| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?Not interesting is an automatic deal breaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:30 AM |
| 2 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?same. beautiful woman but i'm not going to be jerking it to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardswhat is a "passport bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?I prefer average looking women. The very hot girls that I dated were crazy af lol. They constantly needed validation and it was tiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?LOL I didn't expect the 250 lbs part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to want a masculine woman ?I see what you're doing now But you forgot to mention bugs in this post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to want a masculine woman ?lmao OP are you trolling. There was another post about wanting a feminine woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | "Men only notice attractive women". Is this really true?That's a broad generalization. I have attractive female friends who I treat like my guy friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.this is what I was thinking. Average looking girls do fine, in fact they do VERY WELL and many average looking woman I know are in healthy long-term relationships. OP probably has a shitty personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | who should pay for dates?most importantly why?whoever makes more money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather have common interests with your partner of similar age or a younger women?similar age, but I prefer a woman to be older than me, honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:10 AM |
| 10 | What Is The Biggest Risk Factor That Someone Will Still Be A Virgin By 30? (Not By Choice)I agree. Being neurodivergent on an extreme level is the biggest risk factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be rejected over your personality or your looks?are you confident about your appearance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Did being in a relationship make you more proactive or more complacent?more complacent in terms of my own health. My ex gf, who is very skinny, actually liked how I was fat so I got FATTER during our relationship. but for career, I got a high paying job thanks to her, which pressured me (in a good way) to work hard and keep the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?yeah I don't mind answering any questions. I got your DM and i'll answer your question there when I have time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:43 AM |
| – | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?My dad is 5'6 and my mom is 5'9, and her mom is even taller. Me (I'm a male) and my brothers all ended up around 5'7. There is still a pretty good chance that your sons will be short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | are women not as attractive ?OP is a girl I think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?I mean, even if they aren't active on the FDS community, subconsciously they probably have similar mindsets as them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?gen z women these days all are secretly FDSers online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.my ex gf is significantly more attractive than I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?tbh you do sound like you a dude larping as a girl sometimes lmaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Men & Women of PPD ratingTf? They are below average. You are overrating them high because they're white lmao. They are not fit, a few of them look like they might be fat, and they have a goddamn filter on their photo, and they're makeup and angle frauding. Selfie pics are not accurate. If you really want to see someone clearly then you need to see a faraway pic (like with girl #8). Most people look worse in far away pics because it's hard to angle fraud your face when the camera is far away, which means all the ppl who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Men & Women of PPD ratingyea tom holland and zendaya are honestly a super weird lookin couple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Men & Women of PPD ratingstop overrating someone just because they have green eyes lol. holy shit that is cringe of you. her face is average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Men & Women of PPD ratingshe almost looks like she was supposed to be born male tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe looks/SMV/PSL-ratings are more objetive or relative? And why do you believe so?yeah there are definitely some feminine looking asian guys out there, but a lot of it is due to makeup and plastic surgery (the v-line surgery is popular among men and women in Korea). Koreans prefer pretty boys because it's rare for men to be pretty there (men and women there on avg have very hooded and small eyes, wide square jaws, large jigsaw cheekbones, etc, all of which are masculine traits). that's why plastic surgery is so common in korea because Korean people are rarely born with femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace?TRP is so dumb. I'd rather die than date someone that much younger than me when I'm 35. The obsession with women who barely just graduated high school speaks volumes for how TRP is full of low IQ men who think like chimpanzees. Ya'll never evolved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe looks/SMV/PSL-ratings are more objetive or relative? And why do you believe so?Tbh I think Asian men look more masculine than white men, so I can kinda understand why a lot of Asian women find white men more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:48 AM |
