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That's not what I was talking about. The point Is that most mothers work. As for the wage gap, i don't believe in it. People of both genders are paid the same for doing the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:37 PM
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I honestly couldn't care if you were good or nah even if I tried. You are in a debating sub. You have 0 arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:25 AM
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Any other argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:26 AM
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I can't argue with this. Though you can't say that her strategy isn't working wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:26 AM
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70% of mothers work. https://www.aauw.org/resources/article/fast-facts-working-moms/ To be exact, 72% of married mothers work, and 75% of the divorced/widowed mothers work. And you also have to account for the women who work on the black market, like immigrants literally working on plantations to feed their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:18 AM
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Good thing im gay lmao, and Ill telll ya. The fact that my girlfriend looks good and fucks me right., loves me and cares for me is more than enough. When we will adopt or have children, she will stay home and take care of the house, children and herself. And we will both be Hella happy. When you love a woman you don't expect anything else. Having children is more than enough to compensate. It's the biggest act of love and sacrifice. As for equality, I truly don't give a shit. Most of the men wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:09 AM
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The thing is, men do the same. They expect everything from their hot, young, virginal trad wife while giving nothing back. Most women still work while being mothers and home makers. While not even being satisfied sexually. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:54 AM
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Oh look, a dude telling not only me, but every woman on the planet what we want. In this case, the most fulfilling thing for men is being a virgin until marriage and marrying the towns whore, spending all your money on her and being a cuck. There you go. Being a housewife is only worth it if your husband is head over heels for you, doesn't watch porn, drink often, he works to give you and your children not only a comfortable life, but almost a luxurious one, he has to look good too. Otherwise, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:50 AM
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Yes, actually. She seems very fucking happy. She has a sugar daddy that buys her shit, drives her around on her boat, gives her a nice place to live in, and she still fucks other dudes who are insanely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:34 AM
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So, she still hit the jackpot. What's your point? She lives the life she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:32 AM
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You also need status and money for that crap. You will also attract shitty men. Yes, you will be spoiled, but honestly, not worth it. My opinion might not be valid since I have seen circles straighter than I, but let's be real for a sec.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:27 AM
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Tate is a pimp. He also openly admitted to his crimes, and is now on his way to prison due to his huge mouth. He then blames the matrix. (??!?!?)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:25 AM
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Yes indeed, pimp are very respectable men /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:24 AM
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Didn't Andrew build his worth by being a pimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:23 AM
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So the red pill goal for women is leading an unfulfilling life, working while still doing most of the childcare and housework, for a dude that's addicted to porn and thinks of himself as the alpha. How is that an attractive deal for women? Not only did she not have to endure pregnancy, she won't have to lift a finger, she doesn't have to work, and all her wishes are fulfilled on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:22 AM
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Fds advise you to not sleep with him unless he commits, and unless he gives you princess treatment. It's all about withholding sex from people you want commitment from. And they seem to be right. As for working, even the majority of mothers work. You can't depend on the men today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:20 AM
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Around me, all the women who treat men like tools have the most success in dating. Even if they fuck around. The meek, shy, virgin, no makeup kind of girls never score. It's always the over the top narcissistic ones. I'm sorry for all the straight girls out there really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:18 AM
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TRP is attempting to help men in their dating game (rarely works), in the disadvantage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:13 AM
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Oh and you still didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:51 PM
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Also if they got a pimp, they're forced into it. Again. I know 3 dudes who sell underage girls. From the same Town. And it's not even a particularly unsafe Town. Not even a particularly unsafe country
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:51 PM
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Neither, I very much prefer my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:50 PM
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Would you rather be falsely called a creep or be truthfully called a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:49 AM
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Prostitutes are robbed, raped and killed by John's. They need the money to survive. You don't need someone's body on command to survive. Usually, the worse kind of people buy these services. There is a select group that seeks women who look like their DAUGHTERS, and plenty of John's do things the sellers haven't consented to, like face fucking, rough pounding, anal, choking and other horrid acts. Pussy is not a drug dude. Get a flashlight. Drug addicts are vulnerable people, and the people selli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:38 AM
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Ofcourse, men's sexual gratification is more important than people's safety as fucking always. Look at Germany dude. It's completely legal, and it's a Hotspot from trafficking women. Get your rocks off to some erotica and stfu. People's safety and health will always be more important than anyone's sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:27 AM
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Lesbian here. I do feel the desire to fuck a lot of women, but mostly that's just fantasy. I'm 100% content with my girlfriend, and sex with someone you love doesn't even compare to a random hook up. Think of it like cheap, retail, 6$ bottle of wine, to drinking wine on a expensive terrace in France, the best kind they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:19 AM
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Puberty aged girls feel the same. Young women feel the same as men. I'm still relatively young and I have sex with my girlfriend at least 3 times a day. Without any fucking exaggeration, if we were to only do it once a day one of us would think something is off. The only reason we stop is because we literally get sore and chafed. All of my girl friends talk about how hot men are, if we go out in public. Even at home, that's what they mostly talk about, unless they are in a ltr. Even in my teens,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:05 AM
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So it's not about sexual gratification, but connection, if flashlights and porn don't cut it. Then why don't you just pay for hookers instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:22 PM
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I beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:32 AM
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So you complain about today's shit standards for men, but women absolutely have to be wifey material. If you really, really wanted true love and intimacy, you could find one with a below average woman, or perhaps average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:31 AM
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"Pure sexual contact" That can mean many things. I don't think a man would he too happy if he was just allowed to stick it in and not kiss, caress or even look or touch. Or if he wasn't kissed, caressed and touch. Humans need love lmfao. If the only thing they needed was sex, a good fleshlight would solve all the problems this world has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:29 AM
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What does feminism have to do with this? I also really, really find it hard to believe that you are a woman. Usually, we aren't this silly, for lack of a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:21 AM
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Unconditional loved absolutely isn't a thing. There is always a condition. As for true intimacy and commection, sex is just that. It's isn't the next best thing. Its one of the best things out there, If done between people who love eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:18 AM
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What do you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:46 PM
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I don't think picking on semantics will be of any help. I have met promiscuous women who actually shamed promiscuous men (?!?) Or women who produced porn, not forced by anybody, were loud and proud about it and then shamed porn consumers who were men (?!?!?!?).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:57 AM
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Your income and body count definitely do matter a lot. I won't pretend like it doesn't. However, enjoying sex is still fine, and people shouldn't be dehumanized for sleeping around. The only women who bitch and moan about men are either extremely ugly or fat. Thus they can't find a partner. People who don't get fucked get grumpy and sour really quickly. It's in the advantage of men to let women enjoy casual sex, I think it's obvious why. Define a hoe though. I might be one. Does it refer to high…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:50 AM
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How is innocence sexy? I tend to associate it with children. Nothing sexy about that. As for the twinkle, does having sex dim that light in someone's eye, or is it perhaps her eye color, eye shape, and the light in her environment? Is it something else? Does having sex 1000 times with the same dude vs having sex 1000 times with let's say 4 different dudes make you more or less innocent?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:31 AM
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Actually, plenty of people are still virgins at that age. Don't lose your hope, godspeed and good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:19 AM
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I mean the dude just wants to smash. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:19 AM
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I'm assuming you are speaking of bpd when it comes to being promiscuous. It can also very much cause sex aversion, body image issues, and it comes with a lot of trauma, sometimes sexual trauma. Trust me when I say this, you want someone who is sexually open minded, who has had a few partners (not 0, not 10, in between), and who knows what they want. Sexual frustration ain't no joke, and I'm guessing you don't want to deal with someone having a breakdown while fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:17 AM
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Wait till you find out that most if you can't even please women, so it's not about delayed gratification. It's about being coerced into that shit. Or doing it because your partner really wants to. I don't really see a point in never exploring your sexuality, and that's fine, it's my point of view and it's not an absolute truth. But acting like non virgins are not marriable is kind of a stretch to me. My partner wasn't a virgin when we met, she's the sweetest person I have met and I'm thinking of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:14 AM
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People don't have any issues with that usually. It's absolutely fair to want someone similar to you. Having similar values is really important in a ltr. Actually, I would recommend you to look for someone that sees sex in a similar way to your vision on it. The people who raise a few eyebrows are the ones with extremely high body counts, who treated other people as entertainment and then want to settle down with a virgin. And those people usually also look down on other promiscuous people. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:10 AM
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Sleeping with someone after 3-5 dates is still Hella early for a lot of people though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:05 AM
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What if you two find out you aren't sexually compatible at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:04 AM
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You are nit picking. Men started using women for sex way before women started using men for services. Food is still necessary. Maybe she literally can't afford it, groceries are still Hella fucking expensive. As I said, deception is never ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:41 PM
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We were not talking about that. How does that relate to our topic? Why do you care about that? Those women have the right to bitch and moan. I mean most of them don't, since they still find partners unless they're fat or hideous, but that doesn't mean they lack empathy the way you do. It's easy to lie about your body count and they have 0 reason not to. It's not anybody business unless they have a std that their partners have to know about. I don't see the friendzone the way you do. It's not my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:46 PM
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Well they kinda are. Because most of em are insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure men started using women for sex way before restaurants were a thing, but pop off I guess. You still didn't answer my question. Why do you hate on women wanting a free meal, when food is necessary for survival while sex isn't? Sex absolutely is a need, both physically and emotionally, but you literally can't survive without food. Is deceiving someone justified or not after all? How do you regard women who use men for free meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:39 PM
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If they are also friendless, it's clearly a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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Honestly it's hard to have empathy towards lonely men when yall act like a bunch of dingbats. Maybe I couldn't afford a 4 course meal every 2nd day without a desperate dude either. Poor me. This is a great excuse to fake chemistry and sexual attraction, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:58 PM
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....? If using people for sex isn't bad, neither is using them for a free meal lmfao. How would you regard to me if I made a tinder account despite being gay and in a monogamous relationship, to use men for a free meal? And yknow, after being wined and dined, at the end I can pat them on the back and tell them that I had a great time, but now I have to go home to give my girlfriend all the head they won't be getting that day, since I'm gay and basically married. And I'm not talking about a salad…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:52 PM
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The kid that doesn't get the cookie will swear they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:37 PM
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Hahaha lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:08 AM
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I feel like this used for sex shit would be easily solved if men were upfront about their desire for just a night of sex and nothing else. And if they stopped treating women who enjoy casual sex as sluts. If we stop treating it as a bad thing, things would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:53 AM
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Actually, yall are special. Out of 4 billion people, FOUR BILLION, you couldn't find one (1) that is interested in you. And somehow, you twist it around and make it the world's fault, as a whole (?!?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:08 PM
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Some of us are in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:05 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:59 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:57 PM
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It's not about men, it's about not being a prick. I am a woman, I never plan on getting pregnant, there is 0 chance as I'm a lesbian and I don't sleep with men. I'll still give up my seat. I'll give up my seat to anyone who needs it. It's not like you have to watch her vitals or invent a safety bubble for her dude. You just gotta stand up. Why are you so dramatic over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:50 PM
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Your wish to keep your seat is nowhere as important as someone's safety dude. Imagine if someone needed a life saver and you happened to sit on it, does that also entitle you to keep sitting on that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 PM
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I'm not mad, just saddened. And that's how you respect people ??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:39 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:38 PM
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How is it equality if she is much more vulnerable? She can't keep her balance as well, and if she falls over the consequences would be much worse for her than they would be for you. This awful society that expects humanity from you, poor you. This isn't a feminism thing dude, it's basic decency. If the person in question was disabled or elderly the same rule would apply. I hope that you never end up disabled, and if you do, I hope that karma isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:23 PM
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There is 0 need to over intellectualize this matter. She's a pregnant woman. She can't keep her balance half as much as you can. If she bumps into something or trips over and falls,it's over for the little fucker inside. It's so easy to give it up to her. It's absolutely a must dude. Pretty much every bus I've been in said that we must give up our seats for pregnant women, elderly people, and disabled people. I'm genuinely flabbergasted that people would even think otherwise. Your mother taught …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:22 PM
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Misogyny isn't an argument either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:13 PM
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Oh no, woe me, I'm expected to show the slightest but of empathy towards another civilian! The horror!! -_- Bitches can't afford ubers at times. They're Hella effin expensive. Actually, most busses have places designed specifically for pregnant women. In my country you are literally advised by the law to give up your sit. If you don't. The driver can kick your rude, uncaring ass out. Chances are you are sitting on a place that was placed there specifically for elderly people, pregnant women or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 PM
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?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:10 PM
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Absolutely not. It's our responsibility regardless of gender, as human beings with a little fucking compassion. The same applies to disabled men. If a war veteran that got hurt defending my country needed a seat, I would gladly give it up for him. Or anyone with a cast. Or honestly, if they just asked I would. Or if they looked tired. What's with the douchebag Olympics? Yall think this will land you pussy or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:09 PM
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If she falls she has a big chance to lose her pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:11 PM
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HAHAHHAAHAHHAAAAAAAA Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:08 PM
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Society isn't responsible with finding you a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:03 PM
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Men and women aren't all that different. We like being in a rollercoaster of emotions, we mistake uncertainty and anxiety with attraction and chemistry sometimes. This works for both genders. Same as liking confident, sociable, good looking people. It's bonkers how logical it is, and how far yall would go to dissect it for n o t h i n g
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:02 PM
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Women have such a weird way of bullying, it's the kind that makes you stop trusting anyone around you and fucks you up mentally. Who tf hurt high-school girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:35 PM
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Every dude I know has also had a bad experience with a female romantic partner. The gay men I know have seeeevreeeeraaalllll bad experience with male romantic / sexual partners. That doesn't say much about anything, does it? Or do men have bad experiences with women because all of them are horrid, while women have some bad experiences with men because women are horrid again? Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:31 PM
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Plenty of serial killers were incels though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:21 PM
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That's very, very immature. One's peace is the most important thing. They don't even want a partner, just a girlfriend shaped pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:12 PM
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It will make people like you less as a rule. No one likes desperate people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:10 PM
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That sounds shallow as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:04 PM
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Its hard to imagine how someone who cooks for you fresh meals everyday, takes care of your offspring, leaves the house spotless, repairs things when needed, does all the stupid fucking shopping, cleans the toilet, the clogged drains, all that jazz, remembers all the stupid appointments you have to attend and every dumb detail AND tries to stay in shape for you is a deadbeat, but anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:41 AM
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No, because I'm gay, but I would love to make my girlfriend a stay at home wife. She just deserves that kind of slow and peaceful life. Plus in afraid she will rip someone's head off if they happen to piss her too much on the wrong day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:05 AM
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I'm not a gay dude, I'm a lesbian. Grindr won't work for me. We have a joke, how when it comes to lesbians, everyone's girlfriend was somebody's girl. There is a very small dating pool, practically you can count the lesbians around you on your fingers and toes. I was lucky to find someone, point in blank, I won't even mention someone I'm also extremely attracted to, who I'm compatible with, sexually, emotionally, vision wise, who also likes me back. Men often like nazis, ofcourse that would work…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:56 AM
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Absolutely not. Literally the fertility goddesses were fat (I mean statues of them). Why do you think curvy women are called "mommy" on the internet? This shit is engraved in our brains
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:28 PM
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Tbh, crank doesn't hurt your teeth all that much. It'd the fact that it makes you feel like you don't need to take care of yourself. Brush your teeth in the morning, before you sleep and after every meal preferably, floss, take calcium supplements, snort it instead of smoking it, DRINK WATER, like lots of it, eat healthy, chew sugar free gum and you'll be fine. And sleep. As for low fat = desirebale, that's very debatable. Along the history, curvy women were very sought after. In fact they still…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:56 PM
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I would also rather date someone who smokes and never works out and is still not overweight. Doesn't matter why. It's what I prefer. I'm a smoker, why on earth would I Dae a non smoker. And why on earth would I date someone I'm not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:52 PM
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Bingo. Most people have their self esteem somewhere in the pits of hell these days. A lot of girl seem to carry some sort of fake confidence (read as acting cocky). It seems like a bandaid on a shotgun wound. Yeah, I totally get that! Things really, really change when you find someone you like, and you might be impressed what some women will do when they really like you. They will put up a charade of confidence, because we are taught that men like it when we make them "chase us". Behind the scen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:47 PM
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Aside from the damage, I think its also the need to feel wanted and special. They want you to insist, because you would like to spend more time with them. Who doesn't want to feel wanted, after all? It's also the fact that women are still somewhat shamed for enjoying sex, they don't want you to feel like they're easy, or it's the "I want to feel desired" thing again. My girlfriend really did this at the start of our relationship, once we got more comfortable and secure with eachother things chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:35 PM
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Yes, its safe to assume that way. I'm not sure why anyone would even consider reading past the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:27 PM
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I won't turn around and cry, since I'm fortunately gay. I won't have to deal with yalls bullshit, even for a single day, my whole life. I absolutely won't bitch about passport bros, they are free to bang Asian chicks who will use them for their money. Be aware tho, you will likely also have to support their family, and quite frankly, yall aren't half man enough to face the masculinity standard from those cultures. I will bitch about men paying to rape, because most prostitutes 1) start as teens,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:02 PM
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Damn you did all that and still no bitches? Hard to believe. Also steroids? Isn't the point being healthy and a better version of yourself? Not gonna judge you, but damn, batman couldn't have gotten that info out of me. Also suits? What do those help with? How many weddings do you attend per year? I haven't heard a woman compliment a suit on a dude that wasn't a grandma since the day I started hearing. Why do you exactly need a young and thin girl? If you are not on their level, they won't date …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:51 AM
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People should have access to education, and jobs, since you basically need those to live, esp the latter. If said people are Hella fkin irresponsible and don't do anything towards a job or education, that's a story for another time. As for social status, that is something absolutely no one is owed. There is no ethical way to force people to respect you, nor should there be. You are owed humanity, however, you are not owed people's adoration or even friendliness if I'm honest. Yes, everyone shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:33 AM
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Thats because it's the truth...? You can't really control the economic state of your country, a lot of people have issues with housing due to external factors. Well all know the homelessness problem in the USA. It is largely due to a shitty economic environment. People literally want to work but can't find someone to hire them, they would rather abuse, overwork and underpay their already tired employees. Then rich ass mofos will buy every piece if real estate and rent it out, for pAsSivE iNcomE,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:28 AM
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Or Benches. Or the Healthcare system. Or benefit prim public safety
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:20 AM
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Orrrrr you could hit the gym, get a haircut and some Bice clothes. Or is that too complicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:18 AM
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Society doesn't shit on you. You just are undersireable. Grew up as a fat kid, rarely took care of my experience. Lost weight in my teens and suddenly people wanted to date me lmfao. It's literally how it works. You could keep moaning and complaining, or you could do whatever it takes to become more attractive and score yourself a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:17 AM
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I'm sorry. What are you suggesting in all actuality? State mandated partners? How are we going to decide who gets who? What if someone just doesn't want to date but someone wants to date them? How does this work in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:15 AM
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You are actually owed housing, water and food. Those are absolutely necessary for survival. However, you are not owed the autonomy of other people. You can't own people, thus you can't force people do date you. Your freedom ends where another person's begins. You are not owed someone's time, space or body. What's so hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:12 AM
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I have good plugs and I'm a good pussy eater.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:10 AM
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You were talking about the 80/20 rule, and I assumed it was in general. Women actually wanting to cum and not he treated like servants isn't the 80/20 rule, its the men being pathetic rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:26 AM
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Over 50% of men get married. Miss me with that bull crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:47 PM
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The beauty standard for Japanese women is ridiculously high, while for Japanese men, it's ridiculously low. Most of them are also sex obsessed and perverse, they seriously lack social skills. What's there to like about them? It's gotten to the point where actually worthy men opened up sex services business. They are called "theraphists" and plenty of them have Twitter pages, where women can seek them and even leave reviews. While penetration is not legal, pretty much everything else is, from ora…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:18 AM
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Men literally see any and every woman they don't feel attracted to, or who doesn't fit their type as less than a real person or an individual with experiences and feelings (best case scenario) or literally as undeserving of life or empathy, repulsive. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:10 AM
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Women want all of that lmao. Yall are so close yet so far. Like yeah, people like fun people, who knew? :O
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:10 PM
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Happy for all of you but obviously my partner is the best looking în the world, head to toe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:12 AM
2

