sujpol Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Autonomy - the core of attraction	Red Pill Theory	sujpol	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/21 05:37 PM

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4	The Fourteen Commandments of Frame Top notch content as usual, Woujo. He is always down to try new things, even if he knows he will suck (the alpha male theoretically will never suck at anything, but you know what I mean) I think it's irrelevant if he'll suck or not. The theoretical alpha is down to try anyway, even if he'll actually be bad at the thing, as long as the consequential outcome isn't potentially harmful. Example: theoretical alpha is challenged by someone to a game (cards, chess, whatever) in which said person is far…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/23 06:36 PM
1	The key to womens' attraction is transcendence emotional experiences On the bit of women wanting to live vicariously through men, it's an idea I've reflected upon for some time now. Women have a ludic perspective of the world, they see it as fiction and often raise drama solely to make the "story" more interesting, so to speak - I'd notice that as a very young kid, seeing how my older sister would suddenly act angry, sad or home in on a non-issue when things were peaceful before. Likewise, they see men like fictional characters. Their liking of us is pretty much …	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/23 02:35 PM
2	Women live in a neurotic hell OP addresses it: (...) showing women no emotion whatsoever is often the easiest way to get them to emotionally invest in you, because womens’ neuroticism will cause them to interpret any emotion you show towards them in a negative way. If the man in question is naturally like that, he's probably unfazed enough to relax the woman through osmosis, as Woujo explains. But beware as to not mix up said emotional durability with indifference, which is alienating.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/22 12:01 AM
40	Women live in a neurotic hell Psychopaths' sexual success could relate to the idea of your text, if we consider the low neuroticism they display. The lack of empathy leads to less perturbation echoed from others' emotional state, which appears like implacability and nonchalance, even though it's mostly a form of emotional blindness.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/22 12:54 AM
17	If Women Are Lionesses--Are You A Male Lion or An Impala Moral relativism won't change reality. Following the example, we can think of animals as neutral, but from the impala's point of view the lions are evil. Likewise, from a man's point of view, women are selfish and hostile beings, only pleasurable to have around when complacent. How they behave depends on what we have, not on how we choose to look at them: they'll still behave with selfishness and hostility if we opt to face said traits as neutral. Not looking at them as negatives is ignoring wom…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/22 02:33 PM
17	Aiming High Means Falling Far Seeing practice as secondary to theory is a common mistake. This wrong notion comes from the educational system, I believe: take classes, read the book and, in third place, do exercises. Besides, theory has all the correct answers, so it's worth more than error filled practice, yes? No, because acquiring a skill, physical (e.g. learning to swim) or mental (learning a subject), involves training all the same. Theory is often most useful as a way to optimize practice. You read/watch something to s…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/22 01:19 PM
2	What science, engineering, math, and other nerds get wrong about talking to women Probably why autistic men are so hated by women. Autism (the actual clinical diagnosis, not the "I'm so awkward" slang) is pretty much a death sentence to male attractiveness. The social and emotional blindness that comes with it makes said "vibing" impossible to do. Looks can theoretically carry a man by itself, but even then the 'tism is crippling: it will strongly repulse women, no matter the other attractive traits. Got a very good looking autistic friend and his theme is a succession of gfs…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/22 02:06 PM
2	My complete guide to seduction and alpha Gotta be careful not to behave like a yesman, though, even when taking disrespect ("it's just a shit test, bro"), ultimately turning into a stepford smiler. I remember reading years ago that meditation was observed to raise men's attractiveness to women, likely something to do with emotional non-reactivity developed through the practice.	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/22 09:58 PM
2	Why Am I Getting Shit Tested? won't shit test good guys. BEcause to date a good guy, they don't need to be aroused on the first date. Good guys actually seem like prime material to receive shit tests, unless she's a gold digger aiming for beta bucks.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/22 01:12 PM
2	The New Model Of Closing Women On Sex: How To Overcome Objections And Go From Intermediate To Advanced In 2022 Nice to see a counterpoint to the cliché "Next her!" the wannabe alphas on asktrp used to blurt out by reflex at any inconvenience.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/22 08:17 PM
19	Avoid Blue Pill Men Sharing women isn't "redpilled", it's just being a cuckold.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/22 09:23 PM
3	Frame as I understand it [Discussion] One could argue that you lost frame the moment you were driven to ponder a correct solution, as you were taken out of your current element (focused on lifting) to a philosophical investigation, instead of maintaining inertia by denying her request or rolling with it by letting her use the seat, both routes where you'd have held frame. You could have held the seat while raging, which appears victorious from the outside but is a loss of frame given the emotional turmoil or; thought no big deal and…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/22 10:02 PM
4	/r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer... The truth of women was exposed, simps quickly went "shUt iT doWn!!!" to protect the flawless sex.	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/22 02:34 PM
5	AWALT, even that nice girl with a boyfriend. Dating apps aren't a godsend, quite on the contrary. They are one of the reasons women became rotten like the one you described. Apps may net you benefits short term but on the macro they are a disaster - your own life would be way better had the hypergamy tool not exist. I'm thinking she's throwing herself at me and I'm gonna bang her and life is about to get fun again. (...) I didn't ask her out because my living situation wasn't congruent with dating Look, I can respect the second point, but …	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/22 11:46 AM
47	Vocal tonality: speak groot! My greatest flaw: talking in monotone and the tendency to mumble. Trash intonation can absolutely nuke interest you otherwise had while silent. I've noticed "turning on" feelings inside you while talking goes a long way to communicate a different vibe, helping in voice and partially correcting the aforementioned flaw. Think of how you can notice when someone is supressing laughter or anger, even if they are saying nothing and completely still. Context aside, in speaking there's a clear distincti…	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/21 03:43 PM
