I am convinced that one cannot choose what they are attracted to. It is what it is and we have to accept it. And work with it. We're not gonna change society. The delusional ones are those who think the system needs to change. Well guess what? It won't. So what now? Bitch and moan? Or try to also play the game as best you can?
I won't comment on your situation specifically because there are too many unknowns. I will say however that women definitely don't have other women's best interest at heart and the women who come here and say otherwise are just proving how delusional they are...
Your picker is at fault here. Also you sound bitter and full of yourself. Most people are like most people...duh... Yes it's hard to find people who are outside the norm but what do you offer that's so special?