| 11 | Q4Men: what did you open up to her about?Ok this is probably not the answer you're looking for because my gf never bailed on me after I opened up to her about a lot of things. I told her I was raped when I was 9 while at school, abused by my dad who has been in and out of jail most of my life, a bunch of childhood trauma, I get schizo attacks when I'm home sick, suicidal thoughts when I think my gf is mad at me, etc. edit - grammar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe looks/SMV/PSL-ratings are more objetive or relative? And why do you believe so?it's subjective after around a 6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe looks/SMV/PSL-ratings are more objetive or relative? And why do you believe so?lmao, ironic cuz white people are hairy af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do women meet guys in 2022?that's nice, thanks for answering. why do you think edating is cringe tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How do women meet guys in 2022?were you guys a ldr for a while before meeting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.I've been jerking off to nothing for 2 years and after doing it for this long, it made me realize that men who require to see a naked woman to jerk off are very pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about?Face and natural beauty is everything to me. If I find out a girl has done plastic surgery, then I'm out. All of the girls I knew in high school have gone under the knife or did some kind of cosmetic procedure (nose jobs, lip filler, and Botox are very common, basically every Hollywood celebrity has done those things along with many other surgical procedures most ppl probably never heard of, and regular ppl do those at high rates too). Surgeons are EXTREMELY good at making it look natural. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?What is SA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?Kinda Never been RP and never will be. I'm too lazy for that shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?Yep, I have masturbated without porn for over 2 years at this point. I am 100% going to keep it this way. I think I'm in the minority, especially for men, but I do know one other guy who masturbates to nothing too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.same... I need intellectual and emotional connection too. OP sounds like a chimpanzee tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Thousands of men lusting after a female serial killermen and women aren't very different at the end of the day tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Thousands of men lusting after a female serial killerI think hip dips are ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Are straight men attracted to women in a different way than lesbians are?finger digit ratios matter though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship.your husband settled for you then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship.bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?I have seen my male friends date multiple women and, it was clear as day that they treated their "uglier" (they weren't even ugly, they were average) gfs noticeably different. They would talk over them, barely listen to them, disrespect their feelings, and tell them to do shit that my friends didn't wanna bother doing. As an example of the last thing I brought up, one time I was at my friend's place and he told his average looking gf to go out in the pouring rain to go get our pizza, when the si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate how complex their sexuality isI agree... if a girl has a bad personality, I'll start noticing her flaws way more and nitpicking lots of thing about her body or face that other men will probably not even care about or notice and to me, bad personality could either be someone who is mean, racist, and a lot of other other obvious things. But being boring and lacking creativity also counts as having a bad personality imo. If a chick is boring AF to talk to and seems to be average or low IQ, then it'll be impossible for me to eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 7 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?you ever heard of the halo effect? it applies to both men and women. Uglier people regardless of their gender are treated more shitty. you have to be completely ignorant to think ugly women are protected by MEN. Men are subconsciously meaner to uglier chicks source: I'm a dude with male friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?the vast majority of ppl on tiktok are gen Z'ers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?if you're suicidal, then yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?it's unreal because everything on Instagram is photoshopped. lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themI'm a guy. I choose partners based on whether I want an LTR or not. I don't want any FWBs, it's not worth all the risks and it's a waste of time, especially if the girl gets attached. If you think that's a waste of time in the long run, in comparison to swiping right on hundreds of girls then filtering after matching, then lmao you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notI agree with you for 7-8s being ideal for LTRs. They are 10s in my book especially if they are intelligent and have a personality that I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingI think that's a false stereotype. My ex's Asian mom hit menopause a long time ago and still looks 20 yrs younger than her real age. Her step grandma is also Asian and is 76, but looks way younger than that. https://www.aarp.org/disrupt-aging/stories/ideas/info-2017/cliches-that-are-true.html cringe article title but it explains why asians and black ppl age better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themthey're swiping right on women they would have sex with, but not necessarily want to be in a LTR with. They most likely don't want to be in a LTR with women they are just having casual sex with. This Tinder example is getting old, overused, and boring. It's a fcking dogshit example and it doesn't dispute anything OP said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In Datingaging really well is a HUGE positive tbh. I met an Asian woman few days ago who I thought was 26 at the most, and I wouldn't have been surprised if she told me she's 21, but turned out she was actually 39 LOL. But this youthful factor seems to be more common with petite Asians. Taller Asians seems to age almost as bad as white people. Black women age the best out of every race regardless of their size though, but for some reason