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I have a hard time feeling this way with a lot of girls. I can be attracted to them and get mildly aroused when making out with them but it varies in how connected with them I am. A lot of foreplay is needed to develop a connection. There was this one girl though in a physical therapy class we were both taking where I felt literal goosebumps or shocks run through my body when she touched me, I had an immediate boner. She wasn't the hottest girl in the world either, it was just a connection that …
/r/seduction05/10/20 04:41 AM
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I wouldn't do it more than what you've have already if you haven't met yet, she might be waiting for you to ask her out. Also don't say what your going to do, say what you're doing. The subtle difference is it feels like youre only going to do it if shes going to do it with you. You have to be able to convey you're going to do x thing with or without her. I don't like either initiatives. Hey I'm doing "x" this weekend. It's got a really cool "y" (hype it up she'll be missing out). You gotta come…
/r/seduction02/09/20 11:27 AM
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No one of my best friends is though, he does well with the ladies. They're all the same man. Some are more sensitive and some are more playful.
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:06 AM
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Dude that's the best part. My boys always laugh at me when I get rejected that's the best part about being a guy, but we respect the hell out of you for doing it. Rejection stories are the best, literally elevates your status in your social group compared to the dude that doesn't try at all. Just practice and watch what your more successful friends do and mimic that.
/r/seduction27/08/20 05:34 AM
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the first step that a lot of guys on reddit wont do is make friends with people that like going out. These are socially successful dudes. If you dont have any friends that are guys, dont even think about dating women right now, work on making friends. the second step is putting yourself out there and going out as often as you can. Getting women is a numbers game, have your friends as your support group. We all get rejected, including the good looking guys. Thats its. Focus on those two things, t…
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:30 AM
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Bro I am saying this with as nice of a tone as the internet will allow: the red flag is you right now. This is an overly needy post. You dont seem to be comfortable enough in yourself to be interesting enough to any girl. Making mistakes is part of the process. Women want someone that is confident enough to challenge them and agree with them on things they actually mutually agree with. The guys that want an instruction manuals to please their woman forever is not going to work.
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:01 AM
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youre right. I was talking to a girl at the club she rejected me when I smiled and asked her to dance. Gave me the good ol' "I have a boyfriend" schpeel. I met her two weeks later with a friend, got a chance to flirt with her, she was wayyy more responsive and I called her out on checking me out lol. You just have to be the bare minimum attractive for the woman in question and be playfully persistent, not desperately so. The better looking you are the less work you need to put in, however its ir…
/r/seduction27/08/20 02:49 AM
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You got to make an effort, it's the number one thing people complain about but don't do. Don't like volunteering? Join a sports league in your city or a pickup game. Check Facebook groups for this and/or find your hobby of choice then try it out. Make time for making friends, it's a part time job. Be comfortable inviting people over to do things with you or check out an event or bar or club or restaurant that's open. Feeling depressed and socially anxious? See a therapist or psychiatrist. These …
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:47 AM
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You're creating a narrative that's not there. Hopefully I can clear this up. I like flirting. I sometimes roast girls that roast me. It's all in good fun. Some see it as work, i don't, I enjoy the game. End of story, if anyone wants to misconstrue the verbage you and everyone else are free to do so, I don't care to respond to this anymore.
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:58 AM
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Or it's just fun? Your looking too deep into it.
/r/seduction18/08/20 05:59 AM
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That's one way to go about it. Or you could roast her in such a way she could never shit test you again. Not insult her but tease her in such a way that puts the audacity of her shit test back on her. It's easier with women you don't really care about. Tone and delivery is everything here. You maintain social proof that way too
/r/seduction18/08/20 05:40 AM
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Drink until you feel like dancing. Start dancing. Make eye contact with woman and smile. If they respond favorably, approach. Then say hey wassup. Grab their hand dance with them. When the song stops lead them to the bar and buy them a drink. Then flirt and do your thing.
/r/seduction16/08/20 01:01 PM
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Depends on what youre going for dates or hookups? Dates: Genuinely smile like you are enjoying yourself doing an activity(playing a team sport, riding a scooter, sitting on a bench). Show off your fashion sense and haircuts, you want to look clean. Have at least one picture of you looking directly in the camera and smiling(easy one is eating at a restaurant across from somebody taking a photo of you). Don't pose for shots unless it's a group pic. Your pictures should show women what to expect da…
/r/seduction16/08/20 12:31 AM
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Dude I was like you a couple years ago and in some aspects I would be lieing if I said it didn't bother me a little when I'm in a slump and other guys are getting it done with women but you have to realize almost every guy feels like this at some point of time to varying degrees. One big thing that helped change me is instead of hating on the dudes that are getting with women, make it your goal to befriend them. This single handedly changed my life. My best friend thought I was a weirdo at first…
/r/seduction15/08/20 07:21 PM
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I've been in this position when. I was new to flirting. I was either too nice or over bearing on the teasing and I'd come off too strong. Really it's just getting comfortable on how you feel rather than what you think is some formula to flirting It takes practice. Start by challenging their beliefs and playing devil's advocate. Make interesting observations, TRY being playful to the point where you'd tell yourself if she gets offended by this I don't even want to be around this person they can't…
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:53 PM
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