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DISCUSSIONsunshinewynter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:33 PM
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That is an excellent idea!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:04 PM
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Sorry you went through all that. Good plan for the future!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:24 AM
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I have cohabitated and we did briefly talk about marriage about 2 years in. I thought that was where it was headed. Around 3 years we talked about it and he said he didn't see himself ever getting married again. I was disappointed but didn't let him know that. We broke up about 7 months later. I will never do it again. In my current relationship, I will not move in until we have a ring and a date set. In stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:05 AM
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I remember one show that the police captain was a women and she insisted everyone call her "sir" because then they would take her seriously. Really?? A woman as a captain can't be taken seriously unless she goes by a male gendered title? Sir or Ma'am is a formal term of respect for a position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:49 AM
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One thing I always notice is clothing. Especially in cop/detective/FBI shows. The men wear suit and tie, while the women wear short sleeves, almost always a steep v neck, very light pants and heels. Also have long glowing hair. The dress code would not fly in any office, or law enforcement situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:13 PM
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He has a 2 year FWB, she thinks she has a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:42 AM
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Yeah he seems pretty rigid in his expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:33 AM
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I don't get the part about "..go out of your way to meet people your attracted to, see movies of people your attracted to.." wtf does that mean???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:27 AM
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Might as well advertise on the side of a bus. Bigger audience!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:25 PM
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I always find it ironic that women who are pro sex work, would never actually do it themselves, or suggest it as a good choice for there friend/sister/ mother etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:15 PM
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"Just seeing what's out there" like he's deciding to try the new buffet restaurant "Chivalry is not dead, I'm a diamond in the ruff" He wants you to believe RIGHT NOW what a great guy he is, because if you actually met him you would know right away that he's nothing but an insecure loser, so he's got to sell this point upfront. Also, he's obviously lazy, as he can't spell the word properly. Yeah, there are a lot of these out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:19 PM
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Urg this is just awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:14 PM
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That was awesome!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:10 AM
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Because they can. If we allow it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:18 PM
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If someone asked me that I would either say "why not?" Or "why do you ask?" Its really none of their business and not all questions require or deserve an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:22 PM
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How can I read the whole thread?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:10 AM
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I can only read what is in the screen shot, but based on that, I would not date someone with that level of mental illness. I don't know we would think a man should. She needs help, not something a relationship can give her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:49 PM
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That is way too long a video to watch about people who don't matter. (Narcissists)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:55 AM
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Thank you! :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:00 PM
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I don't get why she did all that in the first place. The financial disparity would have been obvious before, and it sounds like it was not addressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:46 PM
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I would advise against any comingling ever. Even when married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:51 PM
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I agree. The more we put ourselves first, not worry about what he's going to think, the better we will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:48 PM
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Thank you, it was 4 years ago and I'm over it. Actually started seeing someone really great just a few months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:49 PM
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He can expect it all he wants, but I will only do it if I want to. I just think it is an easy way to be reciprocal in a relationship, yet expect him to be the man, plan and pay for dates, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:23 PM
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What is a penis shield?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:11 PM
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What's wrong with it? It was 3 times out of probably 20+ dates. I didn't even make anything fancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:09 PM
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No drug users, no mental health issues, no people in "recovery"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:43 PM
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I have read the handbook, and agree with most of it. However, I think adult relationships evolve differently. I am a HVW, and expect a HVM. He is proving himself to be one through his actions, words and how he lives life. We are monogamous and have had that discussion. Every step of this has proceeded on my timeline, and I am getting everything I want. During this pandemic, we have been in lockdown most of these 3 months. No patios, no restaurants- basically not supposed to leave home. He has pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:39 PM
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I hardly think cooking a few meal, compared to what he does, ""wife priviledges"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:04 PM
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Unfortunately, he went into a new industry for his career, and didn't want anything but that in his life. I was not happy about it, but that's the way it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:52 PM
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More to this, I once dated someone who, after about 4 dates said to me this; "I need to tell you something, every time we go out, I want to pay for it. I don't want you to try to pick it up, how do you feel about that?" He established a boundary of his own and it made it easy. I said that I would like to reciprocate because I'm not in it for freebies, so I cooked dinner occasionally, I would bring over a bottle of wine, or pick up a snack I knew he liked, things like that. On holidays, he always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:35 AM
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I am dating a man for 3 months. He insists on paying for everything. To reciprocate his generosity, I invite him over for dinner. In the 3 months, I have cooked for him 3 times. I think its important to reciprocate, but let a man be a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:26 AM
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It's a stupid question to ask a celebrity. They would not be able to use OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:20 AM
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I think the original post is spot on. If it sounds blamey or judgmental, well, rather then speculate on ways it is some man's fault, women need to take responsibility for their choices. We can go around all day assuming some man made it difficult and forced this outcome, or we can remind women of their agency. Don't fall for some stupid dude, don't allow someone to control your life or "groom" you. It's not the victim 's fault, and men should not prey on women. We know this, but the only way to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:28 PM
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I agree that society thinks a woman has the option to depend on a man for financial support, but we have always known that is a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:05 PM
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This I think, is the number one mistake women make. Especially if they have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:59 PM
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Love bombing, even if you see nothing negative, this in itself is negative. Moving way to fast with emotions not just sex is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:54 AM
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I would equate this with bread crumbling. He gives a little of what he know you want, and then continues to pull back further and further, while you redouble your efforts to get more and bigger bread crumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:05 PM
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