they're so underrated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In Datingdid she wear makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of a 666 male?120 IQ, don't be flat chested but don't have fake tits, shapely ass (doesn't have to be big), don't have a rectangular shaped body (this is the most common body type for woman and the most common body type among celebrities and models - wide ass rib cages, wide shoulders, straight hips, shitty fat distribution, etc), don't have ridiculously small eyes like a Korean person's eyes before plastic surgery, and oh yea, please no cosmetic plastic surgery. Personally I don't want kids but subconsciousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of a 666 male?good luck finding that, that's probably only 0.1% of the female population if we keep in mind the fact that only 8% of women have naturally hourglass figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of a 666 male?and only 8% of women are actual hourglasses lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:47 PM |
| 10 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingThat's called white girl privilege. even if you said average looking white woman, I still wouldn't be surprised. A 5/10 white chick gets more privileges than an 8/10 black chick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men keeping nudes they've received from women in the past?lmao. All I need are my ex's and her nudes are the only nudes I have.. major red flag ik :') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Do women care about men keeping nudes they've received from women in the past?If a girl who wants to date me tells me to delete my ex gf's nudes, then fk that lol. That's a deal breaker for me. My exes nudes are a treasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples?Most couples I've seen are looksmatched too, and I know three couples that met through OLD (not Tinder) who are all currently married and they're all looksmatched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | How many people here have had their heart broken?he tried to m*rd*r his own brother and has been in and out of jail for breaking and entering and drug related shit. He needs 500 gods to save his ass and I don't even believe in god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 3 | How many people here have had their heart broken?wish my dad would get clean. I've lost hope in him though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:48 AM |
| -1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menIdk I'm 26 M and I think porn is nasty. I don't want to see people having sex and I don't want to see anyone naked touching their private parts. Especially strangers. If it's someone I'm dating then that's nice, but if it's a stranger, no thanks. In a relationship, I see it as emotionally cheating if you're watching porn because when you're jerking off to someone else on a screen, you're imagining having sex and doing intimate shit with them. If my GF did that to some guy on the screen, I wouldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Late-blooming men get talked about here a lot. What would your advice be for late-blooming women?My ex gf/gf (it's complicated lol) is the same age as you. I always remind her that she's not old. A lot of guys here think any girl over 20 is too old to be "desirable", but please don't listen to them. You're not too old to start dating, and it's okay to be a late bloomer. Not everyone starts dating when they're in their teens. There are guys out there who are the same age as you and still haven't dated as well, and IMO you'd be able to relate to them the most. Not saying you have to actively … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Late-blooming men get talked about here a lot. What would your advice be for late-blooming women?If she's smart then she won't absorb the toxicity. Ngl FDS really has solid advice and even though I'm a dude, I got some good advice from reading their posts. I was able to figure out why I failed my exgf/gf by reading their posts and comments (while at the same time obviously ignoring the blatant misandry). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating marketmy ex and her brother's mom had them when she was 45. People on this subreddit reallllyyy exaggerate the whole notion of the age thing being a "major risk" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?I like chubby girls lol, just not obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...I guess it's both a good and bad thing that my ex still gives me hugs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:31 AM |
| 12 | Grimes is proof that women don’t have personal politics. They believe whatever politics their alpha supports.every man? nah dude, i like my women mature and older than me. you're disgusting af if you are attracted to underage ppl. their brains aren't even done developing, it would be like dating an actual child. that's gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive?jaw matters for both sexes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ngl, I would consider some celebrities average and forgettable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]i had no idea that was universally preferred. I'm a guy with diamond face shape and high cheekbones, is that good or bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]https://kingchoice.me/the-100-most-handsome-men-in-the-world-2021/ some of those guys are masculine looking tbh, it's just their makeup is feminine but their bone structure is definitely masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?whats their name? i wanna see what they used to look like together lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveI can't masturbate to strangers either tbh even though i'm a dude. Looking at naked strangers weirds me out ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveso you would find some men in those photos "hot", but you wouldn't find any of them attractive because you don't know anything about their personality? ok so you're saying that his personality is what makes him attractive, then that means there has to be something about him you like physically after getting to know his