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Some people "hit the wall" in their early twenties No, 80% of men are just invisible in their early twenties...so they cant hit the wall because there is no real attractiveness to lose. And for the outstanding 20% of men they just wont get any real benefits of being attractive beyond having free sex. Ok, maybe 0.01% of men are models or have a coguar and they will lose this with ageing... In my opinion only women can hit the wall because only women get the benefits of being prettier in their you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:25 PM
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If the guy is gay, bi or curious then Grindr may be his best option, in any other case the guy is screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:54 AM
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Why are you so angry? why are you so emotional? nobody has to work a job they don’t want nobody has to do a fucking thing they don’t want not for men, honey! men pay alimony and child support based on your potential income. If they quit their current jobs to pursue a less lucrative career then courts will screw them in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:15 PM
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InCell Incel, darling... not incell. And why is this an insult? do you think its ok to make fun about guys unable to experience physical intimacy? supposedly a pre-op trans girl? I call bullshit Pre-op trans means I am a proper lady but I still have a dick, maybe you are used to derogatory terms like femboy trap or shemale to describe weirdos like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:38 PM
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a trans girl is not a guy, but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:16 PM
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there are some studies about the issue and results are all the same, its harder the sorter you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:08 AM
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I like short guys, but I am a t-girl so I guess thats the reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:05 AM
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In my experience this is BS, thats why girls love bad boys who give 2 hits about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:01 AM
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If you are attracted to men and you live in the west then the decision is a no brainer, thats why all the bi guys I know are dating/banging other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:41 AM
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Are you taking into account common law marriage? because many younger guys dont get married but cohabitate with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:39 PM
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IMAO all your points are 100% correct, I only have problems with men being treated unfairly in family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:37 PM
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More or less. Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:08 PM
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I agree, its just a gross number to illustrate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:26 PM
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All married guys have something in common; they thought their relationships were different. Thats why men play stupid games with stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:12 PM
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fraud, coercion, diminished mental capacity, failure to file it, didn’t have legit legal representation Nice try! But this also applies to men, it doesnt? In most cases men sign their financial death sentence (aka. marriage contract) without any legit legal representation at all! Coercion and/or manipulation to marry is widespread, for example the good and old "I am pregnant" trick. There are way more men than women suffering a diminished mental capacity, but I have never heard a marriage contra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:49 PM
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With a divorce rate of 50% the worst case scenario is almost the most likely outcome of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:28 PM
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Women are naturally less horny than men, but simultaneously ride the “cock carousel” throughout their 20s. Most have 10+ sexual partners and are whores. Both statements are true, in fact women can ride the “cock carousel” throughout their 20s BECAUSE tehy are naturally less horny than men. Less horny=more bargaining power. The rest of the post is about contradictions I have never heard about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:46 PM
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let the man use your body for 5-25 min a week! Oh, I get it! But I would give my man much more than 5-25 min a week, because I am a real woman tee hee!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:35 PM
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Women is object, objects get used. what the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:17 PM
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And the reason is simple; hypergamy. Women tend to approach only the cream of the cream regardless of their own attractiveness. Statistically this will end in rejection most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:04 PM
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Literally every aspect of this comment is wrong. Society tells men their value increases with every girl they fuck. That encourages sexuality. Society tells women they need to preserve their virginity. you are still stuck in the 90s, nobody thinks like this anymore I know wayyyy more virgin women than virgin men because of this statistics show male virginity is way higher and will keep raising more and more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:17 PM
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I mean, a college age person dating a blue collar worker around the same age? Being much older than your sugar baby and being rich are not requierements to be a sugar or at least a splenda daddy. Sounds pretty fucking normal to me. Its certainly a fucking normal thing, thats my point. Sugar or splenda relationships are very common, so common most people wont even notice. this is just regular people dating. if there is money involved than its sugaring, being blue collar or not wont change anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:00 PM
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more or less thats what I am saying, but I see there are lots of grey areas in my logic. This probably deserves a CMV post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:36 PM
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Splenda is simply a poorer sugar daddy, correct? or a rich guy willing to spend little
