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Wrong, some of the most beautiful women get cheated on and dumped. Why? Because men who go after the most beautiful women do so because they have something to prove or feel entitled or only value a woman for her appearance. I would say that beautiful women are more likely to end up with men who are not loyal. Ugly women may have a more difficult time finding a man, and may have to deal more with men who are only there because they haven't found better. If the uglier woman does find a man who tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 07:40 PM
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I have never begun a relationship where the guy harassed me. My relationships began with normal social interactions, which over time led up the the man asking me out. None came up and harassed me. They read and responded to social cues, while getting to know more about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 10:30 PM
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You are probably a "softie" because your height garners instant respect, so most of the time you don't HAVE to have a "don't mess with me demeanor", whereas a slight male and most females would have to adopt an attitude or get walked all over by everyone. You probably only get walked all over by a few people, especially those close enough to know your personality. When I was married to a huge guy, I was instantly respected and people rarely tried to walk all over me due to being afraid of him or…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 10:46 PM
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Yes, my first guy was huge. I was with him for decades, and the second guy who I was with was small. I was shocked that sex didn't have to be painful. I no longer date tall guys, just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 11:09 AM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 06:29 PM
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Women like men who are nice, but being nice in some ways does not mean that the man is automatically a good catch. For example, I once went out with a man who seemed to go out of his way doing nice things for me--- YET was also whiny, demanding, and would seriously freak out if things didn't go his way. Just because he was "nice" most of the time, that did not negate his weird temper-tantrums (which I am sure would have become much worse over time)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:59 AM
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Yes, I think so. After all, would we not benefit most as a society by allowing those who can least afford children to opt out until they choose to have children? If a guy is struggling to afford contraceptives, he won't be able to afford a child yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:07 AM
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What??? Yes they do. The stories that I have heard from women in their late 60's and early 70's have been insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 12:58 AM
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Well, if men are willing to hook up with other men= problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 10:09 PM
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Sounds like typical low-income, low-class. She goes back because she has no other options, including just being on her own. My advice? You should Get a better job.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 01:28 PM
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Church would probably work well for you. Join one in your area that has a large congregation, it will be an instant social life and you can meet like-minded people. Also, you could get a second part-time job solely for the added socialization. Sales jobs with training are great to increase your social skills, and you can likely find one that would hire you for weekends. I would typically recommend working a few hours a week at a bar, but since you are not into drinking or bars/clubs, that out. Y…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 06:33 AM
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I think that this guy is full of crap and is only trying to profit and make money by selling people on some "I have this awesome life and you can too" pie in the sky idea. It is just like these people who make tgier lives seem as if they dont work and just travel all over the world, but in reality they are simply trying to sell you their bottled water "network marketing scheme". This sub seems to have become a huge target for advertisers. Men can have the type of nice, happy life that they want,…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:48 PM
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I am confused because some men LOVE party girls and look at them as very feminine. I know a couple of men who own businesses and their wives are like this, yet are considered feminine (the guys are not much different as far as the partying, though they are more serious about making money and working). The women in question help their husbands a bit in their business, but mainly take care of the household/children. I don't think that these traits are masculine or feminine, but rather have to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:34 PM
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Some women are approached constantly. If they work with the public it is even worse because often men (or,women) subconsciously know that the woman is "trapped"
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:22 PM
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He is on a different time zone, he has things that he has has to be doing, he probably has jet lag and doubt that he is going to be on his phone all day. Actually, if he is doing something with co-workers, it would be rude and inappropriate of him to bring out and use his phone. If he is doing something like snorkeling, then he doesnt even have his phone eith him and probably stashed it safe in his room or locker..
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 06:46 PM
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Strange to me. While I did feel this way about both of my relationships, they definitely did not feel this way about me. I figured that it was their familiarity that made them think less of me. For example, my appearance was always put down by both of them; however when I am out in the "real world" I am told how attractive I am (and I think that it is true because I did do modeling and am also chased by top-quality men now that I am single). My first ex, I am certain that he truly thought that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 03:25 AM
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Most dates that I go on cost 25-50dollars for the both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:48 AM
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Totally agree with you on the pictures that show off your traveling. That seems to be a very socially acceptable way to show your economic standing, as well as look interesting. There are some men who pose with their "toys" and large house, but that looks like someone who is trying too hard and/or is socially unaware. If you ski, boat, or do any sports, those photos are great to show as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 01:05 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:13 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:13 AM
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Do not be flirty with any of them! Sure, a small subset of men can pull off being "flirty" with friends of their date, but those are the guys who are naturally flirty with everyone of every age. Actually flirting with your dates friends will be a complete turn off. It will embarrass your date. It will cause the other women to think that you are a total creep. The other women will immediately badmouth you to your date.
