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41	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist	CMV	sunny3002	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:43 AM

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–	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist I just saw this comment Have you ever thought that women date men because the majority of people are straight? No duh. But thats not what i meant. My point i was making was that women cant get patriarchy destroyed because they reward and enforce patriarchical dating norms. Have you ever thought that instead of seeking out these men, those are the only men available? Most men still personally view male masculinity according to traditionalist values. If a woman wants to marry a man, that's all the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 05:27 PM
1	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Nah. Ur not exempt from the structures and cultures that be. Maybe u subcrube to post modernism but there are grand narratives that exist that you cannot detatch urself from. Speak for yourself. I am a man. I know exactly what I am and what to be - no confusion. Sure ur a man. But without society to recognize and treat u as such just saying it into the ether is rather useless. What if u say ur a man because u say so but society sees u as a girl. Thats how many trans men feel. Because gender is v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 12:46 AM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Seems to me they're just choosing one to date. Off what values. Traditional values. Secondly if some qualities are what women seek, the men without those qualities are not sought after. Thus punished for being different. Thus a hierarchy. They certainly don't seem to put men above women if they do so. A man with trafitional masculine qualities will destroy dating than a man with non traditional masculine qualitities. Masculinity is rigid. Theres a narrow way to be a man. Anything else is deemed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 12:43 AM
1	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist This is the "not all men" bullshit. Im generalizing trends. Something most men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 01:52 AM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Im not a fan of peterson. But my point was to get across what red pill believes. Peterson is a huge part of red pill ideas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 08:15 PM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist I wouldnt say so. For most of human evolution there has been a collective spirit. Archaeologist have found evidence that women were also hunters. Next. My point is not that all authority is bad. There needs to be leadership to make sure shit gets done. Management. The issue is not authority and power but undemocratic power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:12 PM
1	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Men totally date up, all men would if they could They date and fuck girls lower than them. Someone stupider, poorer, less powerful. Because its the gender norm to care and provide for a woman. Dating up means dating up in status. Not so much looks. I don't think settling for an ugly man who is rich counts as dating up. It's a compromise on the woman's part. Also It does. Because unlike men women are attracted to more things. They look at men holistically. You cant just be good lookint to pull. F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:07 PM
4	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Well i wouldnt say im alpha. Im not even red pill. I was a teen during height of me too. 2017. So there was convo about harassment. And what i saw was feminists telling men "dont bither women at parties they are there to party not talk to men." " dont dance with women thats sexual harassment." Dont be sexual with them at all. Women hate attention. So how is a man supposed to have sex and meet women? What this does is it bred a generation of wall huggers. When ever i pull up to a function i see g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:01 PM
4	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Thats my point. I feel like this sub never finds a middle ground. My point is that rp and feminists both basically perpetuate the very system they hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:53 PM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Women participate in patriarchy with their sexual choices. I mean hey, you can’t help what you’re attracted to. It’s almost like patriarchy is the natural default setting for humans I try to refrain from appeal to nature. Its also natural to rape and kill people. Doesnt make it right. Im a animal biologist. I study evolution in university. While yes most species men do the courting and theres a male hierarchy we arent primative. A lot of the dating bullshit is sociological.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:52 PM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Lets talk about it. I dont really subscribe to the liberal choice feminism. There are structures that harm women. But if you remember i talk about hierarchy. Patriarchy is hierarchy of men. How do they put men in a hierarchy against other men and especially women? Well for one. Masculinity is tied to wealth. If you are poor you are deemed less manly and have less say in politics. What if we had an egalitarian economy. More collective where the burden is less on men and women have more economic f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:45 PM