Most disputes regarding children are carried outside the court. Men literally choose to have little to nothing to do with their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:41 AM
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Yup. It means that even those losers can eventually pull. Now imagine how well they would do if they gave a shit, socialized, got confident, got a haircut and hit the gym :O
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:24 PM
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Not bigger than height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:51 AM
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50% of men will get married in their life time, and over 90% will have sex at least once. 50% of men aren't rich, and 90% of men definitely aren't. Stop making up excuses, improve every aspect of yourself that you can and find someone you like that also likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:49 AM
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Sure, whenever they quit porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:35 AM
4

Careful moving those goal posts. They look heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:52 PM
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The average man has more casual sex than the average women. Men are literally whores, they have always been the more promiscuous gender. Why do you project that on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:09 PM
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She literally just told you that her libido is high and she's still in a dead bedroom. Her husband literally won't fuck her. What on earth do ya mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:02 PM
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I'm actually mad at guys like him. They take all the fucking fire bi bitches. That means my dating pool is getting smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:13 PM
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You aren't living in solitude, you have people to fuck/cuddle with. You won't have that at 70. You don't need women to feel fulfilled, you just need someone. If a dude fits you better, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:03 PM
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It's not that he's a retard, it's that it's not expected from men to know shit. What about companionship? I see sex as more of an emotional need than a physical one. If it wasn't emotional too, I think we would all just masturbate and not have sex. But i really, really think it's also emotional. People tend to bond with their sexual partners, and it takes trust and all that. It also literally feels much better when you do it with someone you have feelings for. Do you feel ok with staying celibat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:16 PM
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I have seen this countless times. Honestly, It happens more to dudes than to chicks in my experience. Usually women flee when they want commitment but don't get it. I advise everyone to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:39 AM
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Women do kinda care for their husbands. At least where I live. My dad doesn't even know how to load the washing machine, and he is in his 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:38 AM
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Most mature and level headed people assume that you aren't exclusive with anyone until you both agree that you are exclusive (you have to talk about it). When I wanted to make it clear that I want an exclusive relationship with my now partner, I just told her I wasn't seeing or talking with anyone else, and that i would like to try for a serious relationship with her. Until you talk about commitment, both parties are allowed to do whatever they want with anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:36 AM
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Surely did. Thank you for tapping my shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:17 PM
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You are exagerrating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:44 AM
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He is alone, he has absolutely no one, dirty poor. He is living off the pity of some old lady in a village. They don't have running water or windows. He has one pair of shoes he never takes off, he goes fishing with those shoes, he sleeps with them, he "showers" with them. He is a raging alcoholic and doesn't have enough money to eat even once every two days. I'm surprised he ain't dead yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:42 AM
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Idk, your mom seems to quite enjoy my face. As for the femcel part, I don't know what that is so I won't comment on it. How am I supposed to know what you think classifies as that? Happy cake day shithead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:38 AM
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Mistyped, sorry. I meant couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:23 AM
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Awh, try again! This one is not fat!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:43 AM
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Heard somewhere that they started deploying young men because they were the demographic that fucked up the most. Meaning petty crimes, destruction of public property, posesion and distribution of drugs, gang and street violence, rape, and a bunch of other silly little activities. The military and the draft of young men was a way to keep them under Control and make them more disciplined and docile. Sure, it was a bad idea, since now they just terrorize people in other countries. But still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:32 AM
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Not all women are loyal, you have to be retarded to believe they are. But when it comes to infidelity, men are actually worse. If you bash one you also gotta bash the other, which again, actually cheats more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:27 AM
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Protect yourselves from what? Seeing your girl taking another man's nut on the internet? Men literally cheat more often, statistically speaking. They consume more porn, even pay for it, etc. If straight women (God bless those poor souls) thought like you did, you would never actually get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:26 AM
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Single means she's not in a relationship. That's what it means for everyone. If a dude fucks a chick at the bar, that still makes him single and he knows that. Heck, most men consider themselves/act like they're single while they have girlfriends and wives too, given the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:23 AM
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Men struggle to stay celibate while their woman is pregnant with their child or breast feeding their son/daughter. Men don't stay loyal while employed either. Don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:21 AM
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I'm pretty sure thats not how it works. I definitely do. Your mom also does. Tell her I won't be able to make it tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:58 AM
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I mean good for you, you haven't been raped. You might not recover from that shit either, I know I couldn't recover if it happened a 2nd time so I would rather just die instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:57 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:54 AM
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Men aren't a monolith and neither a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:47 PM
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Not sharing your feelings on certain matters isn't vile. It's my personal preference, wod rather die a horrible death than be raped again .not sure how that's vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:42 PM
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I honestly think it does. It's my personal belief, you have no right to tell me how to feel about it. I never said anything about misogyny dude. Being raped has the same psychological effects no matter if you pee standing up or standing down. I have met male victims who suffered as much as I did, and I'm sure that's worse than being drafted. Worse cade scenario you can literally kill yourself. I would rather gulp down 2 buckets of straight chlorine than having to go through that again. I'm not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:41 PM
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Yeah I did. You have left a few comments being misogynistic not necessarily in this thread, that's why I replied with what I replied. Calm your man Tits down. I don't think anyone who isn't a danger to society should be locked up. I still think men bring 0 net positive, but mostly I belive that about women too. Most of us are useless lmao. Bro it's the purge. Shut up and troll a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:35 PM
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I'm aware of that. Idk, most rape victims feel differently about that. Honestly I can't imagine any experience that would cause as much turmoil in my life than that series of events did. Don't worry, his life is a shit show. Karma has a way to work it's things. Never went to the police about it or told anyone who could have done anything to him. But trust me, his life is horrible regardless, although it has nothing to do with what he did to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:33 PM
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You absolutely did. You told me rape doesn't compare to the atrocities of war and went on a rant, and how they aren't comparable. If you would rather be raped, and expressed that, fine. But you speak about it like it's some absolute truth. I think it's worse lmao. Some soldiers go back to the front, or literally choose to do service. Never heard of a rape survivor asking to be raped again. I get to decide whats worse for me. You don't get to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:31 PM
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You literally think the same about women. Cry me a river. You aren't nearly tall enough or good looking enough to be misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:28 PM
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My life is a walking nightmsre of trauma and ptsd. It's due to being raped. Developed psychosis over it. Was on meds for years. Would rather go to war than be raped again. You don't get to decide for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:20 PM
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How would it be vile lmao. Yall are dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:14 PM
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It's really not. Would you rather die or be fucked in the ass by a crusty dude? Twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:09 PM
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They absolutely can. Having a vagina Suddenly makes me less competent? When it comes to making women cum I'm 100% sure I'm better than most of yall anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:35 PM
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I would 100% be shot to death than be raped once again thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:33 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:46 PM
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Opiate and opioid addicts are fine lol. They're chill asf. It's the dab takers and the boofers that get on my nerves. Ne a real man and snort it! Dabbers are just annoying. Why get a whole bong? Can't they roll a decent mf joint?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:45 PM
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Your first line makes 0 sense. When something is free, you are the product. Men literally try to get woken drunk in order to make them more open to sex, and you're telling me woken are treating men like free drink dispensers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:50 PM
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I also never heard a dude express his tastes in a polite and proper manner. It always sounds either weirdly sexual, they put other women down to bring the other kind up, or a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:02 PM
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There is a difference between a preference and a fetish. These dudes think most Asian women are virginal, moan like in hentai movies, have a bubble gum pink vulva and are submissive. They don't see them as actual people or partners. They look at them like hentai categories:D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:59 PM
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28 is a fully grown adult. When we talk about relationships which are predatory in nature, we talk about freshly out of hs 18 year Olds, not women who are almost 30. Heck, I'm in my early 20s and I couldn't IMAGINE looking at 18 year Olds or highschoolers in that way. I see them as younger sisters, in no way would I consider them sexually or romantically. They are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:58 PM
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Yeah, no one complains about a 4 year age gap. They complain about a 30 year one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:56 PM
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Said this a couple of times, but 9/10 times a dude posts on PPD, I get more and more glad that I'm gay. Lord above, if you're really there, thank you so much for making me an avid pussy eater. I couldnt have dealt with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:54 PM
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Nah, they will most likely just adopt. No one will accept such behvaiour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:48 AM
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Why would you want to have sex with someone that doesn't want to do it with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:06 PM
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Watching it excessively, being addicted to it, it rotting away their sexuality and weakening their ability to see women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:44 PM
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What is this blackpill bullscrap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:29 PM
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Because at least they make their partners cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:27 PM
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Look at how men act with porn. That will tell you enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:23 PM
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Alright sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:28 PM
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Nauseating yes, but it's still true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:26 PM
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I grew up in a house where my dad satisfied my mother's every wish, to the best of his ability. In turn she was a devoted mother and a devoted wife, a great cook, and just wonderfully pleasant to be around. My dad also spoiled me a little, as I was his only daughter. I now also spoil my partner and she spoils me. I literally don't understand how you can look at someone you are infatuated with and think "no I won't buy this bitch dinner, what if she fucks chad". These games help no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:22 PM
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Actually they recommend growing a fucking spine, not being a desperate little bitchin heat and being confident. Men love bitches anyway. The worse you treat him the better he will treat you. If he is drained after meeting you, both mentally and financially, he won't have energy or money to fuck, wine and dine other bitches. Men need to feel useful or they become depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:16 PM
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And then he is special. What's so hard to comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:13 PM
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Since that's what marriage is, why is not Princess treatment a fair ask? She is literally the future mother of your children. How could you not want to spoil her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:10 PM
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Why is it not a fair ask? I treat my girlfriend like that and she does the same for me. Moreover she also makes me cum. She's also stunning, something you can hardly say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:09 PM
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FDS is nothing but a comunity that teaches women how to not be playes, similar to the red pill for men. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:07 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:03 PM
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Yeah ok whatever. Have a good day. Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:36 PM
1

