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| 29 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.I'm shocked that I've actually never heard this point of view before. You're totally right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:30 AM |
| 72 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?Freshman year of college, he insisted on taking me out to a really nice restaurant for my birthday. After we ordered and he saw how expensive it was, he said we had to split the bill. Then, once the bill came, his card declined (for just his meal), So I ended up paying for both of us, at a restaurant I never would have picked, on my birthday 😬 I just felt so obligated and blindsided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Has the view of your own parents relationship changed since being on this sub? Is your father someone who is high value?My stepdad is high value in my opinion, but my dad wasn't. My dad was 13 years older than my mom, was alcoholic, irresponsible with money, and he was mean and volatile when he was upset. My stepdad is like the perfect match for my mom. He's educated, super handy, responsible with money, does most of the housework and the cooking. They're a little untraditional, like my mom is the one who primarily brings in money. My stepdad does pretty much everything else around the house, and contributes most… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:55 AM |
| 37 | Exactly 👏🏽Yesss. My ex used to criticize me for working hard on my grades in undergrad so I can get into my dream graduate school program. He would say that it's useless and just a way to play into a system of academic bullshit. But y'know what? I think he just didn't want me to be more educated than him, and he was insecure because I put in the work and I was proud of if 🤷♀️ especially because he knew if I ever earn my doctorate I would keep my own damn last name if I had married him, because I would ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Why are strip clubs the norm?I really don't get it either. Last year a man asked me out (in person) on a "date" to go with him to a strip club. He apparently thought I'd be down because I mentioned I was from Atlanta. I was like, wtf does that mean?? And in what universe is that an acceptable first date?! I definitely do see it normalized though, especially for bachelor parties and other special occasions... Definitely just men trying to push boundaries and enforce a double standard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 7 | Just dumped my bfHey, I'm your age and also new here, also just broke up with a boyfriend who cheated :( I'm sorry you're going through this, breaking up with someone you care about always hurts even when it's the right choice to make. It's okay to cry. Sometimes you really do have to ignore your heart when your brain is seeing warning signs, and while it hurts in the short term, you're right that it's the better choice to make in the long term. This is a great step towards giving yourself what you deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 5 | My eyes came across this disgusting LVM behavior. WHAT.Yes!! On this note-- do not ever let a man have access to your birth control. There was a married couple I knew, and the husband would give his wife her birth control pill everyday. She thought it was so sweet; then she got pregnant. Some men will mess with your birth control just to get one more hold on you by getting you pregnant. You can never be too careful, especially with narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:59 PM |
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