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:56 PM
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dude, its in my very first comment. Anyways splenda dating is just a less dramatic form of sugar dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:29 AM
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Wanting a guy with a job =/= sugaring Wanting a guy with a job + expecting him to support her == "splenda" sugaring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:22 AM
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not solely but an important part, in other words... same guy without the income and willingness to support her wouldnt be considered a potential partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:05 AM
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yes, any girl can chose to date a guy with a stable income rather than -for example- another student
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:58 AM
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1-I know the term is frequently used to describe other type of relationship, thats why I used the term "splenda dating". 2-I am using the definition of "sugaring" in a broad sense, as I previously stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:26 PM
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if your partner has a lot of schoolwork without much time for a job, and can't find work that pays well and is willing to hire a student thats what almost every adult experiences in life, nothing unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:19 PM
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because of...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:15 PM
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According to your definition, in my example the guy is not gifting because he is expecting something in return and the girl is giving something in return. Its a transaction!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:14 PM
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For me it looks like a person being a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:59 PM
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1-If one of the used currencies happens to be money or money equivalents then its probably sugaring. 2-I use the common definition of sugaring, taken from the friking wikipedia!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:09 PM
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I dont see any contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:02 PM
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Ok, you get gifts from your family and friens all the time, or just in your birthday or christmas? LOL I am not changing the definition of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:01 PM
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Thats a valid motive? They cant support themselves while studying just like everyone else? Mutual support is about helping each other in difficult times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:59 PM
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"Sugar daddy" is the usual term, in theory a sugar daddy can be younger than his sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:52 PM
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I love gifs but a BF paying your bills is not a gift, a gift is something punctual IMO. Same for first dates!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:51 PM
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Wikipedia My own definition LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:06 PM
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inequality/assistance at times. at times and with a good reason? sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:03 PM
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supporting your partner is a pretty common thing if they're studying fulltime Men supporting female partners? maybe... they didn't get a partner to reimburse them financially for a relationship. then they should provide for themselves and refuse the money...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:01 PM
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yeah, insults are a great way to avoid thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:26 PM
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In most cases, yes! Its a tricky thing but there are multiple examples of relationships that are not transactional in nature even if partners have significant differences in income, for example people that significantly changes their income while married or in a LTR but money wasnt part of "the deal".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:24 PM
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offer the "girlfriend experience", i.e., pretend to date you. I get it, thats why I added the "splenda dating" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:12 PM
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that's not really the same thing though whats different?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:07 PM
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From Wikipedia; Sugar dating, also called sugaring, is a transactional dating practice typically characterized by an older wealthier person and a younger person in need of financial assistance in a mutually beneficial relationship. Payment can be received by way of money, gifts, support or other material benefits in exchange for companionship or a dating-like relationship. So yeah, sounds like sugaring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:06 PM
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Your opinion is objectively wrong when you say this you have to give an actual argument to support your views LOL A 23 year old boyfriend covering bills while his 18 year old gf studies is not sugaring. well, IMO thats sugaring
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:58 PM
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IMO if it involves a transaction of money/goods then its sugar dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:38 PM
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I also move in academic circles and in my experience sugaring is very very common, but its not about living a lavish lifestyle with an old and rich guy. Many college girls have older (I am talking about a reasonable difference like 5 years older) or just blue collar boyfriends who work full time and pay the bills. Those guys are by no means millionaires... just working class guys. I think the term is "splenda daddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:52 PM
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Visit your local family court! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:35 PM
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I express my preferences all the time for fit girls and I'm never labeled as misogynist. If you are a young guy in the west, I doubt it. And anyways having a preference for fit women is not so controversial, the N count is way more controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:10 PM
