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| 6 | Do they ever stop?Feels like there’s a lot of victimhood here, justified or not. How long has this been going on? I'm guessing a long ass time because it sounds like you’re stuck on how unfair it all feels. You asked if the grass gets greener... sometimes it does, but not by waiting for the universe to treat you differently. If you actually want to make traction, try focusing on what you can change instead of just blaming the judge and your ex. That’s not easy, especially when you’ve been worn down or treated unf… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Question about wife and kidA few weeks of playing mom of the year doesn’t undo years of absentee parenting. An 8-year-old can be swayed in the short term, but you can’t replace the bond the two of you have with some meals. Just keep being steady and showing up like you always have. That’s what holds up long-term, in court and in your kid’s memory. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Question before trialYep. I put together a huge folder. Some of it was important, but most of it has gone untouched. Talk to your lawyer about what you have and let them tell you what's worth compiling | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 12:33 PM |
| 2 | If she won't.No, she won't. I'm sorry you’re going through this. And I'm glad your kids have you. My stbx is also a drinker and made some wild accusations, too, so I couldn’t relate more to constantly being on the defensive and not feeling angry enough. I think for me, it's watching the bar get lowered so much... at this point, it takes something new to even get a reaction. At some point, I just stop being shocked and casually share the latest drama with a friend who can't believe what I just said. I'm just … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Post Divorce False Sexual Abuse AllegationsI'm dealing with a false accusation, but not this bad. Just want to say that I'm sorry for what you're going through. It'll probably be a while, but you'll win in the long run. Stay strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 05:38 AM |
| 13 | It's not going how she plannedJust separated 2 weeks ago and she immediately went off the deep end. This gives me hope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 08:26 PM |
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