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| 12 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?The funniest ones I find are those who want a woman who is passionate and driven but also chilled out and laid back. I am in my point in my career that I am, living in my own place with my own car because I was precisely NOT laid back and chilled out about running my own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 19 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?Yep, the number of LVM I dated who were so excited that I was "intelligent and driven" but to whom I became very quickly "opinionated" or "hard-work". No, i just don't agree or can disprove your nonsense mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 47 | I'm now less obsessed with finding "the one"I feel like I have finally come to this realisation too. I recently had an amicible breakup with a guy I dated for a year. He was a great boyfriend, emotionally supportive but he was pretty into Christianity and it was something we couldn't reconcile because I am not even a little bit religious. Whereas before I would have gone straight back into online "dating", I am no longer interested. I am tired of talking to mediocre men who can't drive or live in a pigsty or are sex-obsessed or lie or wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 30 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Tell this to my cousin. Finally divorcing her rich but emotionally abusive NVM and is utterly wretched because he is giving her the bare minimum despite her being a SAHM and not developing her career. She is having to fight for every penny and it is stressful as fuck for her. She works part time in retail and is looking at at having to retrain whilst juggling three children. Always develop your own way of making money ladies, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 75 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Mine too. I regret some of the men I had sex with. Why did I do it??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:47 AM |
| 43 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleI really wanted her to work on her relationship with the sports doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:52 AM |
| 43 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysI feel you. Haven't spoken to my (now ex) friend for a year because she chose her LVM who kicked her of their flat when he decided he fancied someone more at their work. My "friend" clung on to him like a nuclear limpet and hung around until he begrudgingly took her back. The cost was our friendship. Sometimes you just have to let these women waste their time at the circus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 41 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherI pick the sociopathic who emotionally abused me from 19-25. Took drugs a lot and I had 0 idea. Cheated on me repeatedly Used me for sex Had overgrown toddlers as best friends Had no education A severe mental health problem which he sought no help for Physically pushed me around on the odd occasion. Thank fuck I didn't marry/have children with him and came away from it with a Masters degree. Why the fuck I wanted to marry him, I will never understand to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?Same. Mine had secret drug and gambling habits, they were all cold and selfish. I shudder to think at the time wasted with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:20 AM |
| 56 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?You're never too young/old to learn. In my 20s I was a commitment phobe myself and I picked all the wrong men, because I think deep down I didn't want commitment. But I let my standards drop too low. I'm my 30s now and I am a lot more discerning who gets to enter my life - especially if they're a man. I have my own place, a good career and can take care of myself. Men disrupt the equilibrium in life, hugely so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 105 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?Same. I'm also ashamed that I dropped my standards to the bottom of the Mariana Trench in order to date a man and not be lonely. I wish I hadn't. I dated some real losers, especially on my 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.Yeah. He was a complete loser. A parasite who seemed to want to knock up any woman who would allow it and then move on to the next. I spent only 3 months with him and I shiver at the thought that it could have been longer. Oddly, he got a new gf very soon after me and I wondered - does she know he has 3 children he doesn't give a toss about? Or does she know and just not care because he is a conventionally "handsome" man? Either way I am glad I dodged that nuclear warhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:32 AM |
| 72 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.So true. I was once dating a complete sociopath (didn't know it at the time). My dad had a health issue and I confided in said sociopath about it. He had a complete volte face and didn't support me or ask after my dad. It still bothers me that I confided so deeply painful and personal an issue to a complete toilet of a human. We broke up very quickly (I found out he had 3 children I had no clue about, as well as a rap sheet as long as football pitch). But since then I have never confided anythin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 8 | YEP👏🏼Being promiscuous, sleeping around, trying not to get attached or engage emotionally like men only benefits men. It really does. I don't have casual sex any more. All it ever did was leave me feeling used and empty. I think I was even straight-up lied to in a couple of instances in order for the guy to get me into bed. No more. Care and commitment is now the minimum expected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:59 AM |
