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| 1 | How often do you approach?Its obvious his lying, and everyone here is believing him. No one meets randomly during the day its fully dead. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Club game tipsClubs is a tough place to pull, bars maybe if the crowd is more older and may get lucky with a more mature girl thats not obsessed with social media. You gotta remember your just some random dude, these girls at the clubs have guys already hitting on them from instagram, tiktok and snapchat why would they give a shit about some random dude at the club unless your one of those 6ft5 blue eyed model then yeah but if your the average guy, you have better odds winning the lottery than pulling at the … | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Club game tipsBars yes, clubs no. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Club game tipsThats what im saying its just the new social media obsessed generation crowd now, her friends could just up recording you and post it on tiktok without you realising it and would be shamed. The new generation that frequent the clubs now have 100’s of guys on their snapchat if you don’t believe go and try yourself. You could maybe try those bars where there is a more older crowd, but this new generation under 21’s are ruthless. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Club game tipsWhat are you expecting from the night scene? Even if you get a girls number she most likely will just ghost you. And same night lay is rare and risky she might just wake up and regret it and say you raped her. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Club game tipsDont bother clubs are dead nowadays. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Anybody tried “day gaming” outside of the club?I live in a major city in the UK, and i can tell you i know some guys that have tried approaching at clubs and even daytime, even daytime random encounters like at the gym over time but they never met anyone. It was always something like got a boyfriend, not interested, saw you only as friends. I know a guy did daygaming for 6 months and nightgame for 2-3 months and got nothing and he ended up going full out on dating apps and now currently dating a his current girlfriend from Hinge. I was hopin… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you start conversation with a girl at the gym?Whats the point, you just gonna get rejected. Or you gonna get a number then shes gonna ghost you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Where am I going wrong with my approach to dating?Nothing, dating is just dead move on. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Anybody tried “day gaming” outside of the club?You can try it but i doubt those numbers you get will lead to anything, approaching is dead nowadays. You have better odds with winning the lottery. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I have hundreds matches but...And where are you supposed to meet women in person? Most guys i know that tried approaching it never lead to anything, they ended back on dating apps and meeting girls from there. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Show proof that it works in the street here in the UK lol, why come here and lie like dont you have anytiing better to do with your life? | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Yup i tried daygame for a while and i dont waste my time on daygaming anymore stopped. Try it for yourself and you’ll see, its a new generation new its mostly digital. A girl would rather meet a random guy on instagram with a solid profile than some random guy that approaches her at supermarket or mall/street what do you think will have a bigger impact? Lots of guys here are just lying or just coping. You have a slightly better than at the bars/clubs but its a massive numbers also depends on you… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | I need pointers on using IG successfullyI thought it was the biggest dating app in the world? | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 05:06 PM |
| -1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Doesn’t work in the Uk. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?It matters dude im from the UK, cold approaching in the UK does not work. Lots of guys here are just coping and or lying. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?I dont think girls in the UK are down to meeting some random guy during the day in Public even the gym, i dont think cold approaching works in the UK, yeah you can get numbers or socials but there not interested. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | UK Cold Approach AdviceWhere have you heard from here? Are you gonna believe what the random guys on this sub telling you? I just know because i live in a major city in the UK and i went out there i tried it many many times and i never see any guys doing it which tells me most guys think its waste of time so they don’t bother. Also you can just tell girls don’t want to be bothered by any guys when their going on their business during the. I had success pulling girls randomly at the gym over the years compared to dayga… | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | UK Cold Approach AdviceCold approaching here in the UK in public doesn’t work. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | A couple of approaches from last night - self rejection or not?Bruh cold approaching is dead nowadays why even bother. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | More approaches from last nightDont waste your time to approaching its fully dead nowadays | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Cracking Insular Night Game VenuesIm from the UK, what you say daygame is waste of time in the UK? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on U.K. day game?Where did you find this out from? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | where did i fuck up ? Girl ghost me after great first dateThis guy is making all this up, only the top 5% of guys are only getting dates on dating apps nowadays. I doubt the op is in the top 5%. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Instagram gameI don’t buy it, instagram would only work for the top guys. The average guy would never have a chance, girls are just way to picky these days and would never give anyone that unless the guy is a top guy. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Instagram gameRich nerd you mean | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?Exactly there just looking for a fan. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Instagram gameThe guy must be a 6ft5 male model. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Bar game hard for anyone else?Cold approaching is dead, everyone here is just coping. Its all online nowadays. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Always assume they’re going to flake.From the guys that i know they told me they were way more less flaky compared to now. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Always assume they’re going to flake.If you couldn’t pull in 2005, your beyond ugly 😂 | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Always assume they’re going to flake.In 2005 means you was just ugly. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Most likely daygame doesn’t work thats why. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 05:44 PM |
| – | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.Im not saying instagram is impossible, but its very very difficult. I have friends from all walks of life and the only guys manage to pull girls on instagram are the very handsome tall guys with money. The average guys i know don’t rarely a girl would even follow back, it they dm a girl it just gets ignored but the handsome guys i know are with different girls through out the year and they are never loyal but the average guys i know there only chance to meet someone is organically and lots of th… | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 08:29 PM |
| – | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.Your just talking to her which means nothing she can just ghost you and move to another guy that she is looking for which is a model. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.Its very simple his a good looking guy thats why otherwise he would have not met anyone. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 07:48 PM |
| – | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.Your friend most be a tall model otherwise its impossible on instagram. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Instagram is the new DATING APPI agree, online is dead. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Instagram is the new DATING APPThis is pure lies, instagram is even dead to meet someone random only works if your this perfect guy without any imperfections and gotta be in the top 5 percent of guys. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.Your right, only the tall good looking guys that i noticed that pulled at nightclubs/bars (daygame is dead here in the UK) and online pretty much the same thing you have to be good looking guy otherwise you will always he ghosted because the girl find someone better. | /r/seduction | 07/08/23 10:28 PM |
| – | Most people under 30 are not meeting on appsHow are couples meeting randomly on instagram? I just don’t see how an average guy can pull it off on instagram, im a personal trainer at a gym and lots of the guys i speak to they tell me instagram is extremely difficult nowadays but they do tell me that 7-8 years ago it was possible to meet someone on instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Average men only have it hard on dating apps. They do fairly well in real life.Hate to say it but those that meeting online are deffo the top 20% of guys, because i can tell you right now looks and status/money is everything online. Younger girls flake/ghost million times more than the older girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?Instagram only works for the top guys, just because people meet on there does not mean every guy can pull it off. Not saying average guys never met someone on instagram, some of my friends met their girlfriends on instagram before covid but in the last few years unless your one of those top guys you’ll have no chance. And also dating apps are dead from where im from. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itYeah i seen it too, those chads you talking about are very lucky guys. None chads only hope is social circle or alone. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:08 PM |
| – | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?Dude lots of people on here lie, so don’t believe anyone here. But all I’m gonna tell you now is if you have been in relationships in the past without any issues then yeah approaching is most likely dead and same with online covid was the final nail in the coffin. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itCold approaching is dead thats the problem nowadays. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:56 PM |
| – | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itWhen you mean by accidents are these via social circle? Like at school, work or through friends? | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itYou must me chad, otherwise how else is it possible. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itYup seems like social circle or you die alone. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itSame here in the UK, it’s dead. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Women: Daygame versus Social Venues (bars, parties, events)Your right night game is only for chads with money now because of smartphones and social media/apps. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesThe real reason is approaching is dead and online dating died within the last 12 months, only chance a guy has now is social circle only exception if his in the top 5%. If anyone can prove this wrong i would like to see data within the last 2 years. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:02 PM |
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