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Younger generations now are so open go to any college in the west and you will see how closed minded younger generations are LOL young men can be bisexual or polyamorous or into fat girls or into very muscular crossfit girls or want childfree relationships or whatever and nobody will bat an eye. men arent allowed to express almost any preference regarding women without being labled a misogynist unless maybe (big maybe) their preferences are politically correct. For example they can say they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:36 PM
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because our society forced our women to be not so easy to get and to suppress their sexual desires Nop, its the opposite. Society tells women not to suppress any sexual desire while men are told they should change every aspect of their sexuality. In the west "masculinity" is almost an insult they tell guys they cant have any preferences and also they have to tolerate anything that comes from a woman (including domestic violence).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:30 PM
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and gov spending
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:00 PM
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not a lifetime pension but multiple opportunities that are not available for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:53 PM
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Because adults generally have to work to support themselves but women are adults, whats the problem? those that don’t are homeless not true, depending on your state you can modestly live without working just by abusing welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:52 PM
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Short advice; avoid 80% of all hot guys aka Police officers Firemen and Military guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:40 PM
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LOL, I will never understand why society cares so much about a woman having to work after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:38 PM
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But the hashtag is still alive because her lawyers are still fighting, the case is way more complex than it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:14 AM
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This may shock you but this song wasnt written by Britney herself, anyways you are 100% right about Britneys dad. FREE BRITNEY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:08 AM
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You're saying that a man has to be a Beta Bux to get laid, which is false. In fact its quite the opposite, deadbeats have a special charm. For example Criminal by Britney Spears; "He is a hustler, he's no good at all He is a loser, he's a bum, bum, bum, bum He lies, he bluffs, he's unreliable He is a sucker with a gun, gun, gun, gun"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:32 PM
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​ I personally think trans women are imitations of women. Pepsi was an imitation of Coca-cola, but many guys prefer Pepsi. Thats why I think many ladies are certainly jealous of us. I also consider it to be a immutable characteristic based on biology. Sure, the problem is we know enough about development biology to understand the structural and functional similarities between cis and trans female brains. So the whole biology argument is a little bit outdated IMO You are jealous of cis women beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:32 PM
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You know thats not what I said. Nobody deserves to be "bombarded with thirsty men asking for nudes", but there are certain things you can do to avoid this kind of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:05 PM
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As a trans person, dating is not the same thing for you as it is for cis women. You perceive it as easy because you want the same thing men want- casual sex. Cis women want dating that leads to a long-term relationship. Then marriage and kids. Repeat after me; trans women are women. I dont know why there are so many transphobic ladies out there, are you intimidated by us? its jealously?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:01 PM
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And still no quality matches? I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:32 PM
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​ They just immediately come out with the sex. In tinder 90% of female profiles I see have no bio, or just put very generic stuff like "I like to laugh" which almost translates in "I am here only for hookups". Literally all women on tinder get this treatment lmfao Many horny guys messaging? sure, but when you are only getting attention from this kind of guy than there is something wrong about your profile (or you).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:46 PM
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want to use your body as a human fleshlight thats what happens when the only thing you have to offer is sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:23 PM
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I struggle a lot, and I was born a woman. I was born a man, now I am almost a woman. Dating as a woman is ridiculously easy (and I am not even a 5/10 in looks). Many other things are easier too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:20 PM
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No. Very attractive women have the simultaneous problem of being approached by many men, as well as the frustration of not having the men they truly like approach them, and of course, women are "not supposed" to approach men (although some will!). Compare this to 80% of guys with almost zero matches lol Unattractive women, on the other hand, have few choices, at all, and may feel compelled to accept whatever man happens to show them attention. I am a trans girl, my face is not even a 5 because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:27 PM
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All forms of socializing have been on the decline over the past 10 years I am sure you have a point here, and maybe its the elephant in ther room about modern relationships. But I still think porn is not the cause because it was very available in the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:24 PM
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Porn makes it way easier for guys to just give up finding a girlfriend/dating/sex and just masturbate. How do you explain male virginity in the US for ages 18-30 was 8% in 2008 and 27% in 2018 considering porn was widely available in the internet way before 2008?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:44 PM
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I think she has a solid point, I have a different interpretation... I dont know what I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 08:39 PM
