surfsupNS Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How soon to msg after ONS? I'd even message the same day. Just something simple like "hey, had a great time last night, we should get together again sometime". It's not like your asking her to be in a committed relationship or anything... just expressing interest in seeing her again. The barriers have already been broken down, see where it goes.	/r/seduction	21/09/18 05:33 PM
44	Advice for hooking up, meeting people, partying while traveling alone? This guy knows whats up. Krakow is amazing at night.	/r/seduction	23/07/18 06:25 PM
1	FR + Question - Saturday night When having that kind of breakthrough success with a girl I would never break it off like that. Either invite her to join you for whatever it was you were doing, even if it were just going home, or tell your friends not to wait up for you and see how it plays out... They will understand. Never butter a girl up like that and then bail on her.	/r/seduction	14/10/13 07:06 PM
1	Got invited to a sleep over this weekend, where it will be just me and three girls. Any tips on getting a threesome going, or at least a sexy truth or dare? Great insight, makes a lot of sense.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 07:00 PM
12	Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this. I interpret that exactly the same way. Definitely cheeky. I say the same thing to girls all the time. It's a definite yes without being overly up front, and still leaves them with the feeling that they can still do more to earn it.	/r/seduction	09/06/13 03:20 PM
10	Im embarassed to ask but im a 24 year old male and I have no clue on how to officially ask someone to be my girlfriend "think you'd consider us a couple?" that way it gives her the first say in the matter rather than if you just spring a "will you be my girlfriend?" on her, and it will let her feel like it was her idea. if you are sleeping together frequently and spending large amounts of time together, you should be comfortable enough that a simple question or issue such as this should be fairly easy for both of you to talk about.	/r/seduction	12/05/13 08:35 PM
1	Fucking hell I feel like a pussy i used to feel the same way. be yourself man. as long as you don't say anything completely off in left field it'll just be showing her more of yourself. As long as you be yourself, there is no reason to second guess yourself... because in the end, that's who you are. If she is going to like you, then she is going to like you. if not, tough titties, it's her, not you.	/r/seduction	24/09/11 09:46 PM
4	It hurts so much :( Dude, if a girl shows genuine interest In you, and you have alot in common, and see a good relationship potential, the worst thing you can do is wait. Plenty of girls are a little involved with more than one guy at a time, and if you don't accept her advances, she will move the fuck on. This exact same thing happened to me last spring. I learned my lesson the hard, painful way the Same as you. If she us making moves, it's because you are not. Next time make the moves, and win the girl.	/r/seduction	17/05/11 03:40 PM
4	Just wondering how many of you originally entered the PUA community looking to cure oneitis? I did, it took a month or two two be cured, but now I am an emotional brick wall. I used to really get unto girls very quickly, but now it seems as though I can't make any sort of emotional attachment. It might be a subconscious trick I learned when getting into seduction, but I feel as though it might be a very bad trait to have developed in the long run	/r/seduction	17/05/11 12:21 PM
1	How can I F-Close with a girl if I am staying at a friends place? If your friend is any bit of a decent wingman, sleeping with a girl at his house should not be any bit of a problem for him. If a friend brings a girl to my house, I'll find a reason to leave for a while so they can have some privacy	/r/seduction	16/05/11 05:03 PM
0	What I've learnt from seddit: Be this guy. It works. as of late, i have been realizing that i am following too closely in his footsteps, and it is somewhat worrying when i look into the future, and where this path may take me. If you want girls, Be Hank Moody. thee end	/r/seduction	31/03/11 03:10 AM
2	[FR] HB9 waitress #-close. I think he'd be pretty safe from a response like that with the rapport he had built with her throughout the night. If she was giving IOIs, she wouldn't completely kill a relationship/sexual joke like that. if she was interested at all, which she was, she'd use it as a transition into a dating/relationship/ whatever you want to call it type of conversation. He did the absolute exact thing i would have in this situation.	/r/seduction	24/03/11 09:26 PM