personality, right? for me, I can like a girl's physical features more when I start to like her more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractivebut I'm pretty sure there is something that you guys like in each other physically. I can't imagine ppl dating each other and NOT even liking at least one trait. I believe that people's preferences can change though, you can meet someone who isn't your type but then they can cause you to change your type/preferences. I realize physical appearance preferences don't matter much especially when factoring in personality, but I'd be surprised if you and your husband are still not each other's types a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveyou said you're not his type physically AT ALL and I find that hard to believe if he's having sex with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveYou guys aren't each other's types but you're married to each other? How does that even work, please enlighten me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractivehave you asked her out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 09:44 AM |
| – | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:04 AM |
| – | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?exactly why I tell other guys that my ex is secretly probably a domme to scare them away from her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Tinder, Bumble, hinge, OLD, etc. are more about algorithms than anything elsepeople still use online dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?I need someone to do my chores. That's probably labor but I want to be the only one working and making money in the relationship. Doing chores is sort of a job on its own tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:26 AM |
| – | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?sorry for all the questions, what about them physically do you not like? and what's your ethnicity? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?Do you think preferences can change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?why don't you like white guys? also wow third comment about butts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?I was looking for a comment about butts because my ex gf seemed to like mine... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What kinks are a dealbreaker for you?TMI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 3 | What kinks are a dealbreaker for you?basically all of them. Kinks weird me out and make me feel uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What standards are TOO high?not really. My friends are even more specific than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Stacy, Stacylite, Becky, Normie, Femcel. What is the difference of experience for each?Lol @ stalkers If what you're saying is true, then stacy-lites are 10000000 x better than stacys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Stacy, Stacylite, Becky, Normie, Femcel. What is the difference of experience for each?the st4cys in my high school were probably 6 - 7s but they had a shit ton of guy friends who respected them because of their personality. They were loud and obnoxious and confident af in themselves, and a bit tomboyish (personality-wise). I call them st4cys because they had so many male orbiters (and female ones too LOL). IMO you don't need to have model-tier looks to be a st4cy. Seriously a lot of it is about personality as long as you aren't hideous af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 3 | What standards are TOO high?you're the opposite of tiny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What standards are TOO high?I think people who only want to date specific ethnicities are weird and have way too high standards depending on their reason for it. That being said, I'm one of them and I admit it's a bit racist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:11 AM |
| 0 | What standards are TOO high?I don't see how that is a "really specific" preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouSo basically you're telling us to date only low IQ women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Peak SMV agesThat age range doesn't apply to Asians or black people. A lot of Asians and black people seem to be hot for a much longer time. They age much slower than white people, so it's not really surprising. why do people pick age ranges where a lot of men and women still have baby fat? Excess facial fat isn't attractive, especially for guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 2 | If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine.my ex gf and her brother were born when their mom was around 45 - 46, and their dad was in his 50s I think. They both ended up with IQs way above average, and they are naturally very good-looking without any of the cosmetic surgeries & procedures that a lot of people get nowadays (lets face it, a lot of people aren't naturally good-looking). People can just walk into clinics now and get something as simple as fillers which makes a HUGE difference. https://i.redd.it/5cwpzj2pvl681.jpg lmaooo for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: as long as women hold views like these regarding male virginity, you cannot act like male promiscuity is equivalent to female promiscuity.I see nothing wrong with a 28 year old virgin woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?It's a stupid topic. You're contradicting yourself, eye or hair color doesn't matter if we're looking at the total package. You're being reductionist and that's the opposite of looking at the "total package" Change that girl's eye and hair color to brown and she'd still be above average, because you literally said she has huge tits, is thin, and has a pretty face - that's already better than the average woman. Eye and hair color is only going to make a difference to YOU and the minority of ppl w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?you are delusional af. eye and hair colors are subjective, and tbh I can't even recall the eye colors of my family and friends. I'm not sure what eye color my exes had. It's one of the last things I notice. I really only notice eye color if it's a black person with blue or