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Goggins. Simon Sinek. My man! Hell yea this is a nice pile of books. Edit: someone else mentioned 3% man. I have and like that one as well. Also Elon musk but now I'm getting a bit off topic.
/r/seduction04/08/20 12:45 AM
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100% agreed. I've been single for quite a while and haven't had a serious relationship, by choice. I've enjoyed that lifesyle but to me that didn't feel like a good thing to say. I am also not into blatant lies, I just don't do it...had to tread carefully lol.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:38 PM
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I tend to go down the funny/cocky/amplify route and joke about it. Change the subject, kiss her, etc. - how many? you mean like this week? - I dont even know how to count past a million - a few, but they arent as special as you Sure they make some judgement based on that, but usually they don't seem to really press the topic. I definitely prefer keep things a mystery. All in all it seems like lose lose to me when the topic comes up. Regarding opening up to a partner, that's why I mentioned the g…
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:44 PM
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No matter what you say, she will be judging you. Too little experience, too much experience. Is he a player, do other girls not like him. etc. You simply can't win. Answer: 'I don't kiss and tell', make it playful and change the subject. Couple weeks ago girl asked me, after sex, 'when was your last relationship, what was it like'. This was a sorta new version of that age old question, honestly caught me off guard since I KNOW that she is judging the response . I did my best to deflect and she g…
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:26 PM
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I don't drink. The only time I think its an 'issue' is that I can't say 'hey lets go grab a drink'. That is such a simple, cheap, universally acceptable cheap date option ...so I get to be a little more creative. As for the awkwardness side of things, fuck em. Own the fact that its not your thing. You don't need a reason or a story not to drink. It's just so culturally ingrained that it's weird when people don't..oh well.
/r/seduction01/11/19 03:46 PM
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'Hi, I'm suredoes' *extends hand and smiles*
/r/seduction30/10/19 07:15 PM
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One of my 'short' buddies slays. There is so much more to life than looks, height, income, blah blah. Don't let your internal dialogue about this shit ruin your game OP.
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:42 PM
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Ask her on a date. Use the word date. Make it sexual. Then do the sex.
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:35 PM
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Basically as you described. This girl will not chase me at all. Clearly she is working to not invest. That said, she really doesn't say no when I reach out to her. Sounds great on paper right? I hit her up, we hang out/fuck/etc and that's that. Like I was saying, the problem is when you start to catch feels and realize that she isn't ever coming after me and then I start over thinking things. What's funny is I know I do not want any sort of 'serious' relationship. There are other girls and I lik…
/r/seduction25/10/19 11:33 AM
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I've got something very similar going on, and some good advice in this post. The problem, for me/IMO, is when I start to catch feels. That's when shit goes south. You find yourself over thinking it and wondering what she is thinking etc. If they don't initiate but always respond positively to your suggestion to get together, fuck 'em [literally]. Enjoy yourself OP, find another plate to spin and get your mind caught up elsewhere.
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:48 PM
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Texting is for setting dates, and nothing else. [in the beginning]
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:53 PM
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The real answer - it depends. A lot of times I won't these days. I prefer first dates to be light and fun - if they aren't there sure as shit won't be a second. As I get older I am more selective, not just looking for a quick lay. More interested in meeting people that are worth keeping around.
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:51 PM
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I mean, it's hard to give definitive answer - who knows how things will pan out. Generally, go for kiss on first date. Make it known you want her sexually. [You are not looking for a friend. Do the touching and hand holding before hand to escalate] That way, one of two things happen. You kiss - great. She denies you - well at least you know not to waste time on date #2
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:19 PM
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I am busy, just like everyone else these days. That said, I don't want to 'waste' a bunch of time on a first date. I enjoy meeting people and for whatever reason happen to love first dates..so they happen regularly. This drives me to make them on weeknights and keep them pretty short - an hour or two max. Save the long dates and weekends for woman who have already proven themselves, since IMO that time is far more valuable. This will also leave them with questions about you since you didn't take…
/r/seduction01/10/19 02:55 PM
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I think there are different ways to define 'game', and for sure some guys here see things differently than I do. I would also say good luck to someone wanting to learn eye contact, for example, in 5 minutes. That is just the type of skill that takes time to learn. For me personally, it is about 'energy' of the social interaction. Everyone has their own method and that is why you see contradicting comments. I'm not into the 'traditional PUA stuff' - using a script and specific line. Hell I don't …
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:05 PM
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well said, I realize now it was poorly phrased.
/r/seduction26/09/19 04:13 PM
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That is a great point. I was assuming that the point of the number was to get ahold of her and set a date.
/r/seduction26/09/19 04:03 PM
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Woman want to know that you are a high value male. They [subconsciously] want to know that you have options and that other women want you. This needs to occur covertly. So don't go blatantly checking out woman. Give your date your full attention.