Nah, I'm kinda hungry. I'll fix myself supper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:33 PM
2

I heard men still do cum. Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:31 PM
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Women aren't usually believed lmao. You don't even believe we have problems. You are the perfect example. And you lack empathy for women. That's why you re alone. You can date a woman significantly uglier than you are then. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:31 PM
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If your friend gets lovebombed and then his girlfriend accuses him of rape (falsely), is it also that dude's fault? You seem to always view men as the victim and women as mischievous little bitches, while also seeing men as smarter and more able. You sound a little like the mustache man. Which Is it? Who is smarter actually? If your partner stops having sex with you, it's a you problem 99% of the time. When my girlfriend gets me upset I won't feel like fucking her either, same with her. We both …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:05 PM
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I saw this one, I really doubt this woman is actually speaking in good faith. She sounds like an MRA and a walking male fantasy. As for my own experience with dating both (though I actually realized I'm gay fairly quickly), I know which one is worse. My other bisexual friends also, and there is a whole trope of bi women being misandrists. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:58 PM
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Most bisexuals claim they hate the majority of men and how women are superior. You figure it out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:55 PM
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Cue the aids crisis, rampant rape cases and a bunch of other bullshit. Casual sex is ok anyway only when men do it, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:48 PM
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Sure, the dude with happy kids and a vibrant wife who gets a back massage at least twice a week and dinner cooked most nights of the week, and who takes care of his wife must be willfully ignorant. It can't be that he is not socially retarded, and a raging misogynistic schizo dude and actually found someone for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:45 PM
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Being socially isolated due to being perceived as a slut have the same long term effects. Prostitutes are literally seen as trash human beings that can be used and abused, often times their disappearings, murders, assaults, etc go ignored because of what they do to survive. I'm glad some men are lonely and I hope they stay that way. If you have 0 empathy for the people you see trying to bond with and form a relationship with, you deserve to be alone. They don't deserve bad partners. Unless you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:42 PM
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I cum everytime with my girlfriend. Multiple times. Why can't men do the same for their female partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:36 PM
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Those women have 0 fault that someone love bombed them at first and started treating them like shit after a marriage. That can happen whether the dude is poor or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:37 AM
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You are literally the one comodifying rich men, just because they have a different life experience compare to you. This just sounds like an illogical sexist crock of shit, not an actual argument being made. Both are in the wrong, yada yada yada. But you can't tell me a freshly out of high-school 18 year old is a better manipulator than a rich 50 something dude that likely overworks and underpays his workforce. I know you like seeing women as mischievous, manipulating, ruthless bitches that are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:35 AM
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Vasectomies have higher reverse rates than hysterectomies. They are also less invasive, you literally need a single day to recover (this isn't the case for histerectomies). Also less expensive. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:06 AM
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Or better yet. If you know you don't want any kids, get yourself snipped. It's much more likely for a doctor to "accept" to do this procedure for a young man than for a young woman, it's much less invasive for men, etc. Just get your balls snipped pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:57 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:14 PM
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You seem to not be educated on the subject. Models start their pornographic career long before they turn 18. You can't verify the consent or age or medical state in most videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:50 PM
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Drugs are also heavily banned in most places. And I still know people who snort Coke every friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:13 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:43 AM
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Obesity rates are higher for males than females. The probability to find a fit female if higher than the probability to find a fit male. And if we also look at the probability to find a dude that will satisfy you, won't be addicted to pornography and won't hit you... let's not talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:49 AM
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I don't agree. Bathroom mirror selfies can still look good, it's about light, angles, facial expressions etc. You don't have to pose on the runway, on the moon or in Montreal on the president's head. You just have to take a picture in which you look good. It has to be to your advantage. Happy cake day, by the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:54 AM
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I will thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:57 AM
1

Ofcourse they can and they often are. What is even this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:50 AM
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It's not that the only men giving me attention are sewer people, I just have 0 interest in them because I'm gay. If they back off after I clearly voice my disinterest (no matter how unfortunate looking they may be), there is no issue there. The issue is when they don't back off at the first clear verbal warning, and when they ask me intimate questions about my sex life, or when they tell me I just didn't have the right one yet. I hope those guys find girls to go out with I guess? Idk, I'm more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:48 AM
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You are so close to the point it might even sit on your face. People have different tastes. Maybe even his personality can affect the way people see him (how attractive they consider him). I don't find him attractive at all mainly because I find no men attractive. Some women might prefer Latino men or whatnot. People have types. I don't understand the obsession with wanting to attract ALL WOMEN. There is no dude who will be able to get any woman on the planet, and there is no need for that anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:19 AM
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Ugly dudes can and will pump and dump too. It's not about leagues or whatnot, it's about people not being honest. If people actually communicated what they wanted from the start (I.e a relationship, a fwb situation, a 1ns etc), there wouldn't be any issues. If you keep trying to get a relationship out of someone who is not interested in you beyond sex, that's on you. If they blatantly lie to you though? Emotional intelligence doesn't hinder women in dating almost at all, because most men don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:15 AM
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Men making weird sexual comments or hitting on you even tho you are a middle schooler and they are over 30 isn't attention dude. If the ugliest dude hit on me respectfully I would politely reject and move on. There's nothing creepy about it. If he also rubs his crotch, stinks of piss, and asks if I'm a hooker while he hits on me, then I would categorize him as a creep. I have met so many girls and women who were invisible to the other gender. Some of them weren't even that unattractive, they jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:09 AM
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You must be fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:53 AM
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Ok let's be real for one second, men do take horrid photos. Almost as a whole gender, men don't know how to take pictures of themselves (not talking about porn camera men or wedding photographers). 99% of men take crappy photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:48 AM
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What do all of these have to do with the fact that people knowingly jerk off to little girls being abused? Clothes are kinda necessary. While I do my best to shop sustainably(I often make my own clothes, I am the hand me outs girl-my family and friends know I'm the person they should give their old clothes which they don't need anymore to, I thrift, I can mend basically anything and make it wearable again or adjust it in size no problem), I understand most people don't. Again, clothes are necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:27 AM
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No demand, no supply. If men actually gave a shit about anyone's safety over their pleasure (don't worry, male actors are treated just as cruelly as female ones, if not worse), they would stop. They care more about Cumming though. These men literally don't deserve to have relationships. Imagine putting your sexual gratification over human lives bro. They deserve to be hermits. In talking about women who consume pornography too. Rejection is not a reason to support an industry where rape, human t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:46 PM
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You're okay with jerking off to little girls being raped and trafficked?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:42 PM
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Is the safety of women less important than men's sexual gratification?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:44 PM
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No one else was. America isn't the only country on earth. There are no humans in mars, that isn't proof of the lack of our existence. We pretty much exist. Even if we talk about America, the abortion ban isn't fun, doctors refusing to perform certain medical procedures isn't fun either, medication is still overwhelmingly tested on male subjects instead of also female, so medication really doesn't work as well. Women are also more likely to have their pain shrugged off, they are more likely to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:51 PM
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America isn't the only place on earth dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:19 PM
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Women are not a hivemind. Women do settle sometimes. It depends from woman to woman. Because women are different. That's likely because they're humans just like you. If I say right now that I like to shove up spicy pickles up my vagina, that doesn't mean that's what all women like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:48 PM
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I spent my childhood on 4chan, omegle, and other dark places. and all I can say is that yall are motherfucking weak. I heard how women are horrid and abhorrent beings for not giving pussy an average of ~14 times a day. I was groomed countless times and went through a bunch of other messed up crap, all due to men. This was my life, everyday, from the time I was like 11 to when I was maybe 17. I still don't think every dude is like this. Even after all the locker room talk, the shit I saw on snuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:48 PM
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Then what do they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:48 PM
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So then why are redpillers upset when women also want a 10 but settle for the best they can get? What you said doesn't negate my point. Men still think they have more value on the scale than they acty have. Wanting something vs thinking you are entitled to something is different. Like yeah, I might want my rich neighbour's car collection, but I know I'm not entitled to it. Men actually think they are entitled to females much more attractive then them, while also thinking the women's value is low…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:38 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:24 AM
3

