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| 1 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?Women message first but dont carry their part of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:27 PM |
| 6 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?Man i looked horrid as a 13 year old. Voice crack. Awkward. Short. It was a bad time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDWell bro. Lemme answer your question. It wasn't like this ten years ago when I was in college or high school. Hell, it wasn't even like this five years ago. Growing up, just about every guy I knew who wanted a girlfriend had one. I don't know when or how this changed A lot actually. https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim See that article. You see the graphs? Male sexlessness rose in 2008 and kept rising. What happened in 2008? Thats right the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:35 AM |
| 3 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?Cough cough Alan Turing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.Ouch. Bad experience? Hope things are well for you now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?Society doesn’t condemn traditional masculinity. Once again, this is a misunderstanding. Masculinity is not the same thing as toxic masculinity. Opponents of feminism try to paint feminists as arguing that all masculinity is toxic masculinity. That 100% isn’t what they’re saying. I forgot to answer this. Society hates toxic masculinity. But upholds the standards that produce it. We say oh dont harass women but still require all men to make firsy move. We say dont rape but require men to get sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Romantic relationships with women are exhausting.Also for the fact that women dont try. Because men are expected to be socially dominant(that means be able to guide and influence the relationship) women dont do shit. Thats why whenever a breakup happens people ask the guy what did he do. Guys plan and pay for dates. Guys propose. Guys be her rock. Guys bring flowers abd shower her. Most women dont do jack and just expect their existence to suffice. Guys do most of the work in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?Ok fair enough. My fault. Cut me some slack. I just see it too much as a 19 year old. If i dont fit a narrative im gonna be left behind when it comes to dating. The fact that my earnestness is seen as giving off virgin vibes. But when i take authority in classroom and im am much more sharptounged i get more play. I dont like living up the facade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?Confident is not the same thing as assholeness. An asshole can be confident, but you can be confident without being an asshole. True. But i dont think women like the marshmellow dude. The sweetie pie who grants her flowers. No hes gotta have a backbone and not a spineless simp. A dominator. Women like men with social dominance. That is the ability to guide and control enviornments and situations. Such as planning dates and being an authority. What I’m saying is that while the TRP way can work, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?Bro you kinda prove the incel afbb theory. Why wpuld anyone want to be the second choice? This isnt a compliment "Oh i liked agressive dominant thrilling men. But thats in the past now. Now i want someone safe. Smart. Collected. Nice guy" I would be livid. Why am i last choice. Should i start shooting banks. Or lemme start selling weed. Maybe punch a girl. Or lemme do real life gta and speeding.The fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?A lot of people are incels and redpillers here. Its not an insult. The point of this sub is discussion and engagement. Because our media has done a shit job at discussing it thouroughly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?Aka: Being a bad boy works amazing for casual hookups/short term relationships, but fall off when women want something more serious. So the incels claim about afbb is true? Damn. I dont wanna be the second choice. The leftovers after she had all her fun? Fuck no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed?Not being asked out by anyone in your 20s breaks your psyche, now imagine that you are a woman and all you had to do was exist. Welcome to manhood. It maked you feel unwanted right? Like no1 gives a fuck about you. If i wait on someone to ask me out i can kiss my dating life goodbye. These womem could take initiative. When some men here talk like you, like you're talking right now in this comment, I understand the sentiment and I already know the gold answer, "just lower your standards". Nah. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realIts like this woman never had a random boner in class due to stress(elevated heart rate). Or got a jump scare and had a boner. Do i get rock hard for seeing people slice open teen girls? No. Guys are complex beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 0 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Im 19 and i can tell the difference between 15 yo girls and girls my age. I've never said male sexuality is unusual or unnatural, I've said it's fundamentally predatory. I dont like this framing. This just like condemns men to even express their sexuality or male sexual advances. Cause man bad riggt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:39 PM |
| – | Men are becoming more and more feminine as a result of changing social normsAlso did you seriouslt just say women not wanting to be raped and abused is contradicotry?. No. I said. Women wanting not bad men but expecting the same gender roles that train guys to be bad is the contradiction. We tell men to be rich and that his worth is based on him providing we cant be suprised men are financial abusers. We tell men to initiate sex we cannot be suprised theres assault. We tell men to bottle shit up we cant be suprised the explode on their spouses or they kill themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:24 AM |
| – | Men are becoming more and more feminine as a result of changing social normsBro you gotta be on drugs. Ok lemme be nice and charitable. But lemme say this. Theres more people mainly in my generation of gen z starting to experiment with different masculinities and gender perception and sexuality. And thats good. But most women still like and enforce male gender roles We like to think that women like feminine and unconventional masculine men. Thats not true. Women are the ones who want men to approach them and pay for dates and be richer and know what hes doing in bed and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed?I wish we’d stop perpetuating the myth that any woman can find anybody. It’s simply not true. In an age of decreasing marriage and sexless men, by logic there is a strong ratio of women going through the same. I mean but sexlessness isnt on a sharp increase as it is for men. Sexlessness in women hasnt really wavered. Its stayed mostly the same since 2008. While for men its stayed on the rise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed?All women are having sex. While women can get sex easily cause men will date and fuck anything with boobs. That doesnt mean women are as casual as men. I made a post a while back that most womens casual sex come from fwb or friends or people she knows. Not randos at a bar orat a gas station. It may be more complicated for men, I'll never deny it, but it doesn't mean that the dating world is easier for women because...they're women I mean.... I bet most women can find any dude of their liking. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 0 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.Truth. For me the issue is not attracting women. But trying to get them off tinder and have more conversations. But because they have like 200k matches they dont have to invest in each guys conversation. Like i invest in every conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.Ah ofc. Its always your fault if you are ghosted. Women have a shit ton of options. They will boot you off for minor infractions. Sometimes they just got too busy or have better men they want. We cant pretend that women are these angelic rational beings. They are crusty ego people. Because they are people. Sometimes womem ghost cause they are shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.That being said, if your experience is what leads you to believe that every part of America needs to fall (institutionally speaking), then in my opinion your own behavior and culture you subscribe to should be audited with a fine tooth comb. Hahha. I can read dog whistles. Just say. Black people are stupid baboons and its karma and the natural way that we suffer. Lol. My culture has issues. Like every. But to assume culture is the reason of failure is a non structured way of looking at life. Exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.Regardless of all of that, I still don’t see your point in response to mine. I originally argued that if you think NOTHING is worth conserving in America that I don’t find you intelligent or experienced whatsoever, then you went on a rant that had nothing to do with what I said. Well. Institutionally. No. Government robs me of taxes. Does jack shit with it but fight brown people i have no hate against. Sicks cops on its own people. Wealth inequality os worse than napoleon. Shit. Aint shit worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.Replying to your other statement in that comment that got deleted for making up your own rule lol You really got big brother on me lol. So you’re arguing that every college based study that shows colleges are the most leftist institutions are arguing that colleges are communist? That’s the only way I can read what you’re writing Im saying that liberal and leftist are very different. And if you said they are liberal then i wouldnt disagree with you. https://www.aei.org/articles/are-colleges-and-u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.There are literally dozens of studies that show how left leaning the education system is. It’s pretty much the most left leaning institution in America. Left leaning socially but dont misuse the word leftist it means comminist. Marxist. Barely anyones a marxist of that institution. You gotta have a mental illness to believe that. Go to an economics or buisness class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.Those are not platitudes, they’re core values. Whether or not a leftist would agree with a core value like peace through strength or others does not mean they’re meaningless values or platitudes. You can pretty much call any core value a platitude at this point in time, you’d just be wrong in doing so. Thats not an optimal way to measure and ideology. One dipshit can call himself a conservative and not believe in those values. When i say platitude i mean its vague. It