sunrisedragonfire Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results. Wow, you guys on here suck. No wonder you don't have a partner. Eek, run away girls!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 08:31 PM
1	FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results. Wow, you go gf. Know your worth. You may not get what you hold out for but you'll never get more than you settle for. Remember that. On my other hand, I've been permanently banned from FDS twice, so clearly I don't follow all their rules. Lolz I happen to love sex with actual men, so I am unwilling to comply with the no sex for months. Also old enough that have experienced large age gaps in both directions. Difference in maturity over a decade at my age is not an issue. I have two men in my life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 08:29 PM
2	Men should have to submit resumes and cover letters for dates. I ran background checks on OLD matchups before meeting in person. If they wouldn't politely give me name and date of birth to run the check, no date. And a few times, no date after what the background check revealed! I'm not on dating apps currently, or looking, but could never go on a date in the future without a cursory background check.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 04:25 AM
12	A survey asked more than 22,000 women if they had ever been raped in their sleep by their partners: 51% answered YES I'm sorry but maybe I'm misunderstanding. You were forced to have a FWB? That sounds suspiciously like coercion into sexual acts against your will, almost like slavery or being pimped out. You deserve freedom and honor. You are free from this situation now, right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 04:08 AM
1	Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going! Hair spray in the eyes?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 03:27 AM
22	A survey asked more than 22,000 women if they had ever been raped in their sleep by their partners: 51% answered YES Never happened to me either	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 07:48 PM
31	This is one reason female only spaces are important. There will always be men who get off on women’s trauma I completely disagree with this quote, it's a purely made up and very negative opinion, not at all factual. Men are fully human and capable of the full range of human emotion and experience. All are socialized by patriarchy to be self- absorbed, exploitive and lacking in empathy but are capable of resisting that negative influence if motivated. Saying all men are subhuman blobs is just tit for tat, not helpful IMHO.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:56 PM
3	What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions??? I have had asthma and allergies all my life. It's insane how often people decide you are lying about an allergy and decide to test you by willingly exposing you to something that you have told them affects you negatively. What goes on in a person's mind that pushes them to play God with someone else's health like that? Such ill will towards other humans must be taught, it can't possibly be innate, can it? I think you nailed it. Complete disrespect for the bodily autonomy of others is part of pat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 05:13 PM
1	What do you ladies think ? Both my boyfriends look hot AF in their T shirts and jeans. It's that surfer body, mmmmm. This dude needs to work on his personality and his physique, then he will be noticed. My lovers can wear anything and it looks good. They don't need to wear booty shorts to get admiring glances.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 04:47 AM
2	What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions??? My comment about how a home room mom in south Texas wound up killing a 6 yr old child with a peanut allergy is in moderation. Don't risk it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 12:58 AM
13	What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions??? First I've ever heard of some one lying about a food allergy or sensitivity. I won't let their existence change me in any way. I will still believe anyone who tells me they have special dietary needs, and I will accommodate them without complaint.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/21 07:34 PM
18	That time I walked out before a date even started. You are beautiful, no doubt he was honest about that. Many men are very attracted to big beautiful women but then are ashamed of themselves because the bro code says big woman are losers. He's ashamed of himself, so he abused you. What an insignificant worthless piece of shit excuse for a human he is. Block delete. Let the trash take itself out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 11:06 PM
1	dude pretends to be a woman and makes a post just to prove harassment exists, he isn't a hero for this, he is part of the problem since he couldn't believe women and had to see for himself That was it, pretty sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 06:05 PM
6	dude pretends to be a woman and makes a post just to prove harassment exists, he isn't a hero for this, he is part of the problem since he couldn't believe women and had to see for himself That long ago? I thought it was a scandal in the late 80s early 90s.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 06:54 PM
45	dude pretends to be a woman and makes a post just to prove harassment exists, he isn't a hero for this, he is part of the problem since he couldn't believe women and had to see for himself It's happened, white guy taking meds to darken his skin, wrote a book about it. 80s, 90s? White male privilege can't believe anyone but white males.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 01:23 PM
32	“Abuse Happens.” A reality check for anyone who still believes the legal system favors women ACAB	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 02:44 AM
46	After being single for years, dating again is like testing out the boundaries I’ve developed in my single petri dish in the wild. I can finally be my authentic self instead of catering to men, but I’m also scared of falling into old patterns. Do you have other reminders? 1) Be for yourself, first and last. No one has your back, have your own back. 2) Dick is plentiful and cheap. Do not have a scarcity mind set. 3) Always do a background check before the first date. I use Instant Checkmate. Some scrotes are offended and angry when you tell them you want to do a background check before you meet in person. Let the trash take itself out. HVM, on the other hand, will not mind. They have nothing to hide and they care about your safety. You'll need them to provide a fu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 11:32 PM
13	When the mask comes off He always hated her	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 07:41 PM
