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| 2 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanUnless these women have a super high sex drive, sex work is not supposed to be enjoyable. Doing it with men you find unattractive as a full time job to me is unpleasant work. Not to mention the huge risks of getting STDs and getting pregnant. It's hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:25 AM |
| 1 | I am in my thirties and I have only ever been attracted to a tiny handful of menMost people can only attract people of the same or similar level of attractiveness. You may have to take a harder look at yourself and see why you can't seem to attract people that you prefer | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 08:40 PM |
| 4 | does income and status really make a man attractive?Only at the beginning. If they have a terrible or incompatible personality, it doesn't matter how much they earn | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/25 10:54 PM |
| 7 | Style that attracts older and conservative menDress like Melania Trump! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/25 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?What a woman values more? It totally depends on what she wants at the time. But most women are looking to settle down, so Guy 2 then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:38 PM |
| 6 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantLarry David once joked that even Quasimodo wants the prettiest girl in the village. What you said is right, as long as Quasimodo doesn't complain about being alone or single, there is no need for him to lower his standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Debate: free romantic love has failedIt depends on the person. Some are good for settling but not others. There is nothing wrong with staying single either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.It's okay to reject anyone based on any criteria but just don't be a hypocrite when others reject you for the same reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 7 | The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them.Isn't it true for most men too? That's just how humanity is. Try stop having sex with most men and see how quickly you get dumped LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no oneIt's just a job, a very unpleasant one...who says sex work is empowering? Hugh Hefner? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.I would say most women are plain Janes without makeup, including movie stars like Catherine Zeta Jones and Gwnyeth Paltrow. Makeup really transforms the lives of so many women. Not me though, coz makeup looks awful on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menNot sure if my mom wanted to baby trap my dad, but my mom natively thought having kids could turn him into a more "responsible" person lol. She should have stopped after having one kid with him, but accidents happened and my mom didn't want to abort for moral reasons. Just very sad. My dad was a classic deadbeat. Hate working, zero ambition, like being lazy, doing the bare minimum to get by. Loves gambling, but only for self amusement and making small bets. If only he just chose to be single. He… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menI have a deadbeat father so I have some insider knowledge. I think my mom was more powerless/helpless than stupid. She was conned into the marriage by his friends and relatives who kept presenting him in a good light. Turned out he was a bum. But she kept getting pregnant because my dad refused to use condoms when my mom was allergic to contraceptive pills. It was a tragic situation all around. She's from a poor family so she couldn't afford to leave. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?Why would I? I am not attracted to fat people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Agree 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?As for me I am talking and having sex with two other girls so you haven't brought up exclusivity with this girl yet. Maybe she only has sex in an exclusive relationship. She has every reason to. Whether you want to go for that depends on how serious you are about her. if you are just a player, please just let her go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedI thought it was normalized already. Can't you see almost all relationships are transactional under the disguise of "love"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingThat's the only way I've seen it work out anyways I think there's some truth in it. But for me emotionally I am so done with dating that even if things start to happen, I can't bring myself to care. Peace of mind is my #1 priority. Timing is indeed everything. It's no good even if something good happens but at the wrong time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableMaybe at the beginning. It's like being addicted to drugs. But in the long term, any woman with a brain would wake up and leave such a toxic relationship for the sake of sanity and self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI know one who is like 6.3, ripped/fit, tall , very good looking but struggled to date and got ghosted and flaked on So do you mean he should have higher standards? There's a theory that most people are just attracted to bad boys/girls. I consider myself a decent person, and I have rarely got the attention of guys I like. Even though I did, it never last. I definitely consider myself too nice when I was younger. It's too late when I realised it though. I was no longer interested in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:06 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI cant date girls that do pizza and netflix twice a week, I am afraid your dating pool would be extremely small. BTW there are people who can do both and still manage to stay fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:18 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingPerfectly said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:16 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingCannot agree with you more because my mother is exactly the kind of women who don't have standards. Maybe I can't really blame her because she had no choice. But women nowadays can do better. If they can get away with dating out of their league, why not? I wish I could do the same, but I never had that kind of confidence or luck to get away with it. From my experience, 95% of the guys who have showed interest in me are not for real. They were good at talking, but not taking action. I reckon thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:57 AM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingSour much? You can always go to a sex worker to fulfill your needs. Actually I have more respect for you if you do that if what you want from a woman is only sex. You think women are entitled? If you were a woman probably you'd do the same. Guys who put in the effort means at least they show some interest in you. Those who don't... would you really bother going out with someone who can't even do the bare minimum to woo you? Are you really that lazy? I am not saying this is a sign of a good man. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I'm super envious of attractive, healthy women. How common and justified do you think this feeling is?Why aren't you envious of men? Why women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?I have incompetent parents so I am only attracted to people who are NOT anything like my parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenI am a female and I don't nitpick. If a guy is into me, I'd feel it in my gut. I'd feel secure, so there's no need to nitpick. It's absurd you blame women only when a relationship doesn't work out. It takes two to tango. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Easy to solve. Just masturbate. No taking risk with pregnancy or STDs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Women also bear the much heavier the risks of having sex. We can get pregnant or STD-related cancers from men. It's one more reason to stay happily single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 02:34 AM |
| 12 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Because we know many men suck, and it's better to be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?that they have a lot of sex. For me it's a red flag lol. Higher risk of getting venereal diseases and related cancers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?Reminds me of this pathetic scene from The Way We Were. Whatever you do, please don't act like Katie. Don't beg a guy to like you. Have some self-respect please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Classic example of dual mating strategy. It’s pretty clear why she’s had her epiphanyshe can date a westerner who can speak her mother tongue. They exist. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/20 01:38 PM |
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