| 20 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.Yep. When she first broke up with him, I did the friend "What a twat" support package and she went back to him anyway. So I've been the shot messenger, up to her to find out for herself now tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 59 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.Exactly. She said she wanted to be his "friend" (even feeding his cats 2 weeks later when he went away on a boys trip). This was after he told her he had started speaking to another woman at work romantically. She will not let go of this man and I have lost a bit of respect for her in all honesty (I backed off from our friendship quite a bit). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 158 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.Yep. My friend is so desperate to hold on to her boyfriend who asked her to leave their flat when he started fancying someone at his work that she hung around until he changed his mind back. She's so panicked that she won't ever find another man that she feels lucky that he changed his mind back. SMDH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 76 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturityI always hated this. It was like a "right of passage" that guys should be allowed to treat women horribly, using them for sex then dumping them because "aw, he's such a lad". Tired of men having excuses made for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:04 AM |
| 27 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Same! "Why can't you meet someone in normal life" :| | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:54 PM |
| 20 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Very true. Want a natural woman who is devoid of all body hair below the eyebrows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:31 AM |
| 20 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”The number of men I had dated who prefer a "natural looking" woman. Fine, but I enjoy makeup and will continue to look at/buy/apply it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriends/Wives are not on the list of in-network therapistsPrecisely. Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 19 | Girlfriends/Wives are not on the list of in-network therapistsIt's taken me years to understand that I am not here to be a therapist for a man. He needs to sort that shit out on his own like women have had to do for millennia. I am over being a sponge for a man's neuroses. I have my own shit to worry about, I don't want to be the one who works to change a man into a normally functioning human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | He's not gonna change sis. You can do better! You still have plenty of time for a HVM, but you're wasting your time with that scrote! Think a HVM is gonna waste his time with a taken woman? Nope! You're disrespecting yourself when you lower your standards! Level up. Dump him. Love yourself.He's a pitiful creature. Men like him exist in a deadened state, cut off from the full spectrum of human emotion. He will never be capable of loving as completely and deeply as you, and for that he will never be truly happy. It's like the emotional equivalent of being colorblind. LOVE THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Men never wanna talk about that though 😂Yes! I saw a video like this and had no idea it was lip synced! I feel fooled lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 52 | Block and Delete Him, Sis. Otherwise he will suck you back in or try to gaslight you.I did that with my ex. Calmly explained why he hurt me and how his actions were hurtful. Dude didn't give a fuck. He blocked me and I didn't hear from him again. These men do not care. They just don't. My ex wanted to get his dick wet and that was all it came down to in the end. Now, no more walls of text. I simply don't reply and don't give them the satisfaction of a reaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑Saved. Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Same. There's not enough of me that wants a child so I'm best off not having one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.This is why I wouldn't have children. I am not 100% about it, I suffer with mild depression, I don't think I would cope well and I would feel trapped. That and I don't think there is a man out there who would be able to support me in raising a child. I am quite happy being CF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 09:29 AM |
| 67 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.most millennial men use the years between 20 and 40 to basically act like teenagers and refuse to commit. THANK YOU. This, this, this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:10 AM |
| 35 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Yep! I remember my ex saying he wanted us to have a baby. Looking back I would have been doing all the fucking work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:53 AM |
| 57 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Not when women are expected to work full time, mother full time, and manage the house full time. Too many men just want to be Kodak moment dads, not actual fathers pulling 50-50. Hard pass. This. Completely the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:52 AM |
| 59 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.I've yet to meet a man who wasn't full of shit. A man who wasn't emotionally cold, selfish or with a wandering eye. A man who didn't need an actual therapist. A man with even a modicum of emotional maturity and loyalty. And as a Millennial it was driven home to me that I should be thankful to land one of the members of that useless sex so I could be his domestic slave. Fuck that noise. No wonder we don't want children with these wet tissues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:51 AM |
| 16 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMCompletely right - this is a huge red flag. I have had NVM exes do this to me in the past and I always thought I was making a fuss for no reason but I am not. It is fucking rude and from now on if a man doesn't walk next to me and storms off ahead he is going alone because I am fed up of these NVM having to be taught basic fucking etiquette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:07 AM |
| 12 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMI love this advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:02 AM |