cannot be analyzed. However… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.Conservative values include peace through strength, fiscal responsibility, individual freedom, and human dignity. A lot of those values line up with TRP. These are platitudes. I could say the left believes in peace and freedom but its all vague bullshit. What conservativism is maintainence of the status quo. In my moms country haiti. The status quo is neoliberalism, sexism, antiblackness, anti voodoo, gender norms and homophobia. Also mass religiosoty woth Catholicism. A belief or a maintenance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.Id disagree. Conservatism is uphold of the status quo. If the status quo is sexism neoliberal capitalism racism and rigid gender norms. Then its assumed that conservatism stands for that. https://youtu.be/agzNANfNlTs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | As a man who leans into red pill I don’t know why RP has so many radical conservatives.I’ve noticed that when I watch a lot of the RP commentators they all seem to lean heavily into the right. Its ok. Just say neo nazi. Its easier. Trust me. With some people talking about great replacement theories or yellow fever and all that shit. Its fucking scary. Ima get downvoted for this im sure ot it. They speak ignorantly on social issues and mental health. I agree with a lot (certainly not all) of the RP community but it pains me to see such political ignorance coming from people preachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineThey are far more picky and uncompromising than at any point in history Maybe. I hear women say the bar is on the ground. Or that thebare minimum is applauded. So who knows. The bar keeps getting higher, and it is because there aren't too many hardships living in a 1st world country. No massive wars, no famines, no roaming bands of brigands to raid and plunder cities, etc.. Id have to disagree to a dehree. Gangs exist. Masd poverty. Debt traps by corporations anf banks and institutions etc. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?Lol. Do you know how sexualized lesbians are? Or bi women as viable options dor mff threesomes? Ofc thats an issue that gay womens relationships are sexualized. But it doesnt make them less women. There's also a big difference between femininity and womanhood, you seem to be conflating the two. No there isnt. The hell? Femininity is how you present yourself or your societal perception. Womanhood is the state of beint a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think your parents would ever have paired up in the context of the modern day dating market?Nah brother thats fair. I live in a densly populated state. Nj nyc and Philly. So meeting people aint too hard. And i doubt all women at parties are taken. Women will use that to shoo men away. Now are there actual taken women? Yeah ofc. Am i sayiny to pressure het and ignore her no? No. What im sayiny is that your approach is probably wrong. This is why its important to learn game. Or what we in academics call social calibration. Thats the ability to see different situations and adapt to them. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?Well the standards are. Be rich or have money. Be heterosexual. Have huge body counts. Be socially dominant. Sexually dominant. Stoic. This is something that not all men can be. So its very rigid. Masculinity varies from culture. But our conception if masculinity is a very western bourgeois ideal. Because im society masculinity is power. In native societies like navajo or inuk etc. Masculinity is very different. Before european colonization their religion is very belief in womem and matriarchal.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?I think femininity is on a spectrum. Women are free to choose how to presebt and identify and not have their feminity compromised. For example a woman being gay or bi does not make her less woman in the eyes of society. Masculinity is rigid. You are either a man or not. How is it determained? By doing and adhering to rigid standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineThank you. All these red pillers are crucifying me. I got feminists on one side saying that women dont believe in male hierarchy which is bullshit. And i got red pillers saying the way we structure society isnt causing social issues. Its only womens fault. How did i piss off both sides? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineThat is a common redpill argument. You cannot disregard the fact that boys are falling behind in education the last decades. Those boys have to compete against gender quotas even if they manage to get a high degree despite massive female centered funding. And despite that women want a man according to standards from 50 years ago. I agree. The red pill has some merit in acessing mens issues because they are men. But the solutions and conclusions i believe are problematic. agree with the standard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineNot true man you got it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineIght bro. It moghtve come off like that. But i was trying to connect to women as well. It was to challeneg whether women should keep up these standards that are slowly becoming unachievable. The point is that men are suffering. And lonliness is caused inherently by the male hierarchy itself. Men are slowly price gouged from dating. I never said it was mens fault. Is it mens fault for being killed or commiting suicide or not having jobs or a degree? No these are social issues man. I hope i cleare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 0 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineI am not a redpiller. Thats first. I think their ideology is very very flawed. Women don’t follow male hierarchies. Those are created by you and for you. Women are, for the most part, selfish. Because that’s what we have to be in order to have children. Women seek the partner who is most compatible to HER. How do they determaine what dude is a good dude? Thats right wealth. Dominance. The male hierarchy. So what does hierarchy have to do with this? Is a higher-status man jumping between you and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineThe have improved compared to 2008. They really havent. The minimum wage was raised in 2009. And the fight for 15 was fighting for so long that 15 is no longer high enough for a minimum wage. Real wages(that is the amount of money you make relative to prices have stagnated). While wages rise like 2 cents every couple odd years. That doesnt matter. What our money can buy is nothing due to the productivity. We produce more goods faster. Which means we have huge abundance. But wages are not keeping… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineOk your assessment is fair. Remember im only a dude with a dude perspective so its nice having beliefs challenged. that all women seek the “top man” and not the man who is most compatible/likeable to/invested in her. Most women do not want the top man, and they don’t end up in a relationship/marrying the top man. That’s just a teenage fantasy. Look. I dont subscribe to pareto. Thats the 80/20 rule. I made a post on like some sub debunking that pareto is bullshit. Women dont seek christian grey. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineWhy do you think standards of masculinity are not obtainable by men, in this day and age? (Not trying to be confrontational, just genuinely curious as to the male perspective on this) Sure. I gotchu. We still require the same of men as we used to. Be provider. Be sexually dominant. Be socially dominant. Be exceptional. The economy is in decline. The 80s saw our jobs be exported to the 3rd world. 2008 made us lose jobs and college degrees and homes. Me too has demonized traditional male gender no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineWhy do you think standards of masculinity are not obtainable by men, in this day and age? (Not trying to be confrontational, just genuinely curious as to the male perspective on this) Sure. I gotchu. We still require the same of men as we used to. Be provider. Be sexually dominant. Be socially dominant. Be exceptional. The economy is in decline. The 80s saw our jobs be exported to the 3rd world. 2008 made us lose jobs and college degrees and homes. Me too has demonized traditional male gender no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineIve seen men talk about how they were holding the relationship. Theyvwere doing the heavy lifting. Women are shit at reciprocation. Its sad. So when i say women uphold male gender norms. They uphold it. Its not so much you have loads of money but that you drive the relationship forward. Women dont do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineIt's a mixture of both of these, among other things. I agree. Women still believe in trad men. Despite them not being trad. Im not a fan of trad btw. But less and less men are abl3 to move up the male hierarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineLike I said, social media and OLD. Men wanting to fuck most women is how male sexuality naturally works. The introduction of social media and OLD just unbalanced the SMP by providing women with constant access to thousands of men, from the comfort of their toilets. Location, timing and exposure stopped being limiting factors for women. This is HUGE for the female sexual imperative. Ok thats a fair assessment. That makes sense. Just by the sheer dynamic of men wanting to bag tons og women(i think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineWomen are flexible. And their standards are not set in stone. Look at the okcupid study. We are ugly to mist women. But that's because women like connection and charisma and shit like that. So you could theoretically become more attractive just by spitting game. I've seen dudes breaking up because they did not have a degree but their girlfriend had one. Well yeah. Masculinity is a hierarchy. And many dudes internalize that they are not good enough. We believe that in order for dating to work we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineYou got me wrong miss. Im not justifying red pill ideology. Thats the whole point of my post. Red pillers are men and experience the exact issues men face under a late stage capitalist post me too society. The standards of masculinity are not obtainable anymore or they never were. Having a great amount of money and superior looks, despite your seething hate for women, might get you the portion of the female population that fits into the hypergamy model. They don’t care. I dont hate women. I used… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineYour economic rank plays a huge part in whether you bag girls. Dont be stupid. Women like stability and providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineOuch. Thats fucking rough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?Jesus. So