Strawwwwwmaaaaaan
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:23 AM
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Pretty much yes, stay single forever. If you only want someone to get off, you don't deserve a partner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:22 AM
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People don't value people the way you do. You might see that dude as better, she might not. People have different tastes and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:05 AM
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Men think they're 2-4 levels higher than they actually are, as a rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:04 AM
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Rare moment when an eternally online red piller admits that having an interesting personality and being charismatic will actually help you pull bitches!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:59 AM
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If a girl "doesn't give you sex "(barf), that means she doesn't feel comfortable around you, I.e you're a sociopathic creep. Let me guess, you don't have many friends either, and your relationship with your family sucks ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:57 AM
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Pretty much this. Sometimes I feel like men want a girlfriend shaped pet that looks pretty by society standards, not actually a partner. It's pretty tough to understand, since I don't see women that way, and since I'm not with my partner because I felt lonely or I couldn't get "someone better". I literally just chose her because I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:55 AM
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Or men could stop asking out people they're not attracted to and just stay single until they find someone they actually like who likes them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:52 AM
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That's... that's how relationships work for everyone. You kinda have to accept that your partner has autonomy and desires, and they can choose to leave whenever they'd like. That usually makes us not be shitty partners. Are we really complaining about this? Muh muh men have it so hard, let me play a song on the tiniest violin. Women literally face the same thing. Especially with porn, there will always, always be a hotter chick. I go above and beyond for my partner and I see that as a necessity.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:26 AM
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I mean it's still kinda weird but yeah, it's more moral this way. It doesn't encourage abuse, and it could be used as a really effective therapy tool. Didn't think this far about it, thank you for your pov!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:07 PM
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I'm afraid 80% of the world population will become socially r%@$Ed hermits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:06 PM
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I'm absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:04 PM
2

Midwifery was the first profession, not prostitution. Prostitution is something that literally shouldn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:56 PM
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We need men to leave us alone. Asking to not be constantly harassed is not entitlement. Women can be independent as long as men mind their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:18 AM
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In my country, when my mother was born, women weren't allowed to have bank accounts. That doesn't sound too independent for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:17 AM
1

Careful moving those goal posts. They look heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:13 AM
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Some men there think women shouldn't be able to vote. Or they think men shouldn't pay child support because women can abort. Or they think abortions should be law mandated if the dude doesn't want a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:12 AM
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The whole point is that not everything revolves around men, and me wearing winged eyeliner isn't objectfying myself like many claim here. I also dress nice in the house. Plenty of my female friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:44 AM
2

Thank you for the cat stories, they were really enjoyable. Have a great day, based redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:43 AM
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Abusive women are also terribly popular amongst guys! The abuse rate is higher for men than it is for women in heterosexual relationships. It's almost like.. manipulation tactics actually work sometimes :O and as if.. if .. it's as if codependency and toxic attachments are also a thing! I swear if dumb people could fly, the sky would go dark forever and we'd have the same fate as the dinosaurs did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:40 AM
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Men actually have more sexual partners than women do overall. Which says a lot since sex is easy to get anywhere as a woman, and it's harder for dudes. Women look for commitment. Dudes often just want to bang as many chicks as they possibly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:32 AM
2

What if it's a relationship between two gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:29 AM
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No, you see, women are npcs and the alpha male can and should program them to act to their liking. Women don't have social needs, all they need is a strong men to control their life. When female nature is left unrestrained, the earth implodes. All she should need is her dude. He gets to control what she does, says or thinks. How she looks. Everything. /s obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:29 AM
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Talking to friends and family and spending time away from your partner sometimes counts as acting single? Covering up or cutting your hair? If I don't do that, does that mean I act like I'm single?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:27 AM
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Our dogs (obviously every dog is different though) seem to care when we cry. They jump on your faces and give us kisses. They also seem to get excited when they hear us laughing. They lay close when one of us feels sick. I'm pretty sure dogs are capable of some primitive form of empathy, and obviously you can't do anything to them and still expect trust or even closeness. And AI doesn't have that. You can abuse it verbally in the most horrific ways and it won't change the "relationship" (barf) t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:25 AM
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It's disturbing and pathologic quite honestly I suggest everyone on here to read what happened to the replica chatbot. People literally started abusing THEIR AI partners dude. What on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:12 AM
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Who exactly pressures men to improve? Obviously you have to improve if you want a partner, or if you want to keep your partner. But that's not a necessity, and it works like that for both genders. Like you can't act the same way you did in mine school your whole life and expect people to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:11 AM
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A relationship with am AI is a parasitic parasocial relationship. Humans need human contact. That's all. There is no point in arguing further, it's a known fact. People go batshit insane when deprived of human contact for long enough, lonely people are way more likely to be suicidal and their lifespans are significantly shorter. I'm not even talking about quality of life here. Being lonely for prolonged periods of time is as unhealthy as smoking a pack a day. Wanting to be accepted all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:05 AM
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They do tho..? No one likes dying..?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:13 PM
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Men sound like a bunch of cry babies then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:42 PM
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Those are not needs, that's basic respect. I wouldn't stick around someone like that. Most people drop those behaviors by the end of high-school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:16 PM
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Men men men women women Shut the hell up. It's about humanity as a whole. Everyone is appreciative when they are helped out of a dangerous situation. I don't think someone you actually helped escape a dangerous situation wasn't thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:15 PM
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Here as in my comment or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:13 PM
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Americans. Yeah, the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:39 PM
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Sorry, looks like I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:38 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1337165/global-employment-rate-gender/#:~:text=Since%202000%2C%20employment%2Dto%2D,of%20women%20were%20the%20same. I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:37 PM
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What exactly do you mean? What have women done to me to hurt me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:35 PM
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I don't think every man would harass you or abuse you. As for your needs, you can take care if your own and still be in a relationship. I wouldn't die without my girlfriend. I can tend to my needs. So can she. I'm not her mommy, neither is she mine. I don't think people staying single is a problem either. It's a choice, but we can't act like it's really affected by people around us. Decent people are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:34 PM
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No one needs anyone of either gender, it's about having the slightest of civic sense. If someone is in danger around me, I'll do my best to help. If you feel differently I suggest looking into what antisocial personality disorder is. People being in distress affects me too. Isn't that the case for you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:32 PM
1

Is that so? I heard differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:30 PM
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I'm not going to keep debating with you. You are too far gone. Take a break from reddit today If you can, you need it. Go out with a healthy friend of yours. You had enough of this madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:29 PM
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Men literally have a higher unemployment rate then women do. It's actually a gendered problem. What on earth are you talking about? Women also make almost just as much as men. For every 9 dollars men as a whole make, women make 8. It's pretty darn equal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:42 PM
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I am extremely protective of other women. I feel like they're worth protecting. Don't blame your shortcomings on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:37 PM
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There are more single women than single men in every demographic. Women just don't seem to complain as much about it. They might just not be as interested in men as men are in women, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:36 PM
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Some men are gay, some don't want kids, etc. Women don't just provide babies and sex lmao. That's not how relationships work. Sex isn't something you provide, it's something 2 or more people enjoy together. Women want sex with people they are attracted to as much as men do. I'm in a lesbian relationship, sex isn't a chore, it's just something that happens all the time because we like eachother. Neither men or women are there to provide something. In a relationship, both people take care of both …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:34 PM
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There is no point that's referring to most women, because most women aren't alike. Everyone acts differently in relationships, everyone has different needs and everyone Is attracted go different things. There is no end all be all, there is no secret cheat code. Get outside of the house, socialize, see women as actual humans that are complex and different, choose one, get to know her and build a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:54 AM
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I'm gay and I still do my best to look good. Even when I meet with my friends. Feeling confident is just nice dude. I wear cute things around the house too, even when my girlfriend isn't home. I'm pretty sure it's not about validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:45 AM
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So not wanting to be a hairy, itchy mess that's also so fat it can't move, while wearing stained or ripped clothes means in objecrifying myself? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:43 AM
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There are male only fans models, and you can't tell me some women there aren't being pimped. As for tik tok and Instagram, they aren't pornographic sites. Not every woman sexualises herself there, most users don't actively post, there are men there too, and even if they post, the content isn't necessarily provocative. Even if 900 million women objectified themselves, that isn't the majority of 4 billion. There are many, many more women that don't ask to be objectified and still are than women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:42 AM
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Sometimes looking decent is exactly what it takes to not be objectified. Plenty of men go for "ugly" (by society's standards) women, because they see them as an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:39 AM
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You don't see it because you don't care. I don't know 1 woman that wasn't harassed online, including myself. And I don't even post pictures of me. Like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:38 AM
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I never posted 1 single provocative picture of me online. The only time I wear eyeliner is when I meet my girlfriend because she likes it on me. Not everything has to be about men ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:36 AM
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Why would you need statistics to claim that clinginess is found in both genders??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:32 AM
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Picnic in the park on a sunny day sounds pretty good to me. Why would this be not a high quality date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:57 AM
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Couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:24 AM
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Honestly growing up I resented my mom for telling me when I've gained weight. But now, I'm pretty thankful. I had a good childhood because I was pretty much always at a healthy weight(aside from a period of time when i was on meds), I developed good eating habits, I stayed healthy and was able to move (being fat really makes being active a hard task, which makes you fatter. Vicious cycle). It also helps your confidence a lot. Growing up fat can really take a toll on your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:23 AM
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You can't lose weight either. They'll ask if you're depressed, if you're starving ever since you move out, they will stuff you, ask you if you're sick, or if you do drugs. You really can't win lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:20 AM
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You don't need a man in romania. Source: I live here and I grew up here. Lived here ALL my life. Unless you live on the country side, in "Cuca Macaii" (basically at the end of the earth), you don't need a dude to get by. You can easily get a job, women get paid as much as men do. The only problem is that it isn't really socially acceptable to not have a husband in most areas, especially rural ones, and within the older generations. The newer generations, especially in the bigger cities have no s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:19 AM
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Because they have a normal social life..? You never met a needy or clingy woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:01 AM
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Again, men work the same way. If the hot girl in the office made you cookies, you would enjoy them. You have a crush on her. You flirt a little, it goes well. You probably see this as a positive interaction. If the aloof gay dude also made you cookies and flirted with you, you would be disturbed. Or the fat cleaning lady that always smells off. THATS HOW ATTRACTION WORKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:00 AM
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It's obvious from the social cues you get and give. That's how relationships work. You wouldn't ask someone on their first date how many kids they would like with you. You ask them after a few years together maybe. Social and mentally healthy human being don't have a hard time picking up cues like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:55 AM
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Have you noticed that most men accept and even enjoy things from the girl they want that they wouldn't from girls they're not attracted to? -spontaneous blowjobs (they for some reason won't accept it from a random homeless old lady on the street) -breakfast in bed (instead of being thankful, they come with that "how tf did you get into my apartment, I live on the 9th floor of a 12 floor complex bullshit) -washing their clothes (why wouldn't you let my schizo cousin with a scat fetish wash your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:49 AM
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Fair point.
/r/AntiFeminists15/05/23 03:24 AM
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Bob absolutely doesn't do that. Most guys over estimate their attractiveness while underestimating the attractiveness of women in general. That's why they think they are entitled/ have a chance with a 8/10-10/10, even if they are a 4/10 guy. You see the average woman as someone looking like Selena gomez, heck I've seen plenty of dudes here call her outright ugly. Men don't know what average means these days, specifically because of porn and the internet in general. Even if what you said makes se…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah, it happens. Humans are competitive in nature. We will always want the best looking partner we can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:48 AM
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Yeah, it happens. Humans are competitive in nature. We will always want the best looking partner we can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:48 AM
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Men sent 70% of their messages to the top 20%. Men ain't messaging women either, just the top tier model ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:39 PM
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Ofcourse, but this ain't a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:38 PM
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A 4/10 woman will always have much more value than a 6/10 man. By comparison, she's 2 scales above him just because she's female. The competition is for women. Heck. Even some women compete for women, or for their validation. So many young women get "high value" boyfriends just so they can raise their value in the eyes of their female peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:37 PM
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Judging by who my friends and the women I know are dating, I don't think so. They choose the most rat looking boys, and they don't make up for it with their personality either..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:54 AM
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You ask dumb questions. "If sex doesn't matter why hook up" Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:12 AM
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Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:11 AM
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I'm a big relationship person, but if the sex sucks I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:24 AM
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Not everyone has the same feelings or though process as you. You don't have to understand it or participate in it. Mind you own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:21 AM
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Again, I'm dead serious. I explained it to you once. Wanna keep your kind closed? That's your issue. I'm not going to bother again. Maybe next time you'll think peeing or sleeping is also clouding your judgement, try to fight against those, tell me how it works.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/23 12:42 AM
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I am dead serious.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/23 12:41 AM
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It still doesn't seem to have gotten across. "People like you" Get off your high horse with your separatist views and stop putting people into boxes. Its iffy, you sound like the mustache dude that got rejected by the art school, in both 1907 and in 1908. You are no better than I am, neither am I better than you are.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/23 12:21 AM
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Why shouldn't emotions be a part of it? If people didn't have emotion tied to said subject, they wouldn't argue over it. What separates us from animals is that we feel complex emotions. They don't cloud logic at all. Suppressing them actually clouds logic. We are social beings. Everything is tied to emotion (or almost). Even science is tied to emotion. If we weren't curious (emotion) we wouldn't ask questions. The very basis of science isn't physics or biology or chemistry. It's philosophy. It's…
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/23 12:20 AM
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Promiscuity is surely not as bad as it was in the 80s and 90s. You just like to demonize women. Men are also more promiscuous. They have more sex, watch more porn and crave multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:27 AM
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That would be biologically impossible dude. If that was possible, I assure you that it would happen. Men have literal second families. I feel like that's the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:11 AM
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Well how would you react if I just slid into your dms from different accounts, multiple times a day, and harrased you when you don't answer in a timely manner? And that's not all, what if I asked you to be my pay pig everytime I slid into your dms? Now also imagine I have short green hair, I weight around 400 lbs and I also have multiple facial piercings. Now imagine multiple ugly, fat women do the same to you everyday, multiple times a day. Oh, and they all get mad when rejected or ignored. How…
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/23 06:20 PM
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You don't know when it happened or what happened. You don't know if it got solved or not. There's no point in trying to tell you because you obviously have a biaa, and nothing I could do or say would change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:25 AM
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Are really the men painting it? Like actually...? Again, most of the times it's either a team effort, the woman home making (painting/homemaking are traditionally feminine tasks) or just hire someone. How often do you really need to repaint the walls? When it comes to fences, it usually falls on the kids, due to the sheer easiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:16 PM
1

