sufficientlygraceful Archive

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47	What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth? Good thread, OP. I'm also curious. I don't have any observations/experience to draw from on this, only hearsay and this guess: Ask yourself: How badly does he need to be an active father to be respected by the men he craves respect from most in your social circle? What does/did the "active parenting" of these men look like? Expect/demand at least that much. Vet for this after of time, when meeting family. I'd definitely like to hear from others.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 09:01 PM
11	"Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like a job interview" This.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 08:58 PM
16	Dump him on the first lie You sound like you have a wonderful home, OP. I'm trying to build something similar myself. Thank you for sharing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 07:38 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-I’m Well said.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 07:09 AM
18	Dating & Socioeconomic Status One word: alimony. You could end up financing his LVM, NVM lifestyle. Male "social climbers" exist and can cost you your current lifestyle and your financial future. Especially when you consider we outlive men, are often underpaid, and may take time out of the workforce to have children. I had a viciously close call that taught me future mates must earn, at minimum, double what I earn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 06:19 PM