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I've never begged for sex, but if I have dated a couple solid 8s and have pulled 7s from festivals, I must be somewhat attractive.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 07:37 AM
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Cold approaching at music festivals and once at a coffee shop have netted me the most beautiful women. Tinder has only gotten me 5s, 6s, and one 7; and I’m attractive myself, an average dude will do even worse. Social circle game, however, is king. It takes the longest to cultivate, but when you’re well-established in a few relevant circles, you’re fucking set. Too bad most of us here are low-key autistic and will struggle greatly with entering and building social circles,
/r/TheRedPill12/01/19 03:01 PM
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Depends on what women want. If all they want is a better alternative to masturbation (sometimes) and then never seeing the guy again, yes, they have the Tinder pool. But if they want a boyfriend, most women are smart enough to know the men out of their league on Tinder will never give that to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:34 PM
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I’m 5’9 and average looks and a college student in my early twenties. It’s easy for me to find and meet an attractive girl and sleep with her through tinder, raves, mutual friends, and a couple times at work. I believe what keeps me unlocked is not spending too much time on these type of forums and suffering some rejection without letting it dent my self-esteem. I also workout and dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:32 PM
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I dated a girl for a year then moved to California. We stayed together for the year that I lived there. In many ways, it was the strongest our relationship had been. We’d visit once a month and fuck like animals for a few days. When I came back after being long-distance for that year, we dated for another two and our relationship began deteriorating almost as soon as I returned. If I could go back I wouldn’t have changed the LDR, that was amazing and we were really working out. I would have chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 11:52 PM
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Man pushes for sex, woman pushes for commitment. It’s a woman’s prerogative to initiate the “what are we” talk. And yes, it is necessary for a woman to do this unless she doesn’t care if the guy she is with is also fucking other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 09:28 PM
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Even at 22 I can’t do this shit anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 06:41 AM
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No. Beta bux problems arise because they’re doormats and don’t maximize their own personality, status, and yes, looks. This makes them a bad mate to anyone. I know plenty of very strong men who married up in looks and have the typical captain/first mate happy marriage. But they weren’t betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 06:39 PM
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For me, it’s when you take the red pill and find out some of it wasn’t true. The blue pill world is still a fantasy, but what the red pill tells you is reality isn’t exactly the way they say it. Purple pill is when you find out for yourself what the truth is. But it still isn’t exactly between blue and red. Purple pill, or what I believe is closest to the truth, is the red pill with a small number of specific blue ideas that actually were true all along, set against a backdrop that is almost ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 06:34 PM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:46 PM
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Let’s face it because if you’re not adonis Chad then women aren’t going to consider fucking you for free This is so stupid. I’m 5’9 and have had a fulfilling sex life my whole life. I know guys who are shorter that have cute girlfriends they’re smashing on the regular. Whatever though seems like you got bigger problems than your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:19 PM
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TRP: Exaggeration. The Red Pill is an exaggeration. A sensationalized version of the truth. But still, at it's core, it is true. Just off the top of my head, definitely 70% of it is true. TBP: Lie. The blue pill is not even an exaggeration. It's a fantasy. Albeit one that sometimes gets close to the truth, it is initially a fantasy based on a lie. But even a broken clock is right twice a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:33 AM
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I have bondage fantasies, doctor fantasies, and pet play fantasies that I tried with my ex. Was pretty much what I expected. Came hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 02:08 AM
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My sister. She’s a model, a 10 in most people’s eyes. Using the super strict PSL chart she’s an 8. She lifts weights and eats right and has amazing fashion taste. She’s 20 with an n count of two. She’s in love with a guy who is probably a 5, and she loves him almost unconditionally. We share an apartment and she’s always picking up after my lazy ass. She also has introduced me to one of my ex girlfriends so essentially she’s gotten me laid too. She also reads every night which is something most …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:57 AM
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That’s besides the point. An empty or bad bio might disqualify a good looking guy for you. But a decent bio won’t save an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:57 PM
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Just read your flair, the defeatist attitude makes sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:55 PM
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Are you serious? I never said looks don’t matter in real life. They just matter way more on Tinder, a platform where women have no other way to judge what kind of man you are than your looks. I can’t believe I have to argue this. In real life you can boost your SMV with body language, social skills, game, status, and personality. On Tinder it’s just the pictures of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:53 PM
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This would only make sense if you are more socially awkward than you are ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:47 PM
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That’s just not true. Looks matter but they matter way more on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:45 PM
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It’s way more about looks than real life though. Aside from extreme examples, great looking guy with a couple selfies and a boring pic will do much better than an average guy with fantastic pics curating a wonderful image. My point is that Tinder is not a good representation of the real world, where you can have a great dating life despite average looks. On Tinder it really is almost entirely about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:40 PM
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What do you expect? Women judge potential mates on looks, status, social skills, and a long list of personality traits. On Tinder they can literally only go for looks. So of course you’re going to have this vast inequality in favor of good looking men. It’s not indicative of real life where the other ten or whatever things that make panties wet are present. Also, let’s not forget the sample size is women who use Tinder which is going to be very different from women in general walking through lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 02:34 PM
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No. Just find out the n-count or get a vague idea of what it is. I know girls with back pieces who are fiercely loyal with an n-count you can count on your right hand. I know girls without a single tattoo that have been with 20+ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:20 PM
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I’m 22. If she is my age or younger, I won’t get into an LTR with a girl that has over 5. Ideal would be like 0-3. It also matters what each of the men were. If she dated all five, that’s a great sign. If she dated three and the other two just happened, I’ll still hang with her but I’m going to keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:18 PM
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Recently single after a four year relationship. Don’t really want to hook up as I want to start a family around 25 and I’m 22 now. Where are good places to meet girls that aren’t like the ones I’m getting on Tinder? I would ask on RP but they’ll just say I’m a unicorn hunter LOL, which is probably true.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 05:44 AM
