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I really wonder what country you live in because in the vast majority of the world, women are forced into honoring social contracts while men are free to do as they like. Where do you live that you are getting this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:56 PM
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I think people are confusing two things. People are saying women pushed for work opportunities and now don’t want to work People are saying women want to be stay at home moms. These two are not the same. It looks like what’s really happening in the article is that women are fine working. But when they have children, because most men are not helping enough with child care and domestic duties And because despite working even with two incomes they cannot afford sufficient domestic help This makes c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:08 PM
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WHICH women????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:11 PM
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Expressing unhappiness is not the same as enforcing equality. Expressing unhappiness only means the man is now aware of the imbalance and the distress it's causing his partner. It doesn't mean the woman has succeeded in making the man actually pull his weight in the relationship. Enforcement comes in different forms, maybe talking and obtaining commitment to new behaviour, maybe ultimatum, maybe ending the marriage because the man won't comply. But my point is: Only a minority of women successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:28 PM
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This is not enough reason for men not to marry, because men overwhelmingly benefit from marriage, so why wouldn't they keep marrying just because they have a bad reputation in marriage. Only the minority of women really enforce equality in marriage, while the majority keep letting them get away with it, so why would they stop the gravy train?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 03:18 PM
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It depends on culture. In my culture women are supposed to be rich while men do everything else, so when people talk about prospects for a good wife, the woman’s success in business and her wealth is a major consideration. After we were colonised by the British, over time the British said women should stay at home while men should be the breadwinners so over a period of about 50 years, the culture reversed, and now women look for rich men. People assume the “women wanting rich men” thing is univ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:12 PM
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This is not true. Women ARE less violent than men, as long as you count violence as physical violence. When it comes to physical violence, not only are women less capable of physical violence, resorting to physical violence also occurs to women less. Now, if you want to talk about psychological violence, women are far more violent than men. Men care more about physically harming the opponent, while women care more about humiliating, psychologically damaging, or socially damaging the opponent. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:41 PM
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Everyone in this discussion is assuming the most extreme form of control such as you can’t leave the house without my permission or I will kill you. It starts at the simpler forms of control like “you can’t wear XYZ” or I will start a fight with you or throw a temper tantrum. As we say in Nigeria, from clap to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:42 PM
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I am saying that FAR OVER 50% of men in Africa actively desire to control women. The real number is closer to 85%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:28 PM
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LMFAOOO so because your mother is from Africa you know it’s false? HAHAHAHAHAHA. I’m Nigerian and I’m here to tell you it is 100% true in every African country. Where shall I begin??? Uyinene went to the post office in South Africa to pick up her package. The POST OFFICE MAN hit her on the head with a scale and knocked her out so he could rape her then he killed her. South Africa has the highest level of rape and murder of women in the world. The former king of Morocco buried one of his wives an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:33 AM
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I said MOST men. What does most mean in mathematics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:25 AM
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Lol you must not know the population of the Middle East or India. Just this week an Indian man was caught burying his daughter ALIVE. This year there was a documentary about a town in India where they walked around the town casually asking them how many girls they killed, and people were hanging out saying oh I strangled 8 girls, the other one said oh I buried a few girls alive. Nobody was even slightly bothered by the murders they were casually confessing to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:21 AM
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So that’s a start. Once we start comparing the populations of these countries it turns out my Most claim is correct. Now, East Asia for example. China has a deficit of women yet Chinese men insult women over 30. Chinese men also go to countries like Vietnam to find wives because the women are poor and desperate and don’t know anything or can’t make demands. Isn’t that control? Indian men regularly kill their daughters either at birth or because their daughter disobeyed by dating a man they did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:12 AM
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Banaz.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:03 AM
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There is far more observable evidence of men killing women than of women killing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:58 AM
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Group them by country or ethnicity and deduce if I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:56 AM
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Every intelligent person knows there are far more undocumented events in the world than there are documented events. Only stupid people think there is a study and a citation for everything and without one a statement must be false. You are probably American. Get a passport and go see the world instead of poopooing any new information which doesn’t match your worldview from Bumfuck, Nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:44 AM
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Dead bodies don’t give citations. Multiple women are being killed by men for the most frivolous of reasons worldwide as I’m typing this. But if you want to go look, you can start at the UN and the World Health Organisation then from there go country by country or check out something like Jaruma Divorce Diaries. Sorry but men don’t wait to write studies to provide you with tidy data before killing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:40 AM