3	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Eh... By forcing men to be a certain way you get hegemonic masculinity. Thus hierarchy thus the toxic. I believe that there is a way for good masculinity. Im left wing as seen in my post history. But i see the issues man. If we want different men we must develop a less hierarchical masculinity. And allow for many types. Women have so much freedom in feminity. They can have jobs and wear cargo pants and do sports without seeming masculine. Men do not have the luxury of expression as masculinity i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:35 PM
3	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Im not poltically correct. My takes are milquetoast compared to a lot of dudes on here who uave wild takes on women. Its not politically correct to support china and take an anti neo cold war stance. But lastly dont move away from the topic. Engage with what im talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:29 PM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist My point is that not all women are feminists and even less are educated feminists who don’t just call themselves that because it’s in, but who read something more than social medias posts. That’s the unfortunate fate of social and political movements going mainstream. Buzzfeed really ruined politics. Mind you. I say this as a left winger. And not a red pill man. But i am a man and so think in a man reality which some may align with rp. Also I might have got a wrong idea from your post, but I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:16 AM
2	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Ur dude is lucky lol. And u are right to not want people to control ur finances. Many women are not like you. I speak from experience. My mother left my poor father for a richer man and he now financially abuses her. Growing up under that was rough. But she did this to herself. Women have agency. You cant seek men with money and be suprised you have no freedom and he threatens u with homelessness. My father while poorer was far more egalitarian. As egalitarian as a haitian man born in the 50s ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:07 AM
1	You should "choose better" aswell Not true. Women have grabbed my butt plenty. Im just a man so i thug it out. Now whether i can fight back is another story. Im ocky as fuck and i can ewsily body any girl. So theres not too much of an element of danger if she does. But yeah no. Women assault me all the time. Physically too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:02 AM
11	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Now lets think sociologically. Everyone dates up. Nah. Not men. Its kinda sad. That no matter whatever you achieve in life a man wont give a shit as he mostly sees you as a friend he can fuck. Thats tragic. Womens achievements arent even rewarded in dating. Anyway. Because men dont give a shit and becaus3 they will take on the financial burden they dont care what economic echelon ur at. How do ya'll literally take the same shit you do (lots of casual sex, cheating, dating up, etc) and then go oh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:59 AM
4	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist I will agree that men dont take care of themselves physically. But we are talking about power. Power dynamics. Women dont like patriarchy because of power. If you force men to take on finances and live in his crib and make the plans you are giving him authority and power. Thus reinforcing patriarchy. Women are harming themselves by rewarding patriarchical men. There are new men that are gentle and not authoritarian and dont push womens boundaries and dont offend her and shit. But he wont get no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:48 AM
3	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist But they arent. They are adults. And need to pull their weight	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:41 AM
12	You should "choose better" aswell Most do. If ur not busted looking and you live an active life(because contrary to popular belief women that dont be out and dont show face to functions and on social media dont get much play) you can have men jump at you. For me when i am active and show face. Women dont ask me out. Instead they show signs of interest. If i dont escalate shit wont happen. Theoretically yes. But theoretically no. In short. Its grey	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:22 AM
4	You should "choose better" aswell Yeah thats my point. You cant trust no one. You gotta treat 3very woman the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:19 AM
7	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist Thats what you got from it? Where did i say that dude. Women do want men to care for them. Their emotions. Their lives. This is normal. Its not bad. Thats not an issue. But doing this creates power dynamics. If women didnt do this. Would there be all these stats of women being in power imbalance relwtionships. Do you think men one day said they wanna date a woman who relies on him? Or he has to make all descions? Planning dates. Escalating. Initiating. Do you think my generation. Gen z. Just ask…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:18 AM