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:43 PM
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I know this sounds easier said than done, gets written here every day, and is not the advice you are looking for... But, it doesn't matter what you say to her. Say Hi, make a joke, tell her you like her style, or that she looks interesting and you wanted to talk to her. What IS important is how you act. Confidence is key, your vibe is what will guide the conversation - not the words you choose. I tend to 'feel it out'. The goal is to get her number, but sometimes its clearly not going that direc…
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:36 PM
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smile and move along. show her it doesn't phase you, because it actually doesn't.
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:47 PM
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any other channels like him? Been a while since I've watched much stuff, not looking for PUA type but more 'get yo shit together' type.
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:13 PM
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Alright man, slow your roll. There is no need to worry about this stuff at this point. Don't be so eager to get into a relationship. Spin some plates, have fun with the two of them [show #2 you want a sexual relationship and nothing else], and continue looking for a third. When a woman knows you have options she will want you more. To answer the question, about letting them down, I personally don't bullshit. I don't lie or try and pull any sneaky stuff. If we get to the point of 'becoming exclus…
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:59 PM
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Yes. The majority of them have been disappointing, most girls live plain old boring ass lives. You never know how things will pan out. A few thoughts on this, how I approach online/apps. - Go into it with low expectations, just going to meet someone who knows what will happen. - Screen hard during swiping//texting - SIMPLE[aka cheap/quick] dates so time/money isn't wasted
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:19 PM
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I do not think you fucked up, brother. You made it clear you don't want to be just friends. Don't let her play games with you any more.
/r/seduction24/09/19 02:34 PM
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she says she liked me a whole bunch and flirts, but then takes ages to reply. she says one thing with her words, and another with her actions. Woman do not communicate overtly, aka with words.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:48 PM
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'how about you come over Friday night, I'll get some wine'
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:43 PM
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there is absolutely no need to pay for the girl, especially if she has a boyfriend. THIS is key. go for coffee or a walk around the city. Don't waste money on her.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:40 PM
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My gut reaction is just to next her, she's into 'playing games' and I'm not. I say this based on a 'judge her actions, not her words' mentality. If she wanted to make something happen she would, but instead it's a bunch of excuses and stuff to keep you in her orbit boosting that self esteem.
/r/seduction23/09/19 01:56 PM
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I don't drink and am not into dinner dates as first/second dates, here's a few ideas. IMO just doing something that isn't dinner/drinks is often enough for them to say 'oh that was fun'. Just keep moving around. walk around the city go to arcade and play a couple games wonder some neat store that sells cool/weird shit get coffee go rock climbing sit in park
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:01 PM
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This is an interesting post, and generally I have to agree. Compliments, especially about their looks, are reserved for once we are at least making out. Then I'll often say 'damn you're sexy...blah blah', BUT it is a genuine emotion I am feeling in that moment. Not just hey let me be nice or some bullshit. The 'I like your style/you seem interesting/like someone I'd get along with' is a great option IMO.
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:02 PM
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I interpret this as 'I dont want to just hang out, I want to fuck'. But it could be a language barrier thing?
/r/seduction18/09/19 02:54 PM
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yea, the comments suggesting to go out with her anyways just don't make sense to me... She said no, you made it worse, just move on. You are a busy guy with lots of girls in his life. She made it clear that her intention is not to be one of them, why waste energy on her?
/r/seduction18/09/19 02:34 PM
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under rated comment, lmao
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:53 PM
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I don't drink, and go on lots of dates where neither of us drink. I do not like dinner dates [they get expensive and often don't provide good setting for escalating]. I do like dinner while sitting at the bar though, so I can sit NEXT to her and it is much easier to touch her. Bowling is a great opportunity for touch. When you/her does well go for high five, then progress to more touching as things progress and she becomes more comfortable with you. You don't bowl 'together' but you cross paths …
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:51 PM
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I'm with you, but not sure everyone around here is, regarding the fact that 'gaming is enough to feel happy'. I very much enjoy just meeting, flirting, and having conversations with new women, which leads to 'spinning plates' in a social circle type sense not just a sexual relationship scenario...if that makes sense. Women can clearly sense this and so the abundance mentality grows. good post OP, albeit long.
/r/seduction17/09/19 03:29 PM
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bot
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:30 PM
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for sure, plus it's entertaining. Models is always a good one as well.
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:35 AM
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damn, I like that one. I usually go with "I just enjoy meeting people" type response, as that is the truth for me.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:44 PM
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judge woman based on actions, not words.
/r/seduction03/09/19 08:16 PM
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Models first. How did you like 30 day challenge? never heard of it.
/r/seduction03/09/19 06:02 PM
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yep. us introverts need to 'recharge' after spending time in social situations. There is a lot of info out there you can read up on OP. ​ Don't let that stop you from getting out there!
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:46 PM
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