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Do you think that a small number of men have five girlfriends each, while the rest sit at home alone? Look around you. It’s simply not true.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/21 09:19 PM
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Attractiveness in men is not really about beauty. Take a minute to look at photos of celebrities. It’s more important to look interesting than flawless. Gérard Depardieu is an ugly man by any definition. My face is quite asymmetrical because I was a difficult birth. Once you reach a certain age it literally doesn’t matter because you’re craggy anyway. Ask yourself what’s interesting about you. What are the things you get excited about. What do you do with passion. Those are the things people wil…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 09:00 AM
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Guess so. You should probably continue doing what you’re doing then. You seem to have it figured out.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:17 PM
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Well OK then, that’s a choice you can make, best of luck with it.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:11 PM
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Well OK, that’s a choice I suppose. I don’t see that it’ll lead you anywhere you want to go, but fine.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:09 PM
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How long have you been doing them for?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:06 PM
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So how would you change things?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:04 PM
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It’s not important to anyone. I’d rather sit on the sofa and have food brought to me than go lift right now, but you know what I’m going to do. Discipline is the thing that takes you places. You’re not supposed to enjoy it, you enjoy the fruits of it. You enjoy what you get afterwards.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:02 PM
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We’re not beyond our biology. We can go to the moon, but we’re still animals. That’s not going to change. I used to agree with you, logically you’re just a bright point of consciousness that happens to have a body, right? The thing is, you’re ignoring millions of years of evolutionary heritage there, and that’s not something you can ignore. There’s plenty of really nice things about being a man. You can put on muscle really fast. Testosterone is a hell of a drug, and you naturally make lots of i…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 07:55 PM
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Well yes, but ask yourself, what is yourself? If I feel angry, should I yell and smash things? Part of me wants to, but I don’t because I have control. If I want to play computer games, but I haven’t been to the gym for a few days, I go to the gym, because I’m in charge of my choices. So yes, be yourself, there’s nothing else you can really be after all, but also have self discipline. Stretch yourself. Do the scary things. Broaden your horizons. Invest. For context, I earn a pretty high salary d…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 07:47 PM
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Most species have some version of this. It’s not a thing to get upset about.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 07:32 PM
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People play roles all the time. It’s always you, but we just bring out different parts of ourselves. The me that sits in a client meeting is different from the me that goes to a party, or the me that visits my mother. It’s not a question of contorting yourself. You just bring certain traits out more strongly in certain circumstances.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 07:23 PM
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Sometimes it just takes longer for some people than others. I didn’t really hit my stride until I was 25. I got a decent job, started working out, started taking myself less seriously. I started actually asking people out and not worrying too much what they said. I think there’s so much pressure on young men these days. Just be kind, lift some weights, get some endorphins flowing. Travel. Live for your own sake, then people will naturally be drawn to you. Feel free to PM me if you want. I do kno…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 07:08 PM
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Someone who is kind and generous and loving, who knows their own mind and has self discipline, who is loyal but not weak, and who can handle themselves if necessary.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 08:23 AM
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I think there’s a problem of definition here. What exactly do you mean when you use the term “nice guy”? Do you mean someone who is a pushover, with no thoughts or opinions of their own, because no one wants that. Do you mean someone who is polite, who gets angry when they don’t get sex? No one wants that either. What about the term “bad boy”? Do you mean someone who is disloyal and violent, who doesn’t work hard and is mean? No one wants that either. Live for yourself, have interests and hobbie…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:36 AM
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I hear you. I was very similar when I was younger. I’d pretty much learned that I wasn’t attractive or interesting or funny. I was good at programming, but that was it. Things started to turn around when I got a job and started earning. I got nice clothes, took care of myself, started going to the gym. I forced myself to leave the house, even if it was just for a walk. I did some courses, including an Insight course and a Landmark course, which were a bit culty, but I did find them very helpful.…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 10:10 AM
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I’m going to hurt your feelings again and tell you that you’re sounding like an entitled little kid. If you go through life with that attitude you’re going to end up miserable and alone. You’ve got one life. You’ve got to shake that attitude off. Toss it away right now. Start working on yourself, make yourself into someone that people want to be around. That’s when things will start to work out.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 10:08 PM
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Ok, well can you see how women might find that attitude off putting? That’s kinda the opposite of game.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 09:07 PM
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So you feel entitled to sex, and when women don’t give it to you, you blame them?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:58 PM
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That’s interesting. Not every situation where you want something and don’t get it requires blame. This is entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:23 PM
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I really want a Lamborghini, but no one I’ve so far asked will give me one. Should I blame those Lamborghini owners?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:20 PM
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Why would you feel the need to blame someone?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:16 PM
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You’ll get there. There’s no rush.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:06 PM
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I hear you. I remember sitting down by the river when I was a kid wondering what a man was supposed to be, because I didn’t feel the way I thought I was supposed to feel. We’re all playing roles all the time. I think if I had encountered big guys talking about rationality back then, I probably would have been sucked in. I was just looking for a way to be, and no one would tell me how to do it. The thing to remember about parents is we don’t feel different inside. There doesn’t come an age when y…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:03 PM