8	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist It doesn’t mean they should seek broke guys or guys who don’t have proper social skills, as neither of these things entails that they’re egalitarian. Well... People that dont be socially dominant do have social skills. Just because you dont party or cant create tension or escalate relationships does not mean ur like undateable. Women dont know how to do the things i said above because they never had to. We do. But i wouldnt go to say women have shit social skills. And also. Why would money be a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 05:06 AM
0	Short men Is there anything I can do to boost my attractiveness? Would wearing better fitting clothes and having better style help? I’m only 18 right now and I’m scared I’ll be lonely for a long time and from what it looks like in order to find someone who genuinely likes me for me is I have to become very rich so just wondering. I def know that I have to try harder than taller men but I’m not sure how to quite achieve that so curious on everyone’s thoughts. Im 5ft8. And what helps is energy. Yes. Get bet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 04:59 AM
12	You should "choose better" aswell I mean yeah. Look inside your dm. Or ur story. Who's interacting. If you eacalate with any dude and say "when u gonna pull up/take me out" watch how many men will say yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 04:38 AM
6	You should "choose better" aswell Hes literally proving ur point. Man says issue with women. They go not all women. Or thats not wjat women as a whole do. Yeah not all women but a solid chunck. Its why i dont say not all men. Yes all men. And yes all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 04:36 AM
3	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist I wouldnt agree. Old fashioned feminists were rather racist. I have no issue with modern feminism. I want this to be clear. But the issue is that we have condemned masculinity and offer no alternative and reward traditional men. This has left confusion in men not knowing what to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 04:28 AM
1	The Wall/s Id have to disagree. To a degree. But OP does have a point. Theres this old article i remember reading. https://www.thedailybeast.com/why-college-educated-women-cant-find-love Why is rhis? Cause guys arent going to college or making money anymore. And women do require traditional men in some sense. 30s women cant find mem on their level cause most men either didnt go to college, are taken, gay, in prison or died or dont have the correct credentials like a job or a house etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 12:01 AM
1	Women, do you remember how you viewed sex in your teenage years? Do you believe that sex is shameful and immoral outside of wedlock? No. Id be a hypocrite. Many men actually want to have sex, and complain about lack of sex and dead bedrooms, so women learning that sex = bad is unhelpful for those men, even taking sexual repression out of it. Thats fair. Cant be shaming the people you wanna have sex with. Otherwise you get no sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:20 PM
0	Women, do you remember how you viewed sex in your teenage years? If you dont mind me asking. What issues does that upbringing give men. This quote in particular . This is exactly what women completely rebel against, which causes all the issues men on here whine about lol. Like i know that having women sexuality be repressed is bad. But how does this give male dating issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:02 PM
4	Women, do you remember how you viewed sex in your teenage years? Many guys just dont really complain because to them bad sex is still sex. And most dudes rarely get it if they are not in relationships. Most of being a single man is long dry spells and a hookup every now and then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 06:58 PM
0	Have you tried therapy? Cause we are sadly idiots. Men get tested for stds less than women. Also we are told to suck it up when it comes to pain. Ive had my pain invalidated by my mother so many muscles. I slightly tore my left calf muscle and i had walk it off and just tough it out. Luckily i could go to my athletic trainer but this type of shit makes men internalize that pain is normal and just needs to be fobbed off to move forward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:27 AM
1	The ideal red pill man and the ideal "blue pill" (or any other dating strategy other than red pill) man are essentially the same Ehh..... Im 5 ft 8. Ibe pulled tall women. Check my post history.(doggy is harder with a taller girl). My height hasnt reallt affected my ability to pull women. What has been my ability is my poorness. When i have a job. I can take women out. Get better drip that are indicators of wealth etc. I dont think height matters too much. As only 14 percent of men are over 6 ft. Which means if a woman only wants a 6 ft man she will be shooting herself in the foot. Cause not all men who are 6 ft are good …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:22 AM
4	Women's biological wants are seen as a virtue. Men's biological wants are often seen as bad in the dating world Even on kink subs men are directly or indirectly told to restrain themselves while women have no restrictions saying what they want or approaching who they want. Even if it is offensive to men it tends to be allowed. Omg. Ive been on fetlife and you are very right. It is a nightmare. For starters the site is mostly male demographic. But mostly females post in writings and shit. And all i see. Is shitting on men constantly. Its vile and nasty. And sure. Men on there are garbage. But i feel like e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 06:57 AM
