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I know you're tired of planning it, but would it be so bad? You're probably a good planner and you would end up doing what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 05:06 PM
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The full body wax sounds concerning because you've never done it before. Personally, I would just shave to be on the safe side and try to avoid getting a rash. Everything else sounds fine. If you're intent on the spray tan, you might want to do more than one to get the color you want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 01:39 AM
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You'll have less opportunities because the pool is smaller, but the opportunities will be there nonetheless. Try to make as many friends, men and women, as possible, and a love match will inevitably happy if you stay open minded. At least, that's what I genuinely believe. There are options outside of biological children.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 09:24 PM
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Its not about how many checkboxes go unchecked, but rather, the importance of those that do. Communication is a big one. Try to set a deadline for yourself to have these conversations at a time when you're both in a good mood.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/21 06:34 AM
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I would be interested in the story, as long as it were well-written and did not overally dwell on feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:41 PM
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That's a beautiful outfit! But might not fit in with a bar scene. I like the idea of a skirt, but I would do a different shirt. Still beautiful pieces though
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 05:04 AM
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If you go on etsy under gifts for groom, you'll find really nice, customized items. I've personally seen handmade clocks with silhouettes of people that are nice
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 07:09 PM
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Have you tried making your own? No one knows you better than you!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 03:20 AM
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Meet-ups, Bumble Bff app, or the gym are good places to make female friends
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/21 08:49 PM
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I personally would go for the second one. The age gap is less, he seems more easy-going, and it seems like you could find more common ground with him. The divorce without kids wouldn't bother me too much at his age.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/21 08:51 PM
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I looked into it and I like it! It gives empowerment and responsibility back to women. The articles I read were reaffirming and refreshing to read.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/20 05:11 AM
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What are your hobbies? Who are your friends? What about your family?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 12:01 AM
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It's possible that him texting made him think he was putting the ball in your court. I think you should message him something conversational and see how he responds. My bet is he'll ask you out after that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 10:45 PM
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I asked him first.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 04:21 PM
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I bought my vanilla boyfriend a book on bdsm. It's working
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 06:38 AM
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I guess at that point it's up to you. Get dating practice or work on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 08:54 PM
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She probably wanted you to get dating practice without getting your hopes up. Great job on the weight loss.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 05:31 PM
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If you start initiating, maybe just as friends first, you might find some hidden gems.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 04:16 PM
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Your career is not going to scare away any men as long as you don't place all your focus on it. Try out some new hobbies to get more quality dates. I just have one rule for you: don't discuss or allude to your salary.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 05:21 AM
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Confidence, intelligence, and a flirtatious conversation. I get very turned off if someone on my wavelength flirts with me, whether or not they are physically attractive. I won't always want to date them, but I'll instantly be sexually attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:27 PM
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It could be a little of both. They get too comfortable to look for someone they want to marry, but their current partner doesn't match their ideal which may or may not even be realistic. Or maybe they are comfortable in a good way, which is fine too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 01:21 AM
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I couldn't find the actual article I read. It was about ten years ago. But here's this article that briefly mentions dating time and marriage. https://www.thecut.com/2018/06/do-marriages-last-longer-if-the-couple-dated-longer-first.html
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 01:18 AM
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I read a study a while back that said that couples that dated longer than 7 years before getting engaged or married, were more likely to get divorced. I think it's because if you date for so long without getting married, then it's because you really don't want to get married, but you're too comfortable to leave. Then when the guy feels pressured and leaves, he then decides to look for someone that he does want to marry. At that point who he's looking for will look different than who he was with.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 06:45 PM
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I completely agree. I think if a young woman is attracted to older men, it will probably be because of status and money, and not so much personality and looks. How do you even romantically connect with someone from another generation than you? I find that the closer in age I am to my partner, the more we have to talk about and the more in common we have.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 10:39 PM
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Doesn't matter. Pretty can be pretty for different reasons as long as you take care of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 08:49 PM
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I don't mind making a little more money than my boyfriend. He's not bothered by it either. But what I can't help but think about, is that if we want a stay at home parent for our future kids, I really don't think he would consider quitting his job. And maybe we can blame that on societal norms, but that's how it is. So maybe societal norms need to change before men earning the same as or less than women becomes more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:51 PM
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Great point and very important category. My boyfriend and I were acquaintances when we first met. A year later, he was a few months out of a LTR and hit me up for snowboarding. Keep doing hobbies and be social with different groups of friends. You never know who'll open up or who will introduce you to their friends.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 02:36 AM
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It sounds like you're doing what you like. You want to be successful and independent, and you're doing a great job at it. I think bending to a more traditional female role will come naturally and with time. Don't try to be someone you're not. It's great to be successful and independent, but it's also great to be a stay at home mom with a good partner. Neither is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:56 PM
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It's good that you realized how draining that can be. Even though someone loves you and wants to be there for you, it will still take a toll on them for that very reason - that they love you and it hurts them to hear about your abuse. The best person you can vent to is a therapist. The second best person is a friend that you trust. Some friends make really good listeners. It doesn't mean that you stop talking to your partner about this, but rather you decrease the amount of time spent on it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 05:03 AM
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Judging by how you describe yourself, I don't think you're as bad off as you think you are. 10 pounds overweight is not very noticeable, and you can turn that into muscle by working out. Also, being a strong, independent woman who can make herself happy is underrated and I know a lot of independent men appreciate that. You're tall, so it's not impossible to think that you would find a 6'0 man. I think you just have to start looking and see what's out there. Hit the gym and join some meet ups, vi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 12:13 AM
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The main thing women want is confidence. Be whomever you are, as long as you are sure of yourself, you will be attractive.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/20 05:37 AM
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It's okay to expect your partner to be attractive. If you keep yourself in shape and healthy, then you should be expecting the same from your partner. And judging by your age difference, I think it makes sense that you are more attractive than someone that is 37. Maybe try dating someone younger.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 07:20 PM
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