to compliment him while strangers don’t so I guess that makes it more meaningful. I do tend to get a lot more compliments from strangers than he does so maybe he’s just envious of that. I personally don’t care what a bunch of strangers think of me and much prefer compliments from him. Idk but it really d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:59 PM
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Yeah, sure, that graph seems legit. Lauren Sanchez (Bezos’ gf) and Mackenzie Scott (Bezos ex wife) are the same age (51) — and Mackenzie Scott is now married to someone a few years younger than her. Ben Affleck is currently dating Jlo who is a few years older than him. Idk what Brad Pitt is doing these days since he’s not really relevant anymore. I googled and apparently he’s dating a married 20-something year old whose in an open relationship with her old ass husband. So, uh, I guess there’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:10 PM
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There are plenty of men who want serious and stable relationships. Don’t expect that from someone who hasn’t fully matured. Getting into a serious relationship at 26 was so ridiculously easy for me. I literally broke up with my ex and was dating my current SO in less than a month. It was much harder for me to find someone interested in something serious when I was 18-21.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:34 PM
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I think it’s more like, it’s natural for any human to fear rejection and avoid it. But the cultural expectation is that boys/men approach and girls/women get approached so we follow those “rules.” No one actually wants to shoot their shot, it’s scary. With that said, I know a handful of men who fear rejection and have only ever dated girls who have asked them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:57 PM
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I’ll probably get shit for this but if an exceptionally attractive man approaches, it’s game on. With that said, I most likely already noticed that he was very attractive and set myself up to try to be noticed by him. When a man I didn’t even notice approaches me, it’s annoying and I do sometimes instinctually perceive it as a threat. I guess it can catch you off guard that a stranger who you didn’t even notice is coming up to you and then it also feels like they are asking you for something (si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:56 PM
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Source? I googled, can’t find anything to support that statement. Most people get married at age 30 which means they’ve been dating for several years beforehand in their 20s. Literally all of my successful, attractive peers are married to someone who they were dating in their 20s. If you’re not observing this among your peers then you’re probably not a part of the “attractive and successful” population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:53 PM
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What a dumb interpretation. All this article says is that the most attractive, successful people are picked at higher rates for marriage and sex. Like no shit, people want to marry and fuck their successful, attractive peers. Now that women can financially provide for themselves, they are marrying men that they are actually sexually attracted to, not men who can just financially provide for them. Thus more sex for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:44 PM
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I haven't observed that much, no. I personally know more loud, overly-opinionated men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:28 PM
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That’s wild, your husband isn’t even attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:05 PM
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I’m surprised by all the “agreeable” comments. Have they really met that many “disagreeable” women in order to merit agreeableness as a requirement? Or do they just want someone who has no opinions at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:53 PM
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Very true, you are probably right. I mentioned that last bit just to explain women's motivation for creating x-rated digital content. I think being anonymous on the internet allows women to explore their sexuality more freely because they do not have to worry about facing any possible physical threats or social repercussions (provided that they are smart about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:43 PM
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I think it can be used as an outlet for feeling sexually desired. So yes, they use it as a form of validation but also that validation turns them on. As to why women especially partake, I think it’s because it’s easy and (physically) safe to do so on the internet vs something similar in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:52 PM
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Yeah no shit. I never said it was confusing, just wanted the op’s take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:26 PM
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This is the fakest story I have ever read lmao. Thank you for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:16 AM
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Miranda Kerr is married to the founder of Snapchat (a billionaire) and he's 7 years younger than her. I want to know how this example fits into the OP's equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:56 PM
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Yeah, I can (clitoral) orgasm without being aroused, what’s your point? Penetration is different, if your vagina isn’t properly lubricated and relaxed, it fucking hurts to have something inserted into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:49 PM
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Because being penetrated when you aren’t aroused is physically painful. So the idea of having sex with someone who you are not attracted to and who is not going to arouse you obviously sounds fucking awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:01 PM
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He looks most like the 14-16% pic but he might be slightly skinnier. Hard to compare because the 7-9% and 10-12% pics are very posed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:35 PM
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My bf is your height and weight and I find his body very attractive. Skinny fit guys are my type though. Also I’m 5’1 so 5’7 is still tall to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:25 PM
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This is a dumb question. Attractive people are treated better in society. Makeup is a way to appear more attractive. So are clothes, haircuts, exercise/diet, skincare, etc. When you look attractive, you get treated better by everyone, not just men. The same thing can be said about men looking attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:22 PM
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I found it attractive that my fiancé was frugal but maintained a nice lifestyle. He drove an old pickup truck but always kept it clean (he has since upgraded to a bigger, newer truck though). He was/is a homeowner who took a lot of pride in doing house projects himself, not paying someone else to do them. Idk I always found the way he saves money and maintains his lifestyle very respectable and manly. I also have a lot of savings so there was no way that I would see a future with someone who spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:10 PM
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Having a good head of hair is always more attractive than bald but some people can still be attractive without hair. Personally, I’ve never been attracted to someone who was bald. My SO’s hairline is receding and while I am still attracted to him, I’ll admit that his hair was a big part of why I found him so attractive when we were younger. Such is aging though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:51 PM
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People also tend to forget that a woman (generally) can only get pregnant a few days during her cycle (during ovulation). Getting pregnant isn’t always that easy and can take a few tries with the same partner. If a woman orgasms and actually enjoys sex with you then that would mean you have more opportunities to keep having sex with her and potentially get her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:46 PM
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If you’re popular then you have more opportunity to find a partner because you have a larger social network. You’re also more likely to find a partner who will commit to you because your shared social group is going to keep him in check. People tend to behave better in groups because if they don’t, they can be socially ostracized. You’d know a lot faster that a guy was cheating on you if you’re popular than if you weren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:42 AM
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TIL men are as intelligent as dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:04 PM
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Provided that’s you in that drum video, I’m pretty sure no women under 60 give you a second look because you literally look like a grandpa lmao. I’m almost 30 and I would never even notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:28 PM
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They acted that way to your face but were 100% talking shit about you behind your back. In college, one of the girls in our friend group had an older boyfriend (close to 30 I think) and we would talk shit about him and sometimes even leave her out of things because we didn’t want her weird old boyfriend around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:49 PM
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Women only feel more energized when they don't cum during sex. Cumming relieves stress/anxiety and makes you relaxed. Most people masturbate before sleep because it helps them fall asleep, women included.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:23 PM
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