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I’ve found that 30% of TRP is adamant truth, objective fact. Then 30% is theory and could go either way. 10% isn’t very true. And then the other 30% is men being actual retards and fucking their own asses.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 02:21 PM
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Agree mostly but honestly I would also say the way he verbalized it is weird as hell. I would have just been like okay then I’ll walk you to your car and not explained it. When it comes to confrontations and arguments the less the man says the better, from my experience. Actions speak louder than words. Simply getting dressed and walking to the door would have been more powerful. And yeah if she really was tired that’s pretty messed up.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:10 AM
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I’m just going to shoot off some questions. What books would you say have had the strongest impact? How did you meet your friends and mentors? And what advice would you give on building a social circle from scratch? I’m inherently pretty high SMV apart from my social skills. I’ve always had a girlfriend just purely out of confidence and looks but now I find myself single with no friends. Any advice would be awesome. Thanks and incredible post. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:47 PM
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Yep. Fucked it up with a girl who was a virgin before she met me. Dated four years. Got 99% of everything I wanted. She broke it off. I can say AWALT and pound my keyboard, or maybe I can realize I became a controlling beta in the last few months and who can truly stay with a controlling beta who skipped gym, stopped dressing well, and had -100 dread game. Sometimes, it's best to take responsibility, and become better.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 02:37 PM
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Don't pick this hill to die on. I lost a near perfect four year LTR with a girl who had only been with me because I'd try to pull all the stops on this shit. Small wedding, no diamond, can't invite too much family, all that bullshit. It's not "alpha" to always try to have your way. Sex life was perfect, she was traditional where it mattered, and loved me more than I loved her. The dynamic was perfect until I had to be a goddamn nerd when it came to this shit. Eventually I started appearing more …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 10:48 AM
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Sometimes I feel down on myself then I realize I've been having sex on an almost daily basis since I was 14. I don't know where that puts me on this study but I can't say I'm unsatisfied!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:29 AM
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I think he makes a good point that Tinder amplifies the value disparity in the dating world for men and women. In real life, you have to approach women. This takes a certain amount of confidence and skill and physical attractiveness to pull off. On Tinder, the celibate masses only need swipe their screen to "approach" and notify a girl of their interest. In real life, an extremely small percentage of them will actually walk up and introduce themselves.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I don't get it. Talking about this stuff makes you look awkward, it won't help anyone, and it's time wasted you could have been doing something better. Absolutely no gains. I am also a big believer in that if someone is unhappy with how their life is turning out, they will seek answers themselves. No one handed me or pointed me anywhere. I was a teenager and I noticed some guys were liked and respected by girls and others were not, and I really wanted to figure out what was going on. I thi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:44 AM
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Your post is not bad but I still believe the most tried and true way to get rid of oneitis is to just have sex with someone else. When I was 18 I had big-time oneitis, I had no idea it could be that powerful, but I kept reading to just have sex with someone else and it would go away. I got with this other girl who was attractive, not as pretty as the oneitis but she had a cute face and a thick ass. The second I busted my nut in her, it was like a commercial, my world went from black and white wi…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 12:08 AM
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Alternative guide: eat much less, feel hungry most or the time, and run every day.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:57 AM
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OP did good by hanging up. What was he supposed to, engage shitfaced L and her retarded friends over the phone or maybe even meet up with them? I think OP is taking it a step to far claiming things have ended with L, unless he already wanted to end things there.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:14 PM
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and end up wondering where all the good men went as she lives alone with her cats. Maybe, but this is kind of a caricature. In reality she will realize she has to settle again with an even bigger schmuck than her ex-husband. There's tons of these dudes ready to take anything they can get, it's sad, but we can't all be winners.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:48 AM
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There is a tremendous value to these posts, but I can't help but shake my head every time I see them. Seriously? Some guys are still trying to explain red pill shit to other women? That is beyond autistic and unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 09:44 PM
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Why not just get a prenup if you really want to get married?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:31 AM
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This is definitely a pro tip that deserve the bold and larger text.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:23 AM
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Can't a prenup prevent this sort of thing? I would only marry a woman if she was so wrapped around my finger she'd sign a prenup, otherwise, no deal.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:19 AM
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This She had a real bad attitude and basically acted like I'm not shit and she doesn't need me and all that and this I was not too happy in the relationship and had been contemplating a break up Is all you need to justify a break-up and go through with it, which pretty much makes the rest of the post irrelevant (no offense though).
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 12:48 AM
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That’s cool and all but I’m still going to vote. No matter how pessimistic you can be about politics and the country, there will always be a lesser of two evils on the ballot, and the least we can do is vote for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:13 PM
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OP wasn’t saying don’t have kids. He was saying it’s not a good idea unless certain conditions are met, such as sufficient finances, two parents, and a loving environment.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 05:18 PM
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Lots of red flags, which I'm happy you admitted to. This 4 year relationship shouldn't have gone past month 4, to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:02 PM
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I hope this really is how the story ended.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 09:34 AM
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You missed a green flag. That she has a high-sex drive to match yours. If my girlfriend didn’t want to fuck as much I’d next her
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:24 AM
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If any man, RP or not, Venmos a girl, I don’t mind if he doesn’t get the chance to reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:40 PM
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What are you saying ofc I’ve seen my gf without make up. I even said she dropped a point without it and was surprised these actresses were dropping like 4 points in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:36 PM
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Holy fuck! I thought my girlfriend looked pretty different without make up but this is insane. I thought a 9 to an 8 drop was huge but this is 9 to 4 in some cases.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:05 PM
1

