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I’m 22 and got my first boyfriend at 20. Wish I hadn’t. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:34 AM
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As stated before: literally no one thinks you don’t have the right to find it from someone else. No one expects you to wait. This strawman is old and tiring. But acting like all or even most men can’t wait a couple months is untrue and dumb. Idk maybe college was different when you were there, but right now even frat bros will generally respect a girls wishes to wait if he likes her. Also how do you know anyone was comfortable with it? Maybe they wanted to try it and discovered it wasn’t for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:11 PM
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This just in folks: if you’ve had casual sex before, maybe once, twice, even three times? You have no right to not have sex with a guy you’re dating in the first month! I mean, those other guys got it in 1-2 dates! If you make any subsequent man wait longer than that you’re being RIDICULOUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:56 PM
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But no ones EXPECTING you to be ok with waiting. In fact FDS women expect you to NOT be ok with waiting. That’s why they do it. To weed you out of the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:52 PM
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Yea, Christ. This line of thinking is gross. This just in folks: Already lost your virginity? You MUST now lower your standards. Waiting for a special connection? You already did that!!! You have no right to ask for that same respect or time to feel comfortable with any subsequent man because you’re used up!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:43 PM
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Sorry, can you elaborate on that first part? How would treating a virgin and another woman who was not a virgin differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:40 PM
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Is everyone glossing over the fact he says he had sexual relations with girls younger than him and he’s 18???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:04 AM
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Oh wow, guy who has constant eyes for other women, ignores and pays no attention to the wellbeing of his partner. Gets dumped. Then he plays the victim and slips into a depression because of his own actions and needs a pickme to come save him 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:47 PM
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The good news is: successfully moving on without him and being happier, and getting that sweet revenge feeling of him finally seeing what he missed, is the SAME PATH. The more you turn your focus inward, even if it’s forced for a while, the more you will naturally feel better about yourself and like you are living for yourself. I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:16 AM
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This is similar to me. I noticed that my pickmeisha “cool girl” ways, despite being what guys SAID they want, was never what got long term commitment. If you’re the cool girl, you’re just easy mode to men. You’re the equivalent of them whipping out candy crush to play in class, even though everyone knows the real prize is college/their degree. You’re just a time passer on the way, that gives no real satisfaction to have “won”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:17 AM
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There’s a highly upvoted comment in that thread that compares FDS and the red pill, but says the red pill is primarily concerned with becoming HVM and FDS is primarily concerned with getting a HVM. This pisses me off for 2 reasons They’ve completely ignored the fact that becoming a HVW is a core goal of FDS. The “HVM” in the red pill are not. at. all. what we are looking for. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:05 AM
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I struggled a lot with low self esteem for a while as well, as I’m sure all women have at some point. It comes and goes. Remember that you are more than just the sum of all your parts. You’re not a grocery list of traits. You are so much more nuanced and beautiful in a way that people couldn’t put on paper. When you think of the people you value and love the most in the world, you probably don’t think of them as a list of their attributes. If people asked why you loved your mom or your sister or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:33 PM
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Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:50 AM
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https://www.removeddit.com/r/relationships/comments/e5y321/my_24f_boyfriend_23m_didnt_do_the_dishes_and_i/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:57 PM
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When I see “no drama” I read it as “if you ever try to call out my bullshit or unacceptable behavior I will write you off as being dramatic and give you the silent treatment.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:42 PM
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Him saying he pushed beautiful and brilliant girls away is just him trying to rationalize them rejecting him by thinking “I must have subconsciously pushed them away!” This guy is delusional to the max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:27 PM
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The only mistake she could’ve possibly made was spending 4 whole months on this guy, but tbh that’s not even that long. Even from his point of view I can tell she’s an absolute queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:17 PM
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