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͡° ͜ʖ ͡°suhurley/r/MGTOW22/12/19 01:18 AM
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suhurley/r/MGTOW12/05/19 07:57 PM
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suhurley/r/MGTOW10/03/18 09:33 PM
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So you’re what, ONE INCH below average height for males in the US and FOUR INCHES taller than the average female? You gotta lay off the social media/TicTok, reality TV / Bling Empire, get a healthier friends group, identify toxic friend & family and distance yourself – something. Because whatever your actual problem is, it isn’t your height.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 01:39 AM
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Take time to watch My Thai Bride (2011) and consider that that’s more the norm than the exception. Western men are frequently seen in a certain way, even if it initially feels like a love connection.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:15 AM
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You got it pretty damn close. If you’re in Australia, I am too! (Brissy.)
/r/MensRights07/09/22 08:35 PM
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I gotcha.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:40 AM
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OkraGarden is saying that “he’s not a stepdad, he’s the dad who stepped up” is something low-value women say, as an (unintentional) admission that the bio father didn’t “step up.” Which means the woman chose poorly. Furthermore, because she herself is now a bad option in the dating world (having procreated with a loser) the man who has chosen to be with her (the stepdad) also makes bad choices and is therefore, a loser. But the only thing these men have in common is her, the actual loser. In oth…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 11:35 PM
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I’m seeing more dudes get volatile after rejection than I’m seeing women act like they’ve watched one too many Doris Day movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:56 AM
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Just today, we’re dealing with a situation at work where a female is getting harassed after she (politely) turned a guy coworker down a few times. (Um, and he’s got a long term gf at home, but nevermind that, I guess.) He’s called her “ratchet” to her face a few times, which feels worse by the fact that he’s white and she’s black. Before that, he was bragging to her about how much money he makes, how he owns his own (separate) business, and how his assistant was intimate with him, and how all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:02 AM
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I’ve noticed some women have ideas in their heads of how their lives would look, at a certain age. “At 33, I thought I’d be married with kids by now.” I remember being taken aback the first time I heard someone speak this way, as it’s not anything I’ve ever felt. So I’d say the woman who think along these lines would be more likely to not cope when they’re “still single” at certain specific ages. But as my HS band director used to say, “there are worse things than being single.” Case in point: m…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 08:37 AM
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I’m sure I’m in my own little world over here; somewhat oblivious to the broader conversations going on. Reading OPs post at face value, I’m like “well YEAH!” As if a person with ZERO value wouldn’t get passed over for people with value. His confusion seems so absurd, I should have known it was part of a bigger worldview.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 08:10 AM
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I agreed with you; just meant to add on. Maybe I’m underthinking it, but if either person in a relationship had nothing to offer, it wouldn’t really work. (Like two parties in any transaction.) That’s the extent my brain is willing to wrap around whatever OP was asking. Liked your reply, btw. Agree.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 07:40 AM
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Status could be boiled down to: how many people like you and how much. So take someone with zero status: not one person on earth wants to be around him/her. Of course they’re going to have trouble dating. I suppose relationships are “transactional” in this regard, because how you present yourself and come across to the world, is a large part of who you are. It may sound shallow for someone to not want a partner who’s broke all the time, but what does that brokenness say about the person?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:54 AM
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No one should show up to the table with nothing. Who would sign up for that? And if what someone comes to the table with, suddenly or gradually disappears, then yes. There’s a chance the relationship will be compromised. Looks, money, and status all exist in vast gray areas. If someone (man, woman, whatever) is exceedingly unattractive / doesn’t look after themself, has no money /no prospects / no career, and not a single friend – not from childhood or school or job or neighborhood – who want to…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:50 AM
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At college it was SO EASY to meet people, but my radar was no good. “Oh, wanna hang out? Yay! I like you too!” FFWD to my 40s, my radar’s so finely tuned to things that just won’t work for me (cleanliness, fashion choices, little tells in conversation) that when I click with someone, it’s more like sharp-shooting. While in my 20s, was like buckshot.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 02:00 AM
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It’s not pointless to point out pointlessness.
