sunsinclair Archive

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2	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? I mean your feelings are more intelligent than out and me talking about it. If you feel taken advantage of then there’s probably something you’re looking for, if not then there’s not a problem I don’t think. I guess you could maybe feel taken for granted and not taken advantage of, if that’s the situation I would say be proud of the ability to be selfless.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/19 10:28 AM
3	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? 1) I would guess if you really thought about it you probably want to date not just have random sex which is rare for women to want. There’s almost no chance that these women only want random sex with you, if you were very attractive that would still be the case. I know women who have random sex on tinder, they’re extremely rare. That being said there are plenty of women who are looking to have sexual relationships that don’t have to be like committed boyfriends, seems like that’s what you’re loo…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/19 07:10 AM
1	How to get these unwanted thoughts out of my head It's not strictly false that women are attracted to social status, just like it's not strictly false that men are not attracted to looks and casual sex. It's just far from the only thing in play, and far from as cartoonish as the red-pillers think about it. We're all a complex mix of culture and nature. We have a complex set of things we're looking for in relationships: sexual attraction, partnership, challenge, companionship, support, etc. Further, although men might be attracted to "mateable" …	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/19 03:14 PM
1	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? When I'm desperate it's like I'm the the guy who is only going to eat once for the next week. GIVE ME THE STEAK! Don't scarf it down? What do you mean? It can also make me kind of hide my self too much and there is nothing scarier than a guy who comes out of nowhere, or a who has been acting like a sexless boy and then bam! Sex! Yeah I think people like to be wanted. Get to know her, if you like tell her ask her out. Worst thing that can happen is she says no. In which case you discover you will…	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/19 10:36 AM
3	How to stop this from happening? If you're very cerebral, one thing that might be happening is that you are not being sexual enough. The scariest thing to a human is not knowing what someone wants. If you kind of ask someone out without sufficiently have telegraphed interest and tested mutual interest, it will shock her and she will run away. Imagine someone who you had no idea was interested in you, you barely even knew they were really sexually active, suddenly asked you out. Now imagine that you're also 60% as strong as this…	/r/seduction	03/08/19 10:16 AM
4	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? I think the most honest thing I can say is that you might be overvaluing appearance yourself. When you really know what you want, it matters less to you. And knowing what you really want makes you more attractive. I think if you wrote down what you wanted you'd find that the attraction isn't as important as you think. Even if the only thing you want is sex, I think you'll discover that other things matter: how in her body she is, how attracted to you she is, how willing she is to take or give co…	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/19 09:40 AM
4	What to do during your first hookup??? I also didn't tell my first that it was my first. It wasn't that weird, I was nervous and I told her I was nervous not in a scared way but more in a I want to tell you this way, she actually kind of liked that, and was much more experienced than me. I had a hard time keeping it up, but we had fun. I told my second that she was my second, we had great sex. Talking is pretty important, and if you get in the habit of talking early in the night it makes it easier to do later. So make it a goal to sa…	/r/seduction	03/08/19 08:44 AM
1	The bar on male physical attractiveness is set so high. Why do women rate most men as physically unattractive? Your best bet is to find someone you know who’s real good at taking pictures. Like a Facebook friend who posts pictures all the time that make you look. Have her take your pictures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 04:17 AM
1	The bar on male physical attractiveness is set so high. Why do women rate most men as physically unattractive? My feeling is this. As a guy to be attractive you have to be above average IN SOME WAY. On an online profile almost the only way to stick out is your picture. Profile matters a bit but honestly most people are such bad writers pictures really are like 1000 words. But meeting people in real life you can stick out in other ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 04:15 AM
6	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? Starting to work out will make you feel more confident already. How skinny are you? I know lots of guys who are not conventionally attractive who have had lots of sex.	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/19 04:07 AM
30	I want to go to the gym and get a more attractive body, but I’m worried that I would then only attract women that only value looks? Dude, feeling better about your body will absolutely not only attract women to you for your looks. Women are complex, looks are part of it but not by any means the whole thing. That being said a more attractive body is... more attractive. But there are lots of things to do to make yourself more attractive - be more read, get funnier, be more generous, be darker, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/19 04:04 PM
2	What do most men fail to understand about women? If you want good sex it is hard to overstate how much her being your surrogate mother will harm that. And it’s hard to state how automatic the instinct will be for her to do that with you if you are overly passive, prematurely scared, and naively withheld. As a man something that I’ve found women don’t know about me is how much of what seems like selfishness is actually very self conscious. We are often evaluating how we are suppose to be and trying to fit into that. Even kind of bad porn influe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 09:28 AM
3	I’m depressed about being a kissless virgin, should I go visit a prostitute to get it over with? Nothing wrong with getting a prostitute nothing to be ashamed about. The biggest thing I would say is try to treat it like you would a first relationship. Ie tell her it’s your first time and use the experience to try things and maybe let her teach you something and get a bit more comfortable. And then yeah depression that’s something you need to tackle. And poor social skills is going to take a lot of practice to fix but it can be done people have overcome incredible things. 5’3” isn’t great bu…	/r/seduction	18/07/19 05:18 AM