am i doomed? Or should i jist get to know women more. This looks very doomer for dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?You say women have no empathy for men. Is this innate? Do girls not have empathy for boys and men? Are they disgusted when a boy in their class cries, instead of concerned? Because if that was your experience of school, you and I went to school with very different children. And if girls are born with empathy for the opposite sex, when do they lose it? Now im not a redpiller. Look at my post history. But i do think women are raised ti see men as the same way men are raised to be. If men are told … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Do you think your parents would ever have paired up in the context of the modern day dating market?Dating apps are 80% men/20% women. Ok dude. More like 60/40 or 70/30. Meanwhile in the real world couples are meeting in real life like they always did. This is why my only advice for men is to get off tinder and talk to some women. Tinder doesnt work. You gotta do shit and start living life. People use tinder as a crutch not to talk to women and it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineI'm in my late 40s so I remember what it was like before internet dating. As a zoomer. Was it easier. You say late 40s so ik guessing you started dating in like the 90s or 80s. Was it better. Easier? Pre me too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineBro... Ok i dont wanna fob you off. I wanna talk in good faith. Male sexlessness is on the rise because of social media and OLD over inflating women's standards. Who gives women these value? We do. Men inflate womens ego by giving any woman the time of day. This causes women to never have to be self reflection and instead use dudes as ego boosts and wonder why her relationships suck. The economy had recovered compared to 2008 and not only did sexlessness rates not stop or even slow down in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:19 AM |
| -1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineThey have. Its why i said women will date womem of higher or same level as themselves. If a woman is a peasant shes most likely gonna date a peasant. But we dont live in feudalism. Your economic standing is not determained by birthright like kings but by how much capital. Now ofc the nobles of france coopted industries when capitalism happened and industrialization was built off slavery and killed merchant capitalism and left monopoly. Its more meritocratic than feudalism. But its a a hierarchy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineIts more pronounced in men. Women just need to exist and she can find some sad sack to fuck her. Guys have to be on a certain level to be seen as viable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Oh im terribly sorry. I got american dum dum brain. Excuse me. Very sorry. I forget not everyone on the internet is american. I deserve the downvotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Do you believe Men and Woman experience causal sex differently from an emotional level?This. This is it. I wrote in a post that the way we train men for casual sex is diametrically opposed to womens wants. So many men fail to be chad when they gotta be the sweetheart and connect and be her friend sexually if theu wanna be casual. Guys do want relationships. But they are allergic to commitment as men are told to stack a body count to prove themselves. And men cant do that if they are in a committed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:42 AM |
| 10 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.Ahaha aint this facts miss. Lemme let you in on a secret. Dudes do like romance. They want relationships. But they fear commitment because we are told the more womej you bang the more manly you are. And if you are in a relationship. You cant bang more women. We are at odds with ourselves cause we always gotta prove our gender. Men have massive gender dysphoria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.Well i also wanna give some perspective. Moat dudes want to be gigachad. Have lots of sex with women. Since womem rack up bodies like a motherfucker. Kinda. Not really. Men are emasculated. Our masculinitu is tied to whether we can pull women. Also because women judge dudes hard for not pleasuring her. If a girl is shit at sex no1 really holds it against her. But because women are so sexually passive and we gotta know how to pleade her off the bat it puts pressure on dudes and shes comparing you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating.Yeah. Like i reccomend dudes just go talk to some women. It is equivalent to touching grass. Dont do the online dating. Dont think too hard about some shit. Talk to people and you actually start building a life that will attract people. Ofc im a 19 yo man whos still building a social circle to have friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:27 AM |
| 7 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.No i feel you. I dont olay games every wking hour. But remember we live in an era where men have social anxiety and have regressed. Guys no longer just go out and talk to women. Guys have no plan. They have no purpose or jobs. Men are dropping out of society. And we can just say. "Lol lazy motherfucking men. Go do something important." Not a shred of nuance. Like for men. Theres a less drive for college cause its expensive. Guys are broke. Guys have lost industrial jobs. That comfy life of men b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:21 AM |
| -1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.In my experience, women way overestimate how interesting they are. Perhaps. A lot do give of manic pixie dream girl. Id think most dudes think they are on an anime protagonist arc. Women will say they are into politics but that typically means they support Bernie and are pro choice. Do they know about the Warsaw Pact? What about the geopolitical dance in the South China Sea? Are they aware of Taiwan’s importance in the semiconductor industry? Do they know how important that industry is to our fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:10 AM |
| 8 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I’ve seen some guys who do nothing but go to wake up, college, come back home to play video games and sleep. Then they will repeat this cycle everyday for years. Yeah. Sounds about right. Guys are not too complex or zooted on many things. But i want to tell you something. Guys game for the social aspect. They are actually hanging out with friends. Making memoriee and stregnthening bonds. Most dudes play for socializing. Like sports. Rarely anyone plays alone. I used to play pokemon cards. Now i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:56 AM |
| 19 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I’m not saying it’s a good way to live, but the less attractive you are physically, the better you have to be in every other aspect. Truth. Dudes who are not the convention gotta work harder and achieve more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"Men have zero legal right to decide anything wether to abort or not, so I don’t get your point. My position on abortion is a unique one as I see it as just a very arbitrary thing. At some point between conception and birth “the baby” switches from being a part of a woman’s body to being its own person. Nature did not draw a line between body part and being, so it’s really a very arbitrary debate. I believe women should have control over their own bodies, but this doesn’t address the fundamental … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?Well we as men are told to get fit. Like no1 coddles us if we are fat. Thats reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Simps and online sex work have no effect on dating. So why care?Omg bro. This is so true. When i was on tinder women would leave their @ in their bio. I would follow them and try to get closer to them but its a no go. Because women go on tinder to build their social clout. I was giving these women free clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itYeah. Like this is a fact. I dont think men are evil but raised to horrible at love emotions and expressing feelings of sadness and regret. To create loving men, we must love males. Loving maleness is different from praising and rewarding males for living up to sexist-defined notions of male identity. Caring about men because of what they do for us is not the same as loving males for simply being. When we love maleness, we extend our love whether males are performing or not. Performance is diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.No. All that info is to dump and show you that marxists dont brush off the dprk or china or ussr as not socialism. We velieve that socialism will have issues too. Democratic socialists and social democrats believe the propaganda and will condemn and steer away from socialist countries due to fear and red scare. These types of leftists have a name. Left wing anticommunists. https://www.marxists.org/archive/lenin/works/1920/lwc/ They are anti communist anf have vague platitudes of democracy and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.The thing is people dont have good definitions of marxism. Conservatives will say anything is Marxism. You can apply marx to race and gender. The black panthers did so. And thats valid. But that doesnt mean feminists and blm are marxists. Because black panthers used economics as a meand of understanding their own oppression. Why, huey newton analyzed that the police presence in black communities is almost the same as the imperialism that america does abroad. Cops protect private property and enf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Incels are right about the male sexlessness rise. But not for the reasons they espouseDamn. Ight then. I cant replace the word incel for red pill as i use it interchangeably as they frankly encapsulate most of the manosphere. Like i said. You think that incels and mgtow and pua are not connected you are mistaken. No slight against you. But i understand the philosophy you guys have. You dont wanna be booted like the red pill subs as a means of promoting that shit. My post isnt about black pill but inceldom. Incels are a huge part of the red pill. I just assumed that since this is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.You said that Marxism goes against its scope. Marxism is a methodology of studying history. Its an economic theory. And its a philosophy. Its a social science that cam be applied to anything. Like feminism. That doesnt mean every critique of society is marxist. That red scare propaganda is ingrained in your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.If ima be real. High body count on dudes is kinda impressive. Its hard to have sex or court women. All sorts of things you gotta be and do