summerisntmyfriend Archive

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1	How to respond to ex-boyfriend texting me again? Sharing your explicit pics and videos is ILLEGAL and he will be in trouble for it, not you. I wouldn't not respond at all to my exes messages, I would also be honest with my current partner and tell them they reached out. Of course it's always individual but most of the time nothing good comes out of staying in touch with an ex.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/21 01:17 PM
1	Self-Improvement Needed… in multiple areas Baby carriers are great, you can cook and clean while carrying a baby. Establishing very strict "me time" routine, when you are all about giving it's very important to have even 15-30 minutes a day for self care (for me skincare routine, doing my hair (nothing elaborate) and very very light make up did the trick). Lack of sleep and hydration effects my looks a lot so I was trying to always squeeze in naps as much as I could and drink a lot, especially when nursing. As for the weight, light exerc…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/21 01:12 PM
1	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page I always thought I wouldn't want my partner aroun when I was pregnant/giving birth but I was mistaken. Having my husband in the room when I was delivering felt so reassuring. And after giving birth boy do you need a husband around, postpartum hormones are real and dealing with anew baby alone when your body just went thru the major changes and you feel literally brutalized (in my case cause I delivered naturally without an epidural) seems almost impossible to me. Huge respect to women who've don…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/21 10:41 AM
4	The truth comes out… I don't have a single conversation with my mother or mother in law where they don't bring up that I'm a SAHM, both criticize me from different reasons and tbh this constant negativity gets to me sometimes and makes me feel less valuable but I know that I'm doing a right thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/21 10:21 AM
9	Engaged and married women, how did you get aligned on timeline for marriage? I made it clear early on that I wasn't gonna hang out 8 years for him to figure out if I was the one. Even though I knew that proposal was coming, it was still romantic. Talking about future plans like adults without any innuendos or indirect messages seems like the most reasonable option to me. Say he says he's not yet ready or sure about marriage/kids.I would ask to be specific, what does he need to do to do to be ready (not like I wanna find myself) and how long it would take. Then you can de…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 10:42 AM
11	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page Some of what you described has emotional abuse and manipulation written all over it that might turn into a financial one if you become a stay at home mother. I'm a conservative person and all for traditional families but when either party starts abusing their power I see it as a major red flag. A marriage should be an union of two equals based on mutual respect. Gaslighting you doesn't sound very respectful to me. I'm sure he has a sweet side and that's why you are with him so try to appeal to t…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 10:21 AM
1	Is it too late to start over at 27f? Dating isn't a problem for most women but finding a man worth marrying and having a family (children of one's own) might prove a bit more challenging. Of course there will always be someone to date or marry even but more accomplished and self sufficient woman is, more difficult it gets to find an equal match.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 10:04 AM
0	Is it too late to start over at 27f? Caring for parents is not a bad trait. Wanting to split finances evenly when you aren't yet pregnant or caring for a child sounds like a reasonable expectation. You can still travel when you have children. If you want a family and children "exploring your life" shouldn't be a top priority. Let's be real, starting over at 27 IF married with kids is your endgame is a bit late (no disrespect, just from biological point of view). Be glad if his parents are healthy and in the same town as you, you ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/21 06:08 PM