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What women do makes no sense at all Completely disagree. I think it's highly logical when you learn to look at it from their perspective.
/r/seduction15/12/20 03:50 PM
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Keep arguing with me if you'd like, but it isn't going to change your outcomes with women.
/r/seduction15/12/20 03:00 PM
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False dichotomy. They're not mutually exclusive. Any high value person takes the other person's social status into account when considering them as a potential partner, it is a part of compatability rather than something outside of it. Men do it too. As an example, if I enjoy some expensive tastes like eating at high end restaurants and like traveling abroad, and like to talk about in depth about things like politics or science, someone from a similarly high social status is more likely to have …
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:59 PM
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I think you fundamentally miss the point of this post. Women don't see attraction the same way that men do, that is what is confusing you. Additionally, frankly your views are rather black and white and even misogynistic. It's easier to fault women or blame them for your own shortcomings, rather than trying to understand their needs and work on yourself, but you're not going to get any change in results if you don't do the latter. What women do makes complete sense.
/r/seduction15/12/20 01:53 PM
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You're thinking about it from a man's perspective which makes it confusing, but if you think about it from the standpoint of the woman it makes complete sense. Two fundamentals: (1) Appearance means a lot more than just appearance to women. It's not a binary hot enough to sleep with or not like with men. Rather, it communicates other important things that women tend to place a higher value on than do men: social status (people in positions of power usually dress better), social intelligence (peo…
/r/seduction15/12/20 01:35 PM
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Definitely not... The social cues are pretty obvious that this wasn't the case. OP did the best thing in this circumstance IMO -- stated his feelings clearly but in a respectful and non-needy manner, preserving the friendship.
/r/seduction11/12/20 02:12 PM
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Quite likely but there can be other factors involved too.
/r/seduction11/12/20 02:11 PM
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It probably is, but everyone including the woman in this situation can have complicated emotions. She certainly could be interested in OP but isn't as invested as she is in her current boyfriend. He could be a "backup" for her if you will, to put it crassly. Or she could be confused and doesn't know where her emotions lie. Or she feels interested but thinks now is not the time for her to jump into something new while she is still grieving about her current relationship. Emotions and new relation…
/r/seduction11/12/20 02:08 PM
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Tbh you could argue still that you are ready even now
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:56 AM
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I hear you man. However you might be being too hard on yourself to say you were spineless. It sounds like you did try approaching some of the women you were interested in at all, which is something that not even everyone else does. It's too bad that you allowed your self to be strung along for a while, but at the least it has now taught you that you'll need to prioritize and love yourself. You may find that the benefits of that extend beyond your dating life. Life doesn't always give you what yo…
/r/seduction01/12/20 01:57 AM
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Spot on
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:30 AM
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This is some incel, judgmental, and mysogyntistic nonsense. Don't project your own feelings of inadequacy onto a whole gender, that's not how you'll find love or a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction30/11/20 03:05 AM
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This is some incel nonsense. Treating women like shit is not the way to go. If you treat people like shit, only people that don't respect themselves will stick around. What you think is being nice may just be being very needy and toxic which turns people off.
/r/seduction30/11/20 03:02 AM
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I think a lot of what you say has truth to it, but it does seem to come from a place of anger which may not be the healthiest way forward. Not to say that your feelings aren't valid. I think a lot of people feel similarly when we get strung along, and then we ask ourselves why we let ourselves get strung along. Ultimately it does come down to something like an issue with self respect, but I think it has more to do with a lack of self love. It may sounds a little woo woo, but I think self love an…
/r/seduction30/11/20 02:57 AM
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Also, women will do everything they can to supress your ability to fuck everything in sight. They will get mad at you for going to the gym, for getting your teeth/hair fixed, for buying great clothes, for buying a motorcycle/sports car, etc. Uh, which idiot women have you been dating? You are extremely short sighted if you think most women are like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 12:39 AM
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If you are ugly as shit, balding and 5'4, you are NEVER going to be regularily fucking model tier girls, barring becoming a literal billionaire I don't think this is true at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 09:33 PM
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This is way too pedantic and just one dude's opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 01:40 PM
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He should, but not for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 04:42 AM
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If you beg on the street in front of enough people, surely someone will toss you a coin. Are you now rich?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 11:18 PM
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It's hard to develop those but of course anything is doable. It certainly is worthwhile with many benefits. It took me a long time to learn that because I was raised by very harsh parents. Stoic philo A good book -- also good for many other reasons -- for it (at least so you can fake it til you make it) is How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 11:14 PM
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This isn't some big revelation or even something to be proud of. The only real lesson here is a lesson in statistics. Statistically, if you talk to enough girls, yes, even an ugly loser like this rat can get laid. Girls get horny too. How attractive were most of them? How many of those girls the rat slept with didn't make a habit of doing this with every other guy they met? I'd be careful with reading too much into the rat's approach as it's a good way to maintain stasis -- if you're getting lai…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 10:20 PM
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"This is my problem. I got dumped by my LTR and all the advice I got is "improve yourself". I'm quite ripped already, and have no problem with money or girls." If you think this is all there is to character, you do need to improve yourself. "So, don't have lots of space to improve imho. 5kg more of muscle wont make a difference. " You don't think you can make any more improvements in the gym so you have peaked in your potential as a person? What kind of thought process is this? Being jacked at t…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 10:12 PM
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It doesn't matter how alpha you are, if you get bonded with a girl you will show weakness and you might end up betaising yourself without knowing it. She will leave sooner or later, and start looking for other men. I don't like this logic. If you're in a LTR you have to constantly keep your game up and can't let yourself be comfortable? Sounds miserable to me. Also, this line of reasoning gives too much power to the woman. Your girlfriend will leave you the minute you're not "alpha" anymore? Thi…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 06:10 PM
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Consequently if their loaded up with *Talks about IQ *Uses wrong 'they're'
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 07:29 PM
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Keep in mind that this is not all women but rather a subset of women.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:43 PM
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