I’d say it doesn’t matter what your gut says if she’s not already an LTR; don’t buy them anything.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:07 PM
1

Another big part of BP Holiday advice is spending money on girls you’re dating or even worse, attempting to date. Don’t.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 01:37 PM
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Good. They are freaks. If any of them even think they can come here I hope the mods ban them swiftly.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 04:50 PM
1

Good luck out there. You did good leaving her. Use a condom next time.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:40 PM
3

Agreed. That obsession, that singular focus, should be directed 100% at a goal. Whether it be a career, a productive hobby, or passion; it should never be at another person.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:10 PM
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You kind of have to. Have sex with a bunch of average or below average girls. Mess up, learn from your mistakes, get better, move on. Then when you get a shot with a very attractive girl, you don’t fuck it up.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:26 AM
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He fucked himself basically. Really didn't have to be like that
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:23 PM
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In my opinion, there are a few factors at play but the most relevant one to me is that they are married to losers. The more of a loser a guy is, the less of a hoe a girl needs to be to cheat on his dopey ass
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 07:50 PM
1

No one truly understands until they have everything they want from women. Till then you haven't really grasped it; you just know that something is there.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 05:43 PM
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So the solution is to not let your woman go out by herself? Do I just enforce that with the ability to walk-away? Like, "if you go, I'm leaving," and then actually follow through? It's a heart wrenching story, but I believe it and understand it, and assume it's common. I would appreciate a solution I can apply in my own life to prevent this from happening to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:14 PM
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Good for him! And her.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 09:59 AM
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Yeah, I agree. I don't see this as a bad thing, though, as long as the man knows what he is to a particular girl. If you know you're a zero, fantastic, you don't have to waste another second with her. And if you're a one get ready to clap that ass.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 09:20 PM
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