and compete and shit. But as ive been talking to women many have said "did those men get those bodies in unscrupulpus ways? Many dudes have no qualms pretending to like her to then pump and dump. Many dudes push boundaries without even knowing it". So i guess thats opened my eyes a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Marxiwm is a philosophy. You can apply it to history politics and sociology. Just like you can apply any modernist thought such as feminism or impressionism. They are ways of analyzing society. In fact sociology predates Marxism. Sociology is yhe analysis of social issues. You conservative mooks never astound me. Go to college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Incels are right about the male sexlessness rise. But not for the reasons they espouseWell this is a sub where the red pill and others debate each other. This is exactly my point. The fear we have of even analyzing them does us a disservice. I think it could be an interesting discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Who are they? Thats the issue with this argument. Who are these cultural marxists? Is it anti racists? The feminsts? Ita kinda convenient to just lump the entire left as a monolith. Makes it easy to tout as an enemy right? The feminists are marxists the blm are marxists the LGBT are marxists. And du3 to red scare its comveinent for conservatives to hate them. Most modernist thought is a framing of power struggle. Post modernism is critical of marxism ane structuralism. Its too convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Incels are right about the male sexlessness rise. But not for the reasons they espouseGodamn. Should i replace the words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Who are the they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Lol. Marx is an economist. Most of modernist thought goes through a duality of power structure. Man and woman is feminist thought. White and black is race theory. They can interesect with marxism but they are mot marxist. Take sociologys structuralism theory https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Structuralism Basically structures of our society are influenced by culture and tradition and norms. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Structural_functionalism The insititutions of our society are guided by our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 4 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"Bro do i have something to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"40 percent. That meand 60 percent over earn women. Remember women do touch grass. They are flexible. But still want trad male roles. Which is annoyiny as a dude who hates it but eh. Nothing i can do. wives. They won’t date down to the level of male psyche that’s on this sub, true. No one would. Yeah. Its wild. There is not a shred of nuance. Its kinda feminists vs red pillers. Im suprised women dont get triggered by the blatant contempt for women here. Thats like me going to a white supremacist … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you think “the wall” looks like for women over 30? Have you actually seen evidence of the wall? My thoughts are the wall for women is more myth than reality. Agree or disagree?Well i just made a post about this. I dont think the wall exists. Not really. Older educated women are lonlier. But its actually interesting as to why. For starters. Men dont go to college or get educated. Many young men go to jail. Commit suicide or are murdered. So you have the men that do exist are drug dealers or have low salaries. And many educated men are wifed up. Women still like men of same or higher economic status than them. But men are dropping out of society. And our economy is decl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What do you think “the wall” looks like for women over 30? Have you actually seen evidence of the wall? My thoughts are the wall for women is more myth than reality. Agree or disagree?Well i just made a post about this. I dont think the wall exists. Not really. Older educated women are lonlier. But its actually interesting as to why. For starters. Men dont go to college or get educated. Many young men go to jail. Commit suicide or are murdered. So you have the men that do exist are drug dealers or have low salaries. And many educated men are wifed up. Women still like men of same or higher economic status than them. But men are dropping out of society. And our economy is decl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Lol is this the cultural Marxism? How is inclusion and diversity marxist? Marxism is an economic and philisophical thought about class society. Marxism is merely the critique of capitalism and that the belief that class struggles drive society forward. Political correctness may have issues. Theres a critique to be made. But its not marxist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 7 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"Well... For one you are right. Women today are moving up faster than men. Men are dropping out of society. But being independent does not mean women domt seek men of same economic level or higher as them. Theres a running gag that women have a hard time dating after graduating because theres no more men left who made it. Men dont go to college or graduate. Or they get locked up or they die. Either by suicide or murder. But women wont date down. Thats a fact. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"It really is. You got men groping women coworkers and getting away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:39 AM |
| 11 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"Lol. This is bad. Ill break it down bit by bit. think we could all agree that in first world countries in the west, women have the same legal rights as men. No. We dont agree. Southern and red states are destroying abortion rights. Rape is not dealt with well. 90% of businesses aren't treating women any differently than men either and the ones that are are failing financially. so therefore there's no such thing as a patriarchy in the west anymore. that ended in the 80's at latest. Thing is you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell?Women do approach men they just typically approach if the man is very attractive or he outwardly has signs that he’s really her type. If you want women to approach you be the type of man that women who approach would want to approach.There’s a lot of couples that have formed because the woman approached the guy first. Read the anecdotes from those couples, observe them and see what kind of guys are getting approached and if you can replicate what those guys are doing. Do it. Ive been approached.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsBro. No stop it. If you are a pothead you are a druggie. These political euphemisms bother me. Weed is a drug. Have a nice day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:44 AM |
| 3 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itWell..... Look at the study closer. What are the reasons for divorcing. Poor communication. Something men are shit at because we are stoic and do not waver. Plus the violence. Infidelity. And lastly unequal domestic labor which holds women back career wise. https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/ We act as if women divorce men fir no reason. Im not saying man bad. But... Men still doing the traditional masculinity makes men not good spouses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.19 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell?When men say this all it tells me is they are either A) unable to attract the women that do this or B) not attracted to the women that do that and they instead want the women they are attracted to to behave that way. Women dont approach men. Thats point blank period. This doeent mean men are ugly or unattractive its that women are passive daters. For b i dont know what chucklehead would turn down a gutsy woman. There are women out there that pay 50-100% of the dates and bills. They make the firs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.This is what my post is about. We train guys to stack a body count. He cant stack a body count of hes in a relationship. So women lose. And men lose out on fruitful relationships with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Thats also true. You must be a persona and put up a facade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.thing. But you can clearly turn the first meetup into a hookup easily and both will know it is a onenigher. Social intelligence > Manipulation and lying You are right that shield is very very true. Womens friends act as a shield. Women being very passive daters is also that shield. If you have game. That allows you to escalate the date. Women like sex. They are just passive daters that dont make any moves. Which is why i tell womem stop waiting for the man just do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Yeah seems about right. Because men are taught that you gotta stack a body count high and fast. And so they will say and do anything to get women. Its sad. Heres the other side. I wad talking with a group of guys and this dude was catching feelings with this fwb. And he really liked her but he didnt want to commit because if he commited he couldnt stack hus count. These dudes will be doing relationship things with women. Miss these women and not commit because we tell them commiting is for pussi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Yeah women are ogled by men for just being women. You can be plain or fat or nerdy. Men do not care. Standards are so low. Like we give attention to almost anyone. And so you got women with inflated egos and never had to self reflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Again, men view whoring around as a man as impressive, women less so, to us it's a red flag. Eh....... Really. Idk. I think women love the dude that os well liked. That gets a ton of girls. I may be wrong. There is no 'masculinity' or 'leadership' shown in being a degenerate whore who can't control himself, it shows lack of self control which would be the opposite of masculine. I have no idea where you even got this idea from? Could it be that you think men who sleep around are masculine so you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell?Ight. You are right. After all im gen z. The 003 in my user stands for 2003. So there are more dudes playing around with unconventional masculine things. But that doesnt really matter. Why? Cause when it comes to datinf and gender roles most women expect men to pay for them or make first move and know how to fuck and coddle her. Women still like that traditional man. They just wish they didnt get their jaw rocked by them or getting raped by them. Even though the rigid masculine standards we plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Just