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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | quick and easy ways to vet: how to tell there is a mask in the first placeRead "talking to strangers" by malcolm gladwell...just finished and I'd highly recommend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Holy shit. I finally did it.I took a screen shot of this. You're a wonderful person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?Did you try looking in a box? With a fox? In a house? With a mouse? Ha! Sorry, my funny bone is active this morning! You're living life right. Just don't settle, keep investing in yourself and meaningful relationships and you'll be more than fine, sista! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:14 AM |
| 33 | Don't date an asshole man child.1st Google return: "Gender differences were also found in the severity of online gaming addiction and motives for playing. Older age, lower self-esteem, and lower satisfaction with daily life were associated with more severe addiction among males, but not among females." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 93 | Don't date an asshole man child.I also thought he meant demoted IN REALITY. WTF is wrong with these total losers acting like A GAME is real life??? Also - how many addicted female gamers are there vs male? I'm seriously curious... ima gonna google it now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 18 | “Set boundaries, find peace”Frida Kahlo told her husband, "I'm not asking you to kiss me, nor apologize to me when I think you're wrong. I won't even ask you to hug me when I need it most. I don't ask you to tell me how beautiful I am, even if it's a lie, nor write me anything beautiful. I won't even ask you to call me to tell me how your day went, nor tell me you miss me. I won't ask you to thank me for everything I do for you, nor to care about me when my soul is down, and of course, I won't ask you to support me in my d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 20 | How do you overcome reflexive and habitual pickme worries/thoughts?Stop attributing your success and fantastic career to "luck"! Luck is finding a $20 in a parking lot, not a 6-figure career! Men in your position very rarely attribute their success to "luck" and its just another way women diminish themselves. Face the facts - you're a badass!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 35 | Self-aware LVM notices more young women are buying houses 💅 keep it up ladiesYeah, He's trying to diminish these badass women as pussy. Whatever, loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 117 | Self-aware LVM notices more young women are buying houses 💅 keep it up ladiesI like how he refers to women initially as "women" and then as "pussy"... many women really need to understand that many, many men just see women as walking pussy. Very hard to wrap my mind around this objectification | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 433 | Poor woman.I love the child-like pigtails and school girl-ish uniform! Ya know, so sexy to encourage pedophilia - especially when you have a toddler daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 3 | On Emotional LaborGreat analogy. The only difference is - but looooove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.Stepmom basically admitted that she doesn't trust her son to not sexually abuse your daughter. No more going to dad's house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 45 | Women are attracted to money...I agree except for "they don't understand...". They totally understand and are using statements like that to emotionally manipulate and try to make smart (and not so smart) women doubt their intuition and second guess their natural inclinations toward self-preservation. This is a common theme of misogyny - get them (women) to feel bad about wanting to avoid deadbeat, incompetent losers by calling them gold-diggers. Imo, there are just as many male gold-diggers AND they are more SUCCESSFUL at it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Saw this on Twitter — horrifyingBy 14, he means 10. What a POS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:30 PM |
| 52 | Moral of the story - NVM wants her to give up on her future to be a mom. PATHETIC!IMO and experience, SAHDs are usually a joke. This woman would end up working full time and doing the bulk of all other household and childcare duties... I think this guy realises that and is really trying to create a situation where she begs him to be the stay-at-home dad and then he can throw that in her face when it turns out that she's doing everything and she voices/complains about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:10 PM |
| 30 | On Remarrying Trend: As women, we're often seen as "DESPERATE" to get married. STATISTICS however say otherwise!"Every time I get married, I swear I'll never do it again" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 11 | The bar is so low, it isn’t even humanFrom the 2010 article titled "The end of men": The End of Men - The Atlantic "Earlier this year, women became the majority of the workforce for the first time in U.S. history. Most managers are now women too. And for every two men who get a college degree this year, three women will do the same." Soooo - " All social systems are primarily funded by men " and "because us men have all the power and jobs"... this guy is one misinformed mofo. Luckily for men, women are more tender-hearted and will b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:13 PM |
| 11 | Just bought myself this 800$ designer necklace, because I wanted to treat myself. Women don't need men to buy them nice things, we can do that for ourselves. Just another lie by the patriarchy that women are gold diggers. I am perfectly capable of making my own money.hellz yeah - i'm taking myself skiing in Vail (with my badass friends)!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Shes so young but she already knows what’s up with men and their goofy priorities 😂From the mouths of babes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:34 PM |
| 17 | The housework user typeOMG! I know a woman who would knit during meetings!!! Gawd, i hope its the same woman and it was this social/psychological study!... bc, otherwise, she totally was undermining her own power and status in her workplace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Saw this today, and thought it belonged here🥰💖This is true! I quit shopping there bc of this! I go to Joann Fabrics now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)Mine...but just bc it sounded better that way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:24 PM |
| 40 | The bar is in hellI feel bad for every generation of young women! But the buck can stop here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 24 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitI hope this is/becomes a series! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)I did not change my name when i got married (USA born and raised). Thought that was bs even as a young girl. Daughter has a hyphenated last name. And i love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:33 PM |
| 14 | Anthropologist Mary Catherine Bateson died recently and she had great insights on the changing roles of women in society.Love this! Women have always kicked ass, but, unfortunately, our enormous contributions have generally been poo-pooed... time to start tooting our own horns! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:53 PM |