hazel eyes or something. But on caucasians, I never notice their eye or hair color. The jaw, face shape, facial proportions, eye shape, BMI (MOST important one), etc, are what matters, not the COLORS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?lmfaoo and all the hollywood celebrities/models are rectangles with fake tits, using shapewear to fake hourglass figures. Gross af frauds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:19 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?the fashion industry was created by gay men lol. Most men prefer women who don't almost look like tra**gender chicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.it's not really orbiting unless you're spending money on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?yea she rlly might have an ugly "fetish" ngl LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?lol. she hates tall guys. She rejected a 6 ft something, high income dude recently. He was good looking and fit too all the guys she has dated before and after me were short - average height with below avg - average faces. and at one point, one of them msged me to literally complain to me about how he thinks my ex gf has an "ugly fetish" and that he thought it was messed up or some shit like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?she's an ex because I felt too insecure being with her so I gave her A LOT of unnecessary stress from it lol, for example I didn't let her have any guy friends when we were in college and I'd make a huge deal out of anything and blame her for a lot of random things, especially trivial shit. She dumped me yrs ago but we're still friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?how did my fat and lazy 5'6 piece of shit self get my hot ex gf then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresYes, and I couldn't care less about their futures :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?I kinda agree, I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life with a woman who is too dominant or assertive. Seems rly unpleasant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 3 | People really do have a "type" when it comes to romantic attraction. According to a study, 50% of people’s preferences for faces is unique to them, and who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences.Yup. Beauty is not negotiable, I'm not going to waste my time with my friends arguing about why I think their 10/10 is a 5/10 to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Terrified of Having SexWhat would you say to OP if she were 30 yrs old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Personality Type & Risk Of Being Perpetually SingleHigh neuroticism is probably the worst one to have for both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?No, people looks their best in their 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Do naturally attractive women have to "try"?My friends date girls who are facially average looking (the internet's idea of average is skewed though so I should probably say "ugly" instead bc ppl online think avg ppl are ugly for some reason), some were medium size, some were chubby, but all of them tried harder to look better by dressing in more expensive-looking clothing and wearing more makeup and my friends have told me that it's very attractive to them when a girl puts effort into her appearance. I can't really relate to that, I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.Some of my friends are currently in LTRs with fat girls, and sometimes I wonder if they plan on dumping them one day so that they can date a girl who isn't fat. When I was in college, I noticed some of my friends checking out my ex gf whenever she hung out with us. She is thin and pretty af. The guys who were in relationships were the ones checking her out the most. Some of them had been with their fat gfs for over 4 years. Now it has been 3 more years and they're all still together. But seeing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.so high value only means having a six figure salary? lmfaoooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | It's not "the patriarchy" that upholds unattainable beauty standards, it's other women... aren't you doing exactly what you're complaining about by getting a lift lip and rhinoplasty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?If that guy is really as good looking as he claims, then he wouldn't be on this subreddit lmfao. 600+ matches on Tinder as a man??? That's just insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?It becomes subjective after a certain threshold of attractiveness so it's a waste of time to rate people. For example, I think Aubrey plaza is very plain and just not pretty at all, but I have friends who think she's the most beautiful person on this planet, which I find ridiculous and cringe. I personally don't think 10s really exist. It's pretty dumb that some people obsess over a point. There is no actual difference between 6s, 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s because it is subjective. They're all above a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersthat's gonna be me in 8 years, I can't wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Number of partners26M, I have dated 2 girls. I'm a virgin though. I'd prefer my partner to also be one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 01:40 PM |