5	This is why women are wary of all men. This man is a raging looney who has stalked and harassed TWO of his girlfriends but has been let off both times. He should be put away for being a danger to society. 80.4% stalking victims are female while the perpetrators 70.5% are male. We have a problem here This is a great idea	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 11:38 PM
20	The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂 Is this guy seriously saying he would rather be unloved/unwanted the rest of his entire life because no woman wanted him when he was young? Way to cut your nose off to spite your face, dude.😂 Seriously, it's obvious his personality is his problem. He is definitely his own worst enemy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 06:26 PM
45	I have no words I feel the same way, you are dead center on that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 09:18 PM
14	I have no words I just want to hold this woman in the strongest hug, stroke her hair like I do my own daughter, and whisper encouraging words in her ear while rocking her in my arms. "You are courageous, mega strong and your child's father should literally be on his face in awe of your glory. No, child, you are the asshole."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 09:17 PM
0	Polyamory foibles - my experience and some cautionary advice for queens on the fence (don’t do it). PM me? I'm considering a poly relationship, completely outside of any "community". I don't know any poly people IRL. I've been lurking on their subreddit trying to learn if it's really workable or not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 01:21 AM
31	Pickmes after giving the “nice guy” a chance 🤡 Girls be getting ditched after 32 years if marriage to guys who look like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 02:08 PM
4	Alexander Ludwig Surfers have the best bodies	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 02:14 AM
3	Why I forget things at his place. Thank you, I have much to learn. 🤯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 12:50 PM
28	Why I forget things at his place. If a guy wants to see multiple women why doesn't he just be honest about it? There's a swingers community for a reason. It's a large healthy community from what I gather, at least in my city. Are cheating lying fuck boys so common we need a strategy like this to vet them? Maybe it's because of my age and personal situation, but I don't see how this kind of vetting would be necessary, pretty sure I could figure out he's a lying fuck boy without this strategy. How often you talk/text/see each othe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 07:47 PM
7	“Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men” This is one area of this sub that bothers me. I love sex! I love orgasms! I lived without them for 35 years as a single religious zealot for five years and as a married woman for 30 years. The first thing I did after agreeing to separate from my ex was try to ascertain if sex was bad because of me or if sex could be a positive experience. I learned that it is a very positive experience for me and I discovered that I am multiorgasmic. I have learned that not all dick is the same and which feature…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 12:17 AM
45	The loneliness of leveling up. Well,in all fairness, they probably believe you don't care about them if you don't want to listen to them talk about their lives. If their life is full of neverending drama, makes sense you wouldn't want to listen. But if that's all they have to offer, and you're not interested, then if course they will quit calling. I was once that woman. It took DECADES for me to come to grips with my need to change my life. Shout out to all the bored friends I lost along the way! Sorry! My bad. 🤷	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/21 04:06 PM
11	After she struck out Babe Ruth and Lou Gerhrig in succession, women were declared "unfit" to play baseball because it was "too strenuous" and women were "too delicate". Astute, great catch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/21 03:08 PM
2	I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it. The only way to get him to stop us to dump him. He purposefully says things to annoy you. Block delete that scrote.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 02:41 PM
145	This went VIRAL on FB and everyone was calling it cute and praising him. She deserves better. She has a home with two chairs in her painting, he has an empty beach. Poor girl.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 09:25 PM
1	You ever feel like the women who are happy with their men are kind of just...dumb? I look back and thought my husband and I were happy before children, and having the second child really overstressed things to the point a lot of happiness was gone. But then I eventually cracked open his diary and he was already resenting being married to me before the first child arrived. We were Bible belt uber religious people, I thought having a lifelong relationship was the best thing life had to offer. I definitely laid down "boundaries" and threatened to leave many times but never would …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 04:40 PM
3	Staywithmeisha? 32 years, and still coming to terns with why being divorced seemed so awful to me. I have some work to do. Still. Damn it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 03:48 PM
16	Ofcourse she cleans this.. The fucking nerve! Its the same so many times, help a man level up and suddenly getjinks he can do better than you. Hope his life sucks every day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 03:17 PM
8	Serious ? - Is there a drug that could be injected to stop the chemical effects of a trauma bond? I second EMDR for recovering from trauma/ PTSD. Go to www.emdr.com to find a trained therapist near you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 09:00 PM
3	Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lol Happy Cake Day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 02:31 PM
11	One of the most disgusting things I've ever read I forced myself to live this way 30 years in an evangelical marriage, same advice to women. I love sex and am multiorgasmic, I have found since my divorce twice a day suits me, gives me joy. It was at best twice a month, unimaginative and not very good in my marriage, but thats all my ex wanted. Can't believe women would choose that mindset outside of religion. Mind blown.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 11:48 AM
25	One of the most disgusting things I've ever read Is this not an evangelical Christian wife book?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 04:42 AM
7	I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :( That's what I thought, but most men I've met don't know how to do friends...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 10:18 PM
9	Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!! And since she lives there too, she'd be living in filth as well. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 06:21 PM