cause women are offered sex 24 7 doesnt mean they go for it. I am like most dudes. I thought women were getting their back blown by most dudes. They really arent. They dont have casual sex like men do. Its very rare. Only certain types of women will stack a body that huge im a short time. I tried to show the data and some dudes are still saying im wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Hey bro. You and me both. I dont get it. But thats why most womens casual sex is with friends with benefits. Or consistent partners. They got a whole arsenal of men they are seeing. Women got mini relationships. So maybe we as men are going about pickup all wrong. Trying to get random women is a recipe for failure. And pua has very low success rates. Say for you go out every day and pickup 14 women a week. Thats 2 a day. And only 2 led to sex. Thats a 14 percent success rate. And thats if you ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Haha nice. He doesn't have to go that far just join the cia. They got body counts in the millions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.All they do they is get down and drunk and take anti-depressants, just as much as liberal women. The whole main difference is that the the conservative women aren't uptight about guns, they like tailgates, bonfires, honkytonks if you're down south. Hah. True. I say libertarians because libertarians are socially progressive to a degree. They are just greedy capitalist bastards who hate authority. Conservatives are greedy bastards economically but they are not socially progressive. Which means bre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Single womem do ons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Yeah. I think pickup has its strengths. Lemme highlight them. In our society men are told to make first move. Women are told to be passive daters. Women dont go for men they want. They wait. This structure has caused an inevitability. If men want women he needs to talk to a lot as women will never approach him. So women get sexually harassed and approached more. Wanted or unwanted. So this has created 2 kinds of men. First kind is the wall hugger. They hug walls at the club. These men fear inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Hey sorry im late. Reddit banned me and sent me to the gulag. But im back. You are so right. Brother. Lemme tell u bout my experience. Now im not ugly but im a sold 7. Im ocky. I wore a suit. My bio was a pun on my name and an invitation of fun. I had money so i was williny to go fun places. And i got 15 matches in 1 month. Out of those 15. 5 didnt answer my beautiful opener. 2 answered and were dry and ghosted. 5 made it onto snap. And of those 5 on snap only 1 made it to a date. And she was dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Id have to disagree. Certain types of women have ons. They are ballsy and have no qualms. But its very rare. Thats why you go to like a bar. Places where these types of women go to. But you gotta have social calibration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Thanks man. This boosted my confidence. Im crushing on this girl in my grade and this jr but these women got loads of options. I feel like im bested. Im getting back im shape and im trying to expand my social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.By training i mean raising. Our media and our friends and our fathers and shit tell men that the amount of women you bang makes you more manly. If a man ties down with one woman he cant stack a higher body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.and it's definitely not run for males if you look at suicide rates and the spread of poverty and homelessness across the sexes. and those are just surface level examples. You make a good point. Heres how i describe patriarchy. I wish feminists would structure it this way. But we know masculinity is a hierarchy right? Incels and red pillers know this. Alpha beta sigma etc. I wouldnt rank it like that but men know theres a hierarchy of men. Like just look at the chad and virgin memes. So patriarch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Ok hey sorry. I was banned off reddit. But ima answer u back. Lets break this down. Men are not gettinf married for being broke. Less men enter college. Means men are not same economic level as women. Women only date up so women have price gouged many men. Men in relationships have too much to lose to get married(like you said). Theres a high chance of divorce. Mainly cause dudes are not very good lovers to be frank. Cant express themselves and they got chip on their shoulders. By mid 20s guys a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is Dr. Nerdlove a legit source for advice?2 months late but ima answer. Now he is a feminist and is good at taking down misogyny. But in terms of dating advice im split. For one he destroys men. Absolutely crushes them and is very preachy. He acknowledges puas strengths and mens plight. But his advice literally boils down to women differ. Even though he says men as a collective. Yes. Man bad. We know. But the issues men face dating women are real. Women are passive daters and they do believe in male gender norms. How is this any fault o… | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Whats yikes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.I know, this is a sensible topic here in PPD because half of the crowd will scream that women don't like older dudes, yeah well IDK if they like them or not but thing is they are smashing them anyways I feel like we as society dont wanna grapple with the fact that women do like older men because of their achievments. Me at 19 has not achieved shit. But that doesnt mean its all gloom. As a young man you gotta be a confident ball buster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Im late because my account was banned for 3 days. I think thats true. I put in my post that guys treat all women as if they are down to get their cheeks clapped and come off very abrasively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Thats true. Sorry im answering late. My account was banned fir no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell?heres the thing. In our society masculinity is not inherent. It is proven and earned. How do you prove it? By adhering to traditional male gender norms that are rigid there is a hierarchy of men. If you do not fit that narrative you are less man. What are those standards? height, wealth, social dominance, intellect, and having a lot of sex. As you can see its not sex that men truly crave but what it represents. It makes incels seem not so crazy right? These dudes are emasculated by society. Beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 5 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Thats true. Women cant handle being alone. Its quite sad. When feminists say women dont need or want male attention i laugh.(im a feminist as well) because just use my tinder example. But anyway its like you said. They got 3 dudes at the same time. A fwb. Someone they know to a degree. It doesnt have to be like they know your backstory but enough that she knows you wont hack her up and throw her mangled pieces in a river. Women date and fuck the same couple of dudes. Not every dude that comes to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.No. You have misread me. Women arent looking for a boyfriend they are moreso reflexive when it comes to male encounters. they are not jumping at every opertunity. Patience for men is a virtue. In pua we stress trying to lock in the girl and take her home or get a number quick. You gotta build a connection. Women dont work hard to find a man. It comes in abundance for them. So they are very selective and picky. They dont jump at every man so they dont have huge body counts like that. Men want bot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:30 AM |
| 4 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Well like i said. If i said something outta pocket or false its ok to discuss me. Maybe your experience isnt the norm but its a valid one. For one, you said you went to bar and parties. And you are a white attractive average height male. Whos funny. Honestly you are halfway there. Women will have sex with men that connect. I mentioned social calibration. Remember women arent robots so you you approach matters. Reading situations. This shit matters. The type of girl matters. Those who party, twer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:26 AM |
| 4 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Woah. Very shitty and wrong opinion. One go meet libertarians. Go meet blonde plain conservative white women. They get down. Conservatives are freaky bastards. Like conservative kinks are like nuts and i want nothing to do with it. But conservatives apparently do have better sex than liberals and i think we should look at that. Im serious look at libertarians. Secondly that oxytocin part is wrong. Oxytocin levels are hormonal. Women have higher levels than men. But sex doesnt lower that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.I think men do actually want casual sex. heck i do. but my point was to point out why guys are so fixated on sexand why most dating advice for men is how to get sex. People pretend incels are like just hateful bigots(they are) that popped outta nowhere. No. they are emasculated by modern society as most men are. They want to stack a high body count because of what it represents. Status. Masculinity. Why do men fixate on womens body count? because its all about power and purity i believe. This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.It was to be an exaggeration. Max is probably like 5 or 10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:01 AM |