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That strongly depends on whether you think everyone in this subreddit is from your circle of friends or whether you realise the world is full of men, the vast majority of whom DO want to control women, and a significantly large minority of whom are very happy to publicly kill or at least harm women who do not obey them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:29 AM
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Oh she does. It’s kind of hard to explain this without a wall of text, but Igbo culture is entirely based on duality. That is we have a dual system of life between men and women. Men and women are very separate, and live their lives mostly separately. So for example, the wife lives one foot in her husband’s place, and one foot in her hometown. She’s expected to continue her original life she had in her hometown. There’s no restriction of movement. Also, Igbo women are expected to be successful. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:04 PM
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How so? At the end of the day it boils down to a married couple living in separate houses all their lives and only visiting themselves periodically. Isn’t that a couple living separately?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:49 PM
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Mine for example. In Igbo culture, when you get married, you move to your husband’s home, but we don’t traditionally live in single homes, we live in family compounds, so one closed compound will contain many different separate properties. So, the bride arrives, and she doesn’t live in the house which belongs to her husband. She lives in her mother in law’s house and visits her husband periodically until she gets pregnant, and after she gives birth to her first child, her husband buys her a hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:43 PM
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In many cultures married couples don’t live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 03:31 PM
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Women want those characteristics in a man they are already physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 09:43 PM
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I also don’t drink. Like relationship drama where things are going well then misunderstandings arise and you feel disappointed. Also the hassle of dating. I think I would rather focus on building my life and making good friends and if a relationship forms organically from a great friendship I’ll be happy. But I don’t really value social activity that’s exclusively designed for sex or romantic partnership. I’ve found I feel better around truly good friends and better relationships often have a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:55 AM
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Oh, well obviously if you’ve never done something, you’re going to think it’s so amazing and you’re missing out. I felt that way before I had sex. But I later realized it’s not that important to me, so I’ve been celibate for years now because I’m not interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:29 AM
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Woman. I’ve had lots of sex before. I’ve also gone about six years without having sex per right now. I don’t particularly miss it and I think my life is fine without it. If I meet someone and we’re in a very serious relationship I’ll have sex again but at the moment I don’t think it’s worth the physical, social, and emotional disruption to my life it often comes with. To me it’s just another activity. My life doesn’t revolve around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:24 AM
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I’m actually really happy not having sex. I don’t think it particularly adds much to my life. It’s nice but I don’t miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:50 AM
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I was born in Nigeria, grew up in Nigeria, went to school in Nigeria and live in Nigeria. I also speak Igbo, Pidgin, Hausa, and French (which all Nigerian children are required to learn), and I’m the moderator of r/Nigeria Also, both my parents live in Nigeria and I’m not even an American citizen. So what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 08:28 PM
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In Nigeria it’s probably 1 in 3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 03:53 PM
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White people are the reason why majority of the exotic animals are critically endangered. They hunted them into near extinction. White people created all manner of havoc that is still being felt to this day through colonialism They committed various genocides against so many different ethnic populations such as native Americans The long list of atrocities committed by white people is very well documented so I don’t know why you think somehow trying to use them as some sort of foil to my argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:15 AM
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Only because they deliberately stopped women from being educated and working for thousands of years. That’s like saying whites create more stuff in America when they spent hundreds of years keeping non whites out of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:07 AM
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It is not a claim. It is a fact. Congratulations on your hard work but you will continue to work hard regardless because women ARE oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 01:14 PM
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Women ARE oppressed though. Just because individual women are not oppressed or less oppressed doesn’t mean that women are no longer oppressed. On average, women are oppressed by men. It is less in some countries than others. In some places different types of oppression are more common than others. Some types of oppression are very visible and easy to identify while others are more insidious and not readily recognizable. This narrative of women are lying about oppression or women are no longer op…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 12:30 PM
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Reflect on your hypocrisy. THAT is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 02:22 AM
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Oooooh definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 11:45 PM
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Millionaires are not upper middle class. They are upper class. Billionaires are elite / Top out of sight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 11:43 PM
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Totally agree. Also Ronaldo is not that fine. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 11:42 PM
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That’s why and how they will continue to be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 11:38 PM
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She literally mentioned ELITE and RICH but you failed to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 11:36 PM