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Men get judged by different set of qualities. IMAO just a different set of standards, the bar is simply higher at everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:53 PM
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"quality man" is an elegant way to say "attrctive"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:32 PM
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America's failing capitalism In my opinion sounds more like a failing government but I get the point. I am more curious about the impact technology (AI and automation) will have in the economy and in the dating market. Maybe the need of a "provider" will be obsolete in a near future maybe its the opposite maybe the pool of possible "providers" will be tiny... unexplored waters!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:26 PM
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she is competing with women all over the world For Chad, not for an average guy. Thats why inceldom is soaring! women will always compete for quality men What a privilege! 80% of men compete for the bottom 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:13 PM
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This post is offensive as hell LOL, you talk about T-girls like we were not even human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:03 PM
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This really extends to all of social media and big tech. Facebook, IG and Twitter will ban and silence anyone who espouses any sort of right leaning ideology. It has become sort of frightening honestly. In my opinion 99% of the red pill and black pill content comes from cis women spreading it in clean and family friendly platforms, sounds crazy? Think about terms like "simp" "alpha" "chad" "beta" "stacy" and "incel" -to name a few- and how all of them are now mainstream af. This wouldnt be possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:32 PM
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People-males=us But thanks to point out there is no "us"... sometimes I forget I am not girl enough to be in the same boat as real women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:10 AM
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This is not about feelings! I am not mad women chose low paying jobs. Being so emotional is the reason why some people dont take us seriously in power/responsability positions :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:55 AM
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Women take hits to their career when taking time off to care for children how much time? enough to compensate their huge negative fiscal impact? I doubt it Ok but the lower paying jobs have to be done, correct? Nobody said the opposite, we are just talking about the amount of taxes men and women pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:16 AM
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Are you a beautiful "girl"? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:38 AM
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Isn't a decreased interest in sex just the result of hormones slowing down Nop, married men report an almost constant interest in sex until they are 50 years old and its strong even in their 70s. As a personal experience I am approached by guys as old as 80 yo all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:19 AM
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I think the reason the west was so succesful is because of monogamy, non-monogamus societies are hellholes IMAO . Thats a nice article (The economist) that explains why polygamy may be terrible for society https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:10 AM
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Not a source, just an example of society shaming men, in this case crazy conservatives shaming unmarried guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:02 AM
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1- Women chose lower paying jobs and thus pay way less taxes. Even if we consider unpaid domestic labour the potential contribution to the tax revenue is small. 2-Really, how much time a mother needs to be unemployed or working part-time in order to properly raise a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:00 AM
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Do you feel good insulting people? Do know about Google scholar? As an example here is a study made in New Zealand; Aziz, Omar and Gemmell, Norman and Laws, Athene, The Distribution of Income and Fiscal Incidence by Age and Gender: Some Evidence from New Zealand (April 30, 2013). Victoria University of Wellington Working Paper in Public Finance No. 10/2013, Available at SSRN: https://ssrn.com/abstract=2375926 or http://dx.doi.org/10.2139/ssrn.2375926 You can follow the methodology for your own c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:36 PM
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It’d get the same response as all those tweets about not wanting short men or broke men. In my experience this is 100% not true. All the time I see posts and articles about why any man who isnt cool about dating single mothers is a monster or why any guy who doesnt like chubby girls is a fatphobic piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:30 PM
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I think you are 100% right, but my point is why monogamous heterosexual relationships were viewed as the default for most of western history. In my opinion its simply because thats the way men work to death and society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:22 PM
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Tweet this as an experiment "I just want a fit and childless woman" and wait. LOL, dont lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:16 PM
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People aren’t “teaching” this to their kids. I used to me a man, trust me when I say we measure a boy/young men success in life just by his ability to be useful for a girl, its all about girls. For example we make fun of virgin boys all the time, in fact "virgin" is an insult for straight men. In other words if no girl wants to have sex with you or you arent able to seduce a girl then you are not a man, ask why! If a decently looking young guy making decent money has no GF in sight he must be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:03 PM
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Depends on your country, you have to do the math considering the share of taxes men pay and the public services, social security and welfare they get (in general women get way more benefits). Anyways just seeing the share of taxes men pay you can understand ´they contribute way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:28 PM