| 3 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.It varies from person to person. What im doing is a trend of data. If you are hot enough and shes drunk enough and you are charismatic enough anything can happen. When i mean casual i mean random you dont know them. Womens casual is different from that definition. And remember certain types of girls will allow men to have sex super early. And only a certain kind of man can attract that kind of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.No thats fair. I do think the amount of bodies women got is greatly exaggerated. Like i thought everyone i know has a body count of like 13 at 19. Because why wouldnt women do so? You get bombarded with random male attention it would be stupid not to indulge in it. You guys do indulge in it. Just not sexually. Hence my tinder example. Women love male attention. They just dont like meeting the men. Its a running meme of guys asking a girl theyve been talking to for 3 months to link. So women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Well. Men not wanting to commit is like i said because sex is tied to masculinity. If you are in a relationship you cannot stack a higher body count. This is reality. Plenty of those men would love to commit. Theres memes about men having sex and taking women out and doing relationship shit and not tie the knot because they want to keep stacking a body. Women dont have sex tied to affirming their gender. So i want you to use this information i got for you and apply it to your life. When you figu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Ok so im not outta pocket right right? So if women are not so eager to fuck the first man we see. Pua pushing men to find sex in casual random settings is a recipe for disaster. And because men are thinking women work like men they do not do what women want. Connection. Unlike what redpillers think women do actually value connection. Even the demon baddies >Easiest way to obtain casual sex is to expand your social circle. When a woman wants sex with no strings attached, that's where she usually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesWell...... This is the weird thing. While women do prefer taller men and high status dudes(dudes on their level or not) they like emotional connection more. Which is why I tell men to not use tinder. Becuase its a recipe for failure. If you want a woman you need to connect with her and bring out charisma and have social calibration(game or being able to read social situations to take things to next level). Tinder is merely picture and a couple of words. Im 5 ft 8 and good looking. But i fail on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesWell. lemme interject here. Women do like top men. When we talk about top men we mean men that fit the traditional masculine mold. Thats the issue i think. Guys are saying one thing and women dont know what the hell men are talking about. Top men can be men who have lots of social calibration(game) is a provider, social domiance(that means men in social situations plan or control shit. For example its why men plan dates. Thats social dominance. Handling expenses is social dominance). Women like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesAnd this lines up with reality. Most casual sexual relationships women have are with men they know. They dont get their back blown out by gigchad on friday at the club. They are not bold like men. They value connection. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/strictly-casual/201408/what-type-casual-sex-are-people-really-having | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesOh wow. I just made a post about this. But in different subs i was downvoted and called incel and banned. But you said exactly what i said. Women dont get their back blown out by chad number 567 on a sunday. Their casual hookups are fwb and mini relationships. So as a dude who has studied PUA and the Game. I see a contradiction. While pua is helpful for getting men to stop hugging walls at the club(because our society still believes in male dating and gender norms but knows that the effects are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Cant use tinder anymore.Also the dudes that do it. No1 should get to the point to pay for sex. At leadt in my opinion. Like its sad. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Cant use tinder anymore.Truth. Too many women are abused and sexually trafficked. But nah. I dont think any sex work is ethical. Before i get socially lynched put down the pitchforks. Hear me out. Most sex work is predicated on womens need for money because womens pay is shit. And sex is scarce for men. So theres a huge power structure economically. And young girls sell their body early as 18 to do it. The conditions that force women into sex work is bad. Plus the fact of that many men are kinda buying cause sex is sca… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Cant use tinder anymore.If what you want out of women is sex, then(this might be controversial) then do you feel shame in seeing a sex worker? You shouldn't. Idk. This might be misogyny in me. But fuck yeah i would have shame in seeing a sex worker. Tf? Who wants to feel like they they are only wanted for money. Or That i couldnt get any girls and no1 would bang me unless i paid someone to. That sounds like such a sad thing. Now ofc you dint have to try the whole pickup aspect of dating and courtship to get her into be… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 04:09 AM |
| -2 | My brother is falling deeper and deeper into Red Pill-type ideology, and I am getting exasperated trying to pull him out of it.Aye. U spat facts. Issue with many men is that feminism broke rules. Theres no structure. Everyone wants trad men. But there are modern women. And everything we know is bad. We are told everything is bad and its true but whats the alternative? Oh you cant cat call. Ok so how do you get girls attention. You cant constantly dm women. Ok how do you get their attention. Dont talk to women on trains or bus stops or gas station. Ok so wheres a good place to talk to them. Dont harass or talk to women a… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | My brother is falling deeper and deeper into Red Pill-type ideology, and I am getting exasperated trying to pull him out of it.Idk man. Seems tricky. For one. I got a really good video that he can watch https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10 Very very goid video. That highlights the very issue with mens dating tips and why men are so lost. In the video he talks about the good of the pua or mgtow or redpill and that it teaches men rules on how to operate socially. But their ideology is trash. So he doesnt come off as like a preachy feminist who says man bad. In fact he highlights this. He was like we know these are baf but no1 is … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I come bearing goods. It gets better. Holy crap, it gets better. Let go of the Red Pill and follow me into the rising sunYeah seems about right Women aren't as complicated as we men think. I mean, they are complicated. But I'd argue we are more complicated. The good news? There's so few men that do all of this that it makes you stick out and you rise to the cream of the crop. I have a hunch that many of these date coaches know the score but they're selling men a lie to kill competition. Let me lead you guys to water. Consider a woman's feelings and turn her heart into mush. She will thank you for it. True to a deg… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend is red pill and childishOh no trust me. The game is not scientific. But it is readonable. Suffice it to say - these methods are great for picking up a very small percentage of women who are usually toxic, abused, unfaithful, or have mental health issues, and the same people would have been receptive to you if you had just had the courage to ask. Neil strauss highlights this in his book the truth. While the game is good for getting women into bed the truth is pick up artistry will lead you to view women as validation bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Cant use tinder anymore.Eh. I guess ur right | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend is red pill and childishWel..... Ok i dont wanna defend the game. Becaude Strauss has already debunked his book with the truth. But the game is very useful for guys who want to start reading on social cues and how to pick up ladies.. An IOI has a basis in reality. IOI means indicator of interest. You find out whether a girl is interested. A smile. Happy vibe. Honestly its helped me with my social anxeity and has made cold approach a lot better i guess. Like i can see when a girl wants to talk. Or is open to communicati… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend is red pill and childishWhy the hell is he red pill if hes got a girlfriend. Him dating u contradicts the entire ideology doesnt it? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoWait. I might be wrong for this but is the cold approach wrong? Is it dead. I used to watch austin dunham before i got tendonitis and gained 20 pounds. But honestly hes a tall attractive buff dude. Why is. Cold approach bad. Maybe hes preying on women minding their buisness. But like in the video some were checking him out. Also, this will sound racist, but what's up with black men being significantly more of the ones who push this bullshit? They don't like to be dehumanized through racism Oh no… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Off my chest.My brother we call that patriarchy. Wait before you call me a screeching feminist i used to groan at this shit too. But patriarchy is the correct word. Its the same system that breeds double binds and that nasty shit you experienced. Lemme break it down. little girls being”ew” about an innocent boy that just wants attention. Thats just kids being little shits and ruthless garbage dumpster fire who i probably wouldve been knocked out if they picked on wrong kids. In other words. Kids being bastar… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Ladies of /exredpill what makes you want to help men leave the Red Pill?Aye. Im late. 2 days late but i wanna piggyback off of you. I agree tenfold bro. Its never about sex itself. Its what it represents. So we know how as a man you are not born a man. You prove it. Ur masculinity is tied to external factors. Domination, wealth, physical prowess, and yes hypersexuality. When women reject men they arent rejecting the person theoretically or philosophically. They are denying his right to masculinity. Sex is currency for man points. We are judged by our ability to get … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Cant use tinder anymore.Eh..... Should you really quote a guy who funded nazis? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do we try to teach that "confidence if everything" ?Roger was actually pretty good looking. He has strong jaw and was 5 ft 10. Issue was that he ws nerdy and an awkward. And he was racist. And was misogynistic | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The fallacy behind "toxic masculinity"Thanks man. Means a lot. I try to be nuanced. But if this sub is anti feminist and treats me like this i will unsub. Like i agree feminist subs are authoritarian and dont like critique. But menslib allows non feminists and dont ban ppl who arent. Ive talked to libs and conservatives alike. We talk about men only there. Thanks man. I appreciate you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:43 PM |
| -1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthFeminism and left wing are not synonyms. That is our issue. Feminism has a lot of ideological issues and prominent voices that are not compatible with our desire for equality. I agree to a degree. Terfs and swerfs are dogshit. And many feminists are glass ceiling feminists who believe in the hierarchy amd just wanna move up it. Heres angela davis critiquing it. https://youtu.be/bzQkVfO9ToQ This is an extremely rare, outwardly left wing discussions space that also allows for criticism of feminism… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:41 PM |