| 92 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.Good grief 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 169 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.I hate that comment "I prefer women without makeup". I love ruining their ridiculous expectation by then telling them how much I love make up and spend a lot of time looking at and researching it. I wear makeup for me not you, love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 14 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.This is so so accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 15 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂What is this obsession that men have that all women want to be mothers? Growing up, I never dreamed of children. I never dreamed of pushing a pram and creating a life that could go into the world and do the things I wanted for myself - an education, a career, travel. The thought of children makes me feel trapped and burdened. My ancestral home (India) has 1.2 billion people. Maybe I just don't want to add to this already overpopulated world. Maybe I just want to enjoy my life the way I choose. S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 29 | Say no to easy men 👀I am sure I got HPV from my LV abusive ex. Another reason he was so fucking worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 7 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)Ooooh..great tactic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 15 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseAh thank you. I learned my lesson for sure. Im glad I saw his true colours sooner rather than later and learned to watch out for snakes in the grass in the future, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 89 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseOh god. That morning after feeling when they go cold as ice and essentially toss you out like bad milk. Happened with a guy at my work. I will never forget how that piece of shit made me feel and I will never forgive either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:12 PM |
| 65 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseSame. It took me a few shitty encounters with LVM for me to wise up and tell future idiots with this idea to fuck that noise. Oddly, I don't hear from them again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | LADIES!!!!! This!!!Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Stop over explaining yourself. LVM don’t care about your feelings, and nothing you can say will change that.With my on/off using ex, i would send these long paragraphs. 9/10 he wouldn't bother responding. That's how little he cared about how he hurt me. The last time, I was done. No more messaging, no more long paragraphs. I just let his using-me-for-sex behind go through the door and didn't text him again. He blocked me in March and I haven't heard a peep since. Says everything about how I was the one carrying the interaction between us. I will never speak to him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!Yep. She was calling her a home wrecker and I had to tactfully try and tell her the HE wrecked their home, not the other woman. I have a feeling she will hang around until he is guilted into going back. She does not want to let go at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 07:27 PM |
| 4 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!Exactly. And she's really blaming the other woman. He's the one in a relationship with her, he's the one who bailed with a shrug essentially instead of telling my friend he wasnt happy. It seems like she's begging him to stay and I feel bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!It really is. I have a feeling she will keep holding on though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:53 AM |
| 10 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!if he didn’t want me, he would break up with me This is exactly her thought process. She thinks that he will change his mind and I think she thinks if she hangs around enough it will happen. In four years they didn't once tell each other they loved the other. So strange to me. I said that I am there for her but I have had to take a bit of a step back. It's frustrating to see so I will have to wait until she sees for herself that the relationship is done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:52 AM |
| 30 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!My friend's boyfriend did this. He started talking to another woman at the place they BOTH work. He didnt come out and break it off because he's a coward, he just started ignoring my friend until she came out and asked him what was happening. He admitted to it and my friend moved out. My friend still has hope. She is still talking to him, being his "friend" because she so desperately wants to be in the relationship. She won't change her Facebook status and gets annoyed when this other woman comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 12 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!Yup. You can be everything - beautiful, educated, kind etc and a man will still take you for granted or look elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 19 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!All of this. A man will never give you closure, he'll only leave you with more questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN 🏃🏼♀️He sounds so much like a douchecanoe I dated. Had me blocked on FB so i had no idea he had two girls by one woman and a boy by a third. We broke up after 3 months because he was acting shady and he unlocked me on FB so I found out the truth from his son's mother. Confronted him about it (he called me crazy for finding out the truth from his ex) and when I asked him why he doesn't see his daughters he said "they're getting older and they don't need me". That was the last time we spoke and I never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Damn. That kind of hurt.Hahaha brilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:11 AM |
| 14 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesLove it. Hope she is fully enjoying that side dick. Hope she finds a man worthy of her than this selfish adolescent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Pathetic malesThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 21 | Still working on this one, but 💯Exactly. They're just waiting for someone "better". Men never stop searching for their fucking unicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 11 | Block 👏🏾This is spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 29 | Dude you’re not getting dates because you’re an asshole, not because you’re shortYeah, there's no going back if he stuck his dick in other women while married to you. As someone who took back a cheater in my early 20s pickmeisha era, it just destroys your sense of worth and confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 57 | Dude you’re not getting dates because you’re an asshole, not because you’re shortHe made you wear flats!? I hope you bought the biggest baddest heels after you got rid of his backside! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 17 | Remember that it is not your job to fix anyoneYes! A man wants a "total package" i.e. he won't stick around to help you heal and grow, yet we as women are expected to be fucking full time therapists/mothers/porn stars for the people we date and marry. The older I get the more I think staying single will lead to a better life than having to constant cater to useless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:55 AM |