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Incels are shamed because "they dont try hard enough", to "improve themselves" which means "make more $$$, pay more takes, marry any woman (no standards allowed for men), provide for your wife and kids, shut up and die". Thats why I find the whole Incel=terrorist loser shit so disgusting, they make fun and talk shit about people in pain just to protect society's selfish interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:08 PM
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Real men work more than 200 hours per week, man up! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:00 PM
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Men work more in better paying fields get little gov help and spend less. Its obvious to see the gap, even if you consider those 5 years. Anyways, ask why they live less! Maybe they work to death? In the US only men -as a group- pay taxes, and the net negative fiscal impact of women is not 100k; its 150k. My bad! The moment men start focusing on themselves their needs and desires society ends.Thats why they shame incels, MGTOWs and red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:19 PM
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If anyone is really teaching that to their son son, they indeed need to stop. They teach this to boys all the time! Case study; PragerU Is Marriage Good for Men?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY&t=118s Just 30 years ago having no kids would be a major red flag during job interviews or asking for a loan, and I am talking about the US and europe. Society works simply because men produce much more than they spend in order to provide for their families (thats why women do 80% of all consum…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:39 PM
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Developer of what? Software, real estate? In my STEM field I have never seen a Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:41 AM
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Men are cool not settling down! Look at all those "lonely wolf" characters in movies whose audience target is almost all male, you probably wont see the equivalent of "The Renegade" in movies targeted to women. In my personal experience, Chads never settle down because they -for example- neglect their education and dont have the best work ethic (when -as a male- you have access to a lot of sex since a young age you dont need to develop character or too many valuable skills, you can enjoy your li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:10 AM
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anyone can improve themselves instead of giving up and deciding they can't do better (we all can). The juice is not worth the squeeze for 90% of men, since they are told they have to improve to impress girls that wont even do the bare minimum to be attractive. Men want us to be femenine, polite and sweet. Modern culture is all about doing the opposite, but I am happy, more men for me, te hee!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:56 PM
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whats the conspiracy? the facts about RP are IMO quite easy to prove right, I have problems with their interpretations and proposed solutions about those ugly facts. Thats why I am a purple girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:31 PM
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A small minority knows about the RP, but a good percentage of men are red pilled, tinder and social media are the young guys pharmacy for red pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:21 PM
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A Lamborghini is -most of the time- a status symbol, if most guys dont need to impress girls they wont work 4 times more for a lambo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:17 PM
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If you dont have a wife and kids you can work 50-75% less and still have lots of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:01 PM
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1-Not always side with the girl, but when in doubt... yeah, and even if found not guilty the process is horrible, you may loss your job, friends, family... 2-Fact: poor children in third world countries are a good target if you are looking for sex with minors. Its a well known fact! But it still weird to mention as a possible option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:29 AM
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1_Courts will always find the guy guilty 2-You were talking only about drunk women, which makes you sound like a pervert LOL. If the guy is as drunk as the girl he probably wont be able to have sex with the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:11 AM
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thats borderline promoting rape
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:02 AM
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And its safe because we all know courts love to hear about guys sleeping with drunk girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:01 AM
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Its also known as (I dont like the term) "the pig woman", a fake profile of a woman with photoshopped images that made her look like a pig. Also, her bio was disgusting, she stated she wanted "a hot guy with cash"lol but still had tons of messages from average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:36 PM
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Male thirst is infinite! She will have good options, not chad but average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:22 PM
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Its a numbers game. He may reject her but he will have zero options left, she can reject him and still have several other -better- options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:14 PM
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a 300 pound autistic girl will still refuse to date a 300 pound autistic boy... thats why male and female virgins exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:34 PM
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You haven't lived as a woman and do not share those experiences. Sure bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:04 PM
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not relevant to the argument In a post about "misandric behaviour", yeah! I am sorry guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:38 PM
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And keep in mind that sexual assault and rape are underreported. yes, for all genders not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:18 PM
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Push for women to stop Yeah, after all of this feminism women will be willing to return to the old religious based values... sure dude! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:15 PM
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We should address the issue Any ideas? because I am quite sure we cant change modern culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:04 PM
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none, and it sucks for guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:05 AM
