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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 146 | “I want you,” does not mean “I want you.” | REMINDER 👑 | sun_flowersnsunshine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How LVM feel about paying for dinner (read the comments) | SCROTES MAD | sun_flowersnsunshine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | If a pickmeisha friend is “going through it,” do you recommend they check out the FDS subreddit? | DISCUSSION | sun_flowersnsunshine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Because block and delete does not just apply to dating... What are some ways you queens incorporate FDS into your personal life and friendships? | MOOD FOR LIFE | sun_flowersnsunshine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 10:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | What's your level up goal this year? 😎 (It can be in any area of life!)build better habits, wake up earlier, have a more consistent morning routine. I just learned about SAVERS. Silence -> mediation/prayer Affirmations Visualization Exercise Read Scribe -> journal use my phone/tv less, spend more time outdoors, improve my health, invest in stocks and educate myself about real estate investing, work on my business and maybe even create a 2nd business. The list goes on but something I’ve recently picked up is to say NO more often because I’m a people-pleaser and sayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:04 AM |
| 10 | Is pickmeism actually an unhealed inner child?Interesting point! I think pickmeism is partly caused from naïve knowledge of the world and experiences that you learn from, well, experiencing them. I was treated poorly when I first started having “something” with a guy so that was basically all I ever knew to begin with. Being a pickme becomes a pattern until you start to learn from experience and/or find resources like this subreddit. When did we ever learn in school that men lie and try to manipulate women to get what they want? And it took… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Saying NO when I feel like it is my top goal for this year! I'm so tired of being way too nice to people who don't even deserve it. I used to give out my number/contacts even though I wasn't attracted to certain men, just to be nice. I will focus on myself from now on and set up boundaries.I have not! But I definitely thought about it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 9 | Saying NO when I feel like it is my top goal for this year! I'm so tired of being way too nice to people who don't even deserve it. I used to give out my number/contacts even though I wasn't attracted to certain men, just to be nice. I will focus on myself from now on and set up boundaries.Not sure if it is FDS material- but at the bookstore I saw a book called “Stop Being Nice and Start Being Bold,” and for being someone who says yes all too often the title alone made me stop and ponder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:52 AM |
| 10 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!heainttheone2021 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 6 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?“Let’s hear it for the boy” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:25 AM |
| 4 | Honey... it’s 11 o’ clock at night. Why do you think I would even entertain this? Messages are from a scrote I used to PINE over. Boy bye!!The girlfriend and date part .. it’s all too real. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 3 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lol“Thrust inwards and outside” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:55 AM |
| 4 | What is the most pointless lie that a LVM has told you?“I don’t want a long distance relationship.” But, here’s the kicker .. We were a 25 min drive away from each other in the same city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:26 AM |
| 12 | “I want you,” does not mean “I want you.”Well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 25 | “I want you,” does not mean “I want you.”FDS has multiplied so much so in just these past few months so I’m sure we will keep getting this out there to more and more women! This subreddit has the power to transform lives and that’s amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 10 | “I want you,” does not mean “I want you.”Sorry to hear that you felt triggered. I once read that if you think about your past and feel shocked it just shows how much you’ve grown. We are always growing, learning. All the best to you and your FDS journey ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | “That’s crazy”reminds me of my naïve, pickme self who would see the lack of response and would double text asking “if everything way okay?” 🥴🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | We need to stop with the myth that dating is sooo hard for all men and that men will treasure you because your attention is rare. 🗣 THEY’RE PLAYING ALL OF US AND THIS IS HOW!Hey can someone help me out please? I haven’t been assigned a flair so all of my posts are getting automatically removed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 10:22 PM |
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