I couldn't live the way you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:27 AM
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ONCE A WEEK? Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:50 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:23 AM
2

That works wonders, I have tried it. One of my friends used to hit the table with the lid, and somehow she would manage to make it loosen up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:28 PM
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Im not moving anything. A single male will have significantly less dishes to Do. You eat straight out of the pot most of the time. We were talking about couples, and families. CHORES. They even mentioned childcare. Ever had to take care of children several days in a row? Those Fuckers always make a mess of the house, including the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:28 PM
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I'm absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:40 PM
2

For 1 person maybe. Or for two. When you have kids tho... or when you cook ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:09 PM
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My girlfriend is significantly shorter than I am, and I also have long arms. I just take things from her at times and hold them in the air, watching her struggle. That's the price she has to pay for choosing a tall girlfriend. She told me she prefers tall girls because they have longer fingers. My father was in the same room as us when she let me know. I was mortified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:52 PM
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Hah, this is hilarious. I wonder if my girlfriend tightens it before handing it over when she's annoyed at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:35 PM
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My father called the electrician and the plumber all my childhood. We are lower middle class. Never really made a huge hole in our budget. Wanna know why? Because you rarely actually have to do this crap. As for moving furniture, in most households that's a team effort. My grandma with Parkinsons was able to move it. It's not a big deal. I move my bed every 2-3 days to sweep and vacuum under it, since I have 2 dogs that shed a lot. Leaf raking? And the other bullshit? That can be done in 15 minu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:53 AM
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Every week? I gotta wash clothes 3-5 times a week. Also what is this nonsense they're talking about? What's weather guarding? Do men have the ability to stop storms or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:48 AM
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It's still time consuming dude. I have better shit to do, and most women work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:47 AM
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Most men hate shopping. Aren't women (traditionally) the homemakers? Usually we make stylistic choices, which means we buy the paint...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:46 AM
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Do women actually wait for their male partner to open that shit up? I'm better at opening them than my father was. And my partner is female. We are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:45 AM
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That damn dishwasher is a pain in the ass. If you did the dishes you would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:44 AM
1

Yes, actually. How can someone be 17 and a virgin? Like in this day and age?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:03 AM
1

Well I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:01 AM
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Men men men, everything is about men. Shits tiring. They are really, really common. I don't know why it would matter if they're in the professional sphere or not. As for the evidence, yes. If people think you have stolen something, they will treat you as such. I know as a POC. They treat you like that. You know what I do? Continue to do my shopping or leave the store. You were falsely accused of rape? Just leave. If you truly, truly did nothing, they have nothing against you. I was also falsely …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:57 PM
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People at 17 have romantic experience. That is, people who aren't socially handicapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:36 PM
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Anyone can accuse anyone of anything. People are accused of theft, robbery and murder all the time, yet no man is actually scared of being falsely accused on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:36 PM
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Are you and your friends unattractive? Or are me and my friends just gay..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:52 AM
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I have multiple rejection stories, and all of my friends have them too. Their friends also. And the friends of those friends. It literally happens to all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:50 AM
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Maybe men should ( gasp ) stop harassing women that reject them, stop being pushy and respect boundaries!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:48 AM
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I'm not going to allow you to decide what I wanted to say. It was clearly sarcasm. Are you autistic by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:15 AM
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I was using the same dumb logic yall use. I don't actually believe in this bushit, nor do I think inexperienced men are unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:39 PM
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Really? I was insecure my whole childhood and most of my teenage years because of my height. I mean, it helps now that I'm gay, but it used to bum me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:16 PM
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How does being taller get you less partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:43 PM
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Women 3-6, men 6-9. That's the average in less promiscuous cultures (3, respectively 6) and on more promiscuous cultures (6, respectively 9). 15 is already Hella high for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:33 PM
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You don't believe in women who don't have a high bc because they are invisible to you. Appealing women will almost always have a lot of partners. The ugly women, you wouldn't know because you don't even acknowledge their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:31 PM
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This is a biological thing, because women are attracted to people who make them feel safe. If a guy made so many women feel safe, it means he is safe to be around (I.e a good person). If he is a weirdo/rapist/lacks social skills, he probably won't make women feel safe around him. Which means, he won't have that big of a body count . A virgin guy past a certain age always means bad news. There are good reasons for why he is such a woman repeller. They have a great reason to shame. Women feels saf…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:28 PM
3

I can't wait until the "cold, hard facts" people who "feel no emotion" find out that frustration, anger and lust are all emotions.
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 12:00 PM
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If you want to complain about men's mental health and how bad it is, you also have to call them out. Men do have emotions, the problem is that most of them have 0 idea what to do with them or about them. Telling men to sort their shit out, go to therapy, and actually feel and understand their emotions instead of fighting against them is not throwing hate around. If I tell my cousin to quit doing meth and sort her shit, that doesn't mean I hate women. It means that this particular woman has to so…
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 11:58 AM
2

Yes and no. We don't matter to them as individuals, but as costumers. They do care to convince us to buy their shit. That's as far as their "care" goes.
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 11:54 AM
1

It makes 0 sense to stop people from reproducing, since the more people there are, the more cheap labour they get. Its easy to starve average people while still having enough resources for the most powerful people out there. Inflation is a thing after all. It makes 0 sense because an old population helps no one. They don't pay taxes, most governments actually pay them a pension. They don't produce shit. They just eat up resources. Young people pay taxes to the gov't, which helps pay for shit, in…
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 11:53 AM
1

Egypt is a country on the African continent... did yall think she'd be white??
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/23 11:43 AM
1

First thank you for telling me I'm a monster when a big masculine man doesn't keep me in check. I'll make sure to let my girlfriend know how much of a harpie I am. That might magically turn her straight and choose a 5'7 manlet, maybe. As for your friend, mad respect for him. You know what actually, ACTUALLY fucks us up? Economically? Overconsumption and greed. Not only do we fuck our planet up, all we do is pay for overpriced shit so some old sociopathic hags can get even more rich, and commit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:19 PM
1

I almost puked when I read that part in the original post. Who on earth likes having sex with an unwilling partner? Isn't the best part the insane desire for eachother? The intimacy, connection, feeling of safety? Isn't it meant to be enthusiastic and a great time for all involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:13 PM
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You lost me at "she fucks when she's not in the mood". Only monsters would enjoy having sex with someone who isn't in the mood. At the beginning of our relationship, my girlfriend wasn't exactly in the mood once, a but down due to a shit load of family issues and new medication. She didn't tell me because "she didn't want to be a stuck up bitch". I was hurt that she didn't communicate with me, and disgusted with myself even if she told me (lied) that she was actually in the mood. Sex is ONLY goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:10 PM
1

How would it be entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:11 PM
2

"Promise" That means it has to happen. How are we gonna force that? No matter how you put it, it's entitled and fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:10 PM
1

You are funny. Really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:14 PM
4

I don't think so. You might be projecting your reality on others. Yes, I would get depressed without sexual intimacy. Would I get violent or stop working? Yeah, fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:16 PM
3

Couldn't be me. I am aware that people go insane without social interaction. If I don't go out for a day, even if it's just for a cig with someone, I go batshit insane. I would rather starve than be starved socially. Eh, I get how you feel. Straight men hit on me all the time (pretty normal since I'm young and fairly fit). I'm flattered, but it's like winning a life time supply of sausages as a vegetarian. Or vagatarian. Sorry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:15 PM
3

I don't have 3-4 friends. Out of the maybe 14 close male friends I have (meaning we told eachother very very intimate details about ourselves), two of them are unsuccessful with women. Out of those, only one has ideas like on here. Aside from that, I know about 3 social rejects that think like you do here. That's it. 4 people. Out of multiple dozens I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:12 PM
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I have went days without water. I remained pretty civilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:09 PM
2

I get wet by just looking at my girlfriend's face. My sex drive is normal, thank you. You will tell me I make assumptions, but have you thought that women aren't sexually stimulated by you? The shit my female friends say about their partners, or even strangers on the street is heinous. Like "do you kiss your mother with that mouth" heinous. Also, false. Not one society thought the female sex drive didn't exist. Actually in the past, it was thought that women were the sexual gender, the perverse …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:53 PM
1

Society doesn't love you. You know who does(should)? You, your momma, your Pappa and your dog. That's it. No one is "loved" by society, and society doesn't owe you love. It owes you dignity and humanity. Your romantic prospects has nothing to do with our society. Just that people you find desirable find you udnersirable. The construction workers have 0 to do with it, the social workers, the single mothers, the corner pub owners, the nurses, the teachers, the goverment, pink floyd fans, pesto pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:43 PM
4

No, you are just stuck in this echo chamber. My friends literally shiver at the things some of yall say here. I don't think any of you live in caves or whatever. Just that you are deprived of social and romantic interaction. Whether you are fucked up due to being deprived of it, or deprived of it due to being fucked up, I wouldn't know. You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:39 PM
2

First, I am actually homosexual. Second, I do form bonds with women I'm attracted to. I also form bonds with people I'm not attracted to, although obviously not nearly as close or as strong. It seems to me that men over here are just fucked in the head. I couldn't imagine paying someone to have sex with me, someone who is likely disgusted by me. No matter how attractive. Neither could i see women as not pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:53 PM
2

Fucking sex workers is also in the shit category anyway. That's what I was pointing out. What's physical intimacy without emotional intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:50 PM
5

I also hate war with my whole being. I was just using their obviously flawed logic. If "taking away" virgin wives from men makes them unproductive, what would we need to take away to make them unviolent? That's a rethroical question ofcourse. Again, I was trying to make them understand how they sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:49 PM
-1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:48 PM
2

How about gay/asexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:47 PM
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I refuse to believe that men are animals only held in place by the promise of pussy. I'm sorry, none if my friends or family act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:47 PM
1

...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:42 PM
1

I'm not. Im gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:42 PM
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Why can't all men just lose interest for violence then? If not getting virgin wives is enough to make them want to drop out, why can't we take something else way from them that would also force them to lose interest in being violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:36 AM
-1

Why are women the center of your existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:24 AM
-1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:25 AM
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So the danger is men, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:23 AM
1

Religion used to be so prevalent exactly because we couldn't answer a lot of questions science has answered later. We will find more answers, and more questions eventually. We literally don't need religion. We have common sense, a thirst for knowledge and the devices to learn more about ourselves and our environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:23 AM
1

Yeah, the sky fairy that hates shrimp and mixed fabrics will save us all. How are we going to force people to believe nonsense when science is this advanced? Like that shit would have flown in the 1800s, but now? Good luck my dude. I prefer to continue enjoying my sea food and my girlfriend's pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 AM
1

-everyone's brain (talking about healthy people, not disabled people) works at 100% capacity. You not understanding how therapy is a great tool makes you seem like a man child. Projecting your issues on others and fucking up everyone around you isn't a flex. Dummy. -I'm also Hella happy when I'm not talking to people on here. But i guess I need some balance in my life. Can't be all shits and giggles. You have to be insane if you think your wallet is more important than freedom and equal rights. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:09 AM
1

People didn't get married around 18, but in their mid to late twenties. And no, the women weren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:31 AM
8

I just love when people criticise feminism without actually knowing it's history, or really what it is. Lovely, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:25 AM
2

have fun LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:24 AM
-1

Women also used to hunt, plenty of them were extremely good at it. Women are also smaller, so easier to hide a lot of the time, sometimes more agile. Intuition also helps there. Lots of human remains who have been buried with hunting gear were immediately considered male, just because of said hunting gear. They only started testing then properly a few years ago. Turns out a lot of them are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:11 AM
4

