sunflowergrazing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
544	The good old “what’s your type” question	Story time ☕	sunflowergrazing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 06:16 PM
1	The cognitive dissonance men have is highly entertaining. Nobody has more audacity than a mediocre man.	ROAST-A-SCROTE	sunflowergrazing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 03:51 PM
1	“But if you remove sex, how can I know if I like you?” You get to know me like a normal human being. Oh wait, that means you have to actually try which you have no interest in doing.	NICE FOR WHAT?	sunflowergrazing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 07:30 PM
0	Don’t EVER stop what you have going on.		sunflowergrazing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 06:09 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	just realized I don't introject, can't be coerced, and am super strong... but at what a price I read something similar like this in The Body Keeps The Score . Your discernment gets hightened as your brain doesn’t want to repeat the same trauma that it had to shut down/reprogram for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 07:48 PM
103	Raise your hand if you’ve ever lowered your standards and NOT regretted it. Men do not ever lower their standards or compromise and they never will. Don’t do the same because it WILL bite you back later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 04:47 AM
102	Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen. Look at his post history. He’s definitely pornsick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 11:29 PM
17	How do you deal with HVM that know they have options? Anyone who genuinely wants you is never nonchalant with you and wouldn’t allow you to feel disposable. Are we all replaceable to someone? Yes but the key thing is they don’t allow you to feel like that if they want you. There’s a huge difference between a man who likes the idea of having options vs one who wants quality and substance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 06:40 PM
116	Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time. A man ghosting you after you set boundaries before you’re emotionally and sexually involved is always a blessing! It shows he only values you if he’s allowed to do what he wants. Don’t question it, don’t blame yourself and just move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 06:34 PM
41	Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations. It’s a women’s private travel group page and it’s always riddled with post like these and yet even after constant posts like these they still repeat it. There are women who warn other women to not do so but then it gets flooded by pickmes with, “you only live once go for it”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 05:03 PM
162	Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆 Or worse, “I’m leaving the state/country tomorrow so can you drop everything you’re doing today to make time for me”. Classic excuse to get you to jump on their time or to see how desperate you are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/21 10:21 PM
121	Never call a man out for negging you Never engage! They know what they’re doing. You’ll always get met with being gaslit or strategic incompetence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 01:56 AM
92	The good old “what’s your type” question I was definitely getting this vibe. He was looking for the placeholder until he’s serious. I’m glad the sirens let off when he said all that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 01:39 AM
125	"You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there. The joke is, they’ll end up 40 and alone trying to talk to women in their 20s.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 03:34 PM
92	Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys. He basically did a backhanded “you’re not like other women”. As soon as men link attractiveness with being able to do something, it’s a red flag and a block.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 02:27 PM
55	New friend invited her boyfriend to hang out As shocking as it sounds, it’s very common (I’m so glad my friends don’t do this). One of my coworkers told me a story about how one of friends brings her bf everywhere and she finally confronted her and told her she’d like to have real girl time. Do you know what her response was?! “My bf and I work so much and barely see each other so I thought it would be a great way to spend time”. I laughed like what??? Yeah she’d get blocked that day. But you dodged a bullet. She didn’t even care to ask if…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 09:58 PM
225	Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag? The fact that’s he’s willing to invite a stranger into the space of his own blood and flesh screams carelessness. It’s a different story if he’s being careless on his own but he’s dragging his family into jt? Your gut is right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 01:44 AM