/r/seduction18/05/17 01:17 PM
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If it is just anectotes, then perhaps it is because the two of them were together for so long,that nearly all of the stories that he has happen to involve her. I was married for a very long time to a guy who I had known since childhood.I have almost no stories about my past that do not involve him. I once dated a guy who was married for almost 20 years and he was the same way. We even talked about how it is considered a bad sign to talk about exes on a date but that would mean not talking about …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:13 AM
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I thought that the younger ones have more options and are pickier?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 05:49 AM
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I don't think so. I cannot see myself ever chasing after a man, I would rather be single than with a man who may easily leave me. If the economy/social structure changed, then I could see chasing after a man. For example, if people did not have sex until marriage, and there were strong social stigmas against divorce; then I would definitely chase after the man who I preferred. In that case, there would be no wondering if he were using me, or going to dump me off for someone else. I would probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 05:38 AM
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Pretty sure that back in the day, those men who had a lot if children with a lot of women also supported their children or the children did not survive. Of course, the wealthy men sometimes could afford their lifestyle due to pillaging....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 06:38 PM
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When there is a guy who I do not want to be with, but would consider a great catch for someone else, it is because I cannot stand his personality (and should he find someone who is compatible personality-wise, they would be a great couple).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 11:33 PM
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I created my own company. Of course I only had one child, and a husband who did not sabatoge the business--of course he actually did nothing. Many many years later divorced and had a boyfriend who passive-aggressively tried to destroy my business, but I dont think most younger men think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 07:03 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 07:01 PM
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I am a bit disgusted by weak and whiney men. However I don't like women who act that way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:43 PM
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I don't think that is the reason. I think that men are not building shelters for men because the men who are in a position to do so look down on homeless men and consider them to be beneath them and unworthy. They blame the men for their situation. Those same men will build shelters for women and/or families because they look at women as being less capable and are more likely to feel sorry for them, rather than blame them for their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:42 PM
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Why is it that men are not building shelters for homeless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:30 PM
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Oh they do! Sooo many men get baby rabies after age 40. It is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:03 AM
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I Thought that I read that they tried to be a couple when he was 17 and his parents threw a fit and made him wait until 18. And also, she has said that the first time they were together is "their secret" or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:19 AM
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Well, the first one added me on facebook and just sent me random messages like asking what I had been up to, and then suddenly he was getting married. I found it really odd. I had a couple of other ones add me on facebook as well, and a few send text messages and/or call. I think that maybe it was part of their decision process? I am older, so these guys were all divorced. Maybe they were just confiming that they were making the right decision? Maybe they were checking to see if any other women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:37 AM
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I don't think so. I have had a lot of men who were interested in me and that I either went on a couple of dates with or just talked to, get in contact with me all of a sudden right before they are about to get married or engaged. None said or tried anything inappropriate. I thought it was really weird at first, but they all seem very happy in their relationships now and it was quite a few men, so I figure this sort of thing must be somewhat normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:16 AM
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No. It is memories of youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:13 AM
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It would be great to pass along some of the burden to then men. I would probably still feel a sense of dread every month until non-pregnancy is confirmed, but in the event that an accident were to happen there would be no anger and blame towards me. What a relief. And actually, with double birth control, accidents are even less likely. I would also have less fear of the possibility of his cheating. As I am usually the main bread-winner in a business where we work together, I do have a fear that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 10:44 PM
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Yes, plenty of men want to have children. I know men who have not dated women who are unable or do not want children. I have met many men in their 40's who have "baby rabies".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 10:27 PM
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Nothing in particular goes through my head. Maybe happy for a friend? Maybe the other person has a more compatible personality? Maybe the guy thinks that I am out of his league? Maybe the guy finds me too stand-offish. I never am looking to get hit on so I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:23 PM
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I am 39 and do not feel less sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 06:31 AM
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And family. It is true that most people want to be with a person who makes others think " Wow, you are so lucky to have such a great person"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:44 PM
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Haha haha......when? I want to see these militias of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:03 AM
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I would still not put this guy below average at all. If he got rid of the acne, he would look even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:25 PM
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Yeah, maybe you are just used to only seeing really good looking people and model types. I know that I went to a high school in a wealthy area and thought that models were average, because everyone who I knew looked about the same. Got into the real world, and realized that most people are not model-attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:17 PM
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The photo on the left does not look like a 3. He looks fairly average, but slightly above not below.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:00 PM
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No, none of the men who I personally know try to take advantage of anyone in this way. I think it is rare, and limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:38 PM
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While working in retail, I have met many older men with mail order brides. One young Asian woman is now with a young Mexican guy around her age, now that her husband has passed away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:33 PM
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No, the men who have tried to "buy" me were doing it in order to have control. Actually, it is a red flag for an abusive situation if a man tries to go over the top on spending money in order to impress a woman. Now, I have no idea about men who go on sugar daddy dating sites, probably those men are very socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:01 PM
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Stop stalking her. Approach her at the theatre. Go early. Stay later. There will be an opportunity. While stalking her, you are building things up in your head and wasting your time. Talk to her and then either go from there or move on. Don't tell her that you are infatuated when you approach her. Just act normal, talk about the theatre. Ask her out. Then you will have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:16 AM
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I am 5'3", currently dating a shorter man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:51 AM
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Yes, I currently am dating a man who is shorter than I am. I am fairly short myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:46 AM
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No, often these women try and get into an unbalanced relationship with these boys. There are several cases where the women eventually married the guys. I remember one that I read about, she was a guidance counselor and pregnant with a 15 yr old student's child. No one knew about it or questioned anything. They married when he finished high school, again no one raised any questions. Everything later came out when she made an addition to their home in order to sit and watch the middle school boys …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:50 AM
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