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Maybe, you never know. When I was a kid, I had no idea who I was, or what I was supposed to be. All my role models were bad. My father left. It wasn’t until I got to 25 or so until I started to hit my stride. Things do get better.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:29 PM
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It’s not a problem though, it’s just a few weirdos. No one wants to address is because no one cares enough.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:55 PM
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FDS is just the Red Pill aimed at women. It’s not a mainstream thing, it’s just a few strange people on Reddit. All these things you’ve heard are false.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:44 PM
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You’ve misread.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 07:57 PM
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The issue is that it’s missing the point. It assume that to be happy you have to maximise your reproductive capacity, defeat other men, and have constant meaningless sex with people you don’t really care about. When men are younger they often think they want these things. As you get older, you realise the things that matter are a deep and growing connection, cuddles, time spent and real love. The red pill will help you trick women into bed. It won’t get you what you really need.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 11:36 AM
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It might not work for you, and it’s not really a pill, but Mark Driscoll pretty much saved my marriage. He preaches specifically to men. He’s controversial because he will yell at you, and he used to hold some pretty extreme views, though he’s now recanted most of those. He’s like a drill Sargent who will yell at you to get your life in order and stop mucking around.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 06:23 PM
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I'm pretty sure there are plenty of women who are into art and anime. Maybe you're just hanging around in the wrong places. There's nothing wrong with having a confident persona, we all put on a mask when we're outside. No one is completely themselves when they're around other people, it's all a bit of an act. Probably the skills you've picked up from your time in TRP will be part of that act from now on, and that's just a part of your tapestry now. Being willingly vulnerable with another person…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 07:32 PM
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I could be wrong here, but it sounds very like he’s looking for a definition of what it means to be a man. Perhaps he’s looking for an identity and a way to be. Role models are really important for a young man, and perhaps he’s found some bad ones.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 02:33 PM
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Hi there. You are correct to say that there are certain biological realities and that by learning to manipulate those you can probably trick women into going to bed with you. What you're missing is the fact that genuine human connection is awesome. If you're playing a role and trying to manipulate women into bed because you "understand" them, you're missing out on the whole point of the exercise which is to give and receive genuine love and affection. Is this not what life is about?
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 09:04 AM
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The whole point of the video appeared to be: “all women have the capacity to behave in a way that can surprise you.” Is that not already obvious? They’re people, and people sometimes act out of character.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 07:02 PM
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She has a reason, but the only way you'll find out is to talk to her about it. Girls sometimes have things that have happened to them in their past that take time to work through. She might be embarrassed about something physical. It might be something else. Just talk to her about it, but be really kind because it's probably something extremely sensitive. Maybe bring tissues.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 08:15 AM
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I totally get where you're coming from. I used to think exactly the same, and I was wrapped up in myself, trying to get what I could get so I could have the experiences I wanted, and I honestly thought that was what life was supposed to be about. There's a famous story about a priest in a concentration camp, and the Nazis are going to execute ten randomly chosen people by starvation, but as they're dragging them away, one of the men cries out "please, I have a family". So the priest stands up an…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 10:41 PM
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because I'm literally the most important person to me Yes, and I think maybe this is the crux of it. I used to really struggle with life when I was younger. What switched for me was when I realised that I wasn't the most important person, and actually, I didn't really matter that much at all. That's the point at which I stopped being afraid of anything, and also when I started seeing a lot more girls and eventually got married. Being in a relationship is about putting the other person before you…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 10:22 PM
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Again, it's as though you're putting yourself in the middle of your universe. It's like you're looking for a commodity who fulfils a certain set of criteria so that you can have an experience, rather than an equal partner to commit to and do life with. Let me give you a scenario. You meet someone, and you like them, and they like you, and you talk with them and hang out. Then you decide you really like each other, so you start dating. Later you decide you want to commit to the other person forev…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 10:02 PM
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You said that you were looking for a mother for your children, then you mentioned some statistics about partner count and faithfulness. It's the opposite of romantic. It's as though you're looking for a baby-mother, rather than someone to share life with and have adventures with. Babies can be part of that adventure. Again, not saying you're wrong, just check your motivation.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:42 PM
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Romantic feelings usually come from meeting someone, liking them and enjoying their company. They don't usually come from statistics. If I was a girl, I think that would feel kinda mechanical to me, as though I were being weighed up as potential future breeding material, rather than being engaged with as a person. I'm not telling you you're wrong, but maybe just check your motivations there.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:32 PM
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You were doing really well, and then you got a little weird. It's like you're looking for a low number, rather than a great person who you get on with. Sometimes these things take time and people need to grow into themselves. Just keep on being a decent human being, take care of yourself, do the things that inspire you, and people will just naturally drift into your life. Some of them you'll be friends with, some of them you might end up dating. Just be the best you that you can be, and everythi…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:21 PM
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