| 47 | Some musings after watching Night Stalker on NetflixJust popped in to say one of my girlfriends suggested keeping your car keys next to your bed at night so you can hit the alarm button on the fob...thought that was brilliant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 23 | Is it an American men thing or?You are funny! But this soooo true in far too many families! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?And he would almost with 100% certainty get spouses support… AND 1/2 of everything that your income allowed you to acquire during the marriage! Lived it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?i was married to a guy like this for way too long... a saying popped into my head one day towards the end (paraphrasing JFK) that i felt perfectly summed up his attitude: Ask not what you can do for your family, but what your family can do for you. i supported him for soooo many years but when my daughter came along i realized that i had enough resources to support myself and one other person. guess which other person i chose? break up with him. he's telling you the truth - he doesn't want to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Don't ever go back to what broke you. You are strong. Believe in yourself.Thank you! I needed this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 35 | Thanksgiving for the Things That Aren'tI totally 100% relate... It reminded me of something I read a few years ago which was taken from an interview with Elizabeth Gilbert the author... I spent about 10 minutes looking for it online and I found it! Excerpt below: I remember a story my friend Deborah the psychologist told me once. Back in the 1980s, she was asked by the city of Philadelphia if she could volunteer to offer psychological counseling to a group of Cambodian refugees—boat people—who had recently arrived in the city. Debora… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuseif this is how schizophrenia makes you behave, then i want it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:24 PM |
| 65 | This hits too close to my pickme teen years.I was just recently googling how to kindly break up with someone and your comments above prompted me to post the following information that I found: Women are more likely to initiate breakups, according to a 2015 study in the journal Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences. But many men don't process being dumped as quickly as women do, according to Craig Eric Morris, PhD, the study's coauthor and an anthropology research associate at the State University of New York at Binghamton. Morris says that whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 4 | “Opening up” to menthank you for directing me to Hennessy!! i dont think I've ever read any of his work and i already find it compelling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 33 | When a LVM/NVM thinks he’s the prize...OMG i saw this show! long live JJ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 51 | On today's episode of "The audacity of scrotes"want to hear a funny? ya know how google anticipates the words you are typing and will auto-complete? well, your post inspired me to search for "50 inventions made by women"... google literally anticipated virtually every 'W' word (whom, whole foods, worst, etc.) until i got to 'wome' before it suggested the last word 'women' in my sesrch string "50 inventions made by women"...and THIS is an excellent example of gender bias in technology ... curious - will someone will try typing it in and see i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 5 | When they say the quiet part out loudright?! i always think about the playboy BUNNY... WTF?! how does someone manage to sexualize a cute, wittle bunny!??? puke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:32 PM |
| 9 | When they say the quiet part out loudsully it? bitch, please. he can't even write a sentence correctly, but he thinks that his vast inner (dirty) darkness can soil a woman ('wholesome' or otherwise). see the way he assigns himself that ability? she could probably wither his penis with a single glance/giggle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:29 PM |
| 23 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?in my personal experience, guys that call themselves feminists = you will be expected to support them financially and otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:33 PM |
| 51 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.this def resonates with me! maybe its just this feeling that being "in a relationship/marriage" to a man made me an adult...? but, I was the only responsible and accountable one in the relationship, the only one managing day-to-day life, and long-term building, earning, saving, and investing...and when I finally realized that, the pieces started falling into place. and now I do all that for me and my daughter. I am seriously kicking ass and now she and I are reaping the rewards! woot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 15 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!beautiful work!!! I'm 47 so these silhouettes don't work for me at this point 🤪 but I love your pattern selections and I'm going to forward this to my nieces who could rock these outfits!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 49 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!ok, I gotta know what your business is called so I can check it out! is that allowed here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | What's the best part about being a woman?What does "come to terms with reality" mean? That we can be masters of our own fate!? Anybody ever read Angela's Ashes?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 4 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?I learned this in my early 20s and had to re-learn in my early 40s - "I'm not good enough for you/you're too good for me") Any time a man says this to you it is the absolute truth! They are telling you straight up and then, after you dump them, they will turn it around, after they treat you like shit, and say "I told you from the beginning…" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Am I a forever girlfriend and is this future faking?i think you both need to calm down. this is not some big surprise proposal. you know that he's doing it and he knows that you know he is doing it. people don't spend serious cash on diamond engagement rings that basically become valueless as soon as you purchase them from a jewelry store if they are not serious. you both sound like reasonable, nice people. he seems to me like someone that is trying really hard to impress his 'got her act together and knows what she wants' girlfriend (good for yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Can women be alpha/beta too?wrong. there are absolutely alpha/betas in the males and females of many species with hierarchal structures (such as predatory pack animals). and being the 'prettiest' only matters if you can't swim (male or female) and have to cling to someone who can (male or female) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Can women be alpha/beta too?yes, of course! The entire concept that only males are alpha is 100% myth. The term alpha male was first coined by a wolf biologist named Dr. Mech… “David Mech introduced the idea of the alpha to describe behavior observed in captive animals. Alphas, he wrote in his 1970 book "The Wolf: Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species," win control of their packs in violent fights with other males. But, as he outlined in a 1999 paper, he's since rejected that idea in light of research into the beha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/20 03:44 PM |
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