| 40 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Hahaha true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:48 AM |
| 140 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Yep. Casual sex does not interest me one iota. The feelings of abandonment and rejection after sleeping with someone who used me is not worth a basic orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Damn. That is spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:28 AM |
| 5 | He's NOT your friend (and likely never was) - any man who gives you creep vibes under the guise of a platonic relationship, especially when you have made your disinterest clear, should be cut out of your life ASAPI recently had this situation. This guy was thinking HARD about the ways he could get me to sleep with him. No, no, NO. I will not be manipulated into sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 7 | He's NOT your friend (and likely never was) - any man who gives you creep vibes under the guise of a platonic relationship, especially when you have made your disinterest clear, should be cut out of your life ASAPYep. I was friends with a guy. Liked him and wanted to date but he was recently out of a relationship so couldn't offer me more. Cool, I thought. I told him I couldn't be friends because I liked him and I didn't want to get more hurt. Despite his "heartbreak" he STILL wanted us to sleep together. Said we had so much sexual chemistry ( we dated in the past and he acted shitty so we stopped talking). Said he should go home because he was thinking about sex and was too sexually attracted to me. I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupSouth Asian Brit woman here. I don't find white British guys attractive at all. White + other nationality maybe but hard swipe left on white Brits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 15 | Why being attracted to men feels like a mental diaorderThis is bang on right. A man doesn't give a toss about how successful you are or if you have a good heart. They want a stunning, slim young 20something and then suddenly its "oH mY GOd iT waS meAnT To bE". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 32 | Keep re-reading this until it sinks in.If a dude is not interested I just reply with Ok. Used to write out long, lengthy paragraphs until I realised they don't give a toss. So why give them an ego boost? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Rose experienced this tenfoldSome places put much more value on wealth and ability to provide a good life, ability to provide children above pleasure and enjoyment in a husband. I never thought about it like this before. Great point on looking at the world through western-centric eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 16 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Yep! My ex thought I should be ok with intermittent texting/contact. Sometimes he would go a week before messaging me. When I said that wasn't good enough, he was like "Oh, I've been with gf before and we haven't had this problem" and I said "yeah probably because they didn't have my standards and did all the work". Needless to say he didn't like that and we stopped talking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:29 AM |
| 5 | Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GFThey bring nothing! Not emotional kindness, not warmth, not commitment, not dedication. And the number I have spoken to who don't have a real job etc is shocking. Just useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Hahaha thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:53 AM |
| 15 | Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GFExactly, like its us women with the problem. No, you're just entitled dicks who are only now, in adulthood having to put up with shit that women have had to experience since childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 24 | Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GFExactly. You can be the most beautiful, intelligent, successful, put together woman out there and a man will still look for a younger, Instagram model to replace you with. I'm fucking sick of these unappreciative, cold dickheads. Fuck the lot of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Thank you honey x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Exactly. And he wasn't even committed to meeting in the week either. This guy is so mediocre in the looks department too. Face full of wrinkles at 29 and not a shade over 5'7. And yet I guarantee he will have a tonne of pickmeishas waiting to date him because he's wealthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Same with my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 8 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?I'm at this place too now. I'm just sick of "dating". These dudes arent interested in me, they're interested in a hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Spot. Fucking. On. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:06 AM |
| 16 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Yep! Had a date yesterday. Dude was kind and sensitive and attentive. Didn't sleep with him because it was too quick. Lo and behold, said he might be able to meet up in the week if work isnt too busy. Very nebulous and non committal. I replied with ok have a good week. I'm perceptive as fuck. This dude wants to get his dick wet and that's it and I'm not about to be his toy. Deleted and boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 82 | Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GFMen will always look for a hotter woman. They don't appreciate shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | This queen is onto something hereHaha love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:54 AM |
