suprisingmyself Archive

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1	[FR] Just got asked out by Harley Quinn in an inmate jumpsuit?	Field Report	suprisingmyself	/r/seduction	12/11/15 02:29 AM

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11	How do I not be boring? No one is passionate about money. Why are you passionate about money? What do you use your money on? That should reveal more of your passions. Why are you passionate about cars? What about cars? If those two and psychedelics are the only things you are passionate about, it will likely be difficult for you to connect to large amounts of women. Maybe try out some new hobbies and see what you like?	/r/seduction	26/11/15 09:07 PM
1	[FR] Just got asked out by Harley Quinn in an inmate jumpsuit? "You are there to see if she fits your life." I like that. I'm gonna keep that one in mind from now on. Thanks again!	/r/seduction	14/11/15 01:12 AM
1	Stuck on the first hurdle - approaching Good job with the eye contact. Keep it up! Something that helps me approach people is noticing something they are wearing that is interesting and commenting on that, then creating a conversation from there.	/r/seduction	13/11/15 05:34 AM
2	Should I tell my gf[22] it's my first relationship? I'm 27. Are you a loser right now? If not, then don't worry about her thinking that. You don't need to be apologetic about a lack of dating history. Who knows, maybe she would feel more valuable since she is your first girlfriend? If this is going to be a long-term thing, you probably won't find much genuine intimacy without being fully honest with her. If she is going to leave you because of your lack of dating history, it'd be better for her to go sooner rather than later so it doesn't hurt as much in…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 05:11 AM
0	How does someone know if they are a natural at talking to women What do you value? If you value being sexual with a ton of different women that you barely know - then maybe game is the way to go. If you would you rather be sexual with someone that you are forming more of a connection with, you should probably just be yourself in social circles and unashamedly show your attraction to whatever girls you are actually attracted to. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this!	/r/seduction	13/11/15 04:28 AM
4	Telling co-workers I'm 18? Just be honest. It'd be messed up to put them in a dangerous situation like that legally (or maybe it isn't a legal issue, depending on where you live) through being deceptive. They probably won't care about your age.	/r/seduction	13/11/15 04:25 AM
2	I (24m) just had a date with a woman (26f) that I haven't seen in 5-6 years. Next move? Would you rather be friends with her, or date her romantically? Decide, and then communicate that to her. If you spend a few months developing a platonic friendship with her, the chances of that romantic attraction growing magically when she's "ready" will be slim. Maybe it would be better to just respect her space as she heals, communicate that you are interested romantically, and re-approach her in a few months, or put the ball in her court and tell her to contact you when and if she is ready?…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 04:23 AM
3	Are all people equal? What do you mean by "better" than? He might be way better at video games, or pursuing his own idea of happiness/comfort. I don't think you can make a generalized statement about being "better" than someone else without being more specific. You might be better at being physically healthy, you might be better at challenging yourself, you might be better at pursuing education, etc. However, he might be better at being kind to others, or something along those lines. I think true self-confidence come…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 04:03 AM
1	[FR] Just got asked out by Harley Quinn in an inmate jumpsuit? I appreciate your insight. I'm on the edge right now of starting to more aggressively pursue casual dates (hikes, etc.) with girls that I meet in public randomly, but fear of rejection is alive and well. It's been much less intimidating to just approach in public and have a short (or longer, if it seems fitting) conversation and then part ways. Sometimes (rarely) a girl will not be into my approach, and when it's at that minimal level of investment the rejection doesn't really hurt. I have a fea…	/r/seduction	13/11/15 03:27 AM
2	Seddit, how can I change my beliefs and get the kinds of girls I want? What do I need to do differently? Have you ever tried approaching one in person? What happened?	/r/seduction	12/11/15 11:44 PM
2	I need to change my self image while talking to women. Any good resources? I definitely relate with you. You are not alone in this. Similar background as you as well. The thing that has helped me the most is confidently putting myself out there and noticing that more than not, women seem to absolutely enjoy conversing with me. My present reality and experience is reshaping all of the lies that I have believed for the past 10-12 years.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 11:30 PM
1	[FR] Just got asked out by Harley Quinn in an inmate jumpsuit? Thanks! Ooh. Good question. I don't know. It seemed "too easy" I guess? Sometimes I meet women and I subconsciously think that they are out to get something from me. I was deceived one time by a girl and it made me feel like a fool, so anytime I get even a mildly sketchy vibe, I tend to run the other direction.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 10:43 PM
1	[FR] Just got asked out by Harley Quinn in an inmate jumpsuit? Thanks for the encouragement!	/r/seduction	12/11/15 10:40 PM