2	Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha male Taking initiative when others won't, cracking jokes that emanate "how dare you" giggling, answering fearlessly when confronted...	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/21 06:09 PM
1	The Friendzone is a Logical Fallacy. Perhaps you aren't permited in the friendzone because they allocate you to the fuckzone, on lack of a proper term. The distancing happens either because you aren't playing the role they assign you for or they currently don't want you to, e.g. not wanting to cheat on boyfriend thus avoiding risks altogether.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/21 08:23 PM
9	Understanding the difference between the Rational and Emotional Perspectives on Life Pretty enlightening, one of the points I succeed in by accident and thought it a bad trait until now. Only in retrospect I see the good it did. It's easy to group it with clowning as both involve coming up with scenarios and stories, but there's a distinction to be made in intent (are you having fun or begging for smiles?) and theming. Play around too much, jeopardazing the solidity of your frame, and you're a jester. Use it smartly, you can control the narrative (as in a piece of fiction) and h…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/21 04:34 PM
3	Stop Being Ashamed of Your Fucking Masculinity I'm writing from 1.200 BC and earlier. It's evolutionary psychology, so current context doesn't matter. Even if society catters to women now, their bodies still set feelings in a way as to avoid being abandoned in the forest and eaten alive by the saber tooth tigers. Fertility, career and life expectancy are subjects for the prefrontal cortex, but attraction is up to the limbic system.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/21 02:59 PM
8	Stop Being Ashamed of Your Fucking Masculinity Biologywise, women have 1 (one) job: secure a man who'll improve her chances of survival, even after children arise from said relationship. If she's a serial monogamist or polygamous, it means she fails at her one job. If she's unable to offer reasons for a man to stay nearby, it means she's either worthless or detrimental for companionship. Why would a man stay then other than for neediness? Ideally a relationship is mutualistic. Acceptably it'd be commensalistic but, given the stakes involved,…	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/21 12:34 PM
11	She doesn’t love you, she loves herself There was that post about how a woman doesn't actually love you fucking her, but loves herself getting fucked by you. I found it particularly enlightening, especially given their reactions to mirrors in those situations. Joking aside, the same principle applies to other stages of interactions: flirting as still strangers, the initial stages of dating and even the glamour of weddings - it's all a solipistic roleplay where you're a required character. But I'm not sure this is the endgame of women.…	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/21 12:48 AM
117	Just read this shit on another sub. Lmao. He killed himself when another hobo blackpilled him. "It's over" were the last words he heard.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/21 12:24 PM
2	Your Victories Must Register On An Unconscious Level I'd say it's more about not dismissing your successes, instead of banalizing them by celebrating mediocrity.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/21 07:03 PM
10	Looks Ain't Your Issue Looks (I'm assuming you mean face & height) = health and social power. Both are attributes directly contributing to attractiveness, widely accepted as fact even among bluepills. Additionally, looks bring other social advantages to the table which, in turn, contribute further to attractiveness: e.g. tall guys earning more, easier to go rich; guys with good faces getting Halo Effect. It's good that many went from "looks are not important!" to "I'm not going to tell you looks don't matter", but the…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/21 07:39 PM
20	20 Tactical Tells to Help You Identify If The Girl You're Seeing Is a Hoe Or A Housewife All your upvotes come from coping women and male feminists on turism by this sub.	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/21 02:39 PM
3	Do whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions) This sounds obvious, but it's very easy to forget. There's a trend to me in which the most indicators of interest come when I'm in a group having a lot of fun, with the requisite I gotta be one of the active participants (i.e. just being there relaxing or laughing at what others say doesn't spark the phenomenon). Worth noting, I'm never thinking of impressing women during these moments, to the point their behavior comes off as a pleasant surprise. There's even incidents of more complicated natur…	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/21 08:10 PM
21	"Women will forgive you for being an asshole, but they won't ever forgive you for being a pussy" Not sure I agree that they never forgive you for pussying out. Sure it means a loss of interest and most likely a game over on the short term, but do you really turn into beta/cuck/incel/loser for life on their eyes? I say this because I had chances with girls who saw me acting very beta in the past, and that didn't even require a physical transformation via muscle gain, becoming a super rich tycoon, dulling their senses with alcohol, waiting until they were post-wall or anything along these lin…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/21 04:23 PM
1	Never Put Kids First From what I observe in the most virtuous people of both sexes I know, their fathers tend to seem kinda nonchalant and also successful men of character themselves - they aren't indifferent, I'll make it clear, just not neurotic about their offspring as you'd expect of someone who raised people so brilliant. These men pursue their own growth foremost, developing into something else, sometimes bringing the family along and then are capable of being the much needed guide star his children need to he…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/20 07:22 PM
1	Men have completely ruined women. We need to fix the problem at it's root. You gotta be grounded on what you can affect first, but there's no cons to looking beyond to social dynamics that, care or not, affect your life from every angle. These large social and economical mechanisms mirror what we see on the micro, on our personal interactions with people, so why not look into them? Learning about that stuff gives insight, which improves your skill on dealing with people and groups at ground level.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/20 11:25 AM
2	No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned. "Purple pill this, purple pill that..." Most often, purple can be read as blue.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/20 04:50 PM
80	Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality? Because learned helplessness on the cattle is useful for its control by a certain group of people in power. So this group financially feeds social, cultural and political initiatives that fuel the intellectual, moral, emotional and cultural erosion on behalf of the easier management of its subjects.	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 11:17 AM