| 13 | It’s a myth that women are better looking than menidk dude. it sounds more like you think a woman has to look like a supermodel in order to meet your standard of what's "above average". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 0 | It’s a myth that women are better looking than menwhat planet do you live in? Being called cute is a compliment for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?no. most people are dating people that are in the same league as them (physically) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of /exredpill what makes you want to help men leave the Red Pill?Did that guy get reported at least? That kind of stuff shouldn't be ignored, if someone is saying they'll hurt a group of people and even goes into detail over it, then he's a danger to society | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What are effective strategies as a betabux?where did this weird idea even come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What are effective strategies as a betabux?your friend should get tested for hashimotos disease before trying to lose weight. I am same height as him and was diagnosed with that disease recently. Been over 200 lbs for a lot of my life and only recently have I finally dropped to the 180s after being put on medication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?I only agree with #4, 5, and 6. The rest are dumb and don't mean jackshit lol. Bet that the youtuber himself has a high body count. Good luck to him with finding a woman with all those "green flags". He never will and if he does then I feel sorry for her if she ends up dating him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?why aren't you attracted to most men? Just wondering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?There's no way to show evidence of this. A lot of people say love sex is better than FWB sex, and that should be enough evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?are you a guy just larping as a woman/joking around or are you actually serious? lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:50 AM |
| 8 | Couples are happier when the woman is the more attractive of the pair.You're a biased poster as well. The study you linked only refers to male height. You can't say a man mogs his wife just because he's much taller than her. That makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?At least 3000 lbs and a bitc*y attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?No, I don't feel pressured to find fat women pretty. There are days where I think I'm really picky and days where I think I'm not, depending on who I'm comparing my standards to, but ultimately, I think I'm more on the picky side because there is a specific look I prefer in women. I also have a specific personality I prefer and I'm even more picky about that. I'd rather be single instead of settle for some girl who is "good enough". Idk how people do that. Interesting post btw, but... Nobody eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardusing steroids before age 19? You're trying too hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What is your preference for the physical types of men a woman dated in the past relative to you?Slight preference for woman A because I'd worry that woman B might have a fetish for my race, that's about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | As long as we are attracted to anyone, we will never be freeone of his posts say that he has been married for over 2 decades. I'm legit confused by his posts overall | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 5 | “Women only want Chad” is sheer projectionwoww, I always thought my standards were high, but I guess mine are still reasonable.. Emma Watson is like a 10/10 imo and I NEVER cared about harry potter before. you should probably lower your standards because average looking women are very attractive too, and many are a lot more attractive than conventional "10s" tbh | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 05:37 AM |
| 13 | “Women only want Chad” is sheer projectionEmma Watson is waaay better looking than Emma Stone. Imo | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?what else do you expect from tinder? most people on there are looking for hookups and not something longterm. your face/height is basically your personality on that app. especially in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.cool story, bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 06:53 AM |
| 9 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.lmaooo honestly, I never understood why guys on this sub act like a women's "value" goes down after age 30. aren't women in their 30s more likely to be more mature, more smart, and more confident in themselves? I'm 25 M and I avoid girls younger than my age, I never understood the obsession over young women.. but maybe it's because I don't want to have kids? I don't find women in their early 20s more attractive either, a lot of them still kinda look like they're going through their awkward teena… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.So would your pussy be all wet for a hypothetical Chad who has downs syndrome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 0 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.you realize those videos are completely staged right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.LOL wtf | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.everyone in the comments are not short men, so they don't get it. It's not just dating, but we'll never get taken as seriously as a tall man, regardless of the situation. The fact that a lot of people say shit like "This person may be short, but they have a tall personality" is proof that they associate height with personality, even if subconsciously. I know it's just a saying, but do you hear people going like "short personality" or "stand short" ?? Most people say "stand tall and be confident"… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.eh I don't like big boobs | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 0 | Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women.99.99% of the time you'll be the second option | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Jesus christ, you are really twisting his words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 07:31 AM |
| 2 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?I'm a bit late to this thread but I find this question very interesting. No. I never settle for anything less than an 8 facially (without makeup and cosmetic surgeries/injections). I seriously wish my standards weren't this ridiculous, but I can't control it no matter how hard I tried. The last girl I dated was like an 8 to me but eventually she told me she had a chin implant, nose job, lip injections, liposuction on her jawline, and a couple other things. Guess what? I couldn't even tell that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:18 AM |
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