First, that's not a basic instinct. Second, most sane people need close social and emotional bonds to be sane. They are easily formed with members of both sexes. If you don't feel the need to form an emotional bond with a member of your preferred sex that you find attractive, you might need to take some time to deeply think about your sexuality. Nothing wrong with being gay, just saying there's a good chance. Also, there is porn out there. Of every kind. And flashlights. And dolls. And self warm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:08 AM
6

It's not at all depressing. You can have a healthy work-life balance, build communities, learn different skills, travel, make lots of friends of memories, and just fuck around. That's what men tend to want to do anyway. And by the way, no one is really stopping you from getting a wife and popping 3 kids, aside from the crappy economical climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:02 AM
5

What on earth?? Are we really going to start with the mandatory wives mandated by the state? How are you going to make sure women will be willing to marry? Why can't everyone mind their own business wether they choose to marry or not, and work if they wish, or not. Why cant we all live our lives the way we want to and shut up? Imagine if women "chose" to drag society down for dumb reasons like "our male partners won't buy us flowers".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:58 AM
10

Do you really think the average (mentally sane) man Is so mad that people are equal that he no longer wants to work to support himself? Does he NEED to have people above or below him to not be a lazy bum? And I'm not talking about the men on here. Or the men from 4chan. Or other platforms like these. I am talking about normal, sane men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:57 AM
1

They are often not accurate, and sometimes done without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:18 AM
8

Because they won't get sex anymoooore. :( so the poor innocent dudes actually have to interact with the rancid females to get their dick wet!! Or whatever these red pilled dudes would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:16 AM
3

I wouldn't want head from a stranger either. Actually, I would prefer giving head to a stranger rather than receiving it. It does something for me, actually. Makes me Hella happy, she tastes amazing, I love her smell, etc. Coercion is also a thing. Having a change in taste is also a thing. I used to love chips. Now I hate em. You can try something once and decide it isn't for you. I love giving head. When I want to give my girlfriend head I don't think "oh I think she wants me to", I think "I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:43 PM
6

Woman in a relationship with another woman. I love giving her head, I enjoy it very much. I get slightly dissapointed when she tells me she wants to do it to me instead, even if I also enjoy her giving it to me. It does it for me, actually. I just enjoy eating women out. I don't enjoy eating ass. She likes having her ass eaten. I don't do it. People get disgusted when coerced into things. People who want their partner to do things they don't enjoy are disgusting and sick. Also, false equivalent.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:59 PM
1

Sentimental things and sexual things are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:10 AM
3

If it's sexual and my partner doesn't do it because they just don't like it, I will respect that. I'm not an asshole. If it's emotional aspects like time spent together, how good they treat me, how communicative or affectionate they are (without a good reason, for example a change in their career path that might require more time and energy from them, or a drastic change in phisical/mental health), then ofcourse I would be upset. You have to try things to know. However, giving someone time and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:09 AM
1

So it's about status. Not attraction. It doesn't matter how she looks or treats you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:39 AM
1

So then how she looks or her past doesn't matter. It's just about her being naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:15 PM
1

I can imagine these shy, meek, virgin, feminine women talking about how they want to be plowed by community dick Troy... sounds very realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:26 PM
0

Men feel aroused by looking at digital women getting plowed by other dudes. Does that mean they are cucks? Why are they attracted ti these slutty women? Men will fuck anything. Dead or alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:24 PM
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The ugliest dudes I know have the highest bodycounts. That's because they are estarved for love, they are trying to full up a hole in themselves, and they fill it with crusty women. They are disgusting. They also think they're immune from stds. They will fuck literally anything and call it "game". Plenty of Hella ugly women that would do anything for 2 drinks and a crumb of soggy affection from these men. On the other side, usually pretty girls have high body counts. Since they have plenty of op…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:21 PM
0

I wasn't even talking to you. Who even are you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
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You can be unsure alllll you want. They still pay the bills. Being horny has nothing to do with either your ability or willingness to pay for your shit. You think that the trad wife who wants to be a sahm will pay the bills? Fuck nah. Having a sexual past doesn't mean you can't be a good role model for a child. My father had a terrible childhood, even if his mother was a good role model, she was a terrible parent. Very absent. English teacher at a prestigious school. Everyone respected her. My f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:18 AM
5

For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:08 AM
11

She looks like a normal human being. I swear, some of yall have never seen women irl, just touched up pictures on the internet. Yes, people look silly when they're photographed mid sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:08 AM
0

What does that have to do with my request
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:06 AM
12

I meant objectively. Men are not my type either, but I can recognize when a dude fits the beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:06 AM
5

What the actual fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:05 AM
3

This!!! Sexual compatibility is so important. If you can't keep your hands off your partner and them off you, they aren't the one. Waiting several Years till marriage (as in, being able to wait) is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:03 AM
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How do you know she did it, or that she did so willingly? Also, is sex the only thing that matters to you? The fact that she takes care of the house, the fact that she's always there, supports you in everything you do and birthed your children means jackshit? Is bandage or skull fucking more valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:01 AM
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That and the fact that their complaints are head scratchers at times. There is a lot of victimization, blaming women and doing anything but accepting responsibility. It's their job to fix their personal problems. It's their job to go to therapy. The people in their life are not responsible for solving their shit. Same thing with women. The fact that my friends listen to me vent and then tell me "girlie your boobs are too juicy for you to cry over redacted. Let's go down some shots!" doesn't mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:53 AM
-2

... are you okay? Are you really going to be mad at someone because they don't want to do something you want then to do? I personally surpassed that issue around the first to second grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:46 AM
0

Please for the love of everything nice on this earth, marry someone who is over 18. Thank you .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:42 AM
3

Isn't that a necessity to have any sort of social life? No one enjoys being around a joy sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:41 AM
3

"A lot of women agree with her" Well obviously some women prefer the party life style. It's almost as if neither women or men are a monolith, or a hive mind. I have female friends that are physically and mentally repulsed by party dudes. I have female friends that are repulsed by "boring and safe" dudes. People want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:40 AM
3

Reddditor never learns that women and men are actually almost the fucking same, and we have pretty similar patterns of thinking mainly because we aren't different species. Redditor also never learns that people are different and such they have different goals and wishes in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:34 AM
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These family oriented women won't marry a dude who fucked every chick in a 200 mile radius who used to party every night till 4 am, only fueled by hard drugs and the desire to fuck till his dick falls off. These women will likely seek men who have shared values and ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:26 AM
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Because they think women can't form emotional attachments unless it's the first guy they are fucking. They also think man can fuck around as much as they would like, and still form emotional bonds. It makes 0 sense. Anyone who is not socially incapacitated has had relationships during their teen years, may it be just one or several. It's unrealistic to expect to be someone's first everything, their first experience with their preferred sex. To know what you want, to mature and to be able to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:23 AM
2

Guys don't pay the bills. Women make up 51% of the workforce. Most households are dual income households. How would men not benefit from a relationship with someone who is compatible, just because they have a past? Everyone has a past unless they were in a coma for their first 25 years of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:20 AM
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How does he bail her when most households have 2 incomes and men are more likely to have a criminal record? He doesn't bail shit, he just chose her to be his wife and she chose him to be his husband. My now partner doesn't bail me for the shit I did when I was 16 and we didn't even know eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:17 AM
8

How is she a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:40 AM
21

Why doesn't the husband also birth his own children and wear a pretty sundress then? Why doesn't he wax and wear pretty baby blue eyeshadow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:00 PM
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Why not? Why wouldn't it be? Is the wife supposed to seduce herself? Why don't married couples just masturbate in different rooms? Why do yall want relationships without actually wanting relationships? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:59 PM
13

Oh they do. Men just so it more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:57 PM
1

Men on average cheat more, they tend to watch more porn (they literally lust over thousands of women), they get fat more, and they refuse to use that fucking sunscreen to prevent looking like lizards by the time they turn 37. Oh, that and male pattern baldness. They also do SIGNIFICANTLY less if the house work and child care, even if women make up 51% of the workforce. They are also less likely to satisfy their partner in bed. "Wah wah, but women get bored". Yes, women get bored of mommying a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:56 PM
2

It absolutely doesn't as long as you mind your own business and don't act like your way of living is the best thing since sliced bread for everyone. There is a difference in "I want to be a stay at home mother, home make, cook nice meals for my husband and kids, and live a slow life. I just prefer it this way, I find it more peaceful and it fills me with meaning" and "the whores these days don't know what they're missing out on. This is literally the only way to live, the damn fiminists and prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:52 AM
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Obviously the hookup culture hurts people and tends to weaken relationships, but that's on both sides, no matter the gender. We can respect others, be sincere and seek meaningful relationships without hating gay people, suppressing certain groups, and obviously without preaching shitty biblical values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:26 AM
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That we are going backwards, and religion should literally be seen as what it is: a tool to control masses. I understand spirituality, but religion is extremely unhealthy for a society as advanced as ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:22 AM
0

So basically no one is attainable for her. Why don't those men get the woman they want and stop fucking around? And y'know, leave her alone instead of using her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:33 AM
-3

Your comment has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:46 AM
-3

"Attainable" guys won't commit to her either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:38 AM
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No, that's not the reason she won't get commitment. Men will fuck literally anything, that won't mean they have long term plans with it. They are using her for sex. Men are also highly egotistical, and they know being seen in public with her will hurt their social image, maybe irreversibly. Men care way more about what other men think than what women think. Getting an arm candy girlfriend is way more important to them than compatibility is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:29 AM
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nO you dOn'T Yeah, I'm not going to alter my reality because someone on reddit told me to. Also, touch grass. Again, I see ugly women getting commitment everyday. I see drop dead gorgeous women get player by sewer rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:59 PM
0

Sorry. What is a sink? I'm not going on the hell hole of an app that is tik tok unless someone puts a gun against my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:54 AM
2

I have so many friends who are at least a 7/10 even on their bad days who got played/pumped and dumped/cheated on, whatever by 4/10 guys. And I have 5/10 on their best day friends that convinced 6-7-8/10 guys to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:51 AM
1

How on earth is someone not being interested/attracted to you THEIR FAULT? And it's also their fault if they dare to call you pushy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:06 AM
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"Women get degrees don't cook or clean yada yada". Men have a higher unemployment rate, they don't cook and clean either. They are not attentive anymore. Why do you even listen to this fool? Also, every stable man I had ever met actually cares about his partner's education. Every. Single. One. Intelligence was always, and will always be attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 10:19 PM
1

Ofcourse. Both of them are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:17 PM
2

For example
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:40 AM
2

Yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:40 AM
2

It's not. Having feelings for someone is different than wanting to fuck them. The equivalent is getting your been Flicked. Or perhaps getting a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:35 PM
2

Even women do it at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:03 AM
-1

Wtf is "getting your heart wet"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:02 AM
1

How? We are always together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:03 AM
4

"Don't be kind to your female friends, they will likely not fuck you"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:38 AM
1

I'm in a monogamous relationship with a woman I love plenty. But thanks for the concern. ^
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:32 AM
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Not being able to get your dick wet isn't a societal issue. What are YOU doing to help yourself? I want better grades, right? Should I Blame men's rights activists because they won't solve a very specific issue in MY PERSONAL life, that only I can solve? Feminism is for women. Not for you. It was never for you, and it's not supposed to be, and I pray to whatever diety is willing to listen that it will never be for you. Stop being a baby, not absolutely everything on this earth is supposed to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:29 AM
1

For people like yall, probably not. For me though? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:41 AM
32

Majority of victims weren't assaulted by a stranger. But by a friend, a family friend, boyfriends, or even family. It's almost always the people you trust the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:18 AM
1

Romcoms are a source of entertainment, they have nothing to do with sexuality. As for 50 shades, I haven't watched it personally and don't plan to, but irc it's some kinky drama show. It's completely different since these women aren't masturbating or (generally) lustful over those actors. They just see the way those women are treated and want their partners to do the same. Men are actually attracted to those pornstars. Men will remember the names of those pornstars, follow them on multiple socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:41 AM
1

I am a woman and I can separate lust and love. 99% of my female friends are also able to. I have met some men who can't separate lust and love. Also, men on average have a little more partners than women do, statistically. What you just said hasno real basis in reality. Again, I have felt love. I'm not some monster from the deep dark pits of hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:34 AM
0

I don't think men and women are the same. Thats why i said what I said. Men will fuck anything. Babies, corpses and literally pixels on the screen get attention from men. That doesn't mean that man actually bonds with those things, or is even attracted to them. He just wants to fuck. Women don't enjoy having sex with people they are not attracted to or in love with. A dude can use his wife as a warmed up flashlight, that won't mean he is attracted to her or even desires her for that matter. Agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:39 PM
2

