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| 4 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI don’t think I’ll ever be in the position to have sex with a star lol. I’m not sure what I would do if I had that chance though, part of me might want to since I’m single right now, but part of me would be grossed out bc you know their dick has prolly been everywhere. If I was in a relationship, I definitely wouldn’t do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD what group or identity do you belong to?It’s terrifying tbh! News just said that we might be getting a large infrastructure cyber attack soon. It’s a damn mess. But yes- I pay attention to all the stuff happening in the US and keep my ear open to the rest of the world. So many crazy things are happening everywhere right now that I spend at least an hour every day reading and catching up on what’s going on. I honestly wish things would chill out so I can stop paying so much attention lol. I have worked in finance for quite awhile, so t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI never go into anything thinking it will be a one night stand. So the answer is I don’t have sex with anyone on the first meeting. And 2 months is hardly long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI didn’t look at him as a beta, I didn’t even know that term when I was with him, but I think this sub would say he was bc he was a tiny bit shorter than me, not jacked, not rich, and not very confident. I dated him for about 2 months. I liked him bc he works in the same field I do and we were able to discuss that, which was nice. Had similar interests. His face was cute- pretty eyes and nice smile. He was smart. The sex was good. The reason I stopped seeing him was bc of the lack of confidence.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD what group or identity do you belong to?In high school, I was on the volleyball team and cheerleading squad - wasn’t the most popular, but like lower level popular. Nowadays, I don’t party more than once or twice per month. Work full time at a bank and have been climbing the ladder there for several years. Career and increasing my income is important to me. I’m financially responsible and have a good credit score. I work out a few times a week but am not a gym rat. Like to dress feminine and always looking for ways to “level-up” my lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women?I think both genders tend to let themselves go a little when they get comfortable in a relationship. Letting go physically and gaining weight or just not taking care of themselves like they used to and also becoming less ambitious and adventurous overall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 30 | What do you love about men/women?I love men’s ability to make women feel safe. Like when you have something going wrong and they just hold you and tell you that things will work out. Your friends and family can tell you that all they want, but you don’t truly believe it. When your man says it, it feels real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesIdk I’ve had sex with some guys that might be considered beta males and it was very enjoyable so 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | SMV or RMV can't be defined for any individual personI wonder if it also fluctuates based on where you live and time of year? Seems like people have better chances at meeting ppl and hooking up or dating more in spring and summer rather than in fall. Summer is when more people go out. A lot of people also try to have romantic partners and keep them in winter bc of holidays and winter cuddles. Whether you live in a college town, city, or middle class suburbs with lots of families could affect your chances too I think if you were going to bars in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI’m just saying, it’s not all that common. Most men aren’t rich enough to be sugar daddies anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re standing in your own way and will fail bc of it. It’s fine though, doesn’t affect me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s about 13 million women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell my friends, family and I must just be different. I think you just have yourself convinced it’s a huge issue though. Your mentality around it and lack of confidence is probably part of the problem. Confidence means so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate itYeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:18 AM |
| 0 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?This^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate itI’ve had sex with some of my male friends and not had sex with others. Attraction sometimes develops out of the friendship, and sometimes it doesn’t. The friend I slept with was a short Asian man with a small penis before anyone assumes anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 28 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesMost women don’t date people they don’t want to have sex with. Some might, but not most | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue. I would also be way more hesitant to get something done to my face. If I was hideous to start with, I would probably go for it though. If my face already sucks, the risk is worth it to possibly make it look much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy did I date an Indian guy who was 5’3”? Or a white guy who was about 5’5”. I actually do not like tall men. Legitimately don’t like them. I like the guy to be around my height of 5’4”. A little taller or shorter is fine. I know lots of women like me. You’re telling yourself these things like they are always the case, and I’m telling you it’s not true. Accept yourself and your height and get some confidence. You’re probably an awesome person so act like it and stop dwelling on this shit that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know, that’s why I only have a couple close friends who are female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk, there are women who like all different kinds of things. I know lots of women who don’t give a shit about the guy being super tall, they just don’t want a man who is like 5’2” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re telling me I don’t understand what standards women have for men…. I am a woman who has standards for men though…. I have friends and I know their standards too. I would say I know a little about it. You’re getting hung up on something that just isn’t the main thing I think. You don’t need a leg lengthening surgery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI get that it might make it a little harder, but I date shorter guys and so does my sister and one of my friends. I only have one friend who insists on liking very tall guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI totally get that. I had my surgery at 21 years old, and was also worried that I would get sucked into the vortex of wanting more and more done. It didn’t happen though- never got another thing done after that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCould get jaw filler to make it more prominent. Could get a nose job or filler in the nose. Filler in the brow bone to make it more prominent. I don’t know, I’m sure there are other small procedures that could make a difference if you really thought your face was ugly or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThose women really were just assholes then. I can’t imagine dumping a guy over height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean you can die doing literally anything though. It’s not more dangerous than driving a car. Or getting wisdom teeth pulled. If appearance affects your life quite a bit, it would be worth the risk IMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHair pills and gym can do wonders. As well as eyebrow grooming and a cool haircut. I don’t think men need to be very tall to be attractive. 5’3” and up and you should be fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey can use filler on the jawline now, so it’s less invasive and cheaper. I don’t think you should have to change for anyone though. I just know that when I had my insecurities, it was a sigh of relief to just get rid of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m gonna be honest and say that height doesn’t matter to me very much. I am 5 feet 4 inches, and have dated men who were my height and a couple who were slightly shorter. Surely most people on this site are at least 5’3” I would think. I also have dated several races- white, black, Dominican, and Asian. They were all attractive in their own way in my eyes. There are cheaper facial fillers for jawline, nose, brow bone. Lots of things could be done if you wanted and it’s getting cheaper every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFemale lurker here. Scrolled through the sub for awhile, and it’s incredibly interesting discussion. While reading through some posts, I had a question- if some men on this sub feel like they aren’t attractive and don’t like it, why not just get plastic surgery? It’s safe, and relatively cheap. Not much down time to heal. I was born with small A cup breasts that I didn’t like, so I got implants and brought them up to a small C cup. Was much happier afterwards, never had another bad thought about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:36 PM |
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