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Yeah, there just is no way to give advice on this. Like I have no idea if he will have self control to not get another woman pregnant and no idea if a other woman he meets will try to steal his man fluids. If he practices safe sex he should be fine. Stuff could happen, there are risks. If he thinks he can't do that then he should probably not hit on women until he gets his test back.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:59 AM
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You will probably be fine.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:45 AM
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A rosey view: A lot of those alpha dudes probably turned out to be disappointments or wouldn't commit. She knows you well enough to not be disappointed but you generally demonstrate value in a variety of ways. Also trp doesn't explain everything, don't let it become a spook in your head limiting you. You use ideas, don't let them use you.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:48 PM
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Don't self depreciate like that. You invited it.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:39 PM
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Yeah you will need to get used to this. It's going to keep happening. Yes ignore her.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:27 PM
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I would like this to not be a circle jerk. So in defense of women, patriarchy didn't exist to make men or women happy. It existed to make agricultural civilization stable. Giving every farmer, soldier, and artisan a woman via social norms, the church, and feudal law meant keeping men in line. Even then they still had options to be mgtow or a child free woman. Monasticism and service to the church was another socially acceptable route. That isn't necessary for the powers that be to operate anymor…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:19 PM
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Maybe throw a guy at the girl you don't want? I am afraid of her being needy and bored being a third wheel and clock blocking you. So I think you need to get one of your higher quality guy friends to help so she feels entertained.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:58 AM
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Organize a gang bang. It should bring you all close together.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:10 PM
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She wins if any drama happens. Literally ignore both of them from now on.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:04 PM
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Yes, superficial idiots flood these discussions trying to reduce alpha/beta dichotomy to a form of political tribalism rather than a contextual categorization of behavior. Society used to redistribute women to keep soldiers and farmers in line. Women don't want to be distributed, which is understandable. The powers that be don't need them to be either so it isn't happening.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:48 PM
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I wouldn't put so much stock in the correlation between ideology and personality traits.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:28 PM
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Yeah, you can even look him straight in the eyes and then ignore him to make a point.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:22 PM
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Way too much straight talk. If you want fast sex this isn't going to do it. If you wanted a girlfriend it may happen but you may also just end up with a friend.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:12 PM
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Trump has mastered different laws of power than Obama did because he is appealing to different audiences. Trump garners attention at all costs hands down, because of his experience in reality TV. Obama climbed his way through Chicago politics. Where reputation and hidden intentions are what I suspect he had to master. Trumps reactivity doesn't seem that alpha to me but it works for him so far. Where as Obama s coldness and inreactivity is something I would rather emulate.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:05 PM
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Is it worth risking your business and reputation over having sex with clients?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:45 PM
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Self improvement requires someone to admit that they aren't correct and that they need improvement. Some guys convince themselves they have it figured out so they don't want to see people with contradicting beliefs succeed. Others don't want to believe they can succeed even though they admit they are in a crap situation.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:00 PM
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This isn't rhetorical, what else besides sex do you want from a woman? Then you can figure out who can earn your commitment.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:32 PM
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All the senior programmers at my work have their own side firms for contracting. But it's like being an electrician more than creating the next Uber. Not bad but not a straight shot to billionaire.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:29 PM
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You just combined the three lazy teenage male tropes into one pathetic rant. "Girls are so slutty why even try". "People are so shallow I don't even want friends". "Top 1%". This all just you trying to rationalize you unwillingness to take repsonsibility for your life. We aren't going to validate that.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:26 PM
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She was communicating that she had access to a lot of hot sex and only had room for you as something else. Basically you weren't attractive enough to warrant a just sex relationship and needed something extra to make it worth her time. Also don't ever say "I am not a loser" to anyone ever again. Actions not words.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:49 PM
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General guideline is nothing more than 15 should be spent on a first meet up. That should basically be nothing to most guys.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:45 PM
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If you find a cure for autism let us know.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:59 PM
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She needs to find the time. Making new friends as an adult seems weird because you won't ever have shared the formative experiences you had with your childhood friends. It's going to take time.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:36 PM
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It's possible that you put some emotional walls up lately that have kept you safe in relationships but have limited the passion and intimacy in sex. However, I wouldn't be dropping your walls with randos.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:32 PM
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I think about it a lot. I don't know what you mean by honest. I try to practice plausible deniability. I don't lie but I don't go around telling people my intentions unless they have earned it. But you can communicate what you want without explicitly saying it with spoken word.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:30 AM
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Totally. A lot of dudes on these forums are very hostile to pua, it's just mimicking quality men. You could just do self improvement and hope that your personality naturally adjusts to attract women. But some stuff we are moralized into misunderstanding, like shit tests, where actively thinking about it helps us j learn bad habits. And in my personal non trp opinion, you shouldn't oversell yourself. If you feel like certain behavior is going to seem over the top or a stretch it probably is. I am…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:45 AM