Sex wasn't only about procreation even at the start. They actually had different practices for pleasure intended sex and for procreation. The first one didn't even include penetration, and it was extremely pleasurable for the female. They also had sex with everyone regardless of sex. Gay sex was literally at the order of the day. It was always about pleasure and bonding. If your wife only had sex with you in missionary, didn't move, didn't make sounds (attracts predators) and asked to do it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:36 PM
3

You only think it's useless because you give 0 craps about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:39 AM
2

I'm not defining anything. Its a real thing that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:04 AM
-3

That's not what I asked or what I was arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:23 AM
22

Pretty much, but you know, men always have an excuse, and women are just horrid, according to some members of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:16 AM
3

I didn't mean masturbate to his wife(as in her photos or thinking of her) I clearly said masturbate IN. I meant using her as a warm flashlight while thinking of that 18 yo Starbucks worker. I have heard stories of men watching porn while fucking their girlfriends in secret. Like, she would give him head, or he would be fucking her from behind while watching porn on his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:00 AM
5

Awesome. Now, how many men see their wives as attractive? And I don't mean attractive enough to masturbate in. I mean actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:03 AM
4

90% of men admit to watching porn (lusting over 100s of women). What makes you think they're ok with settling down with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:00 AM
51

It would also help if people recalled how men also lose sexual interest in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:57 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:46 PM
0

100% wouldn't. Personality is what makes me and keeps me interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:10 AM
1

The obesity rate in men is higher then in women... :)))))
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:27 AM
2

I am 100% aware that me having sex doesn't change or ruin me, unless I have sex that I don't want to have. However, men see women who have sex as some mud monsters. I am aware of that. Plenty of people see gay men as disgusting. They know. That doesn't mean that gay men see themselves as disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:21 PM
1

It is. It's normal to want someone slightly taller, but if you are under 5'10 as a woman, you have no reason to want a 6' guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:37 PM
2

Then why tf does 99% of the male population have sex at least once in their life..?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:19 PM
2

So now we are back to shaming women's preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:12 PM
1

I don't see manwhores being shamed by other men when they want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:04 PM
1

I was shamed for being a "slut" even as a virgin. In fact, I still am when I share my body count with other people, until they find out most of those people I slept with were other women. Fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:04 PM
3

And the woman with let's say a body count of 8 can't form a healthy, happy family with any dude or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:48 AM
5

Women usually just want someone slightly taller than them, and men want someone shorter. If the beggar on the corner of the street wanted a billionaire husband, I would also laugh at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:46 AM
6

By "I won't care" she means she wouldn't shame you. That's what the post is about, isn't it? Now what, we are supposed to date to you anyway, and not just not shame you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:42 AM
5

Ok and? You don't always get what you want. Why would women want to have sex with men if having sex lowers our dating market value? Why on earth would we do that? Would you purposefully take pills so your dick gets smaller? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:39 AM
3

It's her preference to not Date misogynistic dudes. Why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:37 AM
2

But you were actually hurting your first girlfriend. If you didn't see higher n count women as lower value, things would be different. You felt like you were hurting her because of your own beliefs, not because or society. Your views are inherently misogynistic because they don't even apply to you or other men. You can fuck (because you are a man), but women can't (because they are women, and them being sexual "lowers" their value. This logically means they become useless at one point).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:29 AM
1

Society does shame women for wanting sex. All the fucking time. Bitch literally means female dog în hear, and that's what women are called. Now, if your own therapist(someone who's meant to be inpartial) calls you out on your crappy behaviour, it's in your best interest to listen. Otherwise, idk dude. Keep moaning and bitching (pun intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:24 AM
2

There are plenty of reasons to do good academically, or even just socially. None of them should include women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:11 AM
1

Men swipe right on everyone. It's like getting a participation trophy because you have a vagina. 1000 matches will result in maybe 3-4 dates, out of those one is gonna be a drug dealer, the 2nd will be married, and the last 2 will wanna "Netflix and chill" and never speak again. Or use a condom for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:22 PM
0

Bro, no normal, average human being had 100 suitors. Shut yo mouth up and sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 PM
4

They fuck, and then they discard the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:46 AM
7

The same argument can be applied to promiscuous women. Actually, I go out a lot. And let me tell you. Usually bad looking men are more promiscuous, and good looking women are more promiscuous. At least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:02 AM
2

They have less choices for 1ns. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:45 AM
2

And 33% of young women this year haven't had sex. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:43 AM
4

Any good arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:42 AM
2

There's almost the same number of single women as there are single men in every demographic. 2nd,you can take those numbers at face value. You are just assuming that men up talk and women down play, and it's not like it was just a dumb survey over reddit. It's an actual study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:42 AM
2

That's because men swipe right on every woman, without actually wanting to get to know her. Or meet her for that matter. At the very most women will get 3 dates out of 1000 matches, and even from those 3, all of them just want to fuck. If all women wanted to peg guys and that's why they approached them, men would probably run too. Sexual attention from men isn't valuable because everyone gets it:children, animals, even fucking corpses and people who absolutely don't want it get it. When women co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:35 AM
2

Same goes for women. If women are in a relationship with 2-3 men, more women will be single. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:04 AM
-4

The difference is that women won't rape or assault you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:50 AM
3

That stat makes 0 sense. There's the same amount of single women as there are single men in lmoat every population demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:47 AM
1

Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:46 AM
7

100s of men? Who tf do you think we are? Zendaya?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:25 AM
1

The average number of partners for women world wide is 3-4. For men is 7-8. Who rides what carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:23 AM
6

"All quality women are taken!!" Yes, by quality men. If you are not one of those quality men with a quality woman, that means you are not of quality. That also means you deserve someone who is the same quality as you (bad). Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:21 AM
1

Do you think it's morally a ok to force someone to be your incubator? What the fuck "Ah you should go through a possibly deadly process that will ruin your body for the test of your life (my mother's bladder still doesn't work properly 2 decades later) because I nutted inside of you once!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:14 AM
0

I honestly think yall are unable to think critically sometimes. More men cheat than women, that's for first. When we say all men, what we mean is that we have to be careful around every man we don't know well, due to what they might do to us. Not all women cheat. Just like not all men cheat. It doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:13 AM
1

If someone leaves you, they probably had a good reason. No excuses for cheating tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:10 AM
3

Dude, it's not water we are getting. It's straight up chlorine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 AM
3

*for shitty casual sex. It's not even physically satisfying, let alone emotionally...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:05 AM
7

"Our emotional vessel is a woman" 🤮 She is not a therapist. Go talk to one. I genuinely can't understand how some men are so under developed emotionally that they don't understand that you shouldn't throw your problems at ANYONE. Maybe talk about them to your partner/ friends every once in awhile, but your trauma is yours to work through, WITH A LICENSED THERAPIST. No one has any emotional outlets other than themselves past the age 10. No one. And no one should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:01 AM
10

These cucks bitch and moan about crappy handjobs, have they ever had their vagina bleeding after some dude shoved his fingers up on there and began jamming them up and down your canal? No? They could shut up then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:58 AM
5

If you can't jerk off without porn, then you have am addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:56 AM
3

How's your fingering technique bro? I can assure you, yall are way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:54 AM
7

That's absolutely not how it works. And even if you did have like 3 guys who wanted to see you, they literally just want to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:52 AM
15

Don't forget virgin, feminine and submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:51 AM
9

All excuses. Excuses, excuses, excuses. Hit on better women. You have more choices. You can hit on literally and woman on the planet. Any You choose. We have 2-3 suitors, and even from those, probably all of them only want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:49 AM
2

Not 100. Who tf even has that many partners? 3-4 maybe. Virgins won't be as skilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:14 AM
2

You kinda need good sex for that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:10 AM
2

I highly doubt that. Being attractive won't guarantee you a ltr, but not being attractive enough will 100% guarantee you won't get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:10 AM
1

How is that fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:00 AM
2

You don't deserve to be anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:08 AM
1

That's not what I asked. If she's not attracted to her, will he be with her long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:17 AM
2

You are a child
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:17 AM
2

How do you think you'll look at their older age, given the fact that you probably aren't celebrity hot even right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:05 AM
1

Isn't that what happens in the majority of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:03 AM
2

Isn't physical attraction the most important thing for men when they choose a partner? Weren't red pill men complaining that often women don't find men that attractive, and end in dead bedroom marriages with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:03 AM
5

That's not how women feel they were settled from. -her partner watching porn will make her feel like he settled -not spending time with her -not committing soon -thirsting over other girls -not making her a priority (not necessarily the very top priority, but still). -entertaining other women -making comments about women's bodies (positive or negative) -not making positive comments about her body, or making negative comments about her body. -not initiating a lot of physical touch and quality tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:01 AM
1

Yeah...? Do you want to be in a ltr with someone who you have bad sex with???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:58 AM
1

Also, most people don't end up in ltrs with their type. People have unrealistic expectations. They also don't have one type, set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:56 AM
2

Do all of you really expect to be the very first choice în the life of every woman you have ever dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:52 AM
1

Plenty of them have issues to work through. Same with men. Excessive promiscuity is a huge red flag regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:09 PM
1

No, I was absolutely meaning to reply to you. Vaginas don't get lose from having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:52 PM
0

That's... That's not how a vagina works dude. I passed blood cloths bigger than your thang. It's still the same. Whole ass human being pass through that shit. Your dick (or any dick for that matter) won't change shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:36 PM
3

If it's asymmetrical, then logically, chaste men should date whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:08 PM
2

It's completely okay to have this standard, if you are also chaste. Otherwise, you are a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:51 PM
2

Okayyy, but medium ugly men >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:59 AM
3

Men do have higher a higher libido, but they are not animals ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:39 AM
1

Damn, you are being dramatic. Someone not wanting to go through the worst pains possible on the planet doesn't mean I am miserable. I'm not trying to be anything dude. Again, you are being Hella dramatic. I'm not saying "make me the authority", I'm just telling you to quit telling people life has the meaning YOU think it has. That's fucking miserable dude. Let people choose their own meaning. That's what I mean by "life doesn't have meaning". That's the beauty of it. We get to decide, individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:38 AM
3

Pretty much this. There is also a similar percentage of single women as single men for all of the age groups, aside from past 60, but you have to remember that men die younger. Same thing for economic classes, races, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:58 PM
0

Well, that's a gross exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:56 PM
3

Fellas, am I a cuck if I enjoy spending time with the woman I married, the mother of my children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:53 PM
4

Why the fuck would someone's body, health, safety and sanity cost around 8 dollars? Why would it be as expensive as a venti drink? Over 60% of them have ptsd symptoms, the average age for getting in the industry is 14 and it's the "job" with the literal highest death, theft and rape rates . Wherever it's legalized, it also becomes a Hotspot for human trafficking. Always. Germany is literally the Hotspot for illegal sex trading, even if there are legal brothels on virtually every corner. Why woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:51 PM
5

My age, polite, no pressure applied whatsoever? Not creepy at all. Older men, especially when I was visibly under age, no matter how attractive they were... Hella fucking creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:48 PM
5

You have a g spot in your ass. Yet, you aren't gay. (I assume) Also, does that mean that infertile people are rendered useless? Again, you have a breeding kink dude. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:32 PM
6

Shuuuut uuuppp already. You aren't so important that you necessarily HAVE to have kids. Neither am I. And again, it's such an easy thing to say for men. You ever passed a medium sized to larger sized kidney stone? Try doing it, then tell me if you would want your partner to go thru that crap, just so you can have a lil ego stroked, and your breeding kink fulfilled. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love children and being around them, but going thru that process? Fuck no. When there are so many k…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:57 AM
1

Yall "wE hAvE A pUrpOse" silly geese need to shut up. Like never actually speak again. Life is extremely beautiful because it has 0 meaning. That means we can attribute a meaning to it. It's easy for you to say "hAvE cHilDreN", when you won't have to carry them, push an object the size of a watermelon through a hole as little as a penny, THROUGH YOUR DAMN CERVIX, and then suffer post partum depression, which oftenly leads either to suicide or homicide of your own damn child. I don't want to go d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:50 AM
2

And even more pump and dumps happen when you accept to date "casually".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:59 AM
2

Someone wanting a ltr with you is one thing. Some people wanting to just pump and dump you is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:02 AM
2

Because there is no need to. We no longer die because of crappy colds because we don't have to anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:04 PM
5

What makes you think women still can't do that? We have to thank a woman for coding dude. If it wasn't for that bitch, there would be no machinery to speak of. Anything, ANYTHING a dude can do, women can also Do. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:18 PM
1

What makes you think that women can't grow their own food? Anything that a dude can do, a chick, or worst case scenario, 3 chicks and a machine can do. Except maybe bust a nut Anything that a chick can do, a dude can do, or worst case scenario, 5 dudes and a wiki how article. Except maybe feed an infant with breast milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:16 PM
-1

Miss me with those standards. Any physically able adult should wash their own dish. That's literally the bare minimum an adult should do. I began washing mine before I turned 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:33 AM
8