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Dunno, i doubt that many people are interested in what goes on in Nigeria, but if anyone has any questions, yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 05:48 AM
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I definitely agree with this. And it’s interesting to compare this situation with majority black countries like Nigeria where men don’t have the option of not pairing up (they are forced to marry by social pressure) but still have undue power in relationships because women who would have since kicked misbehaving men to the curb are forced to stay married by the same social pressure. So in black America, nobody is married and men have all the power. In Nigeria, everybody is married and men have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:52 PM
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They are in every country so you are definitely lying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:49 PM
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Real life. Maybe go outside look around sometime? Get on a plane, travel to other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:08 PM
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YES! Worldwide ugly men have more dating success than handsome men even when they’re poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 10:00 PM
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There are sources for everything you just asked sources for. Why are you anti feminists so lazy? Just last year alone hundreds of women were killed because they refused to give men their phone numbers You people are so mentally lazy it’s terrible. You have Internet and time to be writing nonsense comments on the Internet but you can’t do research and read newspapers and see women are being killed per minute per second by men over nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 02:07 PM
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African women have the highest rates of HIV because..... 🥁🥁🥁 They are infected by their husbands. Therefore, men are what??? Scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 03:05 AM
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African men are some of the stupidest, most useless, violent and worthless men there are As a Nigerian I’ve seen it firsthand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:42 AM
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Again, no. Worldwide these kinds of men have constant dating success. America is an anomaly because thanks to racism America has this unofficial hierarchy where someone decided white women are the best and if you don’t date a white woman you will die. So all the men in America are competing for white women while ignoring every other race of women then whining that they can’t get dates. Eg Asian men. CONSTANTLY crying about how white women wont date them but simultaneously looking down on black w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:08 AM
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That’s highly doubtful. There is consistent proof that women don’t care about men’s facial appearance and happily date ugly and even hideous men if they like other things about them. Case in point - Kylie Jenner and Travis Scott. Travis Scott is hideous. Beyonce and Jay Z. So many other examples of women happily in love with certifiably ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:59 PM
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You have food to eat therefore hungry people don’t exist. Clap for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:44 PM
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So oppression is only equal to killing? Yes I am being oppressed right now. If a man asks for my number, I cannot say no because he may kill me if I say no. If I am raped, I cannot report because not only will people not believe me, the male police officers are likely to not believe me. In some countries if a woman is raped and she reports to the police, the POLICE will rape her again and then arrest her for being a “prostitute” If I work, my accomplishments are constantly downplayed and I am st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:50 PM
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Yes they are. You cannot be this ignorant. Women are being severely oppressed even killed by men right this second. Get off Reddit and go and see what is happening every day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:43 PM
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But I’m a Nigerian woman so what are you saying? And do you think women didn’t invent any technology? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 02:37 PM
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How did we get from relationships and men to DACA??? Is it that you couldn’t argue the original point so you traveled to fetch a new point from somewhere? But to answer your question. It is not the fault of DACA children that their parents played reckless games with their future by bringing them illegally. That said , deportation is a known consequence of what their parents did so as sad as it is, they have to be deported. What can realistically be done is to not subject DACA children to the aut…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:10 PM
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That’s a lot of assumptions you’re making there. You don’t know me nor do you know my state of mind while I typed those comments. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:02 PM
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Not backing up a point does not stop a point from being true. Rather, it’s a sign you are weak at debate when you demand sources for every point. It’s your default weapon and it shows lack of observatory and critical thinking skills. It’s really not my problem unless people are being paid to post here 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:58 PM
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That’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:55 PM
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Sex is not a contract because there are no defined requirements beforehand. Consent for sex is granted ad hoc and equally revoked ad hoc. BDSM is a contract because beforehand the nature and extent of the sex is clearly defined as well as the manner by which the contract is released. That I have to explain this to a supposed adult is nothing short of amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:10 PM
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I did no such thing. The woman herself said she did not consent. Therefore there was no agreement with Aziz. Ergo, no contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:05 PM
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Erm the while point of this post is that SHE DID NOT CONSENT. You dullard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:03 PM
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You are the one who brought up bdsm. Bdsm is a contract. ANY AGREEMENT that defines what each party will do is a contract even if it is just verbal. You need to go and learn about consent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:58 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:55 AM
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Are you asking if I’ve read Shakespeare? Because the original quote is from Hamlet and is Methinks the lady doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:53 AM