12	Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!! Someone posted recently about a grown ass man who slept on a pile of unwashed clothes that he called his "sleeping nest ".🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 06:18 PM
31	To all the scrotes who claim "WoMeN BoDy ShAmE MoRe ThAn MeN" - This famous tweet- written by a man about a young girl's body. So check yourself, sit down and shut up! Your lack of self-reflection is astounding. Women are PEOPLE, not objects. But she is attractive! I think she's gorgeous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 04:00 PM
5	Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted him So when you became socially aware enough to bring in a friend to help you, your profile pictures and words improved and you got matches? Proves my point. I'm going to screenshot this for my gf. 💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 07:20 PM
4	Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted him Loved this "reee"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 04:47 PM
10	Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted him My gf and I used to drink and swipe on dating apps for laughs. I would say, " this guy has no friends" and my gf asked how I knew. Because if he ran his profile by a friend before posting, no way this picture or that comment would be on his profile. I am not interested in meeting a man with zero social skills= friendless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 04:40 PM
65	I like good abs and I can not lie... I have large healthy breasts, and I cant count the times I've heard, " more than a mouthful is wasted." Men will neg you no matter what your body type is. They seem to thrive on insulting women, all sizes and shapes of women. I think they both desire and fear our beauty, our innate worth and power. They feel intimidated and unworthy in spite of their desire so they neg us as a balm to their own low self esteem. And thanks to FDS, I am now very grateful for the tell! A man is going to neg me? Goo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 03:55 PM
21	Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work. Happy Cake Day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 12:40 PM
57	We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD. "Don't be a detective"- hell yes! Save yourself time, just assume it means nothing. It really means nothing. If it was meaningful it would have been shared with you in a meaningful way. Didn't happen that way? It's meaningless at best, mind fuckery at worst.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 08:19 PM
5	Hot LVM Was No Match For Female Intuition Writing things down brings so much clarity! Thanks for the reminder.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 04:42 PM
34	Living life according to expectations of society is not a protection from loneliness. Well in the USA they do literally live on the streets. But your point remains, "be there for yourself because in the end no one else will be". I was ditched after 32 year marriage and the ex gambled away all theife savings before I could get my share after the divorce. I needed this advice for sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 04:53 AM
2	He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡 Preach	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 04:21 PM
77	Girlfriends/Wives are not on the list of in-network therapists I have a friend who has done that in the past year. She was the baddest bitch I knew, now she is continually shrinking and compromising for a man. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 10:07 PM
9	Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HV She should just tell him he forgot to finish checking out the purse he said he would buy for her. He needs to have integrity, or why stay with him?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 07:58 PM
10	Both of these are very straight to the point :) Wtf? This happened?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 01:09 AM
9	When an ex tries to ruin your reputation The visual rhetoric, in my experience, comes from Christian marriage seminars. Such BS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 07:22 PM
4	There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that. Oh, I went back to school and got a degree/training in radiology technology. Graduated top of my class.😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 02:54 AM
4	There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that. I'm doing better than he is in most ways, except he makes more money. Thank you for your compassion in asking. I'm confident than by focusing my wisdom and hard work on myself, in ten years time the difference between us will be astounding. In ten years time, I plan to be sailing the world and he'll be regretting he's a LVM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 02:53 AM
27	Police disturbing peaceful vigil for Sarah Everard who’s suspected murderer is a Police officer Always safer to assume ACAB.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 05:11 PM
31	Police disturbing peaceful vigil for Sarah Everard who’s suspected murderer is a Police officer ACAB	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 05:10 PM
16	Life advice for men from men... "Die mad." I love you, sis!😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 05:04 PM
35	Life advice for men from men... Christianity perpetuates this. Eve was created "for" Adam. Women have no other purpose for existing according to the creation myth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 05:02 PM
16	A clown in his natural habitat Omg yes!😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 04:27 PM
3	Proof that men who say "not all men are like that" are EXACTLY the type of men who are "like that" Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 04:17 PM
5	NEVER hire a male personal trainer Gtk. Yes, he is educated and professional.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 01:36 AM
66	NEVER hire a male personal trainer I love my (male) strength trainer but I vetted first. I saw him training another (badass) middle-aged woman at the gym and approached him after watching him work with her. Vetting is never optional for any man we let in our space. No exceptions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 10:07 PM
217	There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that. I was a dumbass SAHM for 25 years. My ex wanted a divorce after 30 years. Between the signing of the divorce papers and the judge signing them, he lost our entire life savings on derivatives. ALL OF IT. Guess what half on nothing is? Didn't matter that he agreed to give me half of IRAs if they're zeroed out. He us ordered to pay me back, but thats a big "if" and still doesn't make up for the lost investment opportunity of having $250k towards my retirement today. As a SAHM, I controlled all the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 10:24 PM
2	How to be emotionally abusive 101 Yes! This! Happens all the time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 06:42 PM