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Even guys that appear nice can be using a thin veil of niceness to get what they want Same for women, trans, gay, crossdressers, non binary and so on. Men are not better or worse than anybody else... we are all human!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:57 AM
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I am a crossdresser, which is a quite risky thing because we are an easy target of hate crimes/crazy admirers/police abuse, so I am not naive at all! I receive creepy messages all the time, and by creepy I mean -for example- death threats from people who think I should burn in hell LOL. Thats being said, most guys that send me messages are respectful, and I wont think they are creepy...Just guys that feel attracted to me... they are doing anything wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:44 AM
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creepy reddit men why do you think they are creepy? I mean... she said nothing about this, and women use the term "creepy" to describe any guy they are not attracted to men sending lewd messages we dont know this! maybe some were lewd messages but not all yeah those are great options probably, but it wasnt even my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:21 AM
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I get it, my point is anonymous faceless randoms on Reddit are a thermometer of the attention she gets in real life and OLD... I mean... we can assume there is a strong correlation between the amount of guys from reddit that are willing to date her and the amount of guys willing to date her IRL and OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:07 AM
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​ want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that’s fucking impossible. also her Edit: stop dming for a date im not interested LOL, this is how drowing in options looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:57 PM
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vile and oppressive that is WHY? I am talking about guys that want to reduce their sex drive not the gov forcing them to take a med (I dont even suport vax mandates) That is treating unattractive men like cattle thats society, not me! It is just such a vile ideal that is on the level of taking away rights. The opposite! its empowering for the bottom 80% of the guys. If you have a low sex drive then women dont have the power to make you feel bad if they reject you. Also if you have a low sex driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:25 PM
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less extreme and reversible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:32 PM
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castrate themselves no, to lower their sex drive we don’t even have male birth control pills. dont see the connection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:22 PM
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1-Antidepressants are presribed for several uses including depression, panic attacks, obsessive compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, social anxiety disorder (social phobia), premenstrual syndrome (premenstrual dysphoric disorder), bulimia among others. 2-My point was at some point antidepressants will also be prescribed to sexually frustrated guys (guys with a high sex drive that are unable to date) s a way to help them manage their urges and avoid them to become -violent- incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:11 PM
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They are OK with being assholes, they have zero problems with harming others so they wont take SSRIs to avoid harming others. They will probably do the opposite like taking amphetamines/coke/viagra!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:00 PM
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Rapists are O.K with their sex drive, they wont ask for SSRIs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:41 PM
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I am quite sure you didnt date a statistically relevant sample of men on SSRIs, so your limited personal experience wont contradict large clinical tials. guys on SSRIs are you sure? not every antidepressant is a SSRI, and some SSRI are way more sex drive killing than others (I am quite sure zoloft is the very worst) were still horny in the short term with low to moderate doses? maybe, not for most guys but its certalinly possible couldn't cum If you cant cum you will have less interest in meetin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:01 PM
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Thats why I think in the near future SSRI (antidepressants) will be prescribed for ugly guys with a high libido (they will invent some disease related to "being too horny"). Antidepressants even in moderate doses kills your libido and having too many frustrated young guys is dangerous for society (really).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:37 PM
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most men have a vested interest in having children men with a vested interest in having children are a tiny minority, really!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:11 PM
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1-Accepting the good the bad and the ugly about guys. 2-Challenging my own standards, realising many of my requierements were irrelevant BS in te medium or long term. 3-Working on myself, including my own BS (like double standards, entitlement ). 4-Adopting a buddhist mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:01 PM
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Interesting... maybe you are a victim of poor location or something... btw which standards do you have? For example in income, education, height, ect Also; if you have a high income it may be a con for most men (they will assume you want a guy that makes even more).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:13 AM
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I am sorry, maybe I focused too much in semantic stuff ! But anyways I think its ok to point out female nature is not so different than male nature... sometimes this sub is too red LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:58 PM
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You said women are "less willing" to lower their standards. My point is men are not more willing to lower their standards; they have to or they are out of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:59 PM
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"Men are often more likely to lower their standards. Women are often less willing to lower their standards" Nop, most of them are forced to change their standards, most women dont need to (until its too late). When I was a gay teenager (now a shemale) I wasnt atteacted to almost any of my peers in school (exept maybe THAT guy all girls wanted) but I certainly had a crush for certain youtubers/hollywood stars/singers... guys so out of my league! Male hypergamy at its finest LOL As a gay young adu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:30 PM