/r/MensRights26/12/19 02:38 AM
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The apostrophe in “see’s” makes the word longer for no reason.
/r/MensRights26/12/19 12:41 AM
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Why? If he gets bored with his current ride, I’m sure he has the means to get a different one.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 04:14 AM
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Dude’s out there living his best life!
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 01:40 AM
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It's creepy and uncomfortable to have a conversation with someone who never breaks eye contact.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:28 PM
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It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging wife. Proverbs 21:9
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 05:00 PM
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I’d consider that a single phenomenon.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/19 04:43 AM
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A 38” rib cage is pretty thick, bro.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/18 10:45 PM
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*It let us you know...
/r/MensRights08/09/18 05:36 PM
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Also, the wrinkles in his shirt are exactly the same. And the same tiny strand of hair is hanging down the same in both shots.
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 05:05 PM
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Ok. Send me a PM about yourself: experience/license(s), mechanical knowledge, personality, why you want to drive tours, how you feel about being away from home for 2-3 months, how you feel about working with bands, etc.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:29 PM
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Don’t know what to tell you. No savings to speak of. About $20k in student debt (that he doesn’t consider debt). He lives wtb two roommates ina pretty sweet apartment, works ALL the time, and spends a bit on clothes and going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:24 PM
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It’s plenty to survive. But not near enough for what he needs to get the girls he’s after.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 07:19 PM
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I know one guy like this IRL, and I’ve got my popcorn ready as the next few years unfold. He turns 40 this year, personal trainer with a solid physique but something’s off about him: awkward like someone with autism and lots of anger just under the surface. Reminds me of Patrick Bateman in American Psycho. Unsurprisingly, women pick up on it within minutes (seconds?), so he hasn’t had a gf in the 4 years I’ve known him. He lacks any self-awareness; believes he “just hasn’t found the right one ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:58 AM
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C’mon, man. It’s boyfriends. No apostrophe. “Boyfriend’s” would mean that something belongs to the boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 05:53 PM
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lowers the birthrate We've got to get the population up, people! 7.6 billion is not enough!
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 09:21 PM
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PM me about it yourself if you’re really interested. Of the last 35 drivers we tried out, 7 have worked out. By “worked out,” I mean: can pass drug tests, can hold it together for a 90-day tour, aren’t star-struck, don’t need to spout off about politics and religion, and have very basic mechanical knowledge. If you love driving & being on the road, getting the band from A to B safely, then you’d be perfect.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:50 AM
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If you’re starting from square 1: Get a class b license via a local school. (You can google CDL school for your area and take it from there. Work for a local bus company for 6 months to a year. At that point, you’ll be able to get on with a touring company like Star Coaches and go from there. Because there’s a real shortage of tour bus drivers, it’s totally feasible you could be on tour in under two years..
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:06 AM
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I can’t see it happening with touring ever. Too many logistical nuances and constantly moving parts.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:49 AM
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Tour bus driver (for touring bands). Takes maybe 6 weeks to get a (class B) CDL. Then you’re looking at about $90k for 9-10 months of work.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:57 PM
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No. More like Toby on the Office if you move Kelly out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:09 PM
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Yes, but aren’t you 25 or 30 years younger than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:22 PM
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I work in advertising. Mostly online (banner ads, web content, email blasts) but occasionally print , radio, outdoor. Lots of long meetings, time and money wasted, and working round in circles. I make $175k/year for 9 months a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:21 PM
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Has anyone else gone through this? Yes. Virtually everyone over at /r/mgtow
/r/askMRP25/04/18 04:22 AM
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Fun fact: this actress actually writes the show and it's largely (100%?) biographical. (I'm too lazy to google what her RL kid looks like.) You write what you know, as they say.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 07:26 PM
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Ha! I got a good chuckle at the thought of nurses cutting out for mid-shift drinks.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 07:12 PM
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Seriously. Not to mention the smoking. Why are so many nurses smokers?!