| -1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthSome guys hate MensLib because it's not actually advocating for men's interests. It just tries to get men to submit to feminist ideology. It doesnt. It uses feminist ideology to dissect gender and shit. But not everyone there is feminist. But they will stamp out reactionaries. You use feminism as a boogieman. But you dont know like marxism feminism is complex and has many disciplines. I could reccomend you books but i doubt you want to talk to me in good faith. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:17 PM |
| -2 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthBro. Ur on drugs. And feminism os not about man hate. Bro you gotta be some kind of reactionary. I conceded to the fact that some feminists are. But you wanna paont feminists as boogiemans. Exactly what the alt right does. Read feminist books like angela Davis. Nothing about male hate. Read bell hooks. In fact she is pro man. Masculinity is hierarchical. Because we are told theres one way to be a man. Any deviation is seenas bad. Why are gay men seen as less of men but sporty girls are not. Why … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthSex may be the primary way for most men to connect emotionally with their partner, but it is certainly not the only way. As if men don't have friends as well... We do not tolerate misandry here. Consider yourself on notice. Im saying this as empathetic as possible. And yeah. I wont make tasteless jokes anymore. Guys havw friends but they are not as emotionally driven as womens friends. That is a fact. Im not even ragging on dudes. I know we can fix this. This is the reason men off themselves. Th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthIt was my comment. I was critiquing the role sex plays in masculinity. That sex is kinda used as currency for man points. Its why virgin men are shamed. Sex makes you manlier. I also said that sex is also the only way guys get emotional connection. Sex wont fix inceldom. Incels still see sex as a way of obtaining status. What these men need are connection. Sadly men can only experience connection through sex and thus an endless loop. Seeing sex as a status while at the same time a means to get c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 01:52 AM |
| -4 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthYou think its being coopted? Idk. Guys hate mens lib cause its not reactionary enough. Feminists hate it cause its misogynistic like whaat is going on man. But you say left wing but any mention of feminism makes people have a hate boner. In fact most feminists are chill. Mainly my generation. Gen z. Things are getting better and feminism like Marxism is a constant movement. How can it be left wing if even saying feminism makes ppl cringe. Like im confused? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/21 12:04 AM |
| -4 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthThat is very reductive. How is it reductive. If masculinity is to dominante socially and economically then that sums it up. Is masculinity not rigid and hierarchical? That's like telling men they should hate themselves. Have some compassion. Feminism isnt about hating men tho. Its a philosophy. And we are in 4th wave feminism in which gender itself is veing critiqued and the relations of men and women and how masculinity plays into that. No, that's not OK. That is misandry. And that is why I rem… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/21 11:58 PM |
| -1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthLike i think my comment was.pretty nuanced. And what is up.witu the hate boner for menslib? Like i thouht this was a left wing sub? Menslib dissects masculinity and issues men have. Normally through a feminist lens but not always. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The lack of sex and love is bad for mental healthWoah woah. Who said im against masculinity? Men want sex for natural desires but the iasue ia much complex then just we are animals. There is less a fixation women have with men. In favt the rhetoric women have is that men are useless and that they dont need them. I find that to be bullshit. But womens worth are not tied to their validation of men as much. Not having sex doesnt make a woman less a woman. and of course it's also a pain in the ass when they're shamed for being virgins which makes … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | The fallacy behind "toxic masculinity"Now i have a critique of ur argument. they make a comparison between men and women boys/girls and they see that men on average underachieve in education, commit suicide more and live shorter but since they already have this prejudice that men are privileged and everything is rigged in their favor they think it's just an individual barrier that is causing this phenomenon so they pathologized masculinity and concluded that if boys were more like girls all these problems would be solved. imagine if… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution?I notices u are german. When you said there are progressive and conservative times i was like no there hasnt. Our government has been staunchly right wing and centrist when it comes to progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Thats the issue. No women approach us. If women shot their shot im sure most men wouldnt turn down as we are not picky. In fact most guys think most girls are cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Eh...... Men domt really choose. We have to fight for being looked at. Like take any dating site. Women have so many dms. They just have to choose who they wanna respond to. Its astronomically skewed for women. And ive seen subreddits like femaledatingstrategy shun women from using bumble an app where women message first and guys can feel persued somehow. But bumble is just a small aspect this doest account for all dating apps and gender norms. Women have choice. A decent looking woman could get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Hence why i think the way masculinity is framed is inherently classist. The rich elite shitheads are regarded as true men while we arent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Romance as depicted by media has set more unrealistic expectations in men than in women.Truth. The fact is if i want a girl or validation i need to prove myself. And its one of the reasonsi sometimes hate being a guy. The way masculinity is structured in society is inherently hierarchical. I was not born a man like every man on earth. I have to prove it. And this echoes into dating. Make a decent salary(which is also why masculinity is very classist as a poor man is fucked) be a certain build and dominate over people to meet the hierarchy. We go against other mens throats and need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Well i think womens instas are differe t than men due to just how its built. Women are one of the core driver of culture. Like almost all of capitalism and marketing is how to market to women. Food and health diets and especially social media with all the fashion. Social media is not tryomg to appeal to men. Sexy women are posted and men like the pictures. Its a two way game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Well.. Stats show that less people are getting married. Sor the cultural perception of marrige isnt as favorable. The real answer is most marry for the wrong reasons and get burned out. They married a man they were not attracted to physically but he offered them security and kids. I can see some of that. Like marrying for wrong reasons. But most marriages statwise end due to Infidelity and abuse And because women initiate divorce more it can be infered that men are usually the cause. Most single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Why dont you want stats and surveys man thats proof bro. You do know that these divorces are also coming from middle aged women who married in a different time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Truth. Woke up and spoke facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:55 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Idk about you but small ones are on par with big ones tbh. Flat booty big one. Heck i would even go fir a 6 ft woman despite me being 5 ft 8. Beauty is beauty. Imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:32 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Ahem* no. Its not 5 ft one. It also be the ones who are 4 ft 9 bro. Imagine if me whos 5 ft 8 only wanted 5ft 2 and under. Im excluding 5ft 3 to 5ft 8. Im crippling myself datingwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:27 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Thats like most women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:25 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Not even just shower man. Are you balding? Shave the head completely. Do you not grow full beard if not clean that mess off. Are you wearing good fashion and not bum clothes and cargo shorts? Fix wardrobe. Are you fat? Get fit. A good youtube channel is teachingmensfashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:14 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Sorry ladies we don’t fall for that anymore. Smart. Now im not a mgtow or red pill dude. As i find it toxic but this is mad facts. Men are being duped. They need to understand they have value inherently and they dont have to earn value. They need to know that someone should like them for being them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:11 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.Sorry i gotta chime in. 70 percent of divorces are initated by women. Whats the reason? Infedelity on mens part or abuse. And men cheat more according to some stats. But i agree men are not picky. At least in who they fuck. In which i believe we as men should be picky as to hold themselves to a standard. But this is all an issue on how dating is structured. Women wait while men chase. Rather than both persuing. Women are missing out on chances to get what they want. And many men are being fobbed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?A biological fact. Not a cultural fact. No one denies that things happen in the world. The difference between feminism and biology is why it happens and what the causes are. What is biological about men wearing pants. Not expressing emotion etc. And you can use both feminism and biologu. You think in binaries. I asked you to provide me an example of falsification, and you say "you have to debunk feminism." Do you understand why this problematic? I gave you an example on how feminism is solid. