superchalupa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do I get so stiff and try so hard whenever there are girls around? For me, I found out much later that the reason I completely freeze up around women was that I'm autistic. Cross your fingers that's not what your problem is, because that would suck.	/r/seduction	09/01/22 01:49 AM
6	[deleted by user] Let's show mathematically how many partners is "too many". Let "N" be the number of past partners that they had before they met me. I would be "N+1", let's call that number "M". We can mathematically represent the number that would be "too many" with the expression "M+1". Caveats and limitations: any situation where they exceed M in a non-consentual manner is not covered. Any situation where they revisit N would not be covered.	/r/seduction	05/11/21 07:38 PM
24	[deleted by user] Great points here! Ask specifics, make concrete plans, not generic i'd-like-to-hang-out-sometime. Something like: "Hey, I see that $BAND is playing in two weeks at $COOL_LOCAL_VENUE. I would like it very much if you would go with me. Will you go with me?" If the response is positive, you can expand and create a date: "We can grab a bite to eat before the concert at one of my favorite local restaurants! I'd love to show you the artwork there, they always have the best local artists and their $APP…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 04:05 PM
5	[deleted by user] OP did a great job here. Improving himself. Approaching an interest in a respectful way. Sure, getting her number would have been better, maybe next time they talk, but there's not much to criticize here. Approaching somebody who is "at work" and is forced by their job situation to interact with customers is not ideal as she likely gets hit on daily. Doing it the way he did is probably the most respectful way to do it. "be a man" - silly. "beta" - Also silly. You dont need to perform masculinity…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 03:58 PM
5	Mentor bad idea.	/r/seduction	29/06/20 07:17 PM
1	I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say? Think about it this way: If you had to give out advice that would be universal, what would you say? Because I guarantee you that "older men" and "non-socialized individuals" will read your post and go, "I'm glad I'm not a creep or non-socialized individual: I can hit on anybody I want, according to cliff_lord." It's hard to know the target audience, or who will read your comment years later and out of context, so I'm more comfortable just saying "never do it". It's easy to follow, and you dont h…	/r/seduction	23/09/19 05:58 PM
2	I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say? Saw this in another subreddit today and I thought of your response: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/d853w7/i_am_so_fucking_tired/ This is a huge re-occuring topic on forums like this. But sure, hit on service industry people if you want.	/r/seduction	23/09/19 01:47 PM
5	I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say? Do not hit on or try to pick up women that are working customer-facing service jobs. Ever. Period. Every guy ever to tries this, and the women have to deflect this on a daily basis. They are just trying to work and make money to feed themselves. They shouldnt have to be subject to this as part of their job. They are forced to talk to customers as part of their job, and men feel like they are entitled leave bad comments when they aren't chipper and happy to talk to every joe who walks in the door…	/r/seduction	19/09/19 02:21 PM