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 07:04 PM
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“Ha! I’ve got enough to worry about.” “Oh, there are definitely some hens pecking around.” -“I’ll put it this way. Soon as I want one, I’ll know where to look.” (Intentionally confusing response.) -“Define girlfriend.” Then no matter the reply, say, “Ohhh, yeah. I guess I do have a girlfriend.”
/r/askTRP25/11/17 07:20 AM
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And designed for the average person's hip width, not shoulders. Why they can't update the seat sizes when they update the actual plane/train/bus/MSG seats every decade or so, is beyond me.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 03:09 AM
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The average starting salary for a 2017 college grad is $49,785.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 12:53 AM
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It's like he's saying that MGTOW men would be open to dating women, if the women were more unattractive. ?
/r/MGTOW06/02/17 09:01 PM
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men are MGTOW because the "number of physically unattractive women is too damn low". So more unattractive women would lead to fewer men being MGTOW? Please ELI5.
/r/MGTOW06/02/17 08:59 PM
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Plus, she doesn't have many more years to be issuing these ling-winded pdfs. You'd think by 37 she'd be more aware of her options.
/r/MGTOW15/01/17 04:41 PM
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The pdf! She (37) gave him (31) a pdf of 17 detailed traits that he needed to work on, to be her "prince"! Amazing.
/r/MGTOW15/01/17 01:24 PM
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What is mtg?
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 10:19 PM
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This is a very recent, and bizarre development. When my mom was my age, they didn't have hamplanets roaming around, like at all. (Sidenote: mom still weighs in under 115lbs.) Nowadays, there are more hams than not.
/r/MGTOW12/01/17 10:14 PM
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I'm a 28 year old man now. I make my own decisions. I stand for no one unless I choose to, Reminds me of Dwight, "I am treating you the same as a man, for whom I would also not stand. Unless it was the President, or Judge Judy."
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 09:40 PM
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*there *hear
/r/ExRedPill10/01/16 08:00 PM
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A few more reasons came to mind other than the woman just being "fat and unattractive:" Some women may see these omegas as "projects"; chasing the challenge/ego-boost of improving him. Or a girl with self esteem issues may feel he's the type of guy she deserves. (Maybe her dad was also a loser, and she feels at home with this type.) Or she could be rebelling from the type of guy her family would want her to be with. If she has trust issues, she may like the built-in reassurance that he couldn't …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 10:35 PM
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Why don't they just charge the gender that actually costs them more? (My sister costs more and pays less?!) Some BS.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:13 PM
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Wish someone would tell my auto insurance that. Younger sister caused an accident last year and STILL pays a lower rate than I do. (I have a perfect driving record.)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:30 PM
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What was her reaction when she learned that you for sure do not ever want to get married?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 08:16 PM
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Dang, grandpa!
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:10 AM
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2.3 billion woman out of 7 billion people total? No wonder the dude's concerned; about 2.4 billion dudes are going to have to figure something else out. :/
/r/askTRP18/10/15 12:18 AM
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sidebarrr
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 08:14 PM
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Get your ass over to mgtow then.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 07:14 PM
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"Now that you mention it, I do feel a bit sexually frustrated."
/r/askMRP28/09/15 02:39 PM
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Fascinating.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/15 05:55 PM
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Just FYI: Silent treatment is actually form of abuse, used by narcissists, borderlines, and others. I wouldn't underestimate it.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 08:53 PM
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There's a sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/mgtow
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:39 PM
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Where you're at sounds like MGTOW.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:58 PM
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It means fat chicks don't talk as much, due to the constant food in their mouths. /s
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:12 PM
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Yeah! Send her packing...
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:39 PM
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No. Opposite of a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 06:56 PM
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