4	Have you tried therapy? Well..... What causes men to die? Besides heart disease and cancer(men dont go to doctors regularly and eat more meat and salt than women. They also die in accident injuries. Such as car crashes and on the job injuries cause men are fast drivers and they work dangerous tough labor. The healthcare system isnt kind to women. I know women witj pcos or cant get proper gynecology medicine. Which causes death or health issues. My mom gave birth and caught a hernia. Not fun. We have a high mother death…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 06:45 AM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. No instead they go into what everryone else goes into. Bio. Stem nursing. Doctors. Sociology. Psyche. History. https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2017/12/04/black-women-are-earning-more-college-degrees-but-that-alone-wont-close-race-gaps/ Ur acting as if white people mostly going into engineering degrees. They are not. Lastly we use this tired trope but does anybody ever think as to why there are not many poc in this position. Think critically my guy. Cause my degree is biologi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 07:30 PM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Its not an insult. Its objectively true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 07:16 PM
2	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Brother. If you had family thay were slaves. And then did not get education or good jobs after freeing of slaves. Segregation. Jim crowe. Plus funneling drugs into communities. There is no wealth for black people. Even as we get more educated. We are the biggest unemployed. Black women are getting degrees. But aint nobody hiring them. Thats just reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 11:31 PM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Just because the gap between low and high earners has increased doesn't mean the the low earners haven't increased themselves. And as I said. The top 5% is more fluid than you will admit. This is imbecilic. The real wages have stagnated. Our buying power is slashed. https://imageio.forbes.com/blogs-images/timworstall/files/2016/10/wagescompensation-1200x1093.png?format=png&width=1200 We do more work. And produce more products due to machines and internet. But our wages still have the buying powe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 11:29 PM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. That dont negate now. Our forefathers had it worse. But we still got it bad. White ppl like yall would deny reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:40 AM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Well we dont got the stats to determaine as such. Its not just the economy You got me wrong. Its mainly men still having to adhere to male gender norms and the male hierarchy. The economy is just an easy way to put men in a hierarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:39 AM
3	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. I mean. Not much has changed. Economically. Its gotten worse. Reagan slashed unions, privatizer everything, jobs moved to china. Put drugs in black communities. War on drugs. Jacked up college prices. Be for real	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:29 PM
1	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Ill explain. If our society rewards and upholds certain traits and values. And we deem those traits as masculine such as independence, wealthy, hypersexual etc. Can we be suprised that a movement of feminism like white feminism pushes women to achieve power like men? To get money and fuck many dudes. The "i dont need no man". This exclusion puts a hierarchy as to what is acceptable for men 5o do and be. If you dont fit what a man is supposed to do you are deemed less than a man. For example. If …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:28 PM
0	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. Man ion see mo dream. Shit is hard as fuck. Massive debt. No homeownership. Shitty wages. I think the dream died when reagan fucked shit up. And as a black dude. It never existed	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 03:49 AM
11	The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality. I got an answer for you brother. Then, in just a 10 year time frame (2008-2018), we see male sexlessness jump from a near low of 8% to a record high of 27%. Why is this? What happened? Ill tell you. The great recession and the aftermath of that. That economic crash made men lose jobs, homes and shit. Why does this matter? Because for men our ability to date women are tied to the economy. We pay for dates. We are expected to be providers. While women gender roles have been expanding and being abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 12:40 AM
1	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Lol. So true. Like the one child policy was for a very real reason. In a country that has experienced famines since its inception. Since qing and the ROC under Sun Yat Sen and Chiang. To then Mao. Food has been an issue. Curbing massibe population growth was necessary. Now. Its misunderstood. They wouldnt just kill or jail you if you had more kids. You just got like taxed. Contrary to belief the population of. China rose despite famine in the 60s. And all theought the 70s and 80s with its reform…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 08:21 PM