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A corporation needs a good product. A corporation should also have good marketing. It can use social media, word of mouth, sales people, online markets, stores, cross promotions etc. You, your skills, are the product, game is marketing. You need to be independent, capable of pursuing your self interest. Marketing the skills that you can trade with other doesn't make you dishonest. Learning skills so you can trade with others doesn't make you dishonest. Doing a biologically driven mating game doe…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:27 AM
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Are you lifting weights? I respect that you are approaching girls but without an example I don't know how anyone can help you fix your method. It's possible that you are just an 18 year old who isn't that attractive and doesn't have a lot of experience or confidence. That is pretty normal. So my plan for you is as follows. 1) Do well in school 2) Lift 3) part time job, work at a golf course or country club if you can. 4) get a good barber to find a good haircut and beard for you. 5) another hobb…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:48 AM
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Dishonesty. Crosses boundaries previously set. Excessive attention seeking. Feels entitled to things they won't trade for. An excessive lack of emotional self control.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:56 AM
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I didn't start lifting seriously until I started a sport that made me want to be stronger. Maybe do a sport? Some guys around here want to have Adonis bodies and that's cool but it's hard to lift for the girls, it's easier to lift for victory.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:53 PM
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Does UK military have college tuition deals? How does college work in the UK? Free tuition and housing? Could you independently go to college without financial assistance from your parents? If you can hold out for a year and then go to college for music independently that could be a good option also. You will have to be strong enough to cut contact though. You may have to have music as a hobby until you can survive independently from your family. If you remain dependent on your family, they will…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:20 PM
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Age? Frame around family is always going to be difficult because you have most likely been trained to respond to them incorrectly. People do shit to their kids all the time. They know exactly how to get under your skin and will encourage weaknesses in you so they can exploit it later. To deal with them you will have to behave unlike yourself. If you are dealing with domestic violence you may need to seek out advice on other subs that deal with that issue specifically. The strategy that works wil…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:38 PM
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I think online dating exaggerates this too because those are the women interested in finding random men online. I think women in their 30s who have their shit together aren't going to be on okcupid asking for guys to man up.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:51 PM
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Red pants
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:59 AM
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Play any sport. You don't have to be good or join a college team. Finding dudes to play basketball with or joining a Judo club will be good enough.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:22 PM
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A 34 year old woman from a semi developed nation is going to be hardcore provider hunting. I wouldn't fuck with this man.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:53 PM
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I am bad about this too. I picked some mildly bitchy, attractive women I know who I won't sleep with (don't shit where you eat). When I talk to them I know they are going to throw shit at me so I am waiting for it and try and see how I do. It's helped me a bit. I started wearing a new piece of clothing I don't usually wear and I knew one woman in particular would give me shit about it if I wore it in front of her. So I did so on purpose and basically thanked her for her sarcastic compliment. Aft…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:46 PM
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No because virgins can cheat too. All of this is negative self talk to prevent you from going out there and approaching women because you are afraid of failure. You are attempting to pre-disqualify all women so you don't have to play the game.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:35 PM
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You may consider a visectomy.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:41 PM
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Sometimes it's easy to become your worst self when around family. Some people believe that siblings and child hood friends cause us to psychologically regress to earlier times in our life. You need to be aware of this and alter your relationship with your brother. I used to have issues overshadowing and putting my brother down and I decided I needed to stop. It caused a lot of problems. Our relationship changed a lot cause of this and it's better now. When I prepare to be around my family I know…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:46 PM
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Unless this was some language barrier thing it sounds like she just wanted to stir shit up.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:31 AM
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Unless you are in high school (or maybe from a more traditional culture) you can't call a girl your girlfriend if you haven't had sex with her.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:25 AM
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Well they don't want to depict that dude as happy. That would send the wrong message if being rich and sleeping around was actually a source of happiness.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:35 PM
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Okay so after the Raid and Raid II. Watch Dredd, John Wick 1 & 2, Elite Squad (Brazilian move with subtitles), and Sicario. I also have Drive on my list but haven't gotten around to it yet.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:33 PM
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Make friends with the user groups. If you gain support among them you can sideline him and exclude him from decision making. Ignore his put downs for sure. Do not leave him alone until you get what you need. Document everything in writing from him. If he isn't involved in the issue tracking system make that happen. If you combine these tactics you should be able to divert any blame he might throw at you. Don't make it known that you have an issue with this guy. If you document everything and the…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:10 AM
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Yes! I had a coach explain to me that you need two hours of active recovery of some kind for every hour of pushing yourself. I got over exerted doing 12 hours a week of training and it was bad for my mood and productivity. Basically I was getting diminishing returns at training and my focus was gone. OP, make sure you are stretching, sleeping, eating right, warming up, and doing cool down exercises like walking or light cardio. Overtraining can get you sick and injured, you are brand new to fitn…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:14 PM
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Don't fight people over money. A high quality man can always get more. Pay the mugger and go your way. You can get insurance for thefts and muggings if you fear this happening. Defending a woman from sexual assault is going to be case by case thing. Who you value is on you but below are two resources for understanding the risks. On knife wielding attackers: https://youtu.be/Vix6-afHzMg TLDW; Don't fight people with knives. Milwaukee Police department produced a film with interviews with cops who…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:46 PM
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