Absolutely we are, if our partners no longer lust after us. Isn't that logical? When it comes to randos, old men, teachers, whatever ... we would rather be left alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:35 AM
5

Men lust after women. Women lust after a man/a few men. There you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:34 AM
3

Plenty of women do try to avoid men. Doesn't always work. If it did, way less would complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:32 AM
0

Most men don't work significantly more than women do, and for fucks sake, men don't do 20% of the house work in most cases. They won't wash their own fucking dishes. Wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:11 AM
2

The problem women have is that men will lie about wanting a relationship and planning to commit just to fuck. If they were up front from the start, shit would be different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:58 AM
3

Almost all mothers work now too. Over 40% of them are the primary form of income for their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:43 AM
0

Heavy lifting of what? The controller?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:41 AM
1

I don't get them. Wanting attention from them is bad because apparently we can't love or something, and we must only value men for what they can financially provide. Not wanting their attention is also bad apparently, because we leave them in solitude and that's why they kill themselves, and men won't work anymore because they don't get bang maids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:39 AM
5

I was thinking exactly the same thing. How miserable does one have to be to see one entire gender as fuck machines that have no desire other than getting sum? AND ASSUME THEY WORK IN SOMETIMES HORRID CONDITIONS for a crumb of pussy? Hello???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:57 AM
1

I tend to only want attention from people I care about, and who I desire to give attention to. Isn't that how relationships and friendships work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:55 AM
7

Women make up 51% of the work force in the US. What do women work for if not sex? How do hookers make sense...? And where do gay men fit inside all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:52 AM
2

They have it much easier to get unsatisfactory sex. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:11 AM
4

And the 48% others just look for casual hookups, where women get lower satisfaction levels for a higher level of risk. Fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:10 AM
2

Women om dating apps look for relationships, not harassment. How could you even compare that to complaining about the flavour of champagne?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:08 AM
2

So? Women still have more oxytocin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:45 AM
2

That's because I don't value anyone based on their genitals. I value them as human beings. I find men extremely beautiful, though not in a sexual way most of the time. I like their sense of humor and their little quirks. I like their personalities, their voices, etc. I have a lot of male friends, and again, just because I don't like them sexually, it doesn't mean I don't value them, or that I don't like them as people. I quite enjoy their company and wish the very best for them, I support them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:39 AM
2

I mean I tend to bite it off. This is what we are taught to do in my culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:37 AM
3

It is and at the same time it's not. If a woman is in a relationship and she is faithful, that means she friend zoned the vast majority of men in her life. Even if she wasn't faithful, the statement would still be true. Even if she had 4-5 male partners, the majority of her male peers would be just friends, wouldn't they? Isn't that a normal phenomenon? Or are women supposed to not have men as friends and aquintances, and only talk to their husband their whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:35 AM
3

Men like women. Women like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:29 AM
3

Your sources are literally blog posts and articles. Do you like cherry picking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:27 AM
1

That's exactly how it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:23 PM
0

Why the snarky respone? I wasn't even talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:19 PM
1

Family, friends, men online, aquintances, teachers, bosses, Co workers, pastors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:25 AM
1

I don't do casual sex, but some of my friends do. As for men telling me what to do, what I should he, how to dress, etc, they do it all the fucking time. As if it's some crime to not appeal to them (each and everyone) every single moment of my life (everyday).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:06 AM
1

Is it really tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:05 AM
6

Sex itself doesn't influence personality. Society does. Society pushes you into the gender roles associated with your sex, and most of us comply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:32 AM
5

You actually don't want women to be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:31 AM
3

In my experience, men are way more chaotic than women. Actually, it is a bit of a standard for women to sit in their place, be quiet and calm, and have everything tidy and in order. I'm the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:22 AM
4

-raising your own child as their father is important. Yes. People of both genders do that, but it makes sense. Only Karens claim that you have to raise another man's child. -ofcourse you have to open up in a relationship. Why is this an issue? Emotional intimacy is just as important as physical intimacy. -no one asks you to commit to someone you just slept with once or twice. You know what people ask? We ask that you are not an asshole, and make your intentions clear. Don't want commitment? Cool…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:15 AM
0

c h i l d r e n
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:56 AM
12

Not exactly hurt, I wouldn't even call it disappointment. Just being realistic. This is what the red pill ideology strives for, and I was sarcastic. Not all men think like that. Just redpilled ones. As for my life, it has actually been very kind. It's just the internet that tends to be a cesspool. People will react to that, and It's not possible to be 100% happy all the time, especially when certain environments don't encourage positivity and happiness. People most certainly aren't atrocious mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:23 AM
10

For most men today it's not. The goal isn't marriage, like you said, it is to he appealing to women. Fucking around, the most you can, because women are evil and none of them deserve a shred of commitment, unless they are feminine, submissive, virginal and no older than 16. They shan't drink, smoke or party. She shall pay for your shit everytime, otherwise she is a gold digger. She is supposed to birth your children, work, do all the house work, pay the bills, and never expect commitment, time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:47 AM
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Are you really going to gaslight women out of their personal experience? By this logic, I can also claim that the mainstream manosphere doesn't spew crap about men needing to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:42 AM
1

Four hours a week is more than enough for a married dude, with a Job, children, a social life and other hobbies. For addicts, it's probably not enough. It's never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:33 AM
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It's not the social aspect, it's almost as if you are not here to debate and be open to other persepctives, you just want to normalize abnormal behavior. I do play games, I do watch anime. However, if you do it more than 3 hours a day, then you have a serious issue. Imagine if a girl's hobby was going clubbing. Wouldn't that also be an ick for you? Or it suddenly "isn't the same thing", because it always seems to "never be the same thing", but only when it benefits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:27 AM
3

Mens sexual attention doesn't matter because children get it, animals get it and even fucking dead bodies get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:35 PM
-4

"Woe is me for having a peen, only me can have problems, women are shallow and know no pain"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:24 PM
-1

I am grossed out by any person that is alone (both friends wise and relationship wise) for the same reasons everyone else is disgusted by them. I never met 1 half decent person who was completely isolated. Somethings awefully wrong with them, whether we like to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:51 PM
3

I have seen men defend their friends after they raped someone while pushing down a woman for being a "slut". What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:07 AM
2

Compatibility is the most important component.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:57 AM
4

The post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:03 AM
5

How so? Why 18 years old and not 28? 18 year Olds are basically still teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:34 AM
2

Why are men attracted to features that closely resemble the ones of children?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:40 PM
1

Attractive doesn't mean they want something long term with them. It won't even mean you would fuck them. As for lust, it comes from the personality also, meaning how safe he can make you feel. I know you can't understand because women and men work slightly different, but it is lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:30 PM
1

20% of 4 billion is pretty much enough. Also, women tend to grow into their attraction. I noticed this for myself too, as for my friends. We are a tad bit more on the personality side, even at first. Men tend to notice looks first (I'm not going to say this is shallow or bad, it's just biology and it's fine) and personality keeps them for the long term. They are attracted by what they see at first. Women grow into their attraction. Also, considering someone physically attractive in general won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:43 AM
1

How can someone who is somewhat mentally stable be upset that other people have different desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:20 PM
2

And men want gorgeous young submissive virgin girls. So what? People still settle. Not everyone will get with a 10/10, and that's ok and realistic. Ofcourse I want a vampire tall bad boy boyfriend that's head over heels for me, but that shit is highly improbable. Men probably prefer fucking girls who look like pornstars. They probably prefer someone shorter than them, as you pointed out yourself. But they still date regular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:38 PM
7

There is also the social factor. Promiscuity in women isn't seen as something tasteful, it's oftenly critiqued. Women will be more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:24 AM
4

And why is that a bad thing? Why is wanting sex without expecting commitment a bad thing, morally speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:21 AM
3

First, that statistic is bullshit. It studied 30 people, and they were self subscribed. That's not accurate, at ALL. Also, it didn't give any details to what 10-15% meant, neither where those women were on the scale, or what the men chose. You also have to account for the fact that less than 30% of dating users are female. There is gender disparity there. As for judging, someone rejecting you doesn't mean they are judging you in a bad way. That just means they aren't attracted to you. That's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:20 AM
1

Most men also want a virgin, gorgeous submissive and feminine partner then. Except they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:11 AM
7

You are not men though. You are just You.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:10 AM
1

One or several, depending on how many partners you want to have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:09 AM
3

How can you disagree with someone on their own damn taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:02 AM
9

By dating someone you like who also likes you. Duh. Men also have polar opposite tastes at times. There are guys who want a Gothic bitch and there are guys who want a blonde tradwife. You know what the logical solution is? Be who you are, work on your negatives, don't become either a trad wife or a Gothic chick if you aren't either, and date someone who you like that also likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:01 AM
4

"Oh no, my friend of twelve years hasn't responded in 20 minutes to my texts. He must have been swallowed whole by the earth!! What is even wrong with this world, why can't people be here all the time?? Should I just give up on human connection?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:00 AM
1

Chocolate is just superior. This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:58 AM
7

Trends in dating gave always existed and will continue to do so, with both men and women. Again, it sounds like you don't have object permanence, and can't comprehend how people are different individuals with different tastes. Every dude I ever formed a friendly bond with had different tastes in women. Every chick I formed a friendly bond with had different taste in dudes. The only exception were gay people, while they had differing taste too, they liked their own gender. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:57 AM
15

It was obviously satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:54 AM
4

Have you seen the redpill spaces? Men seem to care just as much as women do, quite honestly. It obviously ,AGAIN, depends on the individual. Usually people who can't be alone have some sort of issues, either they can't emotionally manage their own solitude and company, or they struggle financially/they struggle with housework. Sometimes it's both. It has nothing to do with what you have between your legs or how you identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:46 AM
2

That's different now. You seem to have a great understanding over your own situation. You should do the same with other people with body counts of 1 who thought they found their spouse. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:24 PM
2

I personally do. It's insanely easy to get sex, I see it as a special thing, if you do it with everybody I don't want to be involved with you romantically. This isn't a what men value vs what women value, it's completely subjective. People with low body counts probably see sex as something meaningful and intimate, thus they look for someone with similar views. Some people see sex as fun and not an expression of love and vulnerability, so they look for like minded people. Then also, there are hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:23 PM
4

Hope you are also keeping yourself pure for your wife then. She will be lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:08 PM
2

I have been treated way worse by ugly dudes, and I'm being extremely objective. They think you will run off and cheat on them, so they try to crush your confidence and hurt your first(the insecure ones I mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:02 PM
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Most relationships from between people from the same age group. Men who seek younger women are Hella predatory, so are women who seek younger boys. It's disgusting and it almost always ends badly. Studies show that women are more attracted to people from their own age group at any given age, while men are the most attracted, overwhelmingly so to fucking 18 year Olds. Younger people date older people just to take advantage of their money. Its not a win for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:59 PM
1

I don't know anyone who is a half decent human being who can't get a partner, no matter the genders, and no matter how they look. Sure, they won't score models or whatever, but they still can find another uggo who wants to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:56 PM
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Thank you so much for these good thoughts. I don't live in turkey, so luckily my family was not affected. This coworker works in my country with my mother, we had dinners with him quite often. We are extremely close to him, and his pain obviously saddens us too. My parents and me, plus some other close friends donated to red cross, to help aid the hurt people. Sadly there is not much we can do, unless you live close to the affected zones in order to assist. I will be going there in a few weeks t…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:26 AM
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It's his choice to do it or not, but it's also her choice to do what she wants with her body and time. Pregnancy is not an easy thing to go through, she is 100% right to not have sex or to dump him if he refuses. You can also dump her if she won't have sex or to be honest, for any reason at all. If you didn't want kids, but she refused to use any form of birth control, you would probably stop being intimate with her too, and would probably dump her too. It would be for the better anyway, it's im…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:20 AM
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I am incredibly thankful for everyone and anyone that contributed to saving those people. My mother's coworker sadly lost his parents, they found them under the rubble, dead. More people should volunteer, no matter their gender, after all humans ahve only survived because we service and help one another.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:01 AM
1

I don't do sex work, I am actually quite opposed to the sex industry. Just so you know though, most people make less than 200$ a month out of only fans. The industry does nothing but degrade and abuse women, I'm not a fan of that crap at all. Even if that was the case, how does that matter? As for Cher, yes, actually I am very mad. It's even worse since she's even older than him. That's actually not true, and I'm not sure where tf you pulled that out. Do you know how high the mortality rate is f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/23 04:44 AM
1

I'm younger than his girlfriend, and I still find it disgusting. Not only are old hags like him continuously hitting on him and all my friends (the more attractive ones literally get no breaks from their creepy and predatory behaviour), now yall are trying to normalize it for some reason. It is fucking pedophilia. I look at people 2 years younger than me, and see them as what they are:children. We are still children too, I am part of his girlfriends age group, and please believe me when I say th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/23 04:26 AM
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