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Me thinks you thinketh not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:51 AM
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No, it is not a "contract". It is simply an agreement Listen to yourself. Ask a lawyer to listen to what you just said and ask whether it sounds sensible to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:31 AM
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Bdsm is a CONTRACT between two fully consenting people which can be revoked at any time. The fact that you even brought up BDSM shows that you have a poor understanding of consent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:12 AM
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But you are the same men benefiting from all the oppressing your ancestors did. White people make this argument about racism too. We are not the ones who owned slaves. Okay, then give back all the benefits you gained from slavery and colonialism. Then they’re silent or outright refuse. You are a beneficiary so you can be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:10 AM
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So? Let’s be clear about it. So what if feminism is about helping women at the expense of men? For 100,000 years, men have oppressed, dehumanized, even tortured and killed women on a systematic level to help men at the expense of women. Women are nowhere near as wicked but let’s say we decide to be. So what? So what if going forward women progress at the expense of men? So many of the protests men have against this are parallel to whites who went on a systematic campaign for hundreds of years to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:29 AM
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Honestly I was shocked at his balls. The girl broke down in tears after she had brought all the food and found out what was happening. WHAT IF SHE HAD POISONED YOU???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:16 AM
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I am a person and I don’t think world hunger is real, because I’ve always had enough food to eat. Do you see how silly you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:14 AM
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Okurrrrrrrr 🐓
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:34 AM
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This defense of “oh you must have a personal problem because you say something I don’t like” is tired and hackneyed. Not to mention intellectually lazy. Like I said, happy reading. All your indignation won’t change reality. And reality is that men are scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:33 AM
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Lol. This is so inaccurate. If men wanted complete control over women, we would have it. You think this isn’t happening? You think this hasn’t been the case? I know the stereotype is Americans don’t know anything but gosh, you have Internet go and read how women are treated worldwide in 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:31 AM
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I don’t have the energy to debate with someone so determined to remain oblivious. Thankfully there’s tons of writing on the Internet by women on this very subject. Happy reading. Imagine asking “where do you find these women” as if there aren’t women walking around alive every day 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:29 AM
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This has nothing to do with my personal experiences since I am celibate. This is based on the experiences of women that I see every day. It’s funny how black men are so obtuse and tone deaf and blind to women’s complaints about men yet when it comes to racism against you all your senses are sharpened Replace everything you just said with a white person speaking to you about racism and you will see how patronizing you sound. You might as well say Sexism is fixed because there are female ceos the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:19 AM
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And she said she felt unduly pressured to, which is a situation most women will instantly recognize but most men are oblivious of. If a person wants to do anything sexual with you, there should be no pressure whatsoever. Once there is even 1% pressure it is a bad if not coercive situation. Just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:10 AM
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Gosh, if I start telling stories, we will all grow old and die. True stories of things men have done for no reason to loving, supportive, loyal women they claimed to love. Men are truly horrible. There is no day there’s not a new shocking and horrifying story. From the guy who invited his girlfriend to cook for a family event only for her to discover she cooked food for his engagement to another woman, to the boyfriend who used money his girlfriend was giving him to spend on another woman, to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:07 AM
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If he was more attractive wouldn’t she have WANTED to fuck him thereby eliminating any sexual assault since she fully consented? Works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:55 AM
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I wasn’t aware feminism was pushing women to have casual sex. As far as I know, feminism is women who are already having casual sex or want to have casual sex shouldn’t be shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:28 PM
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Your analysis is spot on. Can you please do another comment with the same thing but what men want in women instead? Thanks in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 08:19 AM
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You’re forgetting this 2-8% rate varies from place to place, so for example in the US, maybe 8% of all rape accusations are false but in some countries where there are little to no consequences for even proven rape, the percentage of true rape accusations are far far higher and closer to 99% if not more. E.g in Abuja, a man in his forties raped a 3 year old girl and he was taken to court and found guilty of rape. His court imposed punishment was ONE year in prison OR the option of an 85,000 Nair…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 05:38 AM
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I’m dating a man who doesn’t love me and constantly tells me I’m not good enough to be with him and berates me about how his exes are all superior to me in every regard. I’m doing it because I love him in the moments when he’s nice to me and we’re getting along, and I’m lonely and I don’t think anyone else would ever want to be with me given all my shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 03:52 AM
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The picture is fake but the story is not. If I recall correctly this happened in Kenya or another African country and where I'm from - Nigeria it's incredibly common for men to pay the school fees of young women they're interested in, so it's not fake at all. Just not sure this is THE woman.
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