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Then give an example of how you would falsify feminism. Falsifying the theory of gravity would be extremely easy - an object does not behave according to Newton's law of universal gravitation. Please provide some examples of how one would falsify gender roles, or some other feminist theory. Thats the thing theory in social sciences takes a materialistic view on society and adds philosophy. It takes the best of both worlds. I showed you what is visibly seen and tangible. Masculinity is rigid. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?As I said, all you can do is remove the presence of flight or scenarios, but our response to those will always remain the same. Yes. If you are in certain situations. Now ur getting it. Your material conditions will dictate who you become and how you respond. If you grow up in a rich white malibu mansion you are not gonna rob or kill someone thatd ehat ive been trying to say. The vast majority of heavy manual labor was done by men for the last 10,000 years. If you deny that, you are denying hist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Ur right. Sex and sexuality are not socially construct3d. Gender is not 100 percent biological . its more social. Thats all i say. Its arbitrary in the sense that it can be hidden or stripped as gender in our society is proven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?And trans and gay people dont choose to be gay. This offends many people to not accept them becauee it challenges status quo and beliefs. People dont choose to be gay or trans. And societies change. I dont thinl you think its ok for people to own slaves. But back then people did. Slavery was a norm and a social construct. And things change. Thats the issue my guy. The notion that you choose how you feel. What turns you on. What you like. You essentially just said why dont trans people just shut … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Yes, that is exactly why rape happens. This is why women are almost never convicted or arrested for rape. Because they are not compelled by their biological functions. The whole point of my bringing up testosterone was to prove the impact genetics have on differences between the sexes, which is not purely cultural. Holy shit. No women rape. Its more common than you think. That being said yes genes play a factor. But in terms of gender it is all perception No it cannot. A man doesn't become less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism??. The issue is that theres negative responses. Non acceptance is the issue. Thats like if you were to say "how dare black people try to get rights despite knowing how much white people dont want them to. That is a sign of dumbness." You see how dumb that statement sounds? When i say gender is arbitrary i mean that if it takes me to look like a man to be a man not even genitals that means that nothing really makes a gender except for cultural things and perception. Which is arbitrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Race isnt but is a social construct. Nationality is too. Race is used as a way to view people and group them. Much like class. But race is far morecomplex as it has biological factors into it. But Gender on the othet hand has more social factors than biological factors to it. This is literally your logic using the words you previously typed. I won’t respond anymore in fear of losing too many braincells trying to communicate with you. Go ahead. I think youve drank some cyanide and blewch that cau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?And here we are. Gender expression. Thats all these folks really want. They arent gonna rape women and diddle kids. Just wanna piss in a space likethe rest of us. So it is apparent that gender is how ur percieved. And this shows that gender is fairly arbitrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:11 AM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Yes, but why are most prisoners men? There is a way higher ratio of men in prison / men in poverty than women in prison / women in poverty. we've known for 50 years the impact testerone has on behavior, science denier. Ok. Like i said. Most dudes are caught for violent or terrible crimes. They are more likely to end up in danger fue to class and situation. Also no. Women are more poor than men. https://www.statista.com/statistics/233154/us-poverty-rate-by-gender/ Also. Testosterone does cause ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:08 AM |
| -1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Not the same. Wow you are illogical and asinine with a touch out of reality. You cant change race or species. But you can gender. Why is it that wearing flowy clothes in asiais not unmasculine. Why is itin many native societies gender is fluid. Or not as rigid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Also what do people do in bathrooms. I dont fling my dick in other mens faces. In fact we try not to see each others dicks. So we would never know whos got the parts. Which shows how genitals font make gender. Does that mean blaire white should go to mens rooms. And natalie wynn go to males rooms. What about jackson bird. Im sure he should go to womens rooms etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Bout how would one know if i got adick.should we strip people or peek at dicks to check if im a guy in giys bathroom?no i dont think you would. In fact its urinal etiquette to not peek. How would you know. I ask most of you guys this and no1 has givenme an answer. Should i harass rvery man and say drop your pants lemme see ur dick i gotta see if you area man and velong here. If someone presents female and identifies as woman. Then they go to womans bathroom. Otherwise anyone can use men’s bathro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:17 AM |
| 4 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?I try. As you can see im in downvoted hell. Because this is a pill subreddit. So many are bound to be transphobics and homophobics and mispgynistic. Im surprised this subreddit does not have a rule against bigotry. I'm With you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 0 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?There is a radically higher imprisonment rate for men than women, yet no one points to a need for equality there. We accept that men are the more violent sex on average, yet we can't apply the same standard in some positions of power or high earners. Ok. Why do you think there is a higher imprisonment rate? That is due to most perps being men. Rape. Burgulary. Drug slinging etc. Now i could just say it at that but that doesnt do you any good now would it bro? It lacks nuance for me to say men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 0 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Yeah. If the logic is inconsistent its cause of you. I asked should those people who transitioned go into the opposite bathroom. They are all trans. You wouldnt even know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 0 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?I I don't disagree. But I have to ask. What incentive is there for women to be wholesome in a system you describe as inherently unfair? It is in her best interest that he get better at these things because other men are a threat and if they sense weakness, he is (and therefore she is) at Many women who are complacent can sometimes benefit from unequal gender balances. Why wouldnt a white woman in malibu not want men to give her riches and obtain higher class men. Masculinity is tied to our class… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?You do know that men have had sex with trans women before. And then they kill them and call them traps. Sex has characteristics. Characteristics can be replicated or replaced. Ever heard of those women in the middle east that dress up like men? They have to fit in. As you can see you can shave tour head and wear some clothes. Bind ur tits and ur percieved a dude. Trans women get killed for being "traps" and thats a real lifeconsequence. If trans people want to cry about “gender identity” because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?I dont know about you but my brother cant grow a beard. Hes not even hairy. My sister is much hairer. And im not very tall. Im quite short at 5 ft 8. My bro is 5 ft 5. Its not a defining factor. But what you mean to say is that men typically exude these qualities. And these are due to testosterone levels. Which vary. If you have hairy legs you have more testosterone. But that doesnt make you less of a woman right? So when trans men transition they take testosterone which gives them traits. And i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:46 PM |
| -1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Can you see my chromosomes? I dont think so. And yet im a dude should we now start taking dna samples and stripping people to find out their "gender". No because gender is social. Just likr class and race. And i dont think trans folk disavow sex. Most that i know acknowledge that. They just wanna be that gender. And sex chang3 can help with perception of being seen as that gender. But even then this still goes into the notion that gender is a binary. Biological males should have no access to spa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Lol. We are talking in the terms of gender. Terfs are trans exclusionary. They think trans are not women but men in disguise. Being a transphobe is a bad thing. And if you disagree with trans rights you are a transphobe. You cant see their genitals. Who knows i could have a cooch and youd never know but i present as male and i just am. So if i want to find out gender of peers i guess i shoulf strip them and look at their balls or cooch rather than just take their word for it. And this enforces t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:07 PM |
| 6 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?I dont have anything better to offer women other than feminism. To those that say feminism is no longer needed I ask you why are womens sexual rights being stripped. Why is childcare not universal and free. Why are men more represented in workplace despite more women going and graduating college. Yes. 60 percent of women go to college but more men represent that jobs. As women have higher unemployment rates. So thats a discrepancy. Theres the rape stats too. And then theres race to factor into i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:59 PM |
| -1 | What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism?Oop. We got a transphobe. Being a trans women is still a woman because woman is gender female is sex. Gender is the sociological grouping and perception of a group. Me being a man has nothing to do with my dick because not everyone sees my dick. But people do see my clothes and my hairstyles and my interests. Trans womrn are women and terfs and swerfs are not feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:42 PM |
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