| 9 | Don't let your ego play youAgreed. People don't change that quickly if at all. If he's shit at communication in the first instance he always will be in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 13 | Don't let your ego play youSome women just dont want to listen, sadly. They're happy in their bubble where pleasing a man is the be all and end all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Don't let your ego play youYap! I had a date with a guy 3 years ago. He was a fuckboy who just wanted to mess me around so I told him he was a user and deleted him. Just this week I saw he looked me up on linkedin. This dude has since married someone else and is still looking me up on linkedin instead of facebook. Just shocking behaviour. Before last week I couldn't tell you his first name let alone his second and he remembered my name. Its beyond pathetic what these guys will do to have their ego stroked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 32 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverEvery man I've ever had in my life has always made it more miserable in one way or another. So fuck them, who needs them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 32 | In case you needed a reminder....I keep that chat. Because it's full of his bullshit. I keep it as a reminder to never let him back in, that he is a liar and a user and he has no problem doing both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyIt really was. And his next gf was a very skinny small woman. He had a lot of issues so I really dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 09:53 AM |
| 9 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyMy ex liked really slim/petite women. He would go on about how his exes were "tiny" (he was 6'6 and went for women over a foot shorter). We broke up in the end because he insinuated I was fat (I am a size 6). It's only now I look back and think about how weird his preference was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:23 AM |
| 19 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyMillennial here and I like them too. They're real fighters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyHoly crap. That made me think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:09 AM |
| 7 | like a mother!!! mad props to herAh thank you for clarifying, I was also confused! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 8 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.LOL. That was me in my 20s for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:54 PM |
| 7 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.Yep. I had to in the end. He made me feel like shit most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:54 PM |
| 35 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.This is so true. I believed his words for so long because I so wanted him to be that person. He played me the whole time and really, he only got back in contact with me in the end because he wanted sex. You're right - words are meaningless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:00 AM |
| 132 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.This was my ex. He told me he loved me, wanted to marry me etc. Still didn't stop him from taking days to message me back, reneging on his promises and not following through on a damn thing he said he would do. It's amazing how much we put up with from these worthless men because they are objectively successful/handsome or charming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:51 AM |
| 22 | You can never convince a man to love you👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 31 | Tindernightmares"Women aren't hot after 30" is what I have heard from some disgusting "men". Fuck off with that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:35 AM |
| 9 | So many times I blamed myself 😡Crazy isn't it? The faces these people put out to the world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:57 PM |
| 14 | So many times I blamed myself 😡Ugh. The way my ex presents himself, you would think he is a nice, relaxed, down to earth guy. No, in reality he is cold and selfish and heartless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:24 AM |
| 16 | So many times I blamed myself 😡I chose an avoidant attachment man because I was lonely and depressed. I am anxious attachment and now I am trying to work on my attachment style instead of looking for men who just make me feel like shit, 22 hours of the day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:23 AM |
| 2 | While disgusting, this isn't surprising.You're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | While disgusting, this isn't surprising.Agreed sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 8 | While disgusting, this isn't surprising.We have Indian pickmeishas too. As though they have one some special prize by being chosen by a white guy. I've dated my fair share of white guys and most guys are douches irregardless of race in my experience but I prefer not to go for a white guy because I dont want to be fetishised and seen as a meek indian handmaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:40 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: men/women who are willing to meet while in this pandemic are TRASH. -not my convo-Some dudes on these apps are insane. Was talking to this French guy yesterday. We were talking about quarantine (he was looking to break it and I naturally judged him for being so ruthless). I told him that he would need to wear full hazmat suit to meet anyone and IMMEDIATELY he was like "oh I have a full leather suit with face mask and gag". I told him he was gross and he went off saying he didnt mean it and if he did I was being "judgemental" for my reaction. Dude was being a disgusting perver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:54 AM |
| 2 | What mixed signals really are.They just creep back. It's so sad. Like you have kept my number this whole time like a weirdo. The ones I like best are those who get offended when I ask "who is this?". They are so indignant that I wouldn't keep them in my phone. Congratulations on the weight loss! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 12 | What mixed signals really are.I just had a guy who I haven't spoken to in TWO YEARS just message me and say "what's up". Just how do you still have my number?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 8 | The bar is on the floor.Good looking men are some of the worst. The number I've been with who lack a basically clean home is shocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Just braggingSo true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:47 AM |
| 4 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoThat is horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Sis if you had sex with him and he paid for dinner, you didn’t get a free dinnerGood points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:01 AM |
| 12 | Mood.So true. They do the barest minimum and expect a medal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:26 AM |
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