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Maybe its a STEM thing but I am very used to think in percentages. But yeah... it can be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:38 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:22 AM
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Exit tax! Uncle sam is a bitch LOL But I get the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:13 AM
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"well men commit most of the violence". The amount of criminals raised by single mothers is like 10 times higher, then if a guy raised by a single mother suffers from a violent crime I can say "well men raised by single mothers commit most of the violence so I guess I dont care". LOL Even worse, if we bring social class or race, you can literally justify violence against certain racial groups or social classes! This argument is toxic and dangerous as fuck, every victim is important!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:10 PM
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This! Needy clingy men are kriptonite for girls, the whole "I am a strong independent woman" is pure psychological projection. Having hobbies will always make you more attractive, which is not the same as saying having hobbies will make you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:21 PM
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More hobbies=less attention towards her=she is more interested in you=better dating prospects. Great advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:15 AM
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A girl cant cheat on you before even meeting her! You can have a preference for low n count girls, but having a relationship with a high n count girl wont make you a cuck! Maybe you can invent another word for guys that are OK dating high n count girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:26 PM
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If said woman is loyal then he is not a cuck, maybe you can question the probability of her staying loyal due her past but I still think you dont have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah, a young girl has a high dating value with little effort while a young boy -unless he is really attractive- needs years of sacrifice to even be considered a possible candidate, in other words men always have to bring more to the table. BTW, botox looks awful 95% of the time!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:09 PM
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​ Much like womens value hinges on their looks, mens value hinges on their ability to provide Looks are the softer of all the soft qualities, you dont have to work hard for your looks! On the other hand the ability to provide is the hardest of all the hard stuff, to be a good provider you need good training/education (big investment in time, money and energy) and then hard work every day 8+ hours!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:22 PM
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Meaning of Cuck (From Urban Dictionary) A man who lets his wife or girlfriend have sex with other men. Often the man lets her do whatever she wants and treat him like shit.(Short version of cuckold) The past of a girl is irrelevant to determine if you are a cuck or not, it only matters what she does once in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:09 PM
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You certainly have a point about soft stuff, and your ex is a good example of this. But my point is women in general assesses their own "value" considering a lot of difficult to measure soft stuff but at the same time judge the "value" of men mostly considering objective hard stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:22 PM
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nothing more than a psychical act without any emotional or intellectual attachment to the person he is sleeping with. It’s a step up from masturbation on a psychical level but not on an emotional one. I date straight guys* and I can say they love non-sexual contact (kisses, hugs and so on) and conversations (about men stuff like cars or some video games) as much -if not more- than sex per se! The thing is they never equate those things with a serious long term romantic interest, so they can bang…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:55 AM
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Thats great! but I dont think most girls would do the same, and its not a bad thing... we are just different!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:24 AM
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Sure, I am not talking about dating a clone and I agree with you at the personal level for example, I can tolerate high levels of stress but I am terrible at multitasking, then a partner with low tolerance to stress but good at multitasking would be a nice fit. I get it, But what about things outside your personality? complements my strengths and balances my weaknesses In my opinion that's tricky, we have to acknowledge not all skills, strengths and weaknesses are created equal! There are "soft …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:18 AM
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I think OP is not woke at all, just pissed off about the fact my flair says "crossdesser" and my username says "guy" and I cant be a "guy" and a crossdresser at the same time so my "Username does not appear to check out" my flair... I see bigotry like this all the time but I am not a fragile snowflake so I dont care!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:28 PM
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mmm...why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:31 PM
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I dont know a single woman that would date herself if she was a guy, and I know a lot of women. As a personal anecdote I know 2-3 obese women involved in the body positivity movement and none of them would date an obese or even chubby guy because (insert BS excuse).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:12 PM
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TRUE, the thing is women have way more social preassure for "virtue signaling" than men. For example, in some studies they ask a girl how important height (or money, or status, etc.) is when evaluating a romantic candidate and they will all say its not very important (the nice and socially accepted answer) but then they ask the same question about what for other women they will tell you the exact opposite (the ugly answer). Men on the other hand wont sugarcoat anything, because they are not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:49 PM
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But the exit cost is more